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30 People Share About The Worst Parents They’ve Ever Met That Made Them Think ‘Those Kids Are Doomed’
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. Some choose to stay childfree to dedicate unlimited time to their careers, some prefer children of the feline or canine persuasion, and others know that their personalities are best suited for the “fun aunt/uncle” role, rather than the disciplining mom or dad. Opting not to have children is always a valid choice, but unfortunately, the same cannot always be said for the opposite.
Below, we’ve gathered some of the most heartbreaking stories Reddit users have shared about the worst parents they’ve ever met. We’ll warn you right now, these accounts are not easy to read, pandas, so if you need to grab a box of tissues, go right ahead. Be sure to upvote the stories that make you even more appreciative of your own loving parents, and if you have kids of your own, it might be a good day to give them an extra squeeze.
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#1
As a teacher, I see this literally every day. But I currently have a student who is the sweetest kid ever, but her dad is ... not. He’s abusive, always angry, and she is never good enough. He openly admits that he wants her to do well in school so she can pay to support him cause “that’s what kids do”.
There’s currently an investigation going on with an armed robbery that he was involved with. I’m currently waiting with all the adoption paperwork ready to go since she has no other family if he goes to prison for 30+ years, which is likely.
I’m going to do everything in my power to make sure she doesn’t go into foster care.
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#2
My son's daycare class has a kid in it who's missing an eye. He has an eyelid/lashes/etc, just was born without the tissue used to see with. He's a completely normal looking kid, it just looks like one eye is always closed and instead of the roundness of an eyeball behind is flat since it's missing. There's nothing scary, or weird, or gross about him.
I once watched a mother scream and throw a tantrum at pick up time because the teachers insisted he wouldn't be moved from the class as there's nothing wrong with him being there. She swore up and down that this kid was scaring her child and the daycare teachers should do more to 'protect her baby from people like that' and her child shouldn't have to be around 'freaks' and he should have to go with the special education kids.
Her kid seemed fine with this other kid, but his mother was horrified by him interacting with someone who wasn't her idea of normal and she lost it when the teachers refused to give into her weird demands about it. I can only imagine what f****d up prejudices this kid is going to have thanks that vile woman.
Stephanie Did It 1 year ago
More likely, poor kid will grow up chronically embarrassed by this nut.
#3
I have an ultra-conservative (distant) family member who’s taken her anti-welfare, personal responsibility, tough love philosophy so far that she’s charging her 5-year-old rent. Apparently she gives the child a list of chores to complete, then pays her a small allowance, then takes all the allowance back to cover the girl's “bills”.
One time the little girl wanted to make some special treats for a party they were going to have at their house (don’t know what it was for), and she (the mom) replied, *“Ok, how are you going to pay for that?”* (I wasn’t there, my cousin told me this.)
I should add that this woman does not struggle financially at all. She has some bank-related corporate job and a very large, nice house. But she will by god make it VERY CLEAR to her small child that every inch of space she occupies and every bite of food she takes has a COST and must be EARNED.
#4
My aunt and uncle are terrible parents. Such awful people that we’ve cut almost all contact with them.
Aside from their terrible parenting of their first child, they’ve completely destroyed their second child’s chance at a life.
He was born with water on the brain (I know there’s a proper name for it but I forget). The doctors wanted to put a shunt in to drain the water and avoid damage. The parents refused for some reason, so the kid ended up with some slight brain damage. It probably wouldn’t have been too bad. He’d always be behind his peers and he’d be delayed but he had a good chance of being somewhat independent one day and living an overall happy life.
Of course in order to achieve this, his parents would have to work diligently with him to catch up delayed development, and likely have him in some sort of developmental therapy and the likes (which I know the gov. and my uncles work benefits would’ve helped cover, not that money was an issue anyways). Instead his parents decided to ignore his problems completely. They never spoke to the family about it and we’re all pretty sure they think we don’t notice that the kid is a bit different.
Anyways, he just turned 10 and isn’t potty trained which he absolutely has the ability for, they just never bothered teaching him. He can’t read at all, which again he is technically capable of, just nobody has taught him. He can’t speak clearly at all, I can’t understand him although I know he is trying to say valuable and competent things. He’s been removed from countless schools because his parents refuse to put him in the special ed classes or get him any extra help. His parents are also super cold. They never hug or praise their kids. He is extremely violent and never receives any discipline. I can see him becoming a serial killer or something in the future because he loves torture, weapons, and dead animals. It’s probably from the lack of affection his parents gave him but I know whatever happens to him in the future isn’t really his fault. He was never taught anything in life and it’s so sad.
