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Guy Gets Praised Online For Not Letting Woman With Full Cart Of Stuff Check Out First
Guy Gets Praised Online For Not Letting Woman With Full Cart Of Stuff Check Out First
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Have you ever felt rushed in public? You’re doing your thing on the self-checkout machine and you can feel another person trying to bore a hole into the back of your head with their stare alone?

Depending on your mood of the day, you either hurry up or slow down, if you’re feeling like a jerk. But what if a person actually accosted you to cut in front of you? And when you refuse, they run to the nearest available mommy figure – the cashier in this case – asking them if maybe they could, after all, cut in front?

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    Letting someone go in front of you at the checkout is a courtesy, but it may not be such a big deal if the person only has a couple of items with them

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    A guy took to the mildly infuriating community to share his thoughts about a woman who wanted to go in front of him at the grocery store

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    Image credits: The Unwinder (not the actual photo)

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    He usually doesn’t mind letting people go first, but the woman had a cart full to the brim while he was only buying a measly 3 items

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    After he refused the woman’s request, she decided to ask the cashier, as if he had the authority, but to no avail

    Okay, pop quiz time. Only one question today. You’ve got a cart full of goods, an entire shopping cart, loaded nearly to the brim. There’s another person waiting in line in front of you, someone with 3 items. 

    Now, what do you do? Do you calmly wait for them to check out, while unloading your own cart and probably saving some time by not causing any drama? Or would you rather start begging them to let you through, distracting both them and the cashier, likely making them take way longer to get through the whole process and probably coming off like an annoying Karen?

    I mean, all of us here know the answer. Why would you ever choose the first option? There’s no point in living life if you can’t live large and roam free.

    When the person declines, go on, ask the cashier! The good old entitled person “I’d like to talk with your boss” strategy. When they’ve both declined, begin huffing and puffing because you are in a hurry after all!

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    It’s unbelievable that you should be made to wait, once again – you’re strapped for time. Going through all the stages of grief, denial hasn’t worked, as ignoring the guy and talking straight to the cashier didn’t work. Quick pit stop at anger, leaving the rude person slightly smacked with your shopping cart. That’ll show them!

    We’ll never know how the woman dealt with the rest of this terrible experience, as the story pretty much ends at that point. What a shame, really.

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    In the comments, an eerie amount of people shared their own experiences of people trying to butt in while they are checking out. It’s also really funny how people want to cut in line because they’re in a blistering rush, but if you tell them that you’re low on time, they won’t give you the same consideration they expect from you. 

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    Many people mentioned being chewed out by these people and what does that do? It makes a lot of people intentionally slow down, just to outjerk the jerks. 

    With these entitled folks, there’s always one overlapping trait – they can’t even comprehend the meaning of “no”. They expect that any request they have will be granted, so they almost don’t even need to ask, only doing it out of a gentle politeness to the universe.

    When this doesn’t turn out the way they want and someone dares say the dreaded combination of ‘n’ and ‘o’, they blow up – kind of like little bratty kids.

    Medium writer C. Renee has even written a pretty lengthy piece about what to do when people cut in line in front of you. After a weird guy cut her off at a clinic, she incidentally was reading stoic philosophy and came across this quote at just the right time: 

    “When we consider the sources of insults, says Seneca, We will often find that those who insult us can best be described as overgrown children…we will find that those insulting us have deeply flawed characters. Such people, says Marcus, rather than deserving our anger, deserve our pity.”

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    With that, she decided to leave the foolish line-cutter to his own devices and lo and behold – she was called to her appointment first, to his dismay. Renee emphasizes that the moral here is that engaging with the line cutters will only serve to incite further turmoil in us, so the best thing we can do is to reject their suggestions and simply ignore them.

    The poster’s story pretty much exploded in popularity, netting over 48k upvotes on Reddit and 3.3k comments. Most people in there just balked at the woman’s entitlement and shuddered to think that these people are most likely everywhere around us.

    Share your thoughts about the story in the comments below!

    The commenters took their time to royally grill the entitled woman and even shared their own, all-too-similar stories

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    Mad Dragon
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't understand how some people can think their lack of planning/patience should be someone else's problem!

