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30 People Share Wedding Horror Stories Where The Couple Didn’t Last Long Or Didn’t Get Married At All
It’s no secret that weddings are notorious for taking one hell of a toll on nerves, bank balance, rational thinking, relationships, friendships, and sometimes… even marriage itself. And although Hollywood has continually tried to convince us that virtually every “I Do” ends happily ever after, this is rarely the case.
But what if the bride and groom don’t make it to the aisle? What happens when it ends before it even starts? Well, we’re about to find out, and no, this is not an episode of 90-Day Fiance, although it may as well have been a great inspiration for my beloved show.
Today, we are diving into the real-life stories shared by people in this Ask Reddit thread who witnessed a wedding where nobody married. And to survive this level of drama, you’ll need bowls of popcorn, like three or five.
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#1
Yes... it was my own wedding. I was there waiting and my bride to be texted me letting me know that she wasn't feeling well and that she needed to go to the hospital. I got suspicious when I noticed that no one from her side of the family had shown up. Turns out they never sent out their half of the invitations and never bothered to tell me that there was no wedding. So there I was with my friends and family at a wedding that didn't actually exist.
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#2
This happened around 20 years ago. I am Indian and was supposed to get married to a guy who was a close family friend. That guy was nice and all, but on the wedding day, he ran with my sister. Yes you guys read it right, he ran away with my younger sister. So my entire family was very upset and claimed his younger brother as "compensation". I got married to his younger brother.
Marriage has turned out superb, like one of those dream marriages you see on TV. But yes the marriage was a accident
#3
Yeah one of my distant relatives. The groom got really drunk and hit his fiance in the face in front of everyone. I was young and didn't really get what was going on, I just remember my uncle laying the groom out with one punch.
Marriage is one hell of a crazy ride that starts with the very first test of surviving the wedding itself. No wonder, with so much stress, uncertainty about the future, and family drama some people back out at the last moment. After all, this is a life-changing decision that takes a good amount of daily mutual work to make sure it goes smoothly (and even then, it doesn't necessarily do so!).
So in order to find out more about navigating the complex terrain of getting married and the art of living happily in it, we spoke with Susan Pease Gadoua. Susan is a therapist, best-selling author and the founder and executive director of the Transition Institute of Marin in the greater San Francisco Bay Area, an agency that provides coaching, therapy, and workshops to people who are at some stage of marital dissolution.
#4
I was talking with a DJ who told me of a wedding he did. Gets all the way into the reception and it's time to cut the cake. The groom mashes the cake into the bride's face, and she is LIVID. She turns red, screams at him, and SLAPS him across the face so hard it sounds like a gunshot and it echoes across the reception hall. Everyone gasps and gets quiet. She storms off.
A little while later, the father of the bride comes up to the DJ and hands him $500. He says, "Listen, this marriage... is over. She's actually left the building. But I've paid for this party and all my family and friends are here. I want you to finish out the night and finish it strong, keep the music playing and don't mention the two of them again for the rest of the night." He agrees and everyone has a grand ol' time.
Random Anon 2 years ago
Which moron came up with this asinine trend of wasting food like this? And to top it off, the knuckleheads that follow it like blind sheep following a drunk one off the cliff. Seriously when you're old enough to f**k and get married, you're old enough to know a marriage ceremony isn't the place for a pie chucking three stooges special.
yeciye 2 years ago
Honestly it saved everyone’s time in this case. If they can’t handle cake stuff, they wouldn’t be able to handle other stuff.
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Anna Banana 2 years ago
Judging by her reaction I wouldn't be surprised if they'd had that conversation earlier and he went through with it despite her wishes.
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DennyS (denzoren) 2 years ago
I never understood the cake mashing...unless they agree beforehand...like, all the time to dress nice and make up etc to mash cake in her face. C'mon dude.
Megan Johnson 2 years ago
Had to be a bigger issue. It's possible they agreed not to do this and he did it anyway. That's a pretty big red flag to catch while marriage is still eligible for an annulment. Either way the violence is an automatic "get out now" sign for me.
Mary Hiers 2 years ago
Major props to that father of the bride. He handled things in perhaps the best possible way, considering.
Jo Choto 2 years ago
I don't really get the trend. I'm not sure I would be too bothered, but I also wouldn't get why my new husband would do that to me. But I know a lot of women spend mega time and money on looking "perfect" and having the day go "perfectly", so I understand why it would be upsetting. Sounds like they weren't a good match.
