“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick
The purpose of marriage is companionship, mutual help and comfort. Your spouse in theory should be your best friend who will always support you or tell you the truth when you are doing the wrong thing. They will be with you and rejoice with you when you are successful and will help to drag you out of a dump.
The perfect example of a married couple being there for each other is a story Reddit user beepbeepboopbooopp posted in the subreddit True Off My Chest. Turns out, he got sick during a very important time at work. His wife who is in a similar field took initiative and filled in for her husband so that his work team wouldn’t suffer and her husband could rest.
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Being supportive is what marriage is all about and this couple helping each other with their work understand that perfectly
Image credits: Blake Patterson (not the actual photo)
The Original Poster (OP) and his wife are both software engineers and the only difference is that the man is a full stack developer while the woman is a front-end developer. Although their specialties are different, OP’s wife knows almost everything that her husband does.
She will actually help him out when he is working with long lines of code that are a tedious task to debug. The husband will give back the favor in return whenever he can. Such collaboration is possible since they both work from home.
However, one time, the wife stepped in big time. At the time of writing the story, the OP was sick with a nasty cold and he really didn’t want to take a day off work as his team was being pressured to finish their project as soon as possible, so he wanted to be there for them.
When he told his wife about this, the man wasn’t expecting anything, but the woman ordered her husband to take a rest to get better sooner and she would handle the project. Her job is not as demanding and time-restricted, so the woman had more free time, and this time, she decided to use to take one for the team.
The author of the story, who is the husband, is a full stack developer and his wife is a front-end developer so they both are software engineers
Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp
OP’s wife locked herself in the office and worked on the project that her husband was supposed to. She also made up a lie about the man having lost his voice to avoid talking on the voice call, which didn’t raise suspicion for anybody.
The husband now is taking his rest for his body to heal and is planning to do the same favor for his wife if she ever needs it, because he was so grateful to have someone who would do such a thing for him.
In the comments, the husband added that he talked with his wife more about this situation and they both agreed that it can’t become a regular thing and they wouldn’t do it if it was really a serious matter, because they heard stories of people getting caught and punished for it.
The jobs both of them have are too precious to lose or to break the trust with their teams and bosses. The OP said that some of the people at his job are his best friends, his pay is excellent and on top of that, he doesn’t need to go to an office, so he would have felt guilty for not helping out with the urgent project because of a cold.
Since they started working from home, they would help each other out when one of them is stuck with a complicated task
Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp
Aside from the people who warned the OP to be careful to not be caught or make such job exchanges a habit, others found the story wholesome and were in love with his wife. They felt the spouses are true companions and expressed their envy for such a relationship.
While it seems that the OP and his wife are sensible people and won’t be pulling scams, working from home facilitated that, as there is a lot less control and surveillance. One of the ways employees have taken advantage of it is working more than one remote job at a time.
One day the husband got a really nasty cold right at the time when his team was on a time crunch to end a project, so he really didn’t want to let them down
Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp
The Wall Street Journal says that “The approach doesn’t violate federal or state laws, according to employment lawyers, but it could represent a breach of contract or raise issues around confidentiality. And it could certainly result in an employee’s termination.“
They also spoke with such double employees and found out that they earn between $200,000 to nearly $600,000 a year, including bonuses and stock, but their work week doesn’t even last 40 hours. Those people managed to decrease their student loans or could put aside more money for their children’s college funds and had money to spare for something fun.
The way it works is that people don’t seek to be the best, but do enough to keep the job and can reap the rewards. They will start declining meetings and may take a vacation from one job to tackle the other’s project of the year.
When his wife found out, she offered to work instead of him as she had free time and her husband needed to rest to get his health back quicker
Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp
There is actually a whole website and community dedicated to people who are interested in working two remote jobs, Overemployed. They agree that this scheme has its own risks, but the worst thing that could happen is that you get caught and fired: “Ok, so you get fired and need to look for another job. Oh wait, you’re already a pro at landing remote jobs!”
