At first I thought people were grossly overreacting, as my hubby and I joke around like this all the time. Then I read on. Yikes.

I cannot believe that in the 21st century there are still men that treat their wifes like that. I understand to be passionate about something, like sports. But your wife should be more important than them. And calling her 'woman'? What is she, an object with no name? Its also depressing that some women were taught to feel so inferior that they not only find this behaviour aceptable, but they even defend it...

I bring my husband things from the kitchen all the time while hes relaxing in his recliner...but he does the same for me! Every time one of us gets up, we offer something for the other. I could never imagine him calling me woman and demanding I leave him alone and then me saying "oops, I silpped". That is so barbaric! If she is happy then....ok, but she shouldn't really tweet that out as "advice".

Oh me..."I defended masculinity." No little girl...you defended the inexcusable. Then you went on to become the inexcusable. You attack a Gay man for what? Being Gay? Daring to criticize you? Daring to have an opinion different from your own? You took this from a silly debate and turned it into something very, very ugly. That's on you. So you were fired for being a bigot, not for standing up for what you label masculinity. BTW: Masculinity has NOTHING to do with sexual identity. REAL men treat women with respect and honor. Men-children treat men like your :man" treats you. If you want a man-child, that's your choice, but you have no right to attack someone else for making better choices.

Gross!

She found the one gay guy who commented and ignored ALL the other people saying this was wrong and decided to attack his life for daring to be concerned for her wellbeing... I have no more sympathy for her.

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My husband is masculine and would never treat me this appallingly. He would also speak up if he saw someone else (man or woman - straight or gay) treating their significant other like this.

"...her role as a woman..."???!!! That's sad.

I really, really hate when someone tries to talk to me when I'm watching something. Seems like common courtesy, and not really about gender. With that said, the rest of her post reads like an excerpt from a 1950's magazine article.

What makes this awkward, is that the husband clearly expects this kind of behaviour. As a role play it’s fine, but as a real situation? I feel sorry for her. There’s nothing masculine about a man who treats his wife like a sex/house slave. She is not defending masculinity, like she thinks she is.. she’s defending abuse. And the use of word ‘sad’ by her, I guess we all know where she got that from.

I guess my thought are this...it's her thing she like to be of service and that's her choice. I respect that she has a right to make that choice. The snag we hit is when her choice for her own relationship became a lesson on how others could and should behave, in her opinion. However she personally attacked another person for living the way he choses because he did not openly support her choice. That's when it got very ugly. Here's the lesson... if you don't want other people's opinion on your actions don't post about it on social media. Live and let live Your kink is not my kink and that's ok

Initial reaction was "what an a*****e hubby" ... but reading the story turned around (cabernet, cheese plate) sounded totally fine. So I guess it depends on the situation, the tone, the frequency ... sometimes I get my wife some drinks when she asks for it, sometimes she brings beer when she's coming from the kitchen. Respect on both sides.

I would never get between my wife and figure skating competitions or soccer games on TV. She knows better than to bother me when I'm watching cooking shows, nature or science documentaries or MMA fights. We both work 10 to 12 hours a day, on call 24/7 and we really need our own time and space where we can each just do our own thing and relax. The torrent of s**t I get if I bother my wife during her TV time is definitely more than a "Man, you know better than that."

I was kinda feeling for her until the 2nd half of the thread. *facepalm* other people's homosexuality has nothing to do with your low self-esteem.

"you see how f****d up this is?" Yes. Yes I do. I do see how f****d up you are, denise.

Whoa Denise, don't claim this as Christian values. I'm a Christian and that is not at all what the Bible says. Just as their is extreme Islamists, there are also extreme Christians that severely misinterpret and/or pick and chose things out of the Bible to fit their lifestyle without listening to the rest of it. God actually favors equality Btwn man and woman contrary to what the popular belief is about Christians. Denise, you're giving us a bad name!

I understand the whole "oh be quiet I'm watching something" and the "oh I want to respect my partner". But clearly if this was some playful joking it would be fine but he was rude and she literally responded with "I slipped up." Denise can do as she pleases, and she can continue to live her life with someone who addresses her disrespectfully. But she didn't have to attack the gay man, and make a bunch of unnecessary comments. Stupidity like this can prove fatal~

I can understand jokingly calling your wife "woman", but when you do it seriously, and your wife not only doesn't give you an earful but also publicly praises your attitude - that's messed up beyond imagination.

This post is disgusting. But, you should not expect someone to give full attention to your what you are saying while they are absorbed in something else. They shouldn't yell at you and you shouldn't skip off to get them a reward. If it is important, the game gets turned off.

and then she has the pride (which, if you're going to defend yourself with religion, don't pick and choose your sin, people!) to believe she needs to show other women how to behave in a relationship by posting how wonderful she is on line! "Role as a woman" indeed. Even my great grandmother would've slapped some sense into her.