#5
A woman posted a video to a local Facebook group I'm in last night. The video was captioned "teaching my 9 year old gun safety!"
Within the 14-second video the child:
- points the gun at her face while struggling to pump it and...
- proceeds to lose her balance, swinging the gun around wildly and briefly pointing it at the camera
Mom just kept on filming, because of course she did.
Mary Rogers 1 year ago
There is actually a company in the US that makes real rifles for small children. Pink for girls and blue for boys. I am not kidding.
martin734 1 year ago
That quite possibly the most f*cked up thing I have read today, although I have not got to the end of this article yet.
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Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
Stupidity of this sort is why more than one adult has been shot dead by their own toddler.
Niki A 1 year ago
OMG..... ok, so my dad began with me at 5.... but I wasn't even allowed to touch a gun until I could show I understood a few things. The first rule is A GUN IS ALWAYS LOADED POINT IT AT NOTHING YOU AREN'T PREPARED TO SHOOT. Good god this woman....
Jennifer Clayton 1 year ago
Same, I was 9 when my father trained us, but he was a firearms safety instructor.
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Zedrapazia 1 year ago
I really hope they do the safety measurement of never letting a loaded gun lay around somewhere or they'll need a sad, tiny little coffin one day.
Labellesouris 1 year ago
OMG...she would belong to the idiot portion of the population. The local police need to be made aware of this nonsense. They will pay her a little visit.
karen Young 1 year ago
Gun safety at our house ( dad worked at prison) . Here is my gun- it is locked up for a reason. Touch it and you will be dead.
Penny Kemper 1 year ago
Well if mom gets shot by kid doing these things, we'll just call it survival of the fittest.
Cthulhu Kitty 1 year ago
That is not teaching gun safety. That is neglect and honestly gives a bad reputation to parents that actual do teach their kids proper gun safety, which is needed if there are guns in the home
Ima Manimal 1 year ago
Yeah, reminds me of that female gun rights activist who got shot by her four year old because she didn’t secure a weapon
Michael Largey 1 year ago
There's only really one reliable gun safety procedure - don't have one.
Mary Rogers 1 year ago
Sometimes people have no choice but to own a gun, which is why I am not in favor of any sort of ban. But too many people are careless with guns around children. There needs to be strict laws regarding the use and storage of these weapons.
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SkyBlueandBlack 1 year ago
Well, there are plenty more like her. But yay guns, right?
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Becca Kuehn 1 year ago
That's definitely not how to teach a child about gun safety! I was taught about gun safety at a very young age but it was done by a responsible adult (my grandfather).
ZombieSushi386 1 year ago
If you are going to teach your child gun safety this is NOT the way to do it!
Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago
Forward it to her local law enforcement and child protective services, if you know where she’s from. If it’s not a MAGAt state, she won’t be making anymore videos like that.
Display_Name 1 year ago
Regardless on your stance on guns, everyone should be taught gun safety. The mom was doing it wrong. She should have used a Nerf gun instead.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
This woman is a prime example of why legitimate gun owners catch h@%l from everyone else. I'll bet she hasn't spent any time in a gun safety course. If I were working for CPS, she'd lose custody of her kid in a nanosecond.
Notyomama 1 year ago
I shot my first gun at 6. My Dad put me down from a hill covered in soft leaves. Shot the gun, (he was holding onto it too,) and flew back into the leaves. Spent the night getting chiggers removed by my Grandmother. Guess who never used a gun without adult supervision growing up? My Grandfather, a retired Army man, taught me gun safety and how to shoot properly. If he wasn't already gone, he would rage on all these idiot parents doing this irresponsible bs.
#6
I worked with a guy who's about 5 years older than me. I was 20 at the time so he'd have been about 25. Still lived at home with his parents because mom wasn't ready to "let him go." He had a 9pm curfew and ALWAYS had to have permission to "go over to a friend's house."
I was nice to him because I felt bad for him and I guess in his mind, that meant we were friends so I got to know him slightly better than you would a standard coworker. He did have a learning disability (so helicopter mom's got a valid concern) but he wasn't r******d or slow. He was a fully capable adult.
The first time I met his mom I KNEW there was no hope for this guy. She CONSTANTLY controlled his every move. He couldn't eat certain foods because they'd "give you gas" or "I don't think you'd like that anyway," and he wasn't allowed to do ANYTHING without her permission. He had his license, but she drove him to and from work. She even ended up getting a job in the same building, though a different department, and I suspect it had nothing to do with "carpooling to save gas money."