However, there are a few nuances and the biggest one is that you have to lower your expectations and effort for each job. “You’ll need to accept average-to-above average performance in one job (the one you consider your primary job) and mediocre-to-subpar performance in the other job. Over the long term, this may have implications for your career and professional network.”
They still believe that to be a superstar, you have to focus on one job, but “if you don’t care about a potentially unhappy boss or workplace politics, then this path is for you – a double income and early financial freedom.”
This way the husband’s team that he cared about a lot didn’t suffer, he was able to rest and was once again proven right about what an amazing wife he has
Image credits: Michael Coghlan (not the actual photo)
Do you feel you could pull off two jobs at one time? Would you say that honest work brings the best results? Also, how do you feel about the couple in the story? Do you think the wife’s actions are moral? Leave us your reactions in the comments!
While some people warned the couple not to make this a habit, others felt their hearts melting from the wholesomeness
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What I love the most is the "we are of different faith" comment. No detail shifting the topic focus, simply a factual statement.
Same I am of the faith that latched onto Christmas and I still loved it
Load More Replies...This sounds like another one of those stories that are told like they're meant to be wholesome, but they're actually dystopic as hell.
I think people confuse dystopia with modernity way too often. It’s modern and not dystopic at all.
Load More Replies...In other words “company is so s****y to work for you can’t just take time off and have to get your wife to cover”.
We don't know if the company is s****y, he didn't even ask for time off
Load More Replies...Good way to get fired and a possible lawsuit depending on who you work for and your contract.
This was an episode of Rocko's Modern Life. Mr. Bghead got sick so Mrs. Bighead dressed up the neighbors to impersonate him and do a presentation that She made. It was a success. When the company found out it was Her not Him they gave her a big promotion, a raise, and anything she asked for. A feel good story from 1994
Wasn't the name of the company Conglom-O or something? I know it was just a super bureaucratic drone zone of an office.
Load More Replies...His boss didn't know so he didn't tell him to work "sick or not". The man chose to work to help his team because he is a good team member and a deadline was looming. His wife, really did him one of the best solid's anyone could ever do for someone you love! The fact that he was really sick and she knew his work and what to do, is wonderful. You do not always have a spouse in the same field as you, or that you both work from home! I would say their relationship, work wise and marriage wise is about the best I've heard about and their excellent communication and caring made this all possible! Bangggggg! MIC drop done!!!!
Americans: "Aww, so sweet!" The rest of the world: "WTF, this is messed up"
Load More Replies...I remember doing this for my spouse. His cousin was going through a rough patch with her partner. She had it bad, drank her sarrows my spouse comforted her and stayed up all night, was not able to go into work. i had told him to stay home, get some rest and I would tell our employer he was "not feeling well" she had excused him for the day. Went home as if nothing happened.
Very heartwarming but you can be fired for this if your company finds out someone not employed by them is doing your work for you. Take a sick day if you need one!
How would they know? Even if they called and she answered, or video calls, she lives there and it's not like she's going to tell them. There's zero way they would know what took place in his home
Load More Replies...That's so sweet! I remember when I was forced to work with a VERY HIGH fever in a place that makes pizza!!! I told them I was sick, but no. Even tho I was a high schooler at the time and only ever taken 1 sick day in the yr+ I had worked there at the time "You're the only in-store employee we have so you must come in today." Was what I got in return. When I went to work, my fever was just above 99. 45 mins later, however, my fever has skyrocketed!!! And I wasn't even working with the food! I was waving a sign outside in a costume! It was almost 100 outside too! Did not help things!!! I went in and almost passed out. I told my boss (my manager, not district manager) "Either I leave now, or I quit!" They let me go home. My mom sent the district manager (The one who demanded that I woke that day despite the manager saying otherwise) a picture of me in bed and the thermometer showing 103.4! I was told to take the next day off. I WASNT EVEN SCHEDULED TO WORK THE NEXT DAY!
