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Baby’s Appearance Prompted Mom To Seek DNA Test: “My Son Was Really Ugly”

Baby’s Appearance Prompted Mom To Seek DNA Test: “My Son Was Really Ugly”

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Beauty is inherited — and that’s a statement this woman on the Internet took a little too seriously.

Nebrazkha, a Spanish-speaking mother on TikTok, thought her son was “too ugly” as a newborn and demanded a DNA test to make sure he was hers. 

The peculiar story blew up as it made the rounds online, with more than 11M views and upwards of 700K likes.

Highlights
  • A mother wanted a DNA test because she thought her newborn was too ugly to be hers.
  • Her story went viral on social media, amassing over 11 million views and 700K likes.
  • Initially disheartened by her son's looks, she later accepted him when she realized their resemblance with one another.
  • Comments on her viral video ranged from lighthearted to critical of her honesty.
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    A mother went viral on social media for believing her son was “too ugly” to be hers

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    In the four-minute long video, translated to English, she explained that although she didn’t see herself as particularly “pretty,” she wasn’t “ugly” either and had high hopes for how her child would look. 

    “I said, ‘he’s going to be pretty, at least he’s going to be white.’ My mom has green eyes, and my aunts too. I have cousins who are also white and have light eyes, so I had high expectations,” she said. 

    Safe to say, those expectations were not met.

    “When I saw that my child was born with tanned skin, a big nose, and was small and skinny, I didn’t say anything but inside I was sad and discouraged. 

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    “He doesn’t look like me,” she claimed.

    Image credits: nebrazkhaa

    Nebrazkha knew that the most important factor was her child’s health and that all children are beautiful in their own ways, but if she was being frank, she needed to accept the reality: “My son was really ugly.” 

    Out of desperation, she turned to the possibility of DNA testing, believing her partner would agree with this decision. 

    “Thank God he was born healthy, but the ugly can’t be taken away and at that moment, I didn’t understand,” she said. “I said that he wasn’t my son and that they had changed him. I saw his face and I was surprised.” 

    Nebrazkha was “sad and discouraged” by her son’s appearance

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    A week after her son’s birth, she had a conversation with her partner about conducting a DNA test — but was met with denial. 

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    “Don’t worry, that’s how I was when I was a baby,” was reportedly his response.

    Despite it all, Nebrazkha felt something “inside” that told her “he wasn’t my son and that I had no maternal attachment.” 

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    She began to save up money after realizing her partner wouldn’t agree to cover the necessary costs.

    But right before she was set to send her child for DNA testing, she looked at her son, realizing that her son did, in fact, share much resemblance. 

    Her acceptance came shortly afterward. 

    In Nebrazkha’s eyes, her son is now beautiful — but only because his features began to change over the years. She admitted to her rather immature thinking and believes he will take after her family’s genes.

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    Comments under the mother’s video were relatively lighthearted, thinking the brutal honesty of the situation was hilarious.

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    “HAHAHA I love the sincerity of the moms of this generation. 🤣🫶🏻✨” laughed one user.

    “The same thing happened to me, my son was born very ugly and I didn’t know why 😔 until I realized that he looked like his father. 😅😂” another wrote.

    Those in the comment section poked fun at Nebrazkha’s initial horror

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    A third joked, “I laughed my head off! Me pregnant reading this and thinking God please make mine pretty! 😂😂” 

    Others, however, didn’t think the video was a laughing matter. 

    “I pity this poor kid when he grows up and sees this video,” someone said. 

    “When your worst enemy is your own mom,” a netizen pointed out. 

    Image credits: nebrazkhaa

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    A user quoted Nebrazkha’s relief at knowing her son was going to be white and asked, “So if he was brown-skinned, it would be a bad thing?” 

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    It’s a hidden social rule that strangers should always tell a baby’s mother their child is beautiful, even if they don’t necessarily think so. But the safety net of an anonymous name can reveal someone’s true thoughts — even the newborn’s own parent.

    “As a mom of two, my babies looked like weird, misshapen potatoes. Puffy eyes, cone heads, squished ears. Newborns are weird looking,” said someone on a Reddit thread, reported by Buzzfeed.

