Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Have Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Gender? (Closed)

What is something you have always wanted to ask the oppostite gender?

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Gentlemen, how often do you *really* think about the Roman empire?

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Nick (He/Him) 1 year ago

Never? I need more context PLEASE

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Why do you guys pee while standing? Its more mess, less convinent, so why? If you can sit and poo, why not just sit and pee?

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Minnie Not Mouse

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago (edited)

If there's a normal toilet AND some a*****e hasn't peed on the seat AND it is not a public toilet (e.g. a friend's house, family member house, etc) I always sit to pee. It makes less mess. However, if it's a public toilet, the risk of contacting a pee puddle or a poop smear or some other grossness doesn't make it worthwhile. ALSO, probably TMI, but the thing on the front often touches the porcelain which grosses me out.

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How do y'all just decide how to greet each other? Like the thing where you grab hands and pat each other on the back-it seems to just be an instinct.

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QueerAxolotls

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Easy. Business acquaintance that you want to get money out of : handshake. Business acquaintance that you barely know and don't give a rats about, nod. Buddy/friend : two hand handshake, high five, or hug. Also, the hug must have two pats to indicate how long it lasts. More than two pats is gay. <- humour

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what is it like having to deal with so called "alphas"

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ForThePeople he/him

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Nick (He/Him) 1 year ago

Alphas are normally the most "beta" people you will ever meet. Best to ignore them.

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What do you (non-women) think is the best and worst part about being a woman

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Mis Stake she/her 🇫🇮🇬🇧

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Tiramisu 1 year ago

Honestly, the periods. I don't think I could handle a portion of that pain, and here we have girls and women who put up the s**t of daily life while dealing with that.

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I am a girl. I know this gay sixth grader who doesn't want to be in the boy's locker room because he is uncomfortable and is now in the girl's locker room during P.E. I don't feel comfortable at all that a boy is in a GIRL's locker room. So, I ask the males here if it is okay to have a gay sixth grader in your locker room. Like, for real, I don't feel safe when a male is in a female locker room just because they are gay and don't feel comfortable around boys.

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Bye! Pancake_Pansexual_Panda_

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Nick (He/Him) 1 year ago

As a guy, I do not care if gay guys change in the same room as me.

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People with genders, what is a gender? Please, I don’t understand, I must know.

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Pigeon (they/them)

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Karl 1 year ago

Unless I’m actively seeking a sexual relationship with someone, it doesn’t enter my head. Not my business and I’m puzzled why some people are so keen to tell me when it’s entirely irrelevant to our interaction. It’s not like I go to the grocer’s shop and say “Morning! 2 lb of oranges please and I’m heterosexual” 🙂

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I would like my son to be more confident with the girls. I don't want him to act like an alpha or pretend he's somebody he's not. Just to feel accepted when he tries to be his best self, because it never worked for me. What should I teach him?

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Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago

To be nice to EVERYONE nd you will find yourself with friends and don't worry about popularity. Just find a few friends you have things in common with and you will enjoy high school

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For my friend she says: what happens in the boys locker room or gym room that most girls will probably not want to know

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Luna

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Ian Shaw 1 year ago

Well, if you're not familiar with the male form, then you're not going to want to contemplate our changing of clothes or showering. In my experience, the towel fights and such you see on TV are as much a myth that girls' sleepovers always include pillow fights.

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I don't wear make up myself, but do men actually like when women wear make up???

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Xander Man 1 year ago

Makeup done right, yes. Overdone makeup, NO no NO. I don't want your make up to rub off on me when we hug. But a girl without makeup in the morning... ooofh dead gorgeous 😘

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Women, why you you need to go to the bathroom with a friend when in a social setting?

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ThatBlackNightingale 1 year ago

Bc I'm scared to go alone idk why it's just how it is. Nice to have someone to talk to but it could also be cuz I'm an introvert. And Ginny Weasley almost died in the bathroom so yk....

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Of the ( very ) few women who's bras I have ever removed, only one ever wore a front hook type. As someone who really struggles to scratch itches in the middle of my back, it seems like this would be more convenient, but the vast majority of bras on the market hook in the back. Is there a really significant reason for this, or is it just "tradition"?

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Khavrinen

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Auntriarch 1 year ago (edited)

Bras have two or three "settings" in their hooks, this is useful for fat days, for when the bra starts to get old and stretched, and also means that the manufacturer doesn't have to make bras with back sizes one centimetre difference, they can make one size that can accommodate three centimetres difference. If you had multiple hooks at the front, it wouldn't work. It's not difficult to do them up at the back, and many people do them up at the front at waist level then turn them round to the back and raise them to chesties height, then wriggle arms into the straps

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1: do you guys actually like beards or is it just something you think is cool

2: is your life sad

3?

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Luna

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Nick (He/Him) 1 year ago

I think beards are similar to how women style their hair.

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I'm a female so males how do you guys put up with each other every day? im a middle schooler and i cant put up with the guys who are even my friends

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Apatheist Account2 1 year ago

It's not about gender - it's about people and who they are. Some I like, some I can't stand, and that goes for males, females, gender, trans, whatever - one just clicks with some and not others. Partly it's to do with common interest - and in the UK, sport's a pretty common ground. Depending on age and situation, discussing girls too...

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Women, I have sOOOOOooooo many questions.

