Recently, a 28-year-old woman’s story caught everyone’s attention on the AITA subreddit. “So I am a 28-year-old woman, I am gay (important to the story). Now my mother is a single mother, she comes from a big conservative Christian family,” the author wrote.

The author wrote that after her mom had her at 16, they lived with the grandparents until her mother at age 25 came out as gay. “That was the limit for my grandfather and he disowned my mother and my mom cut all contact with her family.”

The woman lost her closest ones to Covid, and she inherited the family’s summerhouse from her grandma who wanted to make it up as much as she could before she died, too.

Now, the other relatives have reached out to the author expecting to have their wedding there for free but that’s not what the new house owner wanted.

The woman asks if she was wrong to refuse to let her estranged relatives have a free wedding at the family house she inherited

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Family members fighting over inheritance is as old as history itself. Recent research found that there has been an increase in inheritance disputes reported annually since 1985. One of the authors, professor Stephan Köppe explained that there are four main reasons why relatives go to court and they include sibling rivalry, the legacy of divorce, owning a business, and wealth.

“Drawing from our court case examples, families should follow a few simple rules. Open and honest communication is essential. In many cultures, it is taboo to talk openly about death, but communicating your intentions and expectations during your lifetime will reduce stress and the possibility of unwelcome surprises for your loved ones,” prof. Köppe wrote in The Conversation.

Another key thing, according to prof. Köppe, keeping your promises is key. “In other words, don’t change your will at the last minute on your deathbed – this can be easily challenged in court.”

And finally, children who fear being left out should seek constructive, non-confrontational conversations during the lifetime of their parents. Prof. Köppe argues that building such mutual expectations during the lifetime is quintessential.

The author provided some more background information about the whole situation in the comments

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