    Anonymous mothers shared their true first thoughts upon seeing their babies

    Image credits: nebrazkha

    @nebrazkhaMi pensamiento inmaduro en ese entonces 😂 yo pensaba que saldria parecido a mi familia por ser familia pues 🤭♬ sonido original – nebrazkha

    Though she had never considered testing the DNA of her child, another mother recalled how her first thought was that her son looked like Don Rickles. 

    “Happily, his looks have improved significantly, but I was concerned at the time that he might be designated ‘Ugliest Baby in the Maternity Ward’ or something. For all I know, he was.”

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    Comments flocked to tell Nebrazkha she wasn’t alone in her line of thinking

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    Tamra
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "At least he's going to be white". Yeah, that pretty much sums up the character of this vapid twat.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This poor kid is going to have it rough growing up. Also the "I love the sincerity of today's moms"? Seriously?

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And start saving for the therapy the kid will need when someone finds this and shows him.. *all of OPs "nice things" here*

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    AndyR
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suspect he's the double of her without the face tuning.

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's rage bait... I know everybody sees how cute the kid is.... but I can't help comment on two things: (1)I blame TV shows for having three-months old kids presented as newbies, and (2) I was so prepared for the fact that a LOT of kids come out misshapen and "ugly" that the first words that came out my mouth when I first saw my son were "Oh my God! He's ADORABLE!!!!'

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugly? That just means he inherited his outside from his mom's inside.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think this wouldn't be such an issue except she wants him to be white??? all newborns are weird looking at best.

    Jane No Dough
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is a self-loathing insecure mixed race fair skinned Latina who puts all her efforts into passing, and her main concern is her mixed race baby is going to "out" her everywhere they go. Terrible mom!

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    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say mom was worried about the comments and likes/dislikes she figured she was going to get from online strangers. That's the way to be a good mom. Worried about how the baby's looks will reflect on her popularity. Too late to stop mom from breeding but hopefully the kid will be alright. Probably not though.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor kid... He looks fine btw. But let us assume he was indeed born ugly. Who broadcast it to the whole world and have the mom say disgusting s**t like she has no maternal feeling...

    Nina
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mums quite ugly so what did she expect? The baby will come out with a full face of makeup and plastic surgery hiding the ugliness like her? Newborns always look strange - they've been stewing for 9 months in fluid! That woman is hideous on the inside as well as the outside.

    Tams21
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's told the world more about herself than about the child and my goodness, it doesn't paint a pretty picture. That poor child.

    _-DungeonKeeper-_
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrible. All newborns are ugly. The kid looks great. He probably looks like his mother (as previously stated, an absolute Tragedeigh™) before her plastic surgery. This is the worth thing you can laugh at

    CBolt
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So when he got "less ugly," she developed maternal feelings? What if he hadn't? What if his skin had been dark? I can't bear to think how she might have treated this poor boy if his appearance hadn't ultimately come up to her standards.

    Beary Nice
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's a concern for the future, my mother would comment on and compare me to other girls when I hit my teens and it shattered my confidence and perception of myself for a long time...I do remember having far more terrifying (though irrational)concerns when mine were born especially after the first one...priorities of mom's today I suppose lol

    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a really ugly baby. I wasn't a good looking kid, either, but I eventually grew into my looks. All babies are ugly, in my opinion.

    Angrywolf
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn what a nasty woman, She may think that she looks "pretty" on the outside, But inside she is rotten to her core, And how you behave and act is a lot more important than how you look, I feel for her kid, He deserves a better mom.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Postpartum depression could be a factor. It can last for a lot longer than the first few months/weeks. The part with her talking about his skin colour though is concerning. It's... I hope he never sees this when he grows up.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    22 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a horrible person. She’ll be a s****y mother to this poor kud.

    Reta Murphy
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All babies are beautiful little Winston Churchill look alikes. lol

    Sinclair
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say that she's ugly too, but I honestly can't tell because of how much she filters her photos 🤦 But more importantly: "Nebraska" 🤣🤣🤣

    Ghostpotato
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So... Did she just... forget that babies share dna with their fathers too? (If that's him in the picture, the guy with tan skin and a big nose, I really don't understand how she could be so surprised the baby had tan skin and a big nose)

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remove that fake tan, hair dye, lipstick and make up and you're suddenly pretty plain jane yourself, you shallow cow.

