“I Paid Extra To Have This Specific Seat”: Woman With Lupus Refuses To Hand Kid Her Window Seat

Traveling, though exciting, can also be incredibly exhausting—especially when it involves flying. Between the mad dash to the airport, the hassle of getting through security, and hours crammed into a tight space with strangers, it’s a lot to deal with.

To make her journey more bearable, one woman with chronic pain decided to pay extra for a window seat on a long flight. But her peace was short-lived when a fellow passenger insisted she give up her spot so his 7-year-old son could enjoy the view.

When she refused, the situation spiraled into hours of complaints and nagging that left her questioning whether she’d made the right call.

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A woman with chronic pain paid extra for a window seat to make her flight easier

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But the kid beside her ruined it by spending the whole trip nagging her to switch seats

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Incidents involving rude passengers on flights are on the rise

There’s no shortage of entitled people anywhere, but they seem to be particularly common on airplanes. Whether it’s the stress of travel, unexpected delays, or the discomfort of being stuck in a small space 30,000 feet in the air, flying often brings out the worst in some passengers.

Unfortunately, this type of behavior appears to be on the rise. According to 2022 data from the International Air Transport Association, incidents involving unruly passengers increased by 47% globally compared to 2021, even as pandemic restrictions eased. However, some professionals believe these numbers might only scratch the surface.

“The public does not hear about the 99% of would-be incidents that are resolved by flight attendants without event,” said Sara Nelson, president of the Association of Flight Attendants, speaking to NBC News. “We deescalate conflict as aviation’s first responders on nearly every flight.”

Aviation security expert Jeffrey Price, founder of airport consultancy Leading Edge Strategies, suggested that post-pandemic attitudes might also play a role. “I’m not sure if there is an overall increase in a feeling of self-entitlement,” said Price, “or if people are, for some reason post-Covid, feeling more empowered to assert what authority or influence they believe they have.”

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Here’s what annoys travelers most about fellow passengers

Rude passengers don’t just create headaches for airline staff—they can make the entire experience miserable for fellow travelers.

Earlier this year, YouGov surveyed Americans about the worst offenses in air travel etiquette. Unsurprisingly, more than 80% agreed that letting children run in the aisle, getting drunk, leaving their seats during turbulence, and watching movies or shows without headphones are unacceptable behaviors.

Other pet peeves include passengers leaving trash in the seatback pocket, hogging both armrests, eating strong-smelling food, and trying to exit the plane before the row in front of them.

Interestingly, some actions, like reclining seats, chatting with a seatmate, or asking to switch seats, were considered fine by at least half of respondents. Of course, those polled likely didn’t experience what the OP did—being pestered nonstop for an entire flight to swap seats.

Cabin crew do their best to accommodate needs, but options are often limited, says flight attendant

The cabin crew has limited options when passengers ask to move, though such requests are quite frequent, flight attendant Kyle Curmi told Bored Panda.

“Some passengers ask to change seats due to concerns like a crying infant nearby or an unpleasant odor from another passenger,” Curmi said. “Unfortunately, since most of our flights are fully booked, there’s not much we can do.”

“If there are available seats during the flight, we allow passengers to switch temporarily, provided they return to their original place for landing,” he added. “I’ve generally managed to accommodate everyone and ensure they sit comfortably.”

“Most travelers are understanding,” Curmi noted. “However, insisting that another passenger give up their seat or forcing them to move is not ethical at all.”

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Commenters were fully on the woman’s side, agreeing that she had every right to keep her seat

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