Being married means you love your partner, as well. If she's not interested in the whole "through thick and thin, richer and poorer, sickness and in health" kind of "hangup" that comes with that, then maybe she shouldn't have signed up for it.

Excuses for a selfish person who is also lazy as sh*t.

Rose, I hope you are never in a relationship where your partner plays on their phone because to help you out would “break your agreement” and because in your panic you didn’t request nicely enough.

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Paul, I hope you're a big enough boy to wake up for work on time and figure your own meals out. This garbage is why men need women.

One lunch is not why men need women. This is how ridiculous this has gotten.

"Oh wah, she didn't help one time" "Oh wah, he wanted to cross her boundaries so he is toxic." The real assholes are the people trying to make it a 'men need women' or a 'women need to step up' thing. She is the a*****e, she didn't need to even put in effort, literally just toss bread and cheese into a box with an orange and a bag of chips. It's called respect. She only works part time, she isn't even getting ready for work. She was a petty b***h for it. He is an overreacting turd with how upset he is over this minor dispute. Don't beat around the bush

I don't think he's overreacting, it's because it's such a minor thing it makes it all the more significant, because she wouldn't go out of her way to do something so simple and minor for him because of her boundaries.

Pretty sure it's also sexist...

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You don't EVER cross a boundary with a hard limit. He knew it would upset her . That upset is for hours, mental memories.. not just while making lunch. He demanded,she denied.. he had other options.. no one suffered..

Lmao! A hard limit boundary about lunch. Ridiculous!

OMG, I need a safe space or a crying room! Ah, he had the nerve to ask me to make him lunch, oh my God this is 2022, yas queen tell him off! Women like you are the reason our country is heading to being China's b!tch. But you know what women become in every war, commodities! So there are some pluses, lol!

A question you can't say no to is just a prettied up demand. What's the point of partnering up if your partner expects you to let them cross boundaries when they create problems for themselves?

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“Just this once” is a lie. Guarantee it would be precedent. Maybe eating from the vending machines this time will help him do better in future.

Ah, but Janet N's "guarantee" MUST be 100%, as she's...either the wife in this scenario, or the marriage counselor. Otherwise I can't understand what is backing that "guarantee".

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Listen, Klara sounds lit and I agree with her. You could never handle a woman like me,I'll tell you that right now Paul. If I'm late to work for whatever reason and my husband's sleeping in bed on his day off, I'm not going to demand that he wakes up and goes and turn the car on for me when it's snowing outside and it's f****** freezing. Nope, I'm gonna go out in the two feet of snow, shovel my little parking space And scrape the ice off my car and go to work late and not expect no one to do nothing for me. He's not struggling, he's being annoying and demanding. And yea, maybe she should just go down there and make love to him in the shower and say, you're never late so it will be ok let's just connect and then eat breakfast real quick and I'll help you make your little sandwich but she probably won't because he just leaves her alone at night while he stays up late and watches TV

Wow... You're really reading a lot into this. I bet the kids love you at storytime! 🤣

Demanding your wife to make lunch for you because you overslept is not the same as calling AA for a flat tire, grow the hell up. What, is he paying for her to cook for him? Doubt it. I hope she leaves him.

Learn to read, he did not demand, he even said please. No one agrees with this because if you rather be on your phone then help your partner, you need to grow up. I am sorry but thank god my women helps me and I help her too, thats a relationship. If you want to be single miss independent then don't find love.

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He said I need you to make me a sandwich. No words that any woman with any self respect is going to take seriously.

If you knew a big dog in the house would remind your partner of the time he got stitched in chest cause of a mailing, you would not bring a big dog in to sit on couch with him. Not when it could sit in garage. And not upset him. This is her on couch, the dog is the lunch.. the garage is he had other means to get food

To Jessica Nina Krush and Rose Thorns, you both sound like petty a*s birches and some serious dykes who just hate men.

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Please, I can change a tire so freaking quick. By the time I call my husband and wait for him to get there I could have already done did it , drove down to discount tires the next day with my little donut on and got a new tire because I'm smart enough to buy the warranty. With my own money that I earned by the way. I've bailed my husband out $10,000 of credit card bill debt and didn't get petty one time. Okay? He needed assistance and it affected our finances also. Yeah I'm going to give you $10,000 when you screw up. But no I'm not going to wake up and make you a godda* sandwich. That's the god honest truth.

Yeah, I'm sure you can change your own tire. Lol, tire lugs are put on so tight that it's even hard for me to break the nut but you do it no problem. And your pic looks like you are a hundred pounds soaking wet. And it sounds like you resent your husband. Lol

Yeah Klara, maybe thats why youre single. Marriage is give and take. Sometimes you have to be the reed instead of the rod and bend a little. He knows thats a issue for her and normally makes his own lunch, but he needed a hand that day and it wouldnt have killed her to put down her frigging phone and help him out. Women are just ridiculous at times and then wonder why they are alone.

It's getting really common among woman to act like this. They have mistaken helping someone as serving them. Sad this next generation.

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Everyone is ridiculous at times. The ones that are alone and the ones that are not. I'd rather be alone without someone asking me to make a sandwich. I'm never lonely when I'm alone anyways.

I know right? So only men take things for granted? As a women, I can definitely confirm that women definitely take advantage, take for granted and out right abuse the kindness of their partners. Everyone is capable of doing so regardless of gender

I wonder who's paying most of the bills....

I don't mean to make that assumption but...he IS the one that works full time...

Don't you know that women can never take things for granted only men do such things. This is what I hate about society now a days. More and more people can't be bothered to do the bare minimum for one another and just eat the cost. Selfish is okay but not when others are suffering. I understand that everyone wants to worry about themselves first but it is because of that, that nobody stays together for very long. People can't have true friendships and people are ending up more and more alone. While they complain about others not doing more.

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I've dated a lot of men sir. I've also dated a lot of women. And guess what? Most of them did take a lot of things for granted, just like I did. My husband wants to work full time because he loves his job. At the moment I'm pregnant and I'm not working full-time and guess what ? I still wouldn't make him a sandwich in this circumstance.

Get over yourself, Rob.

I think her husband is working full time to be away from her. Klara might normally be a fairly pleasant person but the pregnancy hormones seem to have taken over...