Margaret Martin 2 years ago
The weddings I'd attended prior to mine- were respectful. At MY wedding, when we cut the cake - I noticed a BIG mistake had been made- instead of being ALL white... BLOOD RED raspberry filling oozed out when we sliced into it! We cut the next tier, hoping IT was the right one) NOPE! When we went to "share" our slices- I took a small piece off & before I could even pick it up- he smeared his piece across my face! I had spent over TWO MONTHS making my own gown- only to watch in HORROR as chunks of the raspberry filled cake, left a bloody, staining trail, down the entire front of it! I was LIVID! I grabbed the cake on my plate & slapped it on HIS face! Some yelled; "Kiss her now!" but I ran off- almost knocked my Aunt down, to clean it up. She said, "What Happened?" & I screamed, "Someone's stupid F*#@king idea of tradition!" Few minutes later- we went to do the Mother/Son, Father/Daughter dance- his Parents left their VHS tape of our wedding in their empty spot. It was THEIR tradition.
Jus 2 years ago
Did you kill him afterwards? I would. I would not forgive him for not knowing me enough to do something so disrespectful.
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Janet PoCo 2 years ago
I had to warn my hubby2b that if he did it he'd have to pay my dad for every penny the wedding was costing. I didn't trust him ... he got so livid he threatened to cancel the wedding. I did based on his reactions he told me "I was no fun"....I knew there was no trust as I'd basically agreed to the wedding of HIS DREAMS?.... 300 guests a dinner a dance midnight buffet when I wanted an afternoon w 40 people and cake and tea so I cancelled the wedding. He's Bern engaged 4x now and I'm w my hubby for 30 years this April
Janet PoCo 2 years ago
...left out that his mother wanted a meal zero people on my side would have eaten !!!!
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Random Panda 2 years ago
It was probably the straw that broke the camel's back. I doubt it was just this one issue that broke them.
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Linda Riebel 2 years ago
I have NEVER understood that practice of mashing cake in faces. Who thought that was funny? And why did other people follow suit?
Carlotta Müller 2 years ago
Didn't the husband want his wife? I would have done the same if I were her! You can't marry someone and then push cake in their face!
Veronica Sjöberg 2 years ago
WHY didn't he ask before he smashed it? I would get pretty upset too. A) it's disrespectful b) with all the work of make up, hair, dress etc even more disrespectful. I wouldn't have slapped him though. Two wrongs don't make it right. And I'm not sure that alone would be instant divorce but DEFINITELY therapy.
Anesor Ducasse 2 years ago
i bet this was in the USA. This is the only place I know where some people seem to find food fight and similar stuff amusing
Sunny Topia 2 years ago
Even if its a joke, still meh for me. So immature. Not related but same like my bro's friend who suddenly went off when he lost a game in a round and blame my bro for being a tryhard and curse and swear our dead family...-_-
Mary Bricklin 2 years ago (edited)
Honestly, as much as I hate the 'tradition' of smashing cake into a SO's face during a wedding, I'm not gonna just jump to screaming 'ban it!' because it does seem to be something some couples enjoy. That said, this is something that should be discussed before the wedding because it's something that's done in front of a bunch of people while you're wearing expensive clothing.
Great Panda Mamu 2 years ago
I told my husband in advance that if he smashed cake in my face, I would divorce him. We've been married 22 1/2 years.
Fikri Fikri 2 years ago
gotta love the dad, wedding might be over but party has to keep going dude know his priority
Witney camila 2 years ago
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Beth S 2 years ago
It’s funny that people seem to be irritated by the cake smooshing part and think that it is dumb. The picture of my husband and I feeding/smooshing cake in each other’s faces is my favorite picture of us as well as one of my most cherished memories. Lol
Anna Banana 2 years ago
If it worked for the two of you then it wasn't dumb! This particular groom was dumb because he (presumably) did it without checking in with her first, and she obviously wasn't on board.
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#5
A friend of mine asked me to go to her cousin's wedding as her date, her cousin was the bride to be. The ceremony seemed to go well, except the groom fidgeting, looking about, and wearing an almost hostile expression on his face. Seemed odd, but I assumed it was nerves.
He and the bride said their vows, standard protestant Christian stuff, but they added a stomping of a glass, at the end, for some reason.
Once the priest got to the "I pronounce you..." the groom didn't wait for the "kiss the bride" part, grabbed the bride and rather abruptly turned her and himself around the face the audience. He then started yelling at the people on her side of the aisle, that she was his now and they should give up any thought of ever seeing her again.
The bride attempted to protest, or calm him down, not certain which, but when she tried to say something, he backhanded her hard enough to knock her off of the dais. This all happened in a few seconds and everyone in the audience was stunned.
Just as we started to react, the priest proceeded to land a solid punch on the groom's face, flattening his nose with a notable crunch.
The groom kinda crumpled, people in the audience were yelling at each other, trying to push, shove, help one person or another up, but in all of this the priest calmly reached over to the podium, took what I assume to be their marriage certificate, and tore it into tiny pieces.
He then tried to calm things down, but the scene was chaos, and looked to be turning into a brawl. My friend and some others helped the bride to get out of there, I simply tried to keep anyone from running up on them, not knowing who was on which side, and cover their exit.
Once outside, we got the bride into a car with her mum and my friend, so they could leave, and I made haste to my car.