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could understand it if there was elaboration. Like the lady backs up her request with "I was in the middle of shopping and my kid's school rang". But no justification at all beyond "I'm in a hurry" nope! At that point I have no empathy for you.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been on both sides. Etiquette is if you have a full trolley and someone with 3 to 5 items is behind, just offer to let them go first...but only them, not the next customer after them too. I had a full basket recently, not a trolley, in the 12 or under aisle. A man and his adult son were just buying a couple of things in front but insisted I go first cos I looked uncomfortable holding that basket, I said no I'm fine I'll just hold you up but they both insisted. Honestly, it was nice, unnecessary but thoughtful. I left feeling their wife/mum gets treated well in that home.

    Christian Golden
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The passive/aggressive trick of "Can I cut in front of you?" asks the wrong question. If you want to advance yourself in a queue, don't go to the head. Start at the last person waiting and ask them if you can go ahead of him/her. Then repeat, with every person until denied.

    DJR
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This exactly. You do not have the right to allow someone to cut in front of anyone but yourself, unless you're trading places with them and moving yourself to the back of the line.

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    JL
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Raise your hand if you're surprised she didn't demand the manager come over to override OP's decision.

    Elizabeth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will sometimes let people go in front of me if they have only a few items. If I notice someone behind me with a few items I offer them my place in line. Not a full cart. I haven't shopped in person for a long time now. I'm a Walmart+ member and get my groceries delivered. I'm also an Amazon Prime member. Amazon has groceries too. I used to hate shopping in person at Walmart because of the rude customers. I have been pushed while in line, knocked with the cart while standing in line. Without saying anything to me. No apology, didn't ask to get in front of me. P.S. I used to be a grocery store cashier at Publix in Florida and before that at Pathmark in New York. I've seen people with two or more shopping carts full split up and stand in different lines. Then whoever gets thru their line the fastest has their family members come over with the extra carts and cut in. I used to watch out for that when I did my shopping.

    Roxanne D'souza
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually do that as well. A few months ago, I was at H&M. I had a bunch of clothing and I saw a guy holding a pair of socks standing behind me. Once I let him go before me, he gestured to his wife/girlfriend who then came in front with her arms full of clothing. I was exasperated and couldn't help but tell him I only let him in front of me because he had one item. The woman just sneered back at me. Seems like they were using this tactic to let trick people into letting them go in front. Since that day, I ask the person behind me if they visibly have 1-3 items and get a verbal confirmation and then only will I let them cut in front of me.

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    Kobe (she)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is funny anyway that usually, they have all the time in the world to do their groceries. Check all the special offers and prices. maybe even have a company coffee. Go through the pile off cheese, to find the cheapest - and then suddenly at checkout - they are in a hurry. Like: "Can I go first, I only need to pay and am in a hurry ".... Well, what do you think I am here for?

    I’mSoEmotional
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is full of people who discover they can intimidate others who don’t like confrontations. So they attempt to use this against them by doing things like asking to cut in line. If there was any thing I could teach people, especially women, is how to be more assertive and stand up for themselves. If this had happened to me, I would find someone behind her or in another lane and offer to let them go before me.

    Ima Manimal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The “I’m more important that you are” Karen

    Vonny
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar incident just happened to me yesterday. I had two orders, two items in each order. Cashier did first transaction, then saw a handsome young man behind me & asked if I'd let him check out as he was just paying for his gas. I didn't mind, took a few seconds. Then, back to checking out my 2nd order ( of 2 items ) when a pushy beyotch behind me in line demanded SHE go ahead of me to pay for her gas. Wishy-washy cashier said Ok. I said No, it's not, this will only take a second, the Karen behind said "Yeah but I have a car full of groceries"! I said, Well that makes two of us. And it's my turn here, not yours. She had steam coming out of both ears & the inexperienced cashier turned beet red. I paid for my final two items & left with my head held high. All I could think was the audacity of some people pi$$es me off.

    Nelson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time I let anyone ahead of me when I had a full cart was when I let someone with 4 items go first. Ended up taking 10 minutes because one item was WIC, two items were for a friend and she wanted a separate receipt and paid separately. Then she didn’t have enuf cash so wrote 3 checks. No good deed goes unpunished

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    Mad Dragon
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't understand how some people can think their lack of planning/patience should be someone else's problem!