Last I heard, he FINALLY was able to get his own apartment, but I still see them around town together. I NEVER see him on his own. She'll even go with him to the bathroom at the county fair... And I'm 27 now so he's gotta be around 32ish.
Helicopter mom ruined that guy and he's gonna be so screwed when she kicks it and leaves him behind.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
How is that poor guy going to function on his own when his mother leaves this earth? No disability is worse than having a parent that refuses to let go.
#7
I know a couple who are extremely religious. I have zero problem with religion, although I am not particularly religious, myself.
This couple has three children, the oldest is 5. They have decided not to send their children to any established school because it would introduce them to bad and ungodly things. Also, they are adamant anti-vaxxers, so their kids wouldn't be allowed to attend public school in the first place.
They have decided to homeschool the kids and only teach out of the bible. No math, no science, only bible stories.
I'm not even sure if that's legal or not.
#8
"I'm going to pull her out of school in the 8th grade and then homeschool her because I don't want her in an environment with boys"
Idk why he chose 8th grade.
Rata Robinson 1 year ago
To be blunt and cynical, he's probably going to abuse her himself - why is a dad blocking his daughter from meeting other males...
#9
My old best friend SCREAMS at her son. For everything. Not eating fast enough? Scream. Didn't hear her. Scream. Cries? Scream. Hes the same age as my daughter. I had to stop letting my daughter around her because i don't want my children exposed to just screaming at a 5 year old.
#10
We had neighbors who believed in “free range parenting”. Essentially they didn’t believe in any rules or boundaries. The kids walked into our house one day when we forgot to lock the front door. Had to stop letting our kid play with them after the day I caught them throwing rocks at passing cars. Luckily they sold their house and moved.
Huddo's sister 1 year ago
That's not what free range parenting is. Very first thing that comes up on google is ""Free-range parenting involves teaching a child skills and acting as a guide if a child makes a mistake,"
#11
couple i know have 3 kids under 6, and will smoke weed, dabs, cigs with the kids on their laps.
kids are always naked, even when strangers are over and often are running through the halls of
their apartment building naked and alone.
here’s the worse part, “jokingly” getting the 5 year old to smoke weed, how the story went was the 5 year old said he wanted to smoke, his dad “jokingly” packed a bowl, held it up to the kids face and lit it, and as he said “ little f****r sucked it back and coughed out a huge f****n cloud, thought the kid was gonna puke he was coughing so hard”
( cps has been called but i don’t think anything was ever done since they still have the kids)
#12
My cousins kids. He believes in ALL the conspiracy theories, anti-vax, chem trails, Illuminati, you name it he believes it. He made his wife quit a 6 figure income job so they could go and ‘live off the grid’. 5 years later they are raising three kids in a tiny caravan in the middle of no where struggling to make ends meet. Last year they made their kids throw out all their Christmas and birthday presents because ‘they don’t want them to have anything new or from big corporations’. They plan on Home schooling their kids for their entire education even though neither of them finished high school. And to top it off their children are never allowed to hear anything negative towards them. So they have asked the family to refrain from saying ‘no’ and from telling their children to stop doing anything because they are, and I quote, “free souls”.... My entire family agrees those kids are f****d
#13
I try not to think this - I work in child protective services and that means I have to find every possible way I can to reach parents to change behaviors, lifestyles, etc that threaten the safety or wellbeing of their children.
With that being said, the most frustrating for me was a mother who was emotionally and mentally abusive to a daughter who has mental health issues.
The mom, daughter, and brother were all survivors of an extremely physically abusive father (mom's ex), the children at a very young age that very clearly caused them immense trauma that manifested as or exacerbated existing mental health issues (violent outbursts, inability to regulate emotions, several other things all piled together - **I initially had listed ADHD here but several commenters are correct in stating this is not caused by trauma. I apologize for that misinformation. In this situation it was definitely exacerbated by her trauma, both past and ongoing, though - both in terms of not getting proper treatment/help and in terms of added stresses).** I became involved years after that man was out of the picture.
