Took me a sec to realize it, but good going. You have to consider yourself first.

I've never understood this...if you lose control over what a woman wears then you need some serious help. The problem definitely isn't the clothes.

haha, love this!

This goes for everybody. Treat others the way you want to be treated

Well done.

When you made an effort and treated her well and when you just stopped.

Everytime!

And it's always on us, don't dress that way, don't walk there, don't provoke. When it happens we didn't fight enough, fought too hard, didn't say no, didn't mean it when we said it. If we report it we get blamed, re traumatized by questions and rape kits that are then left untouched, called liars.

Agree entirely and this is one of the reasons I hate Disney movies

Good for you.

I feel a drop off interest on men (thanks a lot) when I say my husband is a police officer or a jujitsu master.

Grandma rocks!

I love this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ew. Just ew.

I'm still thinking about the time women had to use hat pins to defend themselves from handsy men. They were covered in fabric from head to tow. It's never about the way you dress, it's about being decent.

I sure wish I was that savy when I was that age

I always support the allies, reminding them how much I value them.

My mom was convinced she was just a miserable person. She eloped w my dad when she was 15 he was 19. She was 25 when she got divorced she then realized she was a very outgoing extrovert that loved to smile and be herself

So true.

This lizzard lifts us all to a higher level

Well done

I think that's based more on perception- a lot of the average everyday men not only shame but will speak heavily against rapists.

i'm just going to assume that most here are Americans, being from denmark myself i have been to parties (in denmark) sitting or standing next to a few women and they end up talking sex good and bad experiances partners and so on and never have i thought anything shaming about them but good for them that they have been curious and learned a few things like one i remember very clearly when trying a**l ALWAYS remember lube and lots of it and take time, most of this shaming comes from bad parenting and trying to be the cool/alpha male, bad boy, and for my part korrect if some guy i knew started to brag about rape i would not shame him he would (maybe) wake up in the hospital at some point.

This doesn’t seem to be the case where I Iive.

Just want to point out that rapists routinely get beaten and abused in prison. It's so common that they automatically get put in protective custody in a lot of institutions. Most men DO NOT like rapists.

Um how could you possibly know that? I don't know a single man who is built that wsy

I also shame men for having a lot of consensual sex.

This is unfair. I know several women that have been raped and talked about it. Not at all denying it’s even more common than most men realize. But I can’t imagine any man talking to his friends like, “Dude, I raped that chic so hard!” Doesn’t happen. I have no way of knowing a friend or acquaintance raped someone unless their victim puts them because they’re not going to tell me. If I did find out, I’d turn him in, beat the living daylights out of him and never associate with him again. Even if he thought it wasn’t rape and simply described an experience I recognized as rape, I’d do the same. And I’m not some woke, young pup. Over 50 and grew up with a lot of misogynistic influence to overcome. Still working on that but rape, date rape, force in any way or simply not taking no for an answer has NEVER been acceptable.

How would you freaking know this? I mean, it's a ridiculous statement. How do you know how much men shame people for these things?

Yea this has so be a joke! Oh lady you sleep around a lot let's get out of here and bang! Oh this guy raped someone and nothing? Ha ha so stupid

What kind of men are you hanging out with. Where I come from if we learn he's raped someone we kick his ass then call the cops. Is that "shaming" enough ?

Say it louder for the people in the back!

Guys up vote it, it needs to be in the top 2

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Pfft not me.

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That's absolute nonsense! How does she imagine men talk? Like, "Dude, you raped that girl last night?" "Yeah, bruh." "Das cool. Just be sure not to shame women for having a lot on consensual sex."

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Unpopular opinion here. B Women do to if they're not in early 20s. Not many women will admit that they have one night stands, specially if you are a single mother who not looking for a relationship and most of friends are married and with kids. How many girls don't tell about rape because they will be ashamed of their girls friends ?

TRUTH.

If everywoman had father like this...

Short, ugly, broke and stupid.

That woman is a true patriot!

Wow, someone need to practice house chores more often.

Also, the way they treat women that are not attracted to them.

Choose to empower your kids by considering them now and in the future. Spot on

My husband stayed with our kids as infants while I worked. Everyone went on and on about how amazing he was (and he was) but then we switched roles this past year and I hear how “lucky I am to GET to stay home” and how bad they feel he works long hours. B****! I pumped breast milk on the floor of a unisex bathroom while still taking phone calls.

I would call him out, get management and then call the cops! Effing dirty slob.