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could understand it if there was elaboration. Like the lady backs up her request with "I was in the middle of shopping and my kid's school rang". But no justification at all beyond "I'm in a hurry" nope! At that point I have no empathy for you.

    Load More Replies...
    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been on both sides. Etiquette is if you have a full trolley and someone with 3 to 5 items is behind, just offer to let them go first...but only them, not the next customer after them too. I had a full basket recently, not a trolley, in the 12 or under aisle. A man and his adult son were just buying a couple of things in front but insisted I go first cos I looked uncomfortable holding that basket, I said no I'm fine I'll just hold you up but they both insisted. Honestly, it was nice, unnecessary but thoughtful. I left feeling their wife/mum gets treated well in that home.

    Christian Golden
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The passive/aggressive trick of "Can I cut in front of you?" asks the wrong question. If you want to advance yourself in a queue, don't go to the head. Start at the last person waiting and ask them if you can go ahead of him/her. Then repeat, with every person until denied.

    DJR
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This exactly. You do not have the right to allow someone to cut in front of anyone but yourself, unless you're trading places with them and moving yourself to the back of the line.

    Load More Replies...
    JL
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Raise your hand if you're surprised she didn't demand the manager come over to override OP's decision.

    Elizabeth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will sometimes let people go in front of me if they have only a few items. If I notice someone behind me with a few items I offer them my place in line. Not a full cart. I haven't shopped in person for a long time now. I'm a Walmart+ member and get my groceries delivered. I'm also an Amazon Prime member. Amazon has groceries too. I used to hate shopping in person at Walmart because of the rude customers. I have been pushed while in line, knocked with the cart while standing in line. Without saying anything to me. No apology, didn't ask to get in front of me. P.S. I used to be a grocery store cashier at Publix in Florida and before that at Pathmark in New York. I've seen people with two or more shopping carts full split up and stand in different lines. Then whoever gets thru their line the fastest has their family members come over with the extra carts and cut in. I used to watch out for that when I did my shopping.

    Roxanne D'souza
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually do that as well. A few months ago, I was at H&M. I had a bunch of clothing and I saw a guy holding a pair of socks standing behind me. Once I let him go before me, he gestured to his wife/girlfriend who then came in front with her arms full of clothing. I was exasperated and couldn't help but tell him I only let him in front of me because he had one item. The woman just sneered back at me. Seems like they were using this tactic to let trick people into letting them go in front. Since that day, I ask the person behind me if they visibly have 1-3 items and get a verbal confirmation and then only will I let them cut in front of me.

    Load More Replies...
    Kobe (she)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is funny anyway that usually, they have all the time in the world to do their groceries. Check all the special offers and prices. maybe even have a company coffee. Go through the pile off cheese, to find the cheapest - and then suddenly at checkout - they are in a hurry. Like: "Can I go first, I only need to pay and am in a hurry ".... Well, what do you think I am here for?

    I’mSoEmotional
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is full of people who discover they can intimidate others who don’t like confrontations. So they attempt to use this against them by doing things like asking to cut in line. If there was any thing I could teach people, especially women, is how to be more assertive and stand up for themselves. If this had happened to me, I would find someone behind her or in another lane and offer to let them go before me.

    Ima Manimal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The “I’m more important that you are” Karen

    Vonny
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar incident just happened to me yesterday. I had two orders, two items in each order. Cashier did first transaction, then saw a handsome young man behind me & asked if I'd let him check out as he was just paying for his gas. I didn't mind, took a few seconds. Then, back to checking out my 2nd order ( of 2 items ) when a pushy beyotch behind me in line demanded SHE go ahead of me to pay for her gas. Wishy-washy cashier said Ok. I said No, it's not, this will only take a second, the Karen behind said "Yeah but I have a car full of groceries"! I said, Well that makes two of us. And it's my turn here, not yours. She had steam coming out of both ears & the inexperienced cashier turned beet red. I paid for my final two items & left with my head held high. All I could think was the audacity of some people pi$$es me off.

    Nelson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time I let anyone ahead of me when I had a full cart was when I let someone with 4 items go first. Ended up taking 10 minutes because one item was WIC, two items were for a friend and she wanted a separate receipt and paid separately. Then she didn’t have enuf cash so wrote 3 checks. No good deed goes unpunished

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