Mom spent the entire time I was involved with the family essentially blaming everything on the daughter's outbursts and as much as said with her daughter present (and old enough to understand) "she was forced on me when he took off his condom" with regards to whether the daughter was planned or an accident. I spent several days working with this family and not once did I hear the mother say anything resembling love, affection, caring, kindness, or understanding towards her daughter and the vast majority of the time the mother was trying to elicit sympathy from other adults in terms of how difficult the kid was to manage. She made multiple disparaging comments about her daughter as if she wasn't present in the room, coldly ignored her for large periods of time while sitting right next to her, etc. She very obviously still had her own trauma from the abusive ex and seemed to transplant all of her negativity towards him into her behavior towards her daughter. We had statements by police officers involved after one of the violent outbursts by the daughter that the mother told them (in front of daughter) "take her away, take her anywhere, I don't care where she goes, just get her the hell out of my house.
The daughter wasn't even a teenager.
I have no idea what happened following my involvement (I'm mostly investigative) but yeah...that kid's got a rough future ahead no matter which of several possible scenarios plays out .
#14
The professor for the Psychology in Parenting class I'm currently taking at school. She is the worst helicopter parent I've ever seen. She has every behavior of her children planned and a punishment ready to administer when she doesn't get the result she wants. She even talks about how she manipulates her husband into performing certain behaviors. I can't even touch on how manipulative she is; it's kinda scary. She thinks all this micro-parenting is going to create some well-rounded, super smart, and mentally stable person but I think she's the mother of a future psychopath. She's one of those "participation trophy" and "Everybody wins" type people. I actually feel worse for her future grandkids. She's going to be the mother-in-law from Hell, I can just see it now.
Karma Black 1 year ago (edited)
She's not just the mother of a future psychopath. She's CURRENTLY a sociopath.
#15
My brother’s got 8 kids with 7 different women. It would’ve been 10 with 8 but his twins died at childbirth.
His baby mamas have a Facebook group where they all go to talk s**t about him and his inability to pay child support. We joke about them unionizing. It’s pretty funny.
Susan Green 1 year ago
I don’t find this funny at all. He’s a deadbeat dad, who’s probably going to get more women pregnant.
#16
I used to work at a pawn shop several years ago. One day a particularly trashy couple came in to pawn a few DVD’s and some fake gold. They had their son with them and he couldn’t have been more than three years old. So while his dad is at the counter and mom is wandering around the little boy walks over to the bike display to check out the bikes. When Dad notices this he yells “HEY” very loudly and the boy immediately starts running back towards the dad. The mom sees the little boy running back to his father and assumes he’s being yelled at for running around the store. She looks at the dad and says as casual as can be “just hit him.”
I don’t think I’ll ever forget thinking in that moment “sorry kid, you’ve got very little chance of being normal.”
#17
My son has a friend who was held back a year in school because his father wanted to “buy” an extra year to give his son a better chance at earning a football scholarship. The dad believes that since his son will have another year to grow before high school football, he’ll have an opportunity to start for all 4 years and will earn a scholarship to a good football school.
The boy is also the 5th child in his family. All of his siblings are sisters and the son knows that his dad kept trying until he got his boy that he could groom into a football star. That’s a lot to live up to and my mind immediately went to Todd Marinovich when I met the dad.
Judes 1 year ago
But does this even make sense? Where I live sport teams are aged based, not year of education based, so holding back a kid one year in school would make no difference to what sports teams they can apply for. A coach is going to evaluate him against kids born in the same year, not kids a whole year younger. Maybe it's done differently in other countries??
#18
The mother who threatened my life. I am a teacher.
T'Mar of Vulcan 1 year ago
A mother in a wheelchair (who has been seen walking around, but who uses the chair because she gets disability and child grants for the kids she keeps having) threatened to "frak up" a colleague of mine (we're teachers). How she planned on doing that without getting out of her chair I don't know.
#19
The only reason I know the names of the kids across the street is that their mother is constantly screaming at them from her perch on the porch.
A quote from earlier: "Eden! Eden! Come here! No! I *just* told you to stop being so stupid!"
#20
I was at a child's birthday party once and was pushing a big group of kids on the merry-go-round. This one or two year old boy, not from the party, started meandering his way toward us with no regard for the large metal spinning disc he was about to walk into. I slowed the merry-go-round (much to the dismay of the kids on it) and went to lead the boy away. He then said something, I don't really remember what, that indicated he was thirsty. I looked over at the lady who had brought him there and waved her over. It took a while to get her attention, since she definitely was not looking our way at all. She eventually got up reluctantly to come toward us and it turned out to be his grandma. Once I told her that he was thirsty, she started to pour her Mountain Dew energy drink down his throat with no hesitation. I stopped her and said I had plenty of bottles of water from our party and I would get some. She shrugged and accepted one, let him drink a little, and then walked away from him again to go back to smoking her cigarette about 10 yards away.
