Sometimes in life, we meet people who talk a lot about doing the right thing but don’t always follow through. It’s difficult to take a person’s advice seriously when they aren’t true to their words and beliefs.

For instance, a woman shared details about her husband’s hypocrisy on Reddit. The author mentioned how her husband was keen on her converting to his religion. However, while she respects her husband’s faith, the author accuses him of not practicing what he preaches. Read on to discover more about her husband’s response and further details of their situation.

Religious faith is a personal choice that cannot be imposed on someone

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A woman sought advice online after her husband called her disrespectful for refusing to convert to his religion

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We shouldn’t criticize others for actions we ourselves engage in

As humans, we all tend to make mistakes. And at times, we may not fully live by our own moral code. Imagine you are someone who strongly believes in being punctual, as you don’t like to waste other people’s time. But, on this day, due to unforeseen circumstances, you run late for an important meeting despite your best efforts of trying to be on time.

Well, we have all been guilty of hypocrisy at one point or another. However, there are those people that never practice what they preach and that is not good. For example, you have a friend who always lectures you about eating healthy but every time you visit their house or meet them they are enjoying fast food or fried snacks.

Straight Talk Clinic points out in their blog, “At the root of hypocrisy is fear and low self-esteem. We use hypocrisy to avoid looking at our shortcomings and figuring out our part in them. It typically stems from a sincere belief that we should not be held to the same standards as others because we have better intentions. Our belief is juster, nobler, and sincerer.”

Such hypocritical behavior undermines your credibility both personally and professionally. When colleagues or leaders say one thing but end up doing something else it erodes trust within the team. This might lead to a toxic work environment where employees are suspicious of one another’s motives and behavior.

If your manager or boss disobeys the guidelines they have established, it can negatively impact organizational culture by promoting double standards. It may also cause conflicts within the workplace, thereby impeding attempts made towards establishing a supportive atmosphere.

The inconsistencies between what someone says and what they do lead to confusion and frustration. Moreover, hypocrisy can strain relationships and diminish respect, as people may feel betrayed or deceived. If you want to build a strong character, then your words should match your actions.

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We can consciously strive to avoid being hypocrites

To refrain from being hypocrites ourselves, it would be good if we assess our own moral code and whether it has any inconsistencies. You may have a look at your values, beliefs, and actions in order to discover where there is an incompatibility between what you say and do.

Imagine you often criticize people for being unproductive while occasionally slacking off yourself; then you can change this behavior intentionally. Just as you need to relax and recharge your batteries from time to time, others do as well. We should treat others with fairness and respect.

You can also ask your near and dear ones for feedback on your communication style. It would be useful to hear other people’s perspectives if you are willing to listen openly and implement the required changes. Finally, remember that overcoming hypocrisy is a lifelong process. Be ready for learning, self-improvement and growth.

In the case of the author, she felt that her husband was being a hypocrite because his religious beliefs did not correspond with his actions. She was hesitant to make a decision because she felt her husband was not being sincere. Who do you believe was right in this situation? How do you deal with hypocritical people? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below.

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The author shared further details about her own beliefs

Many applauded the author for standing up and felt the man wasn’t true to his religion

However, a few felt that the author was harshly judging her husband

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