Woman Who Witnessed Viral Walmart Tantrum Defends Child, Reveals What Sparked Meltdown
A chaotic scene in a Walmart was captured in a now-viral video, triggering mixed reactions about parenting.
Amber Gregory, a shopper at the retail giant store, witnessed the child hurling items across the aisle and looking visibly distressed.
The child appeared unaccompanied by any parent or guardian, and her outburst lasted for about 45 minutes, according to Amber.
- A child's outburst at a Walmart store went viral on social media, fueling heated conversations about parenting.
- The little girl was seen smashing bottles and hurling items on the floor in the clip.
- One witness, Amber Gregory, stepped up and defended the child.
- Amber said she is the mother of a neurodivergent child.
A young child wreaked havoc in a Walmart, fueling a heated online conversation about parenting
Image credits: I Meme Therefore I Am / X
Image credits: I Meme Therefore I Am / X
“Where is her mother — or whoever she’s with?” a Walmart shopper was heard asking in the viral clip.
The tantrum escalated with her stomping on snacks, flinging dairy products, and eventually smashing bottles, sending shards of glass and red liquid splattering across the floor.
At some point in the video, two women were captured grappling the child and trying to stop her from destroying the products.
“I know you’re just trying to restrain her, but I’m not touching nobody’s kid,” a shopper with a trolley was heard saying
Image credits: I Meme Therefore I Am / X
Image credits: I Meme Therefore I Am / X
Bystanders, including some Walmart employees, appeared stunned, with a few attempting to intervene but quickly giving up when the girl resisted. Others whipped out their phones and filmed the child’s outburst.
Among the bystanders was Amber, who approached the child—not to scold or restrain her, but to shield her from the judgmental gazes and phone cameras.
“Don’t record her, you don’t know what she’s going through! Don’t do that to a little girl,” she told the onlookers.
A shopper urged others not to film the girl and shared her own perspective of parenting a child with neurodivergence
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In an interview with TMZ, Gregory explained that the girl’s behavior reminded her of traits she observes in her own neurodivergent child.
She criticized the bystanders who accused the child of being a “spoiled brat” when she appeared scared in the midst of the shopping aisle. She also accused them for choosing to record rather than help.
The minor was “trying to hurt herself” with the broken glass from the smashed bottles, she said. When the parent finally arrived at the scene, they had to rush the daughter away from the crowd.
Online commentators pointed fingers at the parents, accusing them of neglect and calling for accountability for the damages
Some people shouldn’t have children! pic.twitter.com/CfN14t2pou
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As the video circulated online, viewers voiced divided opinions. Many blamed the parents for failing to supervise their child, with some suggesting they should be held financially responsible for the destruction.
“That parent or grandparent should have to pay for every single item after Walmart presses charges for destruction of property,” one said.
“I don’t care what she’s going through, stop messing with other people’s stuff,” read a second comment while a third wrote, “I understand she may have issues, but someone has to stop her.”
“There’s no justification for allowing your child to run rampant and destroy products in a store,” one social media user said
“Where is her mother — or whoever she’s with?” An ill-mannered young girl is going viral after trashing a Walmart store. pic.twitter.com/OHacNYrAsa
— Zahra Noir (@Zehriiia) December 3, 2024
“There’s no justification for allowing your child to run rampant and destroy products in a store,” wrote another. “This isn’t a place to hold a therapy session.”
Some also wondered what provoked the child to act out in this way.
“Children acting this way are often testing their caregivers to see if they care enough to exercise some authority, control, and structure,” one person said.
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I don't give a hoot how "neurodivergent" this child is , a. the parent should be there and be forced to pay for all the damage caused b. the child should be taught how to behave in public, these kind of temper tantrums occur because they are enabled. c. Shop or mall security should have restrained this child with no fear of legal retaliation by enabler parent.
Thank you, Corwin 02, for saying what I was thinking. The adult with the child needs to handle this, not be off elsewhere in the store shopping. If the kid can't, or won't, be taught how to appropriately behave in public, then the kid needs to stay home with a babysitter or the other adult in the home.
Load More Replies...You do have to wonder where the parents were during all this, no way my child goes missing for 45 minutes in the store and I'm not running through there yelling their name.
Heck, my husband is running around looking for me after about 10 minutes. LMAO. I'm a short fat woman, but dang I'm fast and I can hide behind some things. LOL.
Load More Replies...Amazing how we now have all these labels to avoid calling a kid a spoiled brat.
I'm neurodivergent. Never once did I throw this level of tantrum as a kid, and if my parents thought I would, they didn't take me to the store. Not only should neurodivergence NOT be an excuse for bad behavior (its an explanation, and it makes the rest of us look bad), but if you're a parent of a neurodivergent kid, why the hell would you bring them to a place you KNOW will make them upset and unruly?
Where are the parents ? She seems all alone. Why nobody calls ? No matter if she is neurodivergent or neurotypical, a child should never be left alone in a supermarket no matter what ! And I would say even more if she is neurodivergent !