I learned, a few days later that the groom was arrested breaking into the bride's house, using a shotgun as a lock-pick, and trashing her house looking for her.
The marriage was not recorded by the official/priest, so at least the bride didn't have to go through the trouble of getting a divorce. I declined wedding invites for some time after that.
ThEboRedEsTpANdA 2 years ago
Sadly, this sort of thing is not uncommon. People will wait until married to show their true selves to their spouses
#6
I have a perfect example. I used to work with a girl named Ashley. She worked in my office a couple desks down. She was engaged to some guy I never met. He used to travel a lot for work or so I was told. We became pretty close friends and a couple of us were invited to the wedding.
Ashely's coworkers threw her a party for her wedding the weekend before. I went and had a great time. I had no idea the following would happen..
A couple days before the wedding, while at work I heard some coworkers talking loudly that there had been something terrible. I went over to hear what was going on and I found out Ashley had called off the wedding. Family and friends from Utah had already flown in to see the wedding.
Come to find out, the fiancé was actually a piece of sh*t low life. He had no job and was stealing from her. She decided not to go through with it.
So three months after the canceled wedding, Ashley and I started dating. She told me later she had doubts about the marriage and had feelings for me. Which I didn't know I had them as well until after the ordeal.
We have been married for five years now and have a son together.
When people ask how we met, we leave that story out.
“Perhaps the biggest way marriage changes a relationship is that it's a legally binding contract and the expectation of a ‘successful marriage’ is that the relationship will continue until one of them dies. That's a lot of pressure!” Susan explained.
The therapist argues that people often don't realize the legal aspects until they go to split up: “they have to get lawyers and go through the court system to split assets/debts and time with the kids.” Susan added that “when I got married, I signed two pieces of paper; when I bought my first property, I signed a stack of papers. Guess which one I gave more pause to?”
#7
My brother had a very close call. During the "do you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband..." part, my SIL just stood there, wordless, for like three minutes. Total deer-in-the-headlights stare. The minister put his hand on her shoulder and whispered something into her ear. Then she left and went into the "worry room" for a while. The minister asked her mom to go join her and told everyone to please be patient, just a case of the jitters, etc.
My brother looked like he had been hit over the head with a sledgehammer. He sat down in the choir, put his head between his knees, and tried not to pass out.
Nearly half an hour later (many "I'll just go check on how things are going" announcements from the minister), the mom and my SIL came back out. The ceremony started over from the beginning, with the bride reprising her walk down the aisle and everything. She sobbed hysterically through almost the ENTIRE ceremony, but they got through it.
We found out later that a close family friend's husband had passed away after a long bout with cancer that morning, leaving behind a widow in her early 40's. It hit my SIL really hard because the neighbor had been nearly a second mother to her, and between her grief at the husband passing away and the realization that marriage is a guarantee that someone will lose the love of his/her life, my SIL pretty much lost it.
They're still married, three kids, dog, house in the 'burbs- the works. But it was touch-and-go there for half an hour or so.
Walking On Sunshine 2 years ago
That's a lot of stress for a bride. Bless her heart. Glad they are happy.
#8
I've got one war-time story. The groom didn't appear, or change his mind (I am not sure) and the best man stepped in saying he's always been in love with the woman and wants to marry her instead. Apparently, giving the war time, the priest approved of that, and they were a very good couple.
Andy Acceber 2 years ago
Plot twist. Bride knew groom was gay. Bride always had a thing for best man, but knew parents wouldn't approved. She also didn't want gay groom to be stuck with her for life. The three concocted this whole thing so groom could stay happily single and best man and bride could have the marriage they always secretly wanted.
#9
Not exactly, but I did know a couple who, the night before their city hall wedding, both had separate big parties and got so wasted they both slept through the wedding. They didn't realize it until city hall called asking where they were, and they decided f*ck it we'll do it later. They did eventually get married, and still are as far as I know, over 20 years later.
“Because marriage is harder to get out of than living together or simply being partnered, it requires more of a commitment. This can be positive because a healthy relationship calls on both people to be more giving, to communicate well, to seek compromise on issues, and to be a more mature adult,” the therapist told Bored Panda.
“That said, there's a small portion of spouses who feel that, once they're married, they don't have to work on the relationship any longer. Unfortunately, I've heard many stories of men or women who change for the worse as soon as they are on their honeymoon. Maybe a ‘I've got you now, so I don't have to work on things’ mindset,” Susan wondered.
#10
A friend of a friend's wedding ceremony about 10 years ago. We were waiting at the chapel, and it is kind of a tradition that the bride lets the groom wait a bit in front of the altar.
A couple of minutes and people start making jokes like "I guess she decided to dump you before it's too late, haha", or "maybe she's practicing the wedding kiss with the driver, haha". Not exactly classy, but all in good fun. Nobody really thought one of them would get cold feet.
Another couple of minutes and people get nervous, try to reach the bride and the guy who was driving her to the chapel on their cell phones - no answer at first, then after a while a man answers the bride's cell phone, identifies himself as police officer.