1. Do you accept "trans" women as women, or do you think, "nah"? Can you tell? Have you ever met a trans person? (I have, three times, it's pretty rare in Africa.).

2. Do you find men confusing? If so, happy to explain why we aren't. (Really: we want to do our hobby, have food, sex, and short convos on non-emotion topics. We are primitive). Phrases like "do you think you should" are red capes to bulls. Never ever use that phrase. It implies incompetence.

3. Do you really like marriage and housemaking or is it just a western trope? ("lived happily ever after")

4. On a scale of 1-10 , please rate the following features in a partner: (a) looks, (b) money, (c) humour, (d) "spiritual connection", (e) intelligence, (f) ability to hold a conversation (g) great family (h) car/house quality (i) hobby compatibility? Men mostly believe money (b) is the key to finding a mate. I believe (c), (d), (f) are the most important? Am I right?

5. Do you actually like sex or is it meh? Like, if you have to choose something to do, like say watch a romcom, have a great meal, or have sex, which is top priority? Men are under the impression y'all don't care much for it and that food is top priority.

6. Is it a stereotype or do you really hate action films? Eg. I find James Bond to be barbarically patriarchal and s**t. Do you agree? However, it is true that men despise romcoms. They are awful and predictable.

7. Is it a stereotype or do you really not "get" computer games? I know several exceptions, I'm asking for GENERAL opinions (statistical majorities).

8. If a guy is bi does this make him extremely unattractive or are you ok with it? My impression is women talk left and date right.

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VonBlade 1 year ago

This person does not speak for my set of chromosones.

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A guy I dated told me that a soft "ball tap" could sometimes be more painful than being hit in the balls. Do you find that to be true?

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Wintermute 1 year ago

Yep. Can't explain why. Probably a nerve thing. Who knows?

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Guys...what are good/cute nicknames for ya'll?

Girls get called sweetie and princess and queen, but I can't think of many that work for guys. Especially if they aren't your boyfriend or husband, but they are still your bestie or crush.

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Lil Miss Hobbit

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Rosemary Booth 1 year ago

I gave my husband the choice of Cupcake or Porkchop as a nickname. He chose Porkchop. Lol! Of course I was kidding though, we're not the cutesy nickname kind of people.

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What's the biggest stereotype you deal with for your gender? (Ik this was for the opposite gender but I feel like everyone can answer this.)

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ThatBlackNightingale

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Bisexual Axolotls 1 year ago

That girls/women are catty with each other, or on the opposite end, that there's a "sisterhood". There are bad and good women. It's not an all or nothing situation.

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For the guys, what do you think abt makeup?

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Alexolotl! She/her

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just.a.loser 1 year ago

it can be cool but most of us dont care, we 100% make fun of oversized lashes though

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A guy here,

what's it like to have boobs?

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BookFanatic 1 year ago

Annoying, mostly. Squishy bags of flesh that get in the way of stuff.

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To people with peens - do you ever actually helicopter it or is that an urban myth?

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The Doom Song 1 year ago

Most of the time, it's us girls that want to see it coz we think it's funny.

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Why do guys often spend so long in showers? Women often get the rap but I've known a lot of guys who take 15m plus to shower. I've got an idea and I suspect it has a similar answer to why it takes guys so long to have a c**p...

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RaisedByCats

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Ari Maranichi 1 year ago

What's wrong with a long shower? Also not only men do it I do it as well and it is SO relaxing. Sometimes you just need to let the inner kid out and make potions while pretending you are a water-bender

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Guy here.

Is it true for ladies that matching underwear is hard to find?

Just out of curiosity because most times I see them sold in pairs (top and bottom) but I've heard complains within earshot that even those don't pair well with what they have (or something similar).

Is there something I'm missing out because as far as I know, those aren't supposed to be seen by anyone else unless intended to?

Just a thought, peace.

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WhiteClawOfDeath 1 year ago

I like matching sets, but it can get expensive and it's hard to manage the laundry logistics of things.

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why are women more comfortable expressing their emotions and such?

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

Not all women are comfortable expressing their emotions because they've been taught to act like "little ladies" all their life and to remain "pleasant" in society. The ones who do just don't give a damn. They're past caring what others think.

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Ladies, why do many women blatantly show cleavage yet complain when us guys keeping looking at it? Boobs are eye magnets for us.

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Bisexual Axolotls 1 year ago

My best guess? They think it looks good. Women dress for themselves and the people they want to impress, not random people. It's not their responsibility to cover up, it's yours to not stare.

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What do you think ?

DB 1 year ago

Good topic with some great posts. Somehow it managed to slip past they usual cast of BP haters. Good for you.

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Carol LeMay 1 year ago

I always felt that I earned men's respect and that it wasn't automatically given to me because of my gender.

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Anonymous Panda She/Her/Hers 1 year ago

As a woman your mindset is making me uncomfortable. Acting like your children owe you respect just because you chose to bring them into this world is incredibly selfish and acting like some random stranger owes you respect? Ha! Respect is earned through positive interactions and takes time to build up. Be a good person and good anyone worth your time will respect you. Don't bother with A-holes.

Miaow Minx 1 year ago

Just because another woman gave life to a man doesn't mean he automatically owes all of us respect, or that he even owes her respect if she was seriously abusive or neglectful.

Lemon 1 year ago

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Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Have Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Gender? (Closed)

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