It was pretty upsetting to imagine the possibilities of how that kid's life was going to be. I know it's not a huge deal, and I'm not a parent so I try my best not to judge others, but force feeding a child sugar filled energy drinks on a hot day in replacement of water seems to be the first sign that the guidance in that family isn't going to be the best.
Oh, and on a similar judgmental note, I know a kid whose first words were "Chicken Nugget".
Fluffy Griffin 1 year ago
Both my twins first words were "apple". I know it's healthy, but come on. Can i get a mama?! Second word was "no". I'm not sure mama even made top 10.
#21
I worry about my cousin. His parents were in their late forties when he was born (oops!) and both already had grown kids. Safe to say they’re over the whole parenting thing at this point, and the kid is only 9. They just kind of accept that he doesn’t like/isn’t great at school and do nothing to help him improve. He’s such a sweet kid, and I hate that he’s not getting the kind of support he deserves. It seems so unfair.
#22
My aunt, of all people. Her sons are 21 and 19 (he'll be 20 in July). She still babies both of them, and I can tell they hate it. She applied for a good chunk of her oldest son's internships, and her youngest son she still restricts food from, thinking he's overweight (he's more than 6 feet tall - people that height can weigh 200 lbs. and still be healthy).
MusicalNerd 1 year ago
(For anyone who's scrolled this far: I'm stopping reading, and this is a reminder you can do that, too.)
#23
I've spent some time in the family law court system as a lawyer. That family in Breaking Bad that stole the ATM machine and Jesse goes over there and finds that kid....it wasn't terribly unrealistic to me.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Can anything seem unrealistic after you practice family law for a while?
#24
Oh god. It's my time to shine.
Kid A: 8th grade girl. She was in honors English but missed almost every day of school due to a "medical issue." Mom got a doctor to sign off that she had some sort of injury that makes her incapable of attending school. Meanwhile, the kid is posting all over her social media about all these just jitsu tournaments she competes in.
Kid eventually was switched to my class after the last teacher refused to accept homework which was clearly done by mom (in mom's handwriting and everything). She has missed every single day of school since being switched to my class. I have never met this kid and she's been enrolled in my class for several months.
The best part? The school and district can't/won't do anything about it because mom sued the school about her son and somehow has the district paying for him to attend a private school. She's threatened to sue over the daughter too, but I don't really see how. Mom also works for my school district and gets a stipend to teach her "sickly" daughter from home.
Kid B: 8th grade boy. Mom has accused every teacher this kid has ever had of being "out to get her son" since kindergarten. I was warned about her and her kid before school began. I was told to never call home without an administrator present and basically that there are no consequences for this kid because he is "special needs" and mom has threatened to sue.
This kid does nothing other than disrupt class. On the few occasions I've gotten him to work, he's been completely competent and fully capable, but there's no punishment for doing nothing, so he chooses to mess around instead. The kid will ask to go to the bathroom and instead spends 20-30 minutes just wandering campus, peeking into classrooms whatever. I've had to have campus supervisors find him and bring him back more times than I can count. Sometimes he wanders out of the room without permission. But legally I can't stop him due to his "needs."
The kid pissed all over the boy's bathroom once. No consequences. He took another kid's phone and chucked it outside on the concrete in the middle of class, smashing it to pieces. Sent him to the office and they sent him right back. He's been in multiple fights. The school actually suspended him for once. Now mom is saying that due to his "needs" he should be exempt from suspensions.
. . . I could keep going all day. But those are probably the two most out there. I got all the crazy parents this year.
#25
In high school, I remember seen a mother dragging her kid to where the teacher was and slammed her kid's exam on the table and said "I don't understand!, my kid got 60% at first, then he got 70% and 80%, so he was improving. Now he's got a 65%!??!?! what the hell???"
Jesus...The teacher had the best poker face I've seen in my life during all of this
Rebelliousslug 1 year ago
I think I’m missing something here…was she misinterpreting the test scores somehow?
#26
My friends mother home schooled him because she didn’t want him interacting with females...
Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
20 years later: WHY HAVEN'T YOU GOTTEN MARRIED AND GIVEN ME SOME GRANDKIDS?!
#27
One of the office ladies proudly proclaimed shes too lazy to teach her son anything so she is going to pay other people to. Oh boy.
The Original Bruno 1 year ago (edited)
Careful: she's about to invent "school." (I know what the OP meant; I'm just being facetious.)