The driver had lost control of the car, gone off the road and down a slope. Bride and driver were seriously injured (car was a cabriolet with the top down, and apparently it rolled over 2 or 3 times as it went down the slope), but alive, now being flown to a hospital.
As far as I was told the marriage was officiated later that day in the hospital with only the immediate family present, another religious wedding ceremony would follow a couple of months later.
Julie Aaaa 2 years ago
I married an Englishman and my Mother in Law gave me a horseshoe on a ribbon to wear. It broke before i went down the isle. That should have been a clue. He asked for a divorce 5 years later.
#11
Here's another story from India:
My family friend's daughter (Muslim) was in love with a Hindu guy. They were dating for a while, her family found out and arranged her wedding with some dude. On the day of the wedding, she runs off with her boyfriend. Her dad was the mayor that time, and they had the cops looking all over for her. Last time I heard she's still with the Hindu guy.
The funny thing is, a few years before that, her brother got married to a Christian chick and no one batted an eyelid.
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
I don't know about India, but I come from a rather conservative (and misogynistic) country. In here it's assumed that the wife will change her religion to that of the husband's. So religious parents tend to freak out only if their daughter is marrying someone from a different religion.
#12
They managed to get married but then she hopped in a car with some random dude. I was confused, asked my buddy what was going on. He explained that dude was driving her down to the honeymoon spot because she didn't like the way he (her husband of 3 minutes) drove.
Two days later I found out that once my friend made it to the cabin for their honeymoon he walked in on them in the shower together. She then revealed that she only married him so her parents would get off her back, that she hated him and was shacking up with this guy the whole week instead, they'd tell everyone it wasn't working out once they got back in town and annul. My friend was obviously devastated by this and has never recovered.
What’s important to realize is that getting married does little if anything to guarantee that the relationship will last, despite the best intentions the couple has on their wedding day, the therapist argues. “We live in a time of choice. We can decide where we want to live, what livelihood we will pursue and what the configuration of the family will be, for example. We are also living longer than ever before so staying married to one person is getting less reachable for the average person,” Susan explained.
#13
While I haven't been an official guest at a dramatic wedding, I did have the chance to witness one. I've told the story before... but given that it's the only such wedding I've ever seen, I'll offer it again.
At the time, I was selling my services as a videographer, and I had been booked to shoot a choral performance at a local church. Although I had an assistant to help me with my second camera, I always made a point of setting things up on my own, and so I did my best to arrive at least an hour and a half before I was scheduled to start filming. On the day in question, I discovered that the church had been previously reserved for a wedding party, and so I had little choice but to wait for the service to finish.
It seemed like a fairly generic ceremony. Awkwardly played organ music signaled the entrance of the procession, and as everyone took their places near the altar, things appeared to be going according to plan. Then, the time came for the bride to make her appearance. The doors opened, and there she was, smiling radiantly as she shuffled up the aisle. She was a large (in both the tall and broad senses) woman who could have been anywhere from twenty-five to forty-five, and I found myself wondering why she wasn't being accompanied by anyone. Perhaps, I reasoned, she simply didn't have a father, or maybe she had decided to do away with that particular tradition.
The truth, as it turned out, was a little bit less benign.
As the priest began his speech - that same "Dearly Beloved" bit that you see in the movies - a man stood up in the audience. "You still have time!" he shouted, and although he was quickly shushed by the woman next to him, his words seemed to have an effect.
The groom - a small, frail-looking man with a ponytail - meekly held up a hand. The priest stopped talking, and though I couldn't see the bride's face, I could hear her angrily hissing something to her husband-to-be. "Excuse me," the man said. "I..." he paused, growing bright red. After a moment, he continued. "I'm sorry," he said. He murmured something to the woman in white, offered a few words to the best man, and then promptly fainted.
Now, at first, I figured that the groom had suffered some sort of medical event, and that the wedding would continue. My assumption was quickly proven false as the best man literally picked up his friend and strutted down the aisle, saying not a word to anybody. Throughout the entire scene, everyone was completely silent, until at last the bride found her voice.
"I hate you all!" she shrieked. She stormed away from the altar, and nobody followed her; not even a bridesmaid. For a few seconds, everyone sat in shock, until the man from before stood up again.
"I'm sorry for wasting everyone's time," he said. "You're all still welcome to come to the reception."
The crowd started to clear out after that, with everyone whispering to each other. From what I was able to figure out, it seemed like the bride had more or less bullied the groom into the idea of marriage as a means of curing his homosexuality. The man who had spoken up was actually the bride's father, which didn't bode well for their next family gathering. I even overheard a few attendees claim that the groom wasn't actually gay, but that he had claimed to be when he had tried to break up with his domineering girlfriend. All in all, it was rather like being caught in the middle of a soap opera's finale.
You can imagine how hard I mentally kicked myself when I realized that I could have filmed it.