Reminds me of that condom commercial. https://youtu.be/4bfzQhs0Jyw?si=1bQkfZXwzndHVMgC
My absolute favourite commercial ever - I still show it to people.
Load More Replies...Grumble first, then I'll explain further why I feel the way I do... I am So Fed Up with people, adults, blaming their own really bad, even violent, behaviour upon having some sort of "mental health condition". Nope. You do NOT get a "free pass" because you either have self diagnosed or? You refuse to take your medications for your condition which then results in a dire situation for others who have had nothing to do with anything with you. I have my own personal experiences and reasons for saying that...... Okay, that said. So if her child is actually "neurodivergent"? Then she should be trying and her daughters school etc, everyone, should be trying to get help for her. Why? Because she's still a child and her condition can be managed, the sooner the better. There are treatments that can help her that do not involve d***s, medications. At this age she can start to learn about it and how to help herself manage her various moods etc. The parents themselves can also be helped to underst
Understand exactly what is happening and get support for themselves too. Leave the medications for the necessary resort. If she doesn't have any form of neurological or mental health issue? Then they need to find out the root of the problem, why this child is acting that way. Is she being abused in some way that noone knows about? Is she being bullied? There is something going on and the sooner she receives help? The better because this video will probably follow her into her adult life.
Load More Replies...“Where is the mother?” Sigh, yup cos it’s aaaaaaaaaalways the mothers who get all the responsibility and hence all the blame when something goes wrong. No one immediately goes to “Where’s the father?”
"Don't film her" says rational kind person... "let me spread the pictures everywhere" thinks BP...
I've experienced different endings of this kind of action - where people try to intervene physically. Sometimes it works for the better, usually for the worse. As long as the person isn't hurting themselves or others, let security handle it. It's just stuff. Once they become a danger to people, physical requires intervention.
Just a funny story which some people might be horrified by. I threw one tantrum total as a child. My mother picked me up, opened the door, threw me into a snowbank, and locked the door behind me. I remember being so shocked. Honestly I wasn't a child that had tantrums but I kind of learned it from the neighbors. Just to clarify it wasn't that cold out and she threw me out the back door. The front door wasn't locked. I had to run around the house to get back in. I never had a tantrum again.
why is an ND child unaccompanied is my biggest question. Followed by what kind of dickheads films a CHILD having a mental episode and puts that on the internet. I would be going after whoever posted a video of my child on the net without permission.
And going and do what? They didn't film throw a window in their home, is a public space there is no expectation of privacy
Load More Replies...Who said she was allowed to roam in the store alone? Who said her parents weren't there? Neurodivergnt kids and those with extreme autism are super sensitive to light and noise among other things. Ever see a severely autistic child have a meltdown? It isn't pretty and many many times there's not a whole lot the parent can do except go with it. Now that's not an excuse for what this girl did, but, she may have run off, gotten lost from her parent who I'm sure was looking for her, been super scared so the meltdown happened. These kids didn't sign on for these problems and parents have it very very hard dealing with them and it's not always about medicating them either. Guess the idea is just d**g them up so they're quiet and invisible. Additionally you people probably believe she should be hidden away and not come out in public. Now the damage was wrong and yes, parents should pay, but, until any of you have a child who's neurodivergnt or severely autistic, take a seat.
Something is not right here. That poor girl. She's obviously acting out for a reason. If your caregiver or parent is leaving you alone in a store for 45 minutes, that's a big clue that things are not well at home. I hope CPS is able to check on this girl. You can't get mad at kids for acting this way when they are living in traumatic circumstances.
You are just straight up lying in headlines now? What sparked the meltdown?
Don’t one of you Ever get into any type of situation ever. You will be judged. Karma.
Shop or mall security shouldn’t be laying hands on a child, family services should have been called. Empathy, compassion and tolerance. Pick one people. You will also need those one day.
Lot of uneducated and mean people in this comment section. Most of you have no academic or professional background in mental health or child development. And, a severe lack of empathy, that's what is wrong with America. Especially towards children. She was a scared child. Shame on all of you.
She should just be left alone to keep smashing stuff if she hurt herself or other, oh well...
Load More Replies...No, she's a child. A child. We have NO context for this video, and you know absolutely nothing about this child or her life. Get hold of yourself.
Load More Replies...I don't give a hoot how "neurodivergent" this child is , a. the parent should be there and be forced to pay for all the damage caused b. the child should be taught how to behave in public, these kind of temper tantrums occur because they are enabled. c. Shop or mall security should have restrained this child with no fear of legal retaliation by enabler parent.
Thank you, Corwin 02, for saying what I was thinking. The adult with the child needs to handle this, not be off elsewhere in the store shopping. If the kid can't, or won't, be taught how to appropriately behave in public, then the kid needs to stay home with a babysitter or the other adult in the home.
Load More Replies...You do have to wonder where the parents were during all this, no way my child goes missing for 45 minutes in the store and I'm not running through there yelling their name.