Added note, the next year the same DM tried to demand that I come in on my day off, ON A DAY WHEN I WAS HOME ALONE SLEEPING ON MY BATHROOM FLOOR ON MY 2ND DAY OF SWINE FLUE! IT LASTED 4 DAYS!
Load More Replies...My husband and I work for the same company and help eachother all the time - idk what yalls spouses are like take you so bitter and pissy about this, but yikes for yall
That's really kind of her considering what state her husband was in, considering she knew his job like she did it herself. As long as they have an understanding, I think that is okay. It depends on the work and what people agree on. I hope he doesn't get in trouble but she's to be appreciated.
Here’s a not funny thing- my partner’s ex, kids, bros, etc are convinced I’m evil and have spent 10 yrs persuading him I am. My judgement concerning his decisions (house sales, kids private "school", car purchases before we were together), and on and on are spot on but he now won’t listen. I’m not an expert but I pay attention… now he doesn’t listen to me. All you folks raving about wanting a woman like this guy’s wife- I lay odds that respect for each other is at the foundation of their relationship. If you’re with someone you don’t respect or doesn’t respect you maybe ask yourself why. It doesn’t mean we have to know how to do each other’s job but treat each other as if they’re at least that skilled.
My husband has been sick with either the flu or strep all week. I can't do his work, but as as he mentioned a site throat I put chicken in a brine and the next day I made him a brothy chicken soup. He has asthma and I'm very concerned when he's congested and feverish. He's starting to feel better today and he keeps telling me how sweet it was that I jumped right in and made him soup. Lots of hugs today. I feel like a champ 😊
Yes and no. She did act as president for him, but didnt pretend to be him and decieve the cabinet and Congress (coworkers) to do so.
Load More Replies...My fear for them is the amount of detail in the story is such that anyone in his company could easily narrow it down and figure out it was him! (He's this type of software engineer, she's that type. They both work from home. He's an hour and a half away from the job. He's doing this important project and loses his voice so he can't jump on the phone call. Heck, I could probably figure out who they are! LOL)
Nope. Legal issues waiting to come crashing down. Someone will find out and squeal. Then you get fired or nobody at work will trust you ever again. Not worth it.
Yeah I agree how dystopic The story is. At first when I read the title I kind of thought it was going to be wholesome and that's a welcome change to me because I feel like I see more and more negative stories on board Panda recently but the more I read the story the more I realized how messed up it was.
So many hateful things in the world and you complain about something even semi wholesome? You know having something even slightly good is needed to balance the bad and drama, right?
Load More Replies...What I love the most is the "we are of different faith" comment. No detail shifting the topic focus, simply a factual statement.
Same I am of the faith that latched onto Christmas and I still loved it
Load More Replies...This sounds like another one of those stories that are told like they're meant to be wholesome, but they're actually dystopic as hell.
I think people confuse dystopia with modernity way too often. It’s modern and not dystopic at all.
Load More Replies...In other words “company is so s****y to work for you can’t just take time off and have to get your wife to cover”.
We don't know if the company is s****y, he didn't even ask for time off
Load More Replies...Good way to get fired and a possible lawsuit depending on who you work for and your contract.
This was an episode of Rocko's Modern Life. Mr. Bghead got sick so Mrs. Bighead dressed up the neighbors to impersonate him and do a presentation that She made. It was a success. When the company found out it was Her not Him they gave her a big promotion, a raise, and anything she asked for. A feel good story from 1994
Wasn't the name of the company Conglom-O or something? I know it was just a super bureaucratic drone zone of an office.
Load More Replies...His boss didn't know so he didn't tell him to work "sick or not". The man chose to work to help his team because he is a good team member and a deadline was looming. His wife, really did him one of the best solid's anyone could ever do for someone you love! The fact that he was really sick and she knew his work and what to do, is wonderful. You do not always have a spouse in the same field as you, or that you both work from home! I would say their relationship, work wise and marriage wise is about the best I've heard about and their excellent communication and caring made this all possible! Bangggggg! MIC drop done!!!!
