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Stay-At-Home-Wife Stops Using Husband’s Gifts After His Remark About Her Wasting His Paycheck

Stay-At-Home-Wife Stops Using Husband’s Gifts After His Remark About Her Wasting His Paycheck

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Married life comes with its fair share of ups and downs, and the occasional quarrel is to be expected. Usually, a sincere apology and a hug can patch things up, but sometimes, a disagreement cuts deep enough to make you want to get a little petty.

That’s what one woman on Reddit resorted to after her husband accused her of being wasteful when she spent $950 on their monthly grocery run. In response, she decided to stop using and wearing all his gifts to show she was done with his complaints about money. Now, she’s left wondering if she went too far.

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    The man accused his wife of being wasteful after she spent $950 on groceries

    Image credits: mstandret / Envato Elements (not the actual photo)

    In response, she decided to stop using and wearing all his gifts

    Image credits: pvproductions / Freepik (not the actual photo)

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    Many commenters sided with the woman, suggesting her husband might be trying to manipulate her

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    Others pointed out that they both could have handled the situation better through proper communication

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    Skogsrået
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    2 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Insists that wife stays home and gives up her career after marriage, gets angry when she spends his money. Being a SAHW is a really bad deal for women everywhere and this is just one example of why.

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    Lee
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    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a VERY bad idea to give up you independence and your career. Even when we do it to be SAHM, if child care takes a full salary if you stay in the workforce you are still better off doing that. You get career progression, and you get super (or whatever your country's equivalent is), and you don't blow up your future

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    Lee
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    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact he wanted you to be SAH but then refers to it as his money is a huge red flag for financial abuse. I'd get out if that were me.

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    Nils Skirnir
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    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read some of these things and think half the US lives in 1920’s, not the 2020’s.

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    annaekberg avatar
    Skogsrået
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    2 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Insists that wife stays home and gives up her career after marriage, gets angry when she spends his money. Being a SAHW is a really bad deal for women everywhere and this is just one example of why.

    lisamai-wood avatar
    Lee
    Community Member
    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a VERY bad idea to give up you independence and your career. Even when we do it to be SAHM, if child care takes a full salary if you stay in the workforce you are still better off doing that. You get career progression, and you get super (or whatever your country's equivalent is), and you don't blow up your future

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    Lee
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    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact he wanted you to be SAH but then refers to it as his money is a huge red flag for financial abuse. I'd get out if that were me.

    nilsskirnir avatar
    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read some of these things and think half the US lives in 1920’s, not the 2020’s.

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