It seems her husband train her really really well.. he must be so proud..

I smell a rat. My guess is that she might actually be a he, looking for clicks and counting how many folks they can rile up. Big surprise that they are pissed that a gay man DARED to comment. I call BS on the whole sad fairy tale.

I literally feel like Im reading a clip from a newspaper from like 1890..If thats the way you wanna "live" cool on you...but did you not realize the entire globe was gonna descend upon you like the woke people they are..Your stupid. Sorry simple fact.

I remember this happening in real time and watch as she fell harder and harder down that rabbit hole. It was so beautiful to watch. She just lost her freaking mind when she found out she got fired and went into a MASSIVE rant about all of this and people were egging her on. I also find out about these things after the fact and have to catch up and piece together what happened, but this time; I got to watch it in real time and I love it!

I honestly thought she was joking, because my fiancé and I joke around similarly. Then I kept reading and now I feel so sad for her. She actually believes in the hatred she is spreading! Denise , you should sit down calmly and realize that the year is 2019 and few people share the hatred you so desperately cling to. Women are strong and empowered, Denise. People all around the world are finally free to be openly gay, proud, and happy with who they are, Denise. It's perfectly fine to be happy to have found someone who shares your sub/dom kink, but that is not how the whole world lives. We are all happy that you found someone to treat you the way you want to be treated, but that's your life and your way. Be happy in your life, and happy to see the joy others have. There is no reason for you to hate.

Why the f**k does it matter if the guy is gay? If he has a different opinion he has the right to say it. Why can't we all talk about relationships? I don't really see a big difference in homosexual and heteraosexual realationships. You are in love with a human. That's it. Oh and there is no god, so get the f**k out with "gods rolemodels". That is b******t. And she never defended "manhood". Cause watching sport on tv is something I don't like. That doesn't make me less manly. If you think this way, go f**k yourself.

Whoa lady, attacking a gay person. That just goes too far. He was worried about you. Grow up.

This isn't a woman being submissive, or kinky, she's been raised to believe that women are inferior to men, and must cater to their every command without question, or she'll get yelled at. It wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if he's physically abusive, too, and she brushes it off with "He's the man, so he has every right to belittle me/slap me around", and he probably gets off on the power trip. Defending him, then attacking someone else's sexuality is wrong, and she deserves to lose her job/s, but she needs to be shown that what her husband does is far worse, and there's a long line of people who want to teach his abusive a*s a lesson.

This is a lesson to myself, I was going to just leave a comment saying something along the lines of it was probably a joke and people need to light up but you read on and this woman is serious which makes you wonder what the hell is going through her head, and the random Homophobia reprehensible.

I have see cases of men getting call "dude" "mister" and did being called "kid" "young man" and no one bats an eye, call a women "women" and everyone lost their minds. Serious, if this is how their relationship work, who are we to brag in and force our views into somebody life until it makes her lost her temper and lash back only to have herself fired from her job? Seriously?

A lot of communication is in body language and tone of voice, not just in words. While this reads kind of yucky, if he was joking and being affectionate and they both enjoyed the interchange, I don't see a big problem. Some couples have running jokes that sound weird to outsiders. I guess the test is whether she gets to talk to him the same way. And he did take time off the game to kiss her. The homophobic slurs are just trash.

If this is truly her mindset, then she should know that her role is to be silent and submissive to any man (including gay ones) as her ideology says that a man is above her. (Ex: "women are to be silent")

Btw, if you didn't know, this is the same woman that got roasted by Meghan McCain. The "I invited you to my wedding Denise" was towards this lady.

It would be cheaper to hire some help than having to train her

Nothing wrong with Denise. Except gay stuff but who cares anyway, right?

Brainwashed bat sh!t cray cray "Christian" woman feels personally attacked by liberal gay man.......shock.

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Everybody needs to calm down. You're all banished to time-outs until you can a) play nicely b) be polite c) get off your high horses and your soapboxes. Just stop, all of you. ALL of you. Enough. There are far more important things in the world than this.

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Feminism at it's finest. I'm a woman DON'T CALL ME A WOMAN! This is when u overreact for something so small. As we say in my country making from the fly an elephant.

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Is everybody mad because "he was training her"? Because she said "let this be a lesson"? Because he said "woman"? You do know he could have used her FULL NAME with the same tone, right? Just like y'alls MOTHERS did when you were little and had f****d up, right? (SMDH-I never thought I would use the phrase 'triggered snowflake', but here I am...)