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Boss Loses Great Worker After Telling Him “He Needs To Prove Himself” For Promotion
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Boss Loses Great Worker After Telling Him “He Needs To Prove Himself” For Promotion

Boss Loses Great Worker After Telling Him “He Needs To Prove Himself” For PromotionBoss Tells Worker To “Prove Himself” For A Promotion, He Does So For Another Company Instead“He Needs To Prove Himself”: Boss Eats His Words After Worker Does So For Another Company“He Needs To Prove Himself”: Boss Eats His Words After Losing Great Worker To Another CompanyEmployee Told To Prove Himself To Get A Promotion, So He Does Just That, Only For Another Company“Director Told Me I Had To Prove Myself For A Promotion. So I Proved Myself To Another Company”Boss Tells Worker To “Prove Himself” For A Promotion, He Quits InsteadBoss’s Reason For Why Worker Can’t Get Promoted Angers Him So Much, He Finds A New JobCompany Loses Star Employee After He Gets Denied A Promotion And Another Job Offers Him MoreBoss Denies Employee A Promotion, Regrets It When He Leaves For A Better Opportunity
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Bosses want their employees to be diligent, get excellent results, and go the extra mile. Meanwhile, workers expect fair pay and wage growth, a decent work-life balance, as well as advancement. Unfortunately, even excellent results don’t always guarantee moving up in the company. How you deny that promotion, however, can mean the difference between a loyal worker who stays and someone who feels insulted enough to look for another job. And that costs the company tons of money.

That’s what happened to Reddit user u/A-Wise-Cobbler. They shared how they finally worked up the will to look for a better-paying job when their former director told them they wouldn’t get promoted… and he phrased it in possibly the worst way possible. Scroll down for the full story.

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Employees who get excellent results naturally assume that they’ll be promoted, sooner or later

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Being denied a promotion can sting, and the way this is phrased can make some workers consider new job opportunities. Here’s what happened with one specialist

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It’s never easy to work up the courage to look for employment elsewhere

Redditor u/A-Wise-Cobbler was perfectly content with the job, the company, and even his superiors. However, what really ticked him off was the way his former director phrased why the promotion to Senior Business Analyst wasn’t going to happen.

“He needs to prove himself,” is not something you want to say about an employee who’s always going above-and-beyond expectations and gets consistently good results. Any other expectation would have been fine. And the OP admitted that he’d been okay with that decision. But that phrasing inspired him to start job-hunting.

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It took a while, but he found a position at another company with a generous 25% bump in the base pay, as well as double the annual bonus he was getting before. It’s proof that there are always good opportunities for quality specialists… so long as they have the courage to apply elsewhere. And even if the new job doesn’t work out (toxic workplace culture is a real thing, Pandas), you now have the ambition and urge to apply elsewhere.

It might be easy for some to scoff about some people who might stay in their current positions when there are better opportunities elsewhere but don’t forget that human beings are creatures of habit. You get used to your workflow, your colleagues, your office, and even the type of coffee in the kitchen. Jumping ship is scary, no matter how green those other pastures might look. So it can take something drastic to make someone from being cozy and complacent to energetic and ambitious. In this case, it was a few rude words said by an otherwise excellent higher-up.

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It costs companies far more to replace workers who quit than to give them a raise

The thing is, these sorts of words have a far deeper negative effect than some managers might realize. Gallup points out that in the United States alone, businesses lose around a trillion dollars (yes, that’s ‘trillion’ with a ‘t’) every single year due to voluntary turnover. The sad thing is, most of these costs are actually entirely avoidable.

Replacing an employee who decides to quit—no matter if they’re looking for new challenges or disillusioned with the company’s culture—is expensive. The costs of hiring and training quickly add up. Gallup estimates that a replacement will cost the business from one-half to two times the employee’s annual salary.

Now imagine if it’s several specialists who decide that they’ve had enough. Suddenly, stable wage raises and promotions for good results don’t sound like such bad ideas, do they?

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Knowing your true value in the job market is half the battle

Meanwhile, Indeed points out that employees ought to do some research on their market value. They could look at what other companies pay for their positions, as well as speak to other professionals in the field to get a firm grip on whether they’re being underpaid or paid fairly.

You should also document how great your performance is before asking for a raise or a promotion. And above all, stay calm, cool, and collected. Even if the negotiations go sour, the more professional and optimistic you stay, the better off you’ll be in the long-run.

However, if you’re constantly denied growth at the company and you find that the reasons are poor excuses, it might be best to update your resume and look for other opportunities. Especially if you know for a fact that you’re not being compensated fairly for your time, effort, and achievements. Depending on how much savings you have and how burned out you might feel, you may need to stay at your current job while looking for other positions. Alternatively, consider taking a few months off to recharge and learn new skills. It’s a very personal decision.

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Jonas Grinevičius

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Jonas Grinevičius

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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I am a Visual editor at Bored Panda, I'm determined to find the most interesting and the best quality images for each post that I do. On my free time I like to unwind by doing some yoga, watching all kinds of movies/tv shows, playing video and board games or just simply hanging out with my cat

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Indrė Lukošiūtė

Indrė Lukošiūtė

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I am a Visual editor at Bored Panda, I'm determined to find the most interesting and the best quality images for each post that I do. On my free time I like to unwind by doing some yoga, watching all kinds of movies/tv shows, playing video and board games or just simply hanging out with my cat

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Phil Tune
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every job I've been laid off from has been a blessing. I have jumped between 30-65% salary each time. My current job is more than double what I started at my last place. I've never gotten (or even sought) a promotion. In any IT position (I do web development) you will ALWAYS get a better deal looking for a new job. Our industry ONLY has job hoppers, and I've not kept a single position for more than 4 years at this point. I don't much care for change, and I would prefer to stay in one spot, even if it's overly stressful, but I've never NOT traded up. Industry has been good to me.

The Cute Cat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No need to feel bad about job hopping. I do that many times. As long as you resign with a good term

Ken Beattie
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only job hopping I feel bad about is like the guy in the example above who is apparently leaving jobs every 9 months or so. Honestly, that's pretty obnoxious and if I was looking at him for a position I'd be thinking to myself "He's gonna quit within a year and I'll be hiring again". Sure I don't think you need to devote your life to the company, but expecting more money when you've been at the company for less than a year? NOPE!

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Phil Tune
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every job I've been laid off from has been a blessing. I have jumped between 30-65% salary each time. My current job is more than double what I started at my last place. I've never gotten (or even sought) a promotion. In any IT position (I do web development) you will ALWAYS get a better deal looking for a new job. Our industry ONLY has job hoppers, and I've not kept a single position for more than 4 years at this point. I don't much care for change, and I would prefer to stay in one spot, even if it's overly stressful, but I've never NOT traded up. Industry has been good to me.

The Cute Cat
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No need to feel bad about job hopping. I do that many times. As long as you resign with a good term

Ken Beattie
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only job hopping I feel bad about is like the guy in the example above who is apparently leaving jobs every 9 months or so. Honestly, that's pretty obnoxious and if I was looking at him for a position I'd be thinking to myself "He's gonna quit within a year and I'll be hiring again". Sure I don't think you need to devote your life to the company, but expecting more money when you've been at the company for less than a year? NOPE!

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