    Ruth Watry
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if she had continued to think that he was ugly and found out that he was biologically hers?

    Tamra
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "At least he's going to be white". Yeah, that pretty much sums up the character of this vapid twat.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This poor kid is going to have it rough growing up. Also the "I love the sincerity of today's moms"? Seriously?

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And start saving for the therapy the kid will need when someone finds this and shows him.. *all of OPs "nice things" here*

    Load More Replies...
    AndyR
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suspect he's the double of her without the face tuning.

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's rage bait... I know everybody sees how cute the kid is.... but I can't help comment on two things: (1)I blame TV shows for having three-months old kids presented as newbies, and (2) I was so prepared for the fact that a LOT of kids come out misshapen and "ugly" that the first words that came out my mouth when I first saw my son were "Oh my God! He's ADORABLE!!!!'

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugly? That just means he inherited his outside from his mom's inside.

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think this wouldn't be such an issue except she wants him to be white??? all newborns are weird looking at best.

    Jane No Dough
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is a self-loathing insecure mixed race fair skinned Latina who puts all her efforts into passing, and her main concern is her mixed race baby is going to "out" her everywhere they go. Terrible mom!

    Load More Replies...
    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say mom was worried about the comments and likes/dislikes she figured she was going to get from online strangers. That's the way to be a good mom. Worried about how the baby's looks will reflect on her popularity. Too late to stop mom from breeding but hopefully the kid will be alright. Probably not though.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor kid... He looks fine btw. But let us assume he was indeed born ugly. Who broadcast it to the whole world and have the mom say disgusting s**t like she has no maternal feeling...

    Nina
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mums quite ugly so what did she expect? The baby will come out with a full face of makeup and plastic surgery hiding the ugliness like her? Newborns always look strange - they've been stewing for 9 months in fluid! That woman is hideous on the inside as well as the outside.

    Tams21
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's told the world more about herself than about the child and my goodness, it doesn't paint a pretty picture. That poor child.

    _-DungeonKeeper-_
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrible. All newborns are ugly. The kid looks great. He probably looks like his mother (as previously stated, an absolute Tragedeigh™) before her plastic surgery. This is the worth thing you can laugh at

    CBolt
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So when he got "less ugly," she developed maternal feelings? What if he hadn't? What if his skin had been dark? I can't bear to think how she might have treated this poor boy if his appearance hadn't ultimately come up to her standards.

    Beary Nice
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's a concern for the future, my mother would comment on and compare me to other girls when I hit my teens and it shattered my confidence and perception of myself for a long time...I do remember having far more terrifying (though irrational)concerns when mine were born especially after the first one...priorities of mom's today I suppose lol

    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a really ugly baby. I wasn't a good looking kid, either, but I eventually grew into my looks. All babies are ugly, in my opinion.

    Angrywolf
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn what a nasty woman, She may think that she looks "pretty" on the outside, But inside she is rotten to her core, And how you behave and act is a lot more important than how you look, I feel for her kid, He deserves a better mom.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Postpartum depression could be a factor. It can last for a lot longer than the first few months/weeks. The part with her talking about his skin colour though is concerning. It's... I hope he never sees this when he grows up.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    22 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a horrible person. She’ll be a s****y mother to this poor kud.

    Reta Murphy
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All babies are beautiful little Winston Churchill look alikes. lol

    Sinclair
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say that she's ugly too, but I honestly can't tell because of how much she filters her photos 🤦 But more importantly: "Nebraska" 🤣🤣🤣

    Ghostpotato
    Community Member
    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So... Did she just... forget that babies share dna with their fathers too? (If that's him in the picture, the guy with tan skin and a big nose, I really don't understand how she could be so surprised the baby had tan skin and a big nose)

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remove that fake tan, hair dye, lipstick and make up and you're suddenly pretty plain jane yourself, you shallow cow.

    Ruth Watry
    Community Member
    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if she had continued to think that he was ugly and found out that he was biologically hers?

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