We have told you many stories about weddings and preparations for them, and about completely unexpected endings when the groom or bride meets their future relatives. And it’s not always that these stories actually end nicely. But the story we’re going to tell you today really stands out.

School bullying is definitely one of the main problems of our time, and just imagine if your bully were soon to become your stepsibling! This is exactly what happened recently to the nephew of the user u/Parking_Ocelot_902, the author of this story. And only his aunt and grandparents actually took his side.

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The author of the post has an older sister who is going to marry soon

Image credits: Mikhail Nilov / Pexels (not the actual photo)

The groom-to-be has 2 kids, the older of which used to bully the bride’s elder son at school for a long time

Image credits: u/Parking_Ocelot_902

Image credits: Terje Sollie / Pexels (not the actual photo)

The boy tried to object after knowing about mom’s matrimonial plans, but his opinion wasn’t taken into account

Image credits: u/Parking_Ocelot_902

Image credits: cottonbro studio / Pexels (not the actual photo)

The only relative who sided with the boy was his aunt, who even attempted to urge her sister to solve this problem – but to no avail

Image credits: u/Parking_Ocelot_902

After receiving the wedding invitation, the author RSVPd no – even despite the sister’s and family’s coaxing

So, the Original Poster (OP) has an older sister, 41 years old, and she is getting married soon. And, it would seem, one should only be happy for their relative – but everything in this family, in fact, is far from so simple. And here’s why.

Both the man and the woman have their own kids – three and two, respectively. The older ones are 14 years old and they go to the same school. And it is around them that the problem unfolded. The thing is that the author’s nephew had been regularly bullied by the daughter of his future stepdad – both in person and online.

When his mother announced their engagement, the boy was the only one who was incredibly upset about it. He even made a public scene, literally devastated that his mom didn’t take into account his tense relationship with his probable stepsister.

But the mother not only didn’t support her son, but even tried to cut ties with those who sided with him. For example, with the parents of his biological father. And when the author tried to reason with her sister, she said that everything was just fine, and that ‘siblings often fight…’

Over time, everything only escalated – the teenager even ran away from home, getting the Child Protective Services involved. It turned out that he wanted to stay with his grandparents, but didn’t want to cause them any legal problems. As a result, he now lives in their house and doesn’t even want to communicate with his bio mom. However, he is always happy to see his aunt.

As a result, when our heroine recently received an invitation to her sister’s wedding, she didn’t hesitate to RSVP no. Even despite the sister’s pure indignation. Despite criticism from relatives who say that it’s necessary to ‘put aside family troubles’ and not risk ruining the relationship with her sister forever. And the woman decided to ask people online for some advice – what is the best thing to do here?

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“It’s good that this mother is trying to improve her personal life. It’s bad that her child suffers in the process, and she doesn’t seem to even care much about it,” says Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment on this situation. “And such disregard for the interests of her son is perhaps the worst thing here.”

“In any case, it should