TL;DR: The bride is a lout. The groom passes out. The bride hates everyone, which nobody doubts.
#14
My rednecky sister in law decided to marry her even worse boyfriend. Even though he had a history of physically and verbally abusing her.
So, the day comes, and they're getting married in this dingy little park. But they never officially reserved it, or anything... They had tried, and were denied... So, they defiantly decided to do it there anyway. Turns out, they were denied because the park was scheduled for some serious construction, and was all torn up.
It rained that morning. Poured. They had no backup location. The few of us there watched the ceremony from our cars, while they huddled under a park gazebo.
The groom showed up late, stone drunk.
There was a car parked off to the side. The girl that the groom was having an affair with watched him get married.
The couple never bothered to get a marriage license, as the JP had instructed. So, she winged it, but told them they were not officially married until they filed for one, on Monday.
At the reception (held in my in law's driveway, buffet lunch with a DJ) the groom flipped out, angered by the DJs selection of music. The DJ he had not paid a dime for. He stormed out, yelling "f*ck this, f*ck that, f*ck her." No, seriously... Yelling EXACTLY that, it was surreal. Along the way, he rubbed the affair in the would-be-bride's face, and threatened to harm everyone present. Peeled out in his pickup truck, getting stuck briefly in the mud.
When my sister in law went to try to make amends with him in the morning, she found him in bed with the mistress.
How did people react? They were honestly glad to see him leave. The general tenor was that the whole thing was a mistake. The party continued after he stormed out.
#15
My friend was getting married, and the man she was marrying had a heart attack literally right before the ceremony, after everyone had arrived. Of course everyone was shocked, but they got married shortly after at the registry office, so it was still a happy ending, I guess
88% of people polled in the U.S. in 2013 list love as the number one reason that they got married (Pew Research Center 2013). Susan explained that for most of those tying the knot, marriage is the primary way to show their love for their partner.
“The main connection between love and marriage is that love tends to get you into marriage; loss of love causes people to end a marriage. Yet, love is an emotion—a fragile one at that—and using it as the foundation to build a legally binding relationship, a family and a home may be the reason divorce rates are as high as they are,” Susan Gadoua concluded.
#16
I worked a wedding where the couple broke up during the reception. The party was on the roof of the building, and there was a small pool. The groom got drunk and thought it would be funny to push the bride, in her full wedding gown, into the water. It was still pretty early in the reception. She stormed out and was taken home by a friend.
#17
My best friend was getting married to this c*nt. I told him not to, and his family did, but after I moved away I think he just wanted something. Anyways, she shows up absolutely annihilated.. to a 1pm wedding. Her "family" tries to sober her up when the groom isn't looking by having her smoke a bunch of weed and eat pills. I managed to stop the latter. Keep in mind my buddy is a pretty straight laced guy..very rarely even drinks. Throughout the lead up to the ceremony I had to stop her three different "mothers" (no lesbians and it'd take too long to explain) from sneaking her whole bottles of whisky.
She managed to somehow keep it together enough so that maybe some of the people in the back couldn't tell she was massively drunk, but I'm pretty sure most people knew. They got through the wedding even though my buddy didn't seem to thrilled about it (yea I don't know why). In all of their wedding photos her eyes are half close or almost crosseyed.
Fast forward, she is unsurprisingly a major alcoholic, tried breast feeding their kid while blotto, hid sh*t in the house, etc. She's spending so much on booze that he takes away her credit card, which leads to her going into stores, grabbing booze, and running (he found out about this later). He sends her to rehab where she meets a meth head who gets her back into meth (I guess she did it for a very short time with an ex bf a decade earlier..baby daddy of the kid she brought into the relationship). She also starts f*cking him. They leave and go on a crime spree of theft, crazy antics like going 100 then pulling the e-brake, living in a car, trading her car for meth, and sh*t even crazier than all that.
He now has custody of their kid AND her kid from the previous relationship. He is a really good dude, and very smart. This just goes to show how blinded you can be in certain situations. This wedding shouldn't have happened and I like to think it didn't in an alternate timeline. Does that sort of count?
#18
My older brother got married to his girlfriend of 10 years. At the end of the party when I and most of my brother's family had left it all kicked off. Turns out she and my brother's best friend planned (for 3 years) for the marriage to happen so she could divorce him and take the house and live in it with the guy she'd been banging behind my brother's back.
Little did she know that the house was in my dad's name and not my brothers (they have the exact same name). She was entitled to nothing. Last I heard her family abandoned her and so did her boyfriend after she put on lots of weight.
#19
Family friends: The groom left the bride at the altar. He just didn't show up! He said he had cold feet. The couple stayed together, and then planned another wedding. He stood her up AGAIN!
Somehow, they stayed together, and she agreed (?!) to attempt to marry him a third time. He showed up, they wed, and have been together 45+ years.