#28
My sister in law. Her and her boyfriend are the most selfish people i have ever met. They live with her mom, who is mainly the person who takes care of her 2 year old but she spoils him and he is extremely bratty. He hits, bites, and spits in the face of every kid that comes near him. He throws giant tantrums for up to an hour sometimes that usually end in him getting what he wants. His mom hardly ever interacts with him even though she lives in the same house, she is usually just on her phone. Once when I stayed the night at their house i went to the kitchen at like 2am and he was awake begging for his mom to put him to sleep and she ignored him and continued to just watch tv. Her age isnt even an excuse (like her mom likes to claim) shes 29.
#29
I know a kid who was allowed to get tattoos for his 14th birthday, from a friend of the family who needed the practice.
#30
Mom with 7 kids by 5 dads. Children 1, 3 and 7 share a father.
What do you think ?
Eastendbird 1 year ago (edited)
Worst situation I ever dealt with: She was a heroin addict, sent her kids (two primary school age girls) to school unfed, in dirty, torn clothes and with shoes where the soles were falling off. We (teacher at an inner city school) got social services involved. They were great, really tried to help the mother and the kids. Checked up on them regularly, arranged parenting classes and drug rehabilitation support for mum. Nothing worked. Eventually the kids were taken away and put into foster care. On the day that mum agreed to give up her kids and to allow them to be adopted she said to me "Well I lasted 6 years as a parent, that's one more year than my mum." Let's hope the kids can break the cycle, they were adopted by a lovely couple and moved out of the city. Often wonder what happened to them.
whatever 1 year ago
Our ex. next-door neighbor is in her 60's and raising an out-of-control 10yr. old granddaughter and a toddler who's got obvious development issues because two of her heroin-addict dead-beat daughters would have lost them to CPS. She's obviously overwhelmed and doesn't discipline them so I can see where the 10 yr. old is going to end up like her mom. It was like watching a future train-wreck unfold.
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Lauren S 1 year ago
As a parent, I always feel like I’m not doing enough, worried I’m making a wrong choice for my son, etc. But this article made me feel better about my parenting skills. Very sad article, I feel bad for the children. I’m feel bad for the teachers and friends of these children! The children will struggle so much when they don’t have to. Also, braggy mom moment, as I put my son to bed tonight he told me I make him feel safe. He said he always feels safe when he’s with me. He said he sometimes feels safe, sometimes doesn’t feel safe when he’s not with me. Paranoid mom moment, what’s going on that he doesn’t feel safe sometimes when I’m not there!?! I’ll talk with him more tomorrow about it of course. We’re on vacation at the moment so I literally have him with me 100% of the time right now. I’m trying to decrease my anxiety about this now enough so I can go to sleep.
Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
For what the opinion of a total stranger is worth, I think you sound like a really sweet person and a good parent. And it's normal to worry like that. I'm 37 and my own mother still worries about me and fusses every time I get into trouble or am wearing something she thinks will make me look bad!
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Rapunzel With The Loced Hair 1 year ago
The saddest thing I have seen is a video of a South African police woman who was making her 12 year old son have sex with her, and she was filming it. Who knows how long she has been doing it for? My heart still breaks when I think about that little boy.
Mike Crow 1 year ago
The mother of my sons girlfriend screams at her daughter and threatens her with calling the police if she misbehaves. Then she try’s to buy her daughters love with expensive gifts. She also blames all of her shortcomings on everyone but herself. More than once my son and his girlfriend asked if she can move in with us and away from her mother.
Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
I knew a kid once who was the result of a teen pregnancy. His mother was the sweetest woman you could hope to meet and was doing her best with him, but his father was deadbeat loser who kept getting arrested for getting in fights on the street - often in front of the kid and his little sister. Sadly the kid hero worshipped him anyway and was absolutely furious with his mother when she finally put an end to the dad's shared custody or whatever it was. He was a bully who constantly picked on a really sweet Indian kid who just wanted to be friends and one day yelled a racial slur at him. And I think we all know who he learned THAT from. It was so depressing.
Cheryl Sarnoski 1 year ago (edited)
This list is terrible but there's more tenacity in children than you think. I grew up horrible my mom was a non functioning drug addict who rotated abusive men. I decided early that I'm breaking the cycle. I mean at 4 I was determined to never become like my mother. I became a voracious reader because education wasn't going to be an option for me. I also understood early, at 8, that no one loved me so I was going to love me and no one else nurtured me so I nurtured myself. I make sure to do thing everyday that makes me feel grounded and fuzzy. Now in my 40's I'm independent to a fault but I've made a good life and I surround myself with only kind people. I can also declare that I broke the babies too young, violence, severe drug addiction, sexual assault, cruelty, poverty, intolerance, multiple toxic relationships cycle completely. I came out of this damn proud of who I am.
Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
Two stories from my teaching days. (1) A student is caught cheating on a test, and a parent comes in for the obligatory conference. Mom sails in, sits down, and smiles, saying "Ok. How are we going to get around this?" (2) Father, who owns a car dealership, comes in and asked that his son's math grade from last school year be raised "so to make him more marketable to college". Us: "When you take a car as a trade-in, do you roll back its mileage to make it more marketable?" Dad: "of course not!" Us: "Isn't that what you're asking us to do?" He had trouble recognizing our comparison, but it's so tricky debating moral philosophy with a used car dealer. (Twenty years later, that son now runs the business and is driving it straight into the ground.)
Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago
I feel bad for my two cousins; they never had a chance really. They grew up in poverty with a father who was an alcoholic and mother who was an addict. They were raised to ask our grandparents for money (because the grandparents wouldn't tell their grandchildren no), had no work ethic, and no guidance. Both parents have passed now. At their father's funeral, one cousin was only there to try to ask for the dad's truck which was left to a friend (they weren't even talking at this point and neither kid helped at all with the funeral or expenses). They only say hello when they want to ask for money, which we try to empathize but can't really help out with. It's a shame.
ejfs 1 year ago
I once did some child care for a family of 2 absent/workaholic parents with 2 under-14 kids that they barely saw - so they obviously had issues of their own. Food was adult takeaway leftovers, the fridge was more beer than anything else, the place was constantly dirty (and sticky) with flies in all seasons, the kids had zero emotional support or connection with their parents or each other, and I was expected to be nanny, therapist, cook, and tutor. Those parents were canny though, never gave me more than 15 hours a week which is 1 hour below the "you're actually employing someone" limit where I live. So I got none of the benefits of unemployment when that contract ended, and they got away with the tax breaks. Which they spent on new phones/tv/iPad etc, not their children.
R. H. 1 year ago
I'll tldr : Sheriff warrant squad at our rental for female with 2 felony warrants that renter is hiding, and pathological lier renter also has bench warrant, and both taken away. While in jail his friends try getting into the rental. THEN school bus drops off his 6 yo. I go to the property to make sure the kid is safe. Kid asks questions , I answer without embellishment. Apparently 2 felony had been there a while. Now I'm TAH because I told the kid daddy's in jail.
Eastendbird 1 year ago (edited)
Worst situation I ever dealt with: She was a heroin addict, sent her kids (two primary school age girls) to school unfed, in dirty, torn clothes and with shoes where the soles were falling off. We (teacher at an inner city school) got social services involved. They were great, really tried to help the mother and the kids. Checked up on them regularly, arranged parenting classes and drug rehabilitation support for mum. Nothing worked. Eventually the kids were taken away and put into foster care. On the day that mum agreed to give up her kids and to allow them to be adopted she said to me "Well I lasted 6 years as a parent, that's one more year than my mum." Let's hope the kids can break the cycle, they were adopted by a lovely couple and moved out of the city. Often wonder what happened to them.
whatever 1 year ago
Our ex. next-door neighbor is in her 60's and raising an out-of-control 10yr. old granddaughter and a toddler who's got obvious development issues because two of her heroin-addict dead-beat daughters would have lost them to CPS. She's obviously overwhelmed and doesn't discipline them so I can see where the 10 yr. old is going to end up like her mom. It was like watching a future train-wreck unfold.
Load More Replies... Lauren S 1 year ago
As a parent, I always feel like I’m not doing enough, worried I’m making a wrong choice for my son, etc. But this article made me feel better about my parenting skills. Very sad article, I feel bad for the children. I’m feel bad for the teachers and friends of these children! The children will struggle so much when they don’t have to. Also, braggy mom moment, as I put my son to bed tonight he told me I make him feel safe. He said he always feels safe when he’s with me. He said he sometimes feels safe, sometimes doesn’t feel safe when he’s not with me. Paranoid mom moment, what’s going on that he doesn’t feel safe sometimes when I’m not there!?! I’ll talk with him more tomorrow about it of course. We’re on vacation at the moment so I literally have him with me 100% of the time right now. I’m trying to decrease my anxiety about this now enough so I can go to sleep.
Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
For what the opinion of a total stranger is worth, I think you sound like a really sweet person and a good parent. And it's normal to worry like that. I'm 37 and my own mother still worries about me and fusses every time I get into trouble or am wearing something she thinks will make me look bad!
Load More Replies... Rapunzel With The Loced Hair 1 year ago
The saddest thing I have seen is a video of a South African police woman who was making her 12 year old son have sex with her, and she was filming it. Who knows how long she has been doing it for? My heart still breaks when I think about that little boy.
Mike Crow 1 year ago
The mother of my sons girlfriend screams at her daughter and threatens her with calling the police if she misbehaves. Then she try’s to buy her daughters love with expensive gifts. She also blames all of her shortcomings on everyone but herself. More than once my son and his girlfriend asked if she can move in with us and away from her mother.
Katie Lutesinger 1 year ago
I knew a kid once who was the result of a teen pregnancy. His mother was the sweetest woman you could hope to meet and was doing her best with him, but his father was deadbeat loser who kept getting arrested for getting in fights on the street - often in front of the kid and his little sister. Sadly the kid hero worshipped him anyway and was absolutely furious with his mother when she finally put an end to the dad's shared custody or whatever it was. He was a bully who constantly picked on a really sweet Indian kid who just wanted to be friends and one day yelled a racial slur at him. And I think we all know who he learned THAT from. It was so depressing.
Cheryl Sarnoski 1 year ago (edited)
This list is terrible but there's more tenacity in children than you think. I grew up horrible my mom was a non functioning drug addict who rotated abusive men. I decided early that I'm breaking the cycle. I mean at 4 I was determined to never become like my mother. I became a voracious reader because education wasn't going to be an option for me. I also understood early, at 8, that no one loved me so I was going to love me and no one else nurtured me so I nurtured myself. I make sure to do thing everyday that makes me feel grounded and fuzzy. Now in my 40's I'm independent to a fault but I've made a good life and I surround myself with only kind people. I can also declare that I broke the babies too young, violence, severe drug addiction, sexual assault, cruelty, poverty, intolerance, multiple toxic relationships cycle completely. I came out of this damn proud of who I am.
Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
Two stories from my teaching days. (1) A student is caught cheating on a test, and a parent comes in for the obligatory conference. Mom sails in, sits down, and smiles, saying "Ok. How are we going to get around this?" (2) Father, who owns a car dealership, comes in and asked that his son's math grade from last school year be raised "so to make him more marketable to college". Us: "When you take a car as a trade-in, do you roll back its mileage to make it more marketable?" Dad: "of course not!" Us: "Isn't that what you're asking us to do?" He had trouble recognizing our comparison, but it's so tricky debating moral philosophy with a used car dealer. (Twenty years later, that son now runs the business and is driving it straight into the ground.)
Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago
I feel bad for my two cousins; they never had a chance really. They grew up in poverty with a father who was an alcoholic and mother who was an addict. They were raised to ask our grandparents for money (because the grandparents wouldn't tell their grandchildren no), had no work ethic, and no guidance. Both parents have passed now. At their father's funeral, one cousin was only there to try to ask for the dad's truck which was left to a friend (they weren't even talking at this point and neither kid helped at all with the funeral or expenses). They only say hello when they want to ask for money, which we try to empathize but can't really help out with. It's a shame.
ejfs 1 year ago
I once did some child care for a family of 2 absent/workaholic parents with 2 under-14 kids that they barely saw - so they obviously had issues of their own. Food was adult takeaway leftovers, the fridge was more beer than anything else, the place was constantly dirty (and sticky) with flies in all seasons, the kids had zero emotional support or connection with their parents or each other, and I was expected to be nanny, therapist, cook, and tutor. Those parents were canny though, never gave me more than 15 hours a week which is 1 hour below the "you're actually employing someone" limit where I live. So I got none of the benefits of unemployment when that contract ended, and they got away with the tax breaks. Which they spent on new phones/tv/iPad etc, not their children.
R. H. 1 year ago
I'll tldr : Sheriff warrant squad at our rental for female with 2 felony warrants that renter is hiding, and pathological lier renter also has bench warrant, and both taken away. While in jail his friends try getting into the rental. THEN school bus drops off his 6 yo. I go to the property to make sure the kid is safe. Kid asks questions , I answer without embellishment. Apparently 2 felony had been there a while. Now I'm TAH because I told the kid daddy's in jail.
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