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“Girl, You’re Not Gonna Survive”: Guy Gives Unemployed Woman Reality Check

“Girl, You’re Not Gonna Survive”: Guy Gives Unemployed Woman Reality Check

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In order to feel good, it’s not enough to take care of your body and physical well-being; your mental health is equally—if not more—important, too. That’s why many people tend to change their lifestyles or take other measures to take care of their mental well-being.

Take this woman, for instance, who appeared on Caleb Hammer’s ‘Financial Audit’ show, and consequently, on his ‘Finance.Tokz’ TikTok account. Talking to the host, she shared that she considers her mental health a value and that she is not willing to put herself in a situation that is going to make it much worse. However, to that, Hammer replied that she will not be able to find a job and people in the comments had things to say, too.

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    This woman went on Caleb Hammer’s ‘Financial Audit’ show where she discussed her views on mental health and working

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    She told the host that she is not willing to put herself in situations that could worsen her mental health

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    Image credits: Image by Freepik (not the actual photo)

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    Image credits: master1305 / freepik (not the actual photo)

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    The snippet from the interview was viewed more than 2.6 million times on TikTok

    @finance.tokz She won’t get a job because of her mental health ! #finance #financetok #financefreedom #calebhammer @Caleb Hammer ♬ original sound – FinanceTokz

    You can watch Caleb’s full video here or on the YouTube channel

    For some people, work provides a sense of purpose, but for others, it can be a reason for their deteriorating mental health

    Image credits: Image by Freepik (not the actual photo)

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    No two people are, feel, or react to things the same way, so it makes sense that what works for one, might not work for another; and that includes work itself. While having a job for some can bring a sense of fulfillment and stability in life, for others, it can take a toll on their mental or even physical health.

    According to the World Health Organization, decent work can be good for one’s mental health. The organization suggests that working in a safe and healthy environment can support mental health by providing not only a livelihood, but also a sense of confidence, purpose, and achievement, an opportunity for positive relationships and inclusion in a community, and
    a platform for structured routines, just to name a few examples.

    However, data shows that, for one reason or another, many people can feel their mental health decline because of work. A survey carried out by Monster last year found that nearly three-in-four workers say they’re mental health at work is either poor (40%) or fair (34%). To make matters worse, close to 70% of respondents believe they work in a toxic environment, which is unlikely to make one’s mental health any better.

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    Monster’s survey also revealed that 78% of workers don’t think their employer is doing enough to address their mental wellness at work. Out of the respondents who reported great mental health, roughly six-in-ten said that they attribute it to the fact their employers allow time away from the office for doctors, therapy, and other health-related appointments.

    Mental health conditions can influence many aspects of a person’s life, including their productivity at work

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    It’s evident that many people face mental health-related troubles or difficulties, which might interfere with their job performance or influence their decision on what to do/where to work. The Office of Disability Employment Policy (ODEP) notes that mental health conditions can impact various aspects of an individual’s life, including the ability to achieve maximum productivity in the workplace, which is why there are certain laws and policies in place.

    According to the ODEP, “Under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) and other nondiscrimination laws, most employers must provide ‘reasonable accommodations’ to qualified employees with disabilities.”

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    The source continues to point out that reasonable accommodations are adjustments that need to be made at work in order for qualified employees with disabilities to perform the essential functions of their jobs. Some of such accommodations include flexibility regarding the workplace, scheduling adjustments, flexibility regarding sick leave and other arrangements, as well as breaks, among other things.

    The woman in Caleb Hammer’s video shared that her ADA accommodations included up to 32 hours a month of time off that is usually paid. She also added that her therapist recommended that she didn’t have a direct boss, all of which led to Caleb saying that she wouldn’t survive. People in the comments had things to say, too, and clearly, they didn’t keep them to themselves.

    Many people in the comments sided with the host

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    Some saw where the woman was coming from

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    An HR manager in the comments provided her two cents on the matter

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    Miglė Miliūtė

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    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    Miglė Miliūtė

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    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

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    Min
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    10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has a fundamental misunderstanding of the ADA. Up to 32 hours of paid time off every month is not a reasonable accommodation.

    Deborah
    Community Member
    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's probably never read the ADA, I have because I use a service dog, and just heard the name somewhere. She's made that c**p up out of her head.

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    marcelo D.
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as someone married to a psychologist the vast mayority of the times people say "my therapist said ..." are false. Patients go to the therapist, and decide something, and the therapist say something like "aja" or "hmm", and they take that as implicit consent, and then "the therapist said it". They didn't

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    9 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't seem as if she's actually doing something to improve her mental situation. She just seems to accept it.

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    Min
    Community Member
    Premium
    10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has a fundamental misunderstanding of the ADA. Up to 32 hours of paid time off every month is not a reasonable accommodation.

    Deborah
    Community Member
    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's probably never read the ADA, I have because I use a service dog, and just heard the name somewhere. She's made that c**p up out of her head.

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    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as someone married to a psychologist the vast mayority of the times people say "my therapist said ..." are false. Patients go to the therapist, and decide something, and the therapist say something like "aja" or "hmm", and they take that as implicit consent, and then "the therapist said it". They didn't

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    9 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't seem as if she's actually doing something to improve her mental situation. She just seems to accept it.

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