#20
I had a buddy of mine who I don't really talk to anymore, but we aren't on bad terms (just kinda drifted apart due to life). I was deployed at the time to Afghanistan, so I obviously wasn't able to make his wedding. I seriously wish I did though, because what happened is f*cking nuts.
So him and his girlfriend were dating for like 5 years, and were going to get married. Everyone approved of this woman too, educated, smart and good looking. Seemed like a catch.
Day of his wedding I guess he left his cell phone in his jacket in some room where the wedding was going to happen. Normally for an event like this he'd be the first to turn it off and leave it somewhere, but I guess he needed to call his cousin who was late and in the wedding.
Turns out he found the bride to be blowing some friend of a bridesmaid in that room, they probably assumed it wouldn't be in use. He isn't the type to confront someone, usually just turn red about to erupt and leave. Poor guy just left with his blood boiling.
We have mutual friends who told the story but I believe it. I guess my buddy (the groom) put all her sh*t in boxes inside the garage and forbid her from coming in the home or ever going back there again. They lived together but everything was in his name, so while he'd probably still get in legal trouble she was decent enough to drop it all and take her sh*t and leave. She apparently tried to explain it and apologize but obviously he doesn't forgive nor forget. He was really destroyed by that.
#21
Back in the '80s my aunt had gotten married to this guy. At the reception she got black out drunk and passed out; rendering her unable to "consummate" the marriage. Her groom on the other hand, slept with one of the bridesmaids that night.
In the morning, the bridesmaid had confessed the mistake, the "happy couple" immediately went to the courthouse and signed their divorce papers. Married and divorced in a span of 12 hours
#22
My dad was the best man for his best friend of many years. The couple got married, they had the reception, and then after the reception she left and never came back. Not one whole day of married life, he returned to the marital home alone.
He's a great guy and he's been with a lovely woman for ~30 years now although they've never married. I've always wondered (but never asked) if it's because he's still married to the first woman, or if the idea of going through a wedding again is just too painful for him.
#23
Was taken to a wedding by a then girlfriend. Knew no one there. Was sort of just dumped with the groom and his wedding party as my girlfriend was a bridesmaid. The groom and his buddies proceeded to get drunk and just bail. Not telling anyone, just leaving. So here I am, not k owing anyone, and the only person who knows this sh*t ain't happening today.
I had to go to the room the bride was getting ready in, knock, ask for my girlfriend and explain to her. She and I pretty much just had to break the news. We broke up since and I had no reason to keep in contact with bride or groom, so no idea on any follow up.
#24
When I was going through Law School I used to process serve in the evenings - handing our summons and delivering divorce papers etc. ( yeah yeah sh*tty job but that is another story.)
I usually never had time to read the complaints but I was having trouble finding the husband to serve the divorce papers on - he had deserted from the Navy - so I hoped that the papers might have some clue in them as to how I could find him.
Turns out the complaint stated that "... He left the wedding reception with one of the bridesmaids and at that point the wife determined that the marriage was over..."
Looks like he has quite a track record in deserting...
#25
The groom ran away in the morning of his wedding day. He contacted his family after 2 days and told them he's in another country and doesn't wanna get married yet. His family pressured him into marrying a woman who he'd only known for 2 weeks. The bride was very upset but she and her family understood the situation and moved on.
#26
This happened in Calcutta / Kolkata and my dad was present (we live in Canada). The couple had been introduced to eah other and after like 6 months of hanging out and getting to know each other they got engaged. They had known each other for almost a year up to this point. These are well off people who are upper income range so it's not the village or anything, just to set the tone correctly.
There had been events the day before the actual wedding ceremony, which about 500+ people attended and of course people talk, hence word got out...
the evening of the wedding a group of people showed up and litterally blocked the street so the groom couldn't come to the wedding venue.
The groom had been banging (dating) a female of said blockade family under the promise of getting married. Even introducing himself to her parents and family, planning a future date for his parents to meet hers. Mind you all (500+) the guests had arrived and witnessed this.
For about an hour there was a stand off and the information got back to the venue/ bride and her family and they called off the wedding. The guests were half in shock, half trying to eat and drink as much as they could before the inevitable cancellation happened.
The bride's family actually took the matter to court (expenses of the wedding and such) and the guy $ettled out of court with them. As well they (the bride and her parents) personally went out and returned all the gifts they received... my dad didn't allow them to (return the gifts he had given them) and told her to keep them all, due to the circumstances.
Elliot Fowler 2 years ago
" half trying to eat and drink as much as they could before the inevitable cancellation happened " Priorities !
#27
Yes, mine. We went to the States for our wedding. All went well and the day after the ceremony we went downtown to the government office to get all the official paperwork. The woman helping us didn't know quite how to process our Canadian IDs etc. so we ended up dealing with the department honcho. Filled everything out, signed on all the lines, gave them our address and flew home a couple days later.
