That's awful! Hope you are feeling okay!

This is horrible. No words.

Guts!

Of course it’s okay to share! Nothing to be ashamed of whatsoever..it doesn’t matter what your gender is, harassment is not okay!

Wow, a female boss who condones that behaviour is surprising enough, but then to be such a terrible mom on top to put her daughter in a position to have to deal with that too....

I bet that he is one of those idiots who is so entrenched in his sexist views that he doesn't even begin to understand that his behaviour is out of bounds and that these are not compliments, nor that any woman could possibly get upset over being treated like this.

That's terrible

1. By the cfo? Good god! 2. Years?! I no longer have hope for humanity.

How do you “accidentally” grab someone from behind? Without falling over, I mean.

Not true, he's a -10.

Those sorts of people still exist. I know professors who women are told not to be alone with. Its an open secret and nothing is done. Usually for the same reason, the publish a lot or attract large classes

:-: i hope u have a better job now

A predator using his job as his hunting grounds. Sick.

It doesn't matter if you're 16 or 56, this is never ok

Yuck!

You're right to leave a potentially dangerous situation. Write up reports and send them to HR. They might not do anything for a while, but he may eventually be fired if enough complaints reach higher ups. If he's touched anyone in a gross manner, that could be sexual assault.

It's a myth that heterosexual men don't mind any kind of female attention.

Good.

i have no hope for humanity

I would have printed the company's code of conduct (assuming there was one) and highlighted all the areas that he was violating, and left it on his desk.

Damn that must have made you feel nauseous and lucky to get away at the same time.

The sad truth is that all these insecure men who behave like this are also suffering because they will never have a good and fulfilling relationship with any woman in their whole life. Without mutual respect, how would it possible?

How awful

I’m glad his harasser was punished. I just wish it were easier to hold men accountable, though.

Send the screenshots to the wife too!

I know things like this are more embarrassing than infuriating when you’re 16. But please, try to encourage all young people working anywhere to always report inappropriate behavior by coworkers—-especially older ones who 1) are flirting with jail and placement on the sexual predators list, and 2) are old enough to f*****g know better!

When in doubt - always blame it on the victim, eh?

WTF?

That's because your "friend" was also making inappropriate comments in the group chat

Why do men do d**k pics? Does it ever get them what they want?

I would have kneed the bastard in the crotch three times and told him I was being funny..what an a$$hole 🤬

I would’ve said “You talk to your mother with that foul mouth?” See, if he complains about me being insubordinate, I can tell HR/the big bosses exactly why I said it, and make him and the other foul mouths squirm, having to explain exactly what they were saying and doing to make it happen.

Lol what? You thought nothing of it? I would not be able to do anything but think something of it.

sometimes its fine if u say u r if it gets them off ur back. ive had to do that a ton (and im pan so) but i trly am dating another girl rn

Anyone who thought that was "funny and harmless" is either (a) not your friend, (b) protecting their own job, or (c) doing it, too. Tell someone who will listen.

She didn't want to make him feel bad .... *sigh* Yeah. Women are brought up to support men. Men are brought up to support other men. Teach your daughters that they have the right to stand up for themselves!

If you've been sent porn by senior staff you have the tangible evidence of sexual harassment. Report them to HR and the police. If that fails put it on social media. "Hey guys, I'd like to share a message mr.Jones from accounting sent me today."

Super creep

Yeah, I’ve often wondered what makes some employees—-usually the worst ones—-so Teflon-coated. Relative? Lover? Blackmailer? Connected?

Good on you for standing up for yourself!

This should be illegal, WTF!?

No matter what the men say, they always know it.

Can he be sent to jail?

Good, and I hope they give a heads up to every place he applies for afterward.

Yeah, but aspirin won’t get your d**k cut off by a group of my friends and relatives. Unless you actually want to sing soprano.

There was a letter like this on Ask a Manager. A guy wrote in to say that in a spurt of anger he said this to a young, new female employee. His question, "I know I have to apologize...I shouldn't have yelled." Oh, OK.

“Overly friendly” to other girls and you means inappropriately “friendly”. Gather evidence, record when, how, and to whom, and report it to HR. The store has security cameras, so if you give them dates and times, they can back it up with video proof. Be quick about it, though, because most security cameras only store video for anywhere between three days and one month.

Yep! I had a cut on my wrist, with a bandage over it and a customer asked if I tried to commit suicide

That’s why I go to the gym in comfortable, loose-fitting, somewhat worn out workout clothes no makeup, hair pulled back off my neck and out of my face. I’m there to exercise, not flirt, so leave me TF alone, creep.

I mean, a baby is a special thing, I can't speak for them, but this one doesn't seem as bad as the others, unless he continued pushing it. Still not appropriate to question if someone is pregnant at work.