Brilliant. Can't see why she even needs to ask who's at fault here. They didn't ask before sending her messages, why does she need to ask about sending messages to their mothers? Bravo, I say!

I’m still waiting for Congress to pass the law that states sending unsolicited NSFW pics are the same as “flashing” and should be treated as the sex crime they are. That’s literally what it is anyway just an innovative way of doing it. No normal person flashes their private parts online or in person unless they were asked to

I don’t even send NSFW images to my partner. She doesn’t need that kind of horrific sight on her phone! Once the image has gone digital and your cloud provider has swerved their job and accidentally given the world access to your photo stream then it’s in the public domain FOREVER and no one needs that. Add in the more important fact that no one’s daughter, sister, mother or anyone else for that matter needs or wants to see your latest dickpick or your naked torso and it’s best to not send them in the first place. Good on her for highlighting their lack of respect for her and shining a light on their idiocy.

I'm curious if her friends saying she went too far were mostly men or women. I have a *feeling* it's the former, and if so, her "friends" are a little overly similar to her harrassers.

Excellent work.

NTA - people should never share anything online that they wouldn't show their mom/grandma...

Absolutely the right thing to do. I hope their parents gave them hell.

F**k the "friends" who think you went too far. Get rid of them. Categorically NTA. Now you can send the screenshots to the school's administration.

I wonder what the outcome was for OP?

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This reminds me of the woman who was posting gamer related stuff on YouTube and got all sorts of horrible rape and death threats. She found out the people doing it were a bunch of 13 year old boys, and reported them to their mothers. Brilliant.

The moment she said someone sent her a Reddit cares, I knew it was some pathetic weak man. Mad because she told on creeps. It's also what Trump trash do when they can't win a factual argument.

NTA but she should also go again to the school. If she's in the US, their behavior violates Title IX. By law, there must be a Title IX officer or coordinator on campus, and the college must have a system of reporting. She can go to the police also. The campus procedures are meant for internal justice (getting someone removed from a class, removed from campus, put on probation, etc.).

Can/should still report them again, with implied threat to sue the school (for the equivalent of “creating a hostile workplace” through their inaction/ineffectiveness). Let’s see how fast things then change as it’s the district’s cash and the principal’s job at stake.

Not sure where she is at, but if it's in the USA, many states have laws that prohibit harassment and stalking through electronic devices like phones and computers. You can not only have them charged with harassment..especially if they sent any pick of a sexual nature which will also earn them a spot on the Sex offenders registry...but you can also sue them for any costs you may have to endure like getting a new phone/number...relocating to a new address..etc.

I have done something similar, each time I get an unsolicited d**k pic. Or more if someone asked me do I want a d**k pic and I specifically explain to them not to send one, and they do, then I copy our messages and the pic. Then I post on their wall and tag anyone that I believe is either related to them or might be in a relationship with them. I've been threatening but I've had to explain if you're mad at someone harm yourself. You made this. I've been told my mama saw this. And I explained that my children's mother saw this too and they found it just as inappropriate as your mother did. It also teaches my children ( both are sons) what not to do

Genius, girl!!!!

The most clever thing!

Time to get new friends, the ones that think you went too far

If my son did this, I'd put my foot so far up his a$$, he'd taste shoe leather for a month! NTA!! Good on ya girl!

Nta but not sending it to both parents means she has made another woman responsible for a grown man's behavior.

I hope their mother gave them Hell! They brought this on themselves. I hope Karma played a part.

When I'm harassed by men online, I send screenshots to their wife or girlfriend.

There are allows against exhibitionism. Why doesn't that apply to digital images? The laws are like 100 years out of date.

Doesn't matter what their home life is like, they know better. At least they will think twice before doing it again..........hopefully. But knowing bullies, they really don't care.

Anyoje who says it's normal to get sent inapropriate unsolicited pics to ANYONE deserves whatever they get. And in the US it is illegal to send underage porn (of/to) so there ia no way to prove the age based on a pic... so asking their mom if the pic belongs to them is a safe bet.

Oh my god! It never stops. When I was dating, men in their 40s and 50s would send not unsolicited pictures but I would preempt and say do not send me those kind of pictures because I don't need to see it. I even thought one guy I was going to have to get a restraining order to get him to stop. Not surprisingly the man I married never sent me that kind of picture.

I'm just surprised none of them said their darling boy would never.

F*****g brilliant.

Really I would just give 0shits about their futures! Why should anyone for what they did?! And I wouldn't stop with Mommy(ies). Whatever, tho'. Sick, vile, twisted monster perverts & everything else I've listed for any kind of shitpile waste of cells dickfungus.

We like to be bad to others, but if others are bad with ourselves we ask if we did something wrong I say so because once I was a little child, so I do my best to be respectful with other children. I love my parents, so I try to be the best with others parents and as everyone has someone beloved I would like to think we try to be proud of the good things we have been taught and learnt. We are not perfect, but I am 100% sure that these mothers back up the girl because they did not teach that to their sons and keep asking why she told them, so...

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Well..have to disagree here, only for the sake of being adult. Problem is, these asshats are doing it to other women and will continue to. Being in college means you're of legal age, and an "adult". Fine, take those screen shots. By all means. Put them on backup so you can always access them. The college does not want the publicity that'd come with that stuff going public. People can actually get charges for assault and stalking and harassment when you have that type of proof. There's too many avenues to get them and the school in a world of crap without dragging Mom into it. Why is it her problem, or fault? I'm sure Mom didn't raise them that way. The son is an adult. Mom can't make him do anything from afar. Maybe the son is a monster to her, too. Maybe the guy is an abusive jerk. Maybe he hates women. Maybe his dad taught him this. Just seems to pass the boys' BS onto others instead of dealing with it yourself.

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Did they haves sisters? I would have done both. Specially younger sisters.