We waited for a month or so to receive our paperwork in the mail but it never came. I called the government office and got the runaround for twenty minutes before finally being told they had no record of my nor my husband's name, our identification or our paperwork. When I asked what I could do from a different country they had no ideas. We are going to get married again I suppose, but I really didn't want to get married in this city. It's weird, I never saw myself getting married, and now that I am, I'm not.
#28
I'm a wedding minister in Japan. I've over seen 500 plus weddings and their have been a few that I thought for sure weren't going happen after rehearsals. It's usually some arrogant or absent minded groom that seems oblivious to what is happening or its the father not approving of his daughters choice of sh*t head.
Just a month ago during a rehearsal, I had to ask the parents for approval, it's like giving away the bride but both sides do it. I ask him and he had to get s stiff elbow from his wife before saying yes while looking at the floor. The groom , a complete idiot in my opinion, didn't even notice. It was uncomfortable to say the least.
During the actual ceremony the father answered much quicker, but still looked at the floor and then began to cry.
#29
Worked at a catering company for a little while. Bride and groom standing on the beach holding hands at sunset (Hawaiian themed wedding). Officiant asks if there was anyone objects to the union of these two, guy stands up towards the back and says he objects. Everyone kind of laughs it off but the guy is already making his way down the aisle towards the bride and grooms families. The officiant thinks this is some sort of joke, was about to tell him tough luck. Random guy whispers something to the grooms father then the brides father. Both of them tell the party that there will be a short delay. Bride, groom, immediate family plus random guy go Inside venue. 10 minutes later a few cars leave the premises. I'm busy at the bar out on the deck because regardless of how this ends people are going to want a drink. Brides father walks out to the beach and announces that the wedding is off but as they have already prepared all this great food and drink, all are welcome to stay and eat + drink if they want. No clue what the guy said or weather the bride and groom ever got hitched. I do know that there was enough leftovers of steak and lobster to keep myself and roommates eating like kings for most of the week.
Edit: tldr; someone objected to the marriage and had some unknown information that lead to wedding being called.
#30
I went to a wedding where the groom pulled out of it the evening before the wedding. Basically they were both a religious couple who were college boyfriend/girlfriend who were aiming to get married the summer after graduating college but before he went off to grad school. (The bride was a roommate in my suite one year, and I remember him coming to tuck her into bed by reading her a Bible story. Door never closed, of course.) What's more, this was a wedding in the girl's town where she grew up a few hours from where we all went to college so all the guests were pretty much there and had already spent money for the hotel room etc.
We ended up spending it doing what you more or less expect we'd be doing, psychoanalyzing their entire relationship at the one bar in town, pulling out every detail in gossip anyone could think of because there was nothing else to do. (Reception was canceled as well as the wedding, as groom's family all left early and girl's family wasn't up for any of it.) Frankly, as someone who liked the groom better it sucked but it's best he came to his senses- I felt it was more a "get married to have sex" wedding from his angle, and more a "my religious family expected me to get a good man in college, and he is" wedding from hers. So props to him for realizing it would be a mistake over going along with everyone's expectations at that point.
What do you think ?
K Witmer 2 years ago
My friend canceled her wedding 3 weeks before and blamed me bc I told her she was too young. She never talked to me again. I don't even remember telling her that.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
I have too many to share all, but this one leapt out at me: My mom's kid brother was getting married. My parents are in the wedding party. At the recption my dad got so drunk he danced a polka atop a table while wearing blue suede cowboy boots. Mom took us home and left him to figure out a way on his own, and that is why my uncle's wife still more or less hates us, b/c Dad ruined her wedding reception. Given that her own father yelled "F*ck j*gaboo" at one of the guests, that was a pretty high bar, I guess. (Also an open bar.)
ZAPanda 2 years ago
wow that is horribly embarrassing, but not nearly as bad as the uncle's remark.
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Seabeast 2 years ago
I've known of couples who should have called it off but didn't. There was a young woman on my street, growing up, who had constant fights with her boyfriend out on the front lawn of her parent's house in the early hours of the morning. The police were called on several occasions. A few weeks before she married him, she pointed to her engagement ring and told us younger girls "This ring has been off my finger six times, but this time the wedding is happening". Even aged about 11 or 12 I thought she was making a mistake. Sure enough, it didn't last.
The Starsong Princess 2 years ago (edited)
Some years ago, I worked with a guy who went back to Iran on vacation. He gets there to discover that his parents have arranged a marriage for him in a week. He’s finally alone on the morning of the wedding and started thinking about the repercussions. The biggest issue was “What is my girlfriend going to say?” So he grabbed his stuff, went out a window and hightailed to the airport. Ultimately, I think his girlfriend felt it was the right decision.
Mark Howell 2 years ago
Had a close run myself. Many years ago I was engaged to be married to a very nice young lady I had been seeing for 2yrs. Went to see her at her mums home and she asked me if I wanted to go to a wedding the following weekend. Turns out the wedding was between her and the vicar who was supposed to be marrying us later that year. Hey-Ho, since then met the light of my life and have a beautiful daughter as a result.