Heck, my husband is running around looking for me after about 10 minutes. LMAO. I'm a short fat woman, but dang I'm fast and I can hide behind some things. LOL.
Load More Replies...Amazing how we now have all these labels to avoid calling a kid a spoiled brat.
I'm neurodivergent. Never once did I throw this level of tantrum as a kid, and if my parents thought I would, they didn't take me to the store. Not only should neurodivergence NOT be an excuse for bad behavior (its an explanation, and it makes the rest of us look bad), but if you're a parent of a neurodivergent kid, why the hell would you bring them to a place you KNOW will make them upset and unruly?
Where are the parents ? She seems all alone. Why nobody calls ? No matter if she is neurodivergent or neurotypical, a child should never be left alone in a supermarket no matter what ! And I would say even more if she is neurodivergent !
Reminds me of that condom commercial. https://youtu.be/4bfzQhs0Jyw?si=1bQkfZXwzndHVMgC
My absolute favourite commercial ever - I still show it to people.
Load More Replies...Grumble first, then I'll explain further why I feel the way I do... I am So Fed Up with people, adults, blaming their own really bad, even violent, behaviour upon having some sort of "mental health condition". Nope. You do NOT get a "free pass" because you either have self diagnosed or? You refuse to take your medications for your condition which then results in a dire situation for others who have had nothing to do with anything with you. I have my own personal experiences and reasons for saying that...... Okay, that said. So if her child is actually "neurodivergent"? Then she should be trying and her daughters school etc, everyone, should be trying to get help for her. Why? Because she's still a child and her condition can be managed, the sooner the better. There are treatments that can help her that do not involve d***s, medications. At this age she can start to learn about it and how to help herself manage her various moods etc. The parents themselves can also be helped to underst
Understand exactly what is happening and get support for themselves too. Leave the medications for the necessary resort. If she doesn't have any form of neurological or mental health issue? Then they need to find out the root of the problem, why this child is acting that way. Is she being abused in some way that noone knows about? Is she being bullied? There is something going on and the sooner she receives help? The better because this video will probably follow her into her adult life.
Load More Replies...“Where is the mother?” Sigh, yup cos it’s aaaaaaaaaalways the mothers who get all the responsibility and hence all the blame when something goes wrong. No one immediately goes to “Where’s the father?”
"Don't film her" says rational kind person... "let me spread the pictures everywhere" thinks BP...
I've experienced different endings of this kind of action - where people try to intervene physically. Sometimes it works for the better, usually for the worse. As long as the person isn't hurting themselves or others, let security handle it. It's just stuff. Once they become a danger to people, physical requires intervention.
Just a funny story which some people might be horrified by. I threw one tantrum total as a child. My mother picked me up, opened the door, threw me into a snowbank, and locked the door behind me. I remember being so shocked. Honestly I wasn't a child that had tantrums but I kind of learned it from the neighbors. Just to clarify it wasn't that cold out and she threw me out the back door. The front door wasn't locked. I had to run around the house to get back in. I never had a tantrum again.
why is an ND child unaccompanied is my biggest question. Followed by what kind of dickheads films a CHILD having a mental episode and puts that on the internet. I would be going after whoever posted a video of my child on the net without permission.
And going and do what? They didn't film throw a window in their home, is a public space there is no expectation of privacy
Load More Replies...Who said she was allowed to roam in the store alone? Who said her parents weren't there? Neurodivergnt kids and those with extreme autism are super sensitive to light and noise among other things. Ever see a severely autistic child have a meltdown? It isn't pretty and many many times there's not a whole lot the parent can do except go with it. Now that's not an excuse for what this girl did, but, she may have run off, gotten lost from her parent who I'm sure was looking for her, been super scared so the meltdown happened. These kids didn't sign on for these problems and parents have it very very hard dealing with them and it's not always about medicating them either. Guess the idea is just d**g them up so they're quiet and invisible. Additionally you people probably believe she should be hidden away and not come out in public. Now the damage was wrong and yes, parents should pay, but, until any of you have a child who's neurodivergnt or severely autistic, take a seat.
Something is not right here. That poor girl. She's obviously acting out for a reason. If your caregiver or parent is leaving you alone in a store for 45 minutes, that's a big clue that things are not well at home. I hope CPS is able to check on this girl. You can't get mad at kids for acting this way when they are living in traumatic circumstances.
You are just straight up lying in headlines now? What sparked the meltdown?
Don’t one of you Ever get into any type of situation ever. You will be judged. Karma.
Shop or mall security shouldn’t be laying hands on a child, family services should have been called. Empathy, compassion and tolerance. Pick one people. You will also need those one day.
Lot of uneducated and mean people in this comment section. Most of you have no academic or professional background in mental health or child development. And, a severe lack of empathy, that's what is wrong with America. Especially towards children. She was a scared child. Shame on all of you.
She should just be left alone to keep smashing stuff if she hurt herself or other, oh well...
Load More Replies...No, she's a child. A child. We have NO context for this video, and you know absolutely nothing about this child or her life. Get hold of yourself.
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