Americans: "Aww, so sweet!" The rest of the world: "WTF, this is messed up"
Load More Replies...I remember doing this for my spouse. His cousin was going through a rough patch with her partner. She had it bad, drank her sarrows my spouse comforted her and stayed up all night, was not able to go into work. i had told him to stay home, get some rest and I would tell our employer he was "not feeling well" she had excused him for the day. Went home as if nothing happened.
Very heartwarming but you can be fired for this if your company finds out someone not employed by them is doing your work for you. Take a sick day if you need one!
How would they know? Even if they called and she answered, or video calls, she lives there and it's not like she's going to tell them. There's zero way they would know what took place in his home
Load More Replies...That's so sweet! I remember when I was forced to work with a VERY HIGH fever in a place that makes pizza!!! I told them I was sick, but no. Even tho I was a high schooler at the time and only ever taken 1 sick day in the yr+ I had worked there at the time "You're the only in-store employee we have so you must come in today." Was what I got in return. When I went to work, my fever was just above 99. 45 mins later, however, my fever has skyrocketed!!! And I wasn't even working with the food! I was waving a sign outside in a costume! It was almost 100 outside too! Did not help things!!! I went in and almost passed out. I told my boss (my manager, not district manager) "Either I leave now, or I quit!" They let me go home. My mom sent the district manager (The one who demanded that I woke that day despite the manager saying otherwise) a picture of me in bed and the thermometer showing 103.4! I was told to take the next day off. I WASNT EVEN SCHEDULED TO WORK THE NEXT DAY!
Added note, the next year the same DM tried to demand that I come in on my day off, ON A DAY WHEN I WAS HOME ALONE SLEEPING ON MY BATHROOM FLOOR ON MY 2ND DAY OF SWINE FLUE! IT LASTED 4 DAYS!
Load More Replies...My husband and I work for the same company and help eachother all the time - idk what yalls spouses are like take you so bitter and pissy about this, but yikes for yall
That's really kind of her considering what state her husband was in, considering she knew his job like she did it herself. As long as they have an understanding, I think that is okay. It depends on the work and what people agree on. I hope he doesn't get in trouble but she's to be appreciated.
Here’s a not funny thing- my partner’s ex, kids, bros, etc are convinced I’m evil and have spent 10 yrs persuading him I am. My judgement concerning his decisions (house sales, kids private "school", car purchases before we were together), and on and on are spot on but he now won’t listen. I’m not an expert but I pay attention… now he doesn’t listen to me. All you folks raving about wanting a woman like this guy’s wife- I lay odds that respect for each other is at the foundation of their relationship. If you’re with someone you don’t respect or doesn’t respect you maybe ask yourself why. It doesn’t mean we have to know how to do each other’s job but treat each other as if they’re at least that skilled.
My husband has been sick with either the flu or strep all week. I can't do his work, but as as he mentioned a site throat I put chicken in a brine and the next day I made him a brothy chicken soup. He has asthma and I'm very concerned when he's congested and feverish. He's starting to feel better today and he keeps telling me how sweet it was that I jumped right in and made him soup. Lots of hugs today. I feel like a champ 😊
Yes and no. She did act as president for him, but didnt pretend to be him and decieve the cabinet and Congress (coworkers) to do so.
Load More Replies...My fear for them is the amount of detail in the story is such that anyone in his company could easily narrow it down and figure out it was him! (He's this type of software engineer, she's that type. They both work from home. He's an hour and a half away from the job. He's doing this important project and loses his voice so he can't jump on the phone call. Heck, I could probably figure out who they are! LOL)
Nope. Legal issues waiting to come crashing down. Someone will find out and squeal. Then you get fired or nobody at work will trust you ever again. Not worth it.
Yeah I agree how dystopic The story is. At first when I read the title I kind of thought it was going to be wholesome and that's a welcome change to me because I feel like I see more and more negative stories on board Panda recently but the more I read the story the more I realized how messed up it was.
So many hateful things in the world and you complain about something even semi wholesome? You know having something even slightly good is needed to balance the bad and drama, right?
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