J T 2 years ago
My own wedding. Intercaste love marriage. We put our parents in front of each other -the official meeting happens. After the meeting his family is celebrating and my family is in shock because it turns out his side of family is very backward, uneducated and regressive. We knew that a big fight is due. And it happened a fateful night. Both of us are working and our parents meet without us (which we never allowed because we were necessary to manage every odd situation) they have a very bad fight. My family doesn't sleep that night. We call of the reception. We get married at the registrar office with me accompanied with my mum and dad. He with his few relatives. Parents never spoke for 3 years i was forbidden to visit my parents. We had extremely tough time. But I took counseling and our marriage was saved and we are thriving. Now I have a son and we are living happily. But the wedding day and 2 years after that were HELL. Still my 2brother in law do not speak to me when i visit them.
John C 2 years ago (edited)
I started a job and had a crush on this girl that worked there, but it just wasn't meant to be; timing was never right, etc. Fast forward a couple years, I wound up getting married myself, and was good friends with her and her fiancé and attended their wedding in Vegas. After the ceremony we all hit the strip for a while but she got tired and wanted to go back to the hotel. Her new husband didn't, wanting to hang out with his friends he hadn't seen in a while. I wound up taking her back to the hotel and she spent her wedding night with me instead of her husband. (Nothing happened other than good company and my doing my best to distract her from the elephant that wasn't in the room.) I know you'll be surprised to learn they got divorced a few years later.
K Witmer 2 years ago
My friend canceled her wedding 3 weeks before and blamed me bc I told her she was too young. She never talked to me again. I don't even remember telling her that.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
I have too many to share all, but this one leapt out at me: My mom's kid brother was getting married. My parents are in the wedding party. At the recption my dad got so drunk he danced a polka atop a table while wearing blue suede cowboy boots. Mom took us home and left him to figure out a way on his own, and that is why my uncle's wife still more or less hates us, b/c Dad ruined her wedding reception. Given that her own father yelled "F*ck j*gaboo" at one of the guests, that was a pretty high bar, I guess. (Also an open bar.)
ZAPanda 2 years ago
wow that is horribly embarrassing, but not nearly as bad as the uncle's remark.
Load More Replies... Seabeast 2 years ago
I've known of couples who should have called it off but didn't. There was a young woman on my street, growing up, who had constant fights with her boyfriend out on the front lawn of her parent's house in the early hours of the morning. The police were called on several occasions. A few weeks before she married him, she pointed to her engagement ring and told us younger girls "This ring has been off my finger six times, but this time the wedding is happening". Even aged about 11 or 12 I thought she was making a mistake. Sure enough, it didn't last.
The Starsong Princess 2 years ago (edited)
Some years ago, I worked with a guy who went back to Iran on vacation. He gets there to discover that his parents have arranged a marriage for him in a week. He’s finally alone on the morning of the wedding and started thinking about the repercussions. The biggest issue was “What is my girlfriend going to say?” So he grabbed his stuff, went out a window and hightailed to the airport. Ultimately, I think his girlfriend felt it was the right decision.
Mark Howell 2 years ago
Had a close run myself. Many years ago I was engaged to be married to a very nice young lady I had been seeing for 2yrs. Went to see her at her mums home and she asked me if I wanted to go to a wedding the following weekend. Turns out the wedding was between her and the vicar who was supposed to be marrying us later that year. Hey-Ho, since then met the light of my life and have a beautiful daughter as a result.
J T 2 years ago
My own wedding. Intercaste love marriage. We put our parents in front of each other -the official meeting happens. After the meeting his family is celebrating and my family is in shock because it turns out his side of family is very backward, uneducated and regressive. We knew that a big fight is due. And it happened a fateful night. Both of us are working and our parents meet without us (which we never allowed because we were necessary to manage every odd situation) they have a very bad fight. My family doesn't sleep that night. We call of the reception. We get married at the registrar office with me accompanied with my mum and dad. He with his few relatives. Parents never spoke for 3 years i was forbidden to visit my parents. We had extremely tough time. But I took counseling and our marriage was saved and we are thriving. Now I have a son and we are living happily. But the wedding day and 2 years after that were HELL. Still my 2brother in law do not speak to me when i visit them.
John C 2 years ago (edited)
I started a job and had a crush on this girl that worked there, but it just wasn't meant to be; timing was never right, etc. Fast forward a couple years, I wound up getting married myself, and was good friends with her and her fiancé and attended their wedding in Vegas. After the ceremony we all hit the strip for a while but she got tired and wanted to go back to the hotel. Her new husband didn't, wanting to hang out with his friends he hadn't seen in a while. I wound up taking her back to the hotel and she spent her wedding night with me instead of her husband. (Nothing happened other than good company and my doing my best to distract her from the elephant that wasn't in the room.) I know you'll be surprised to learn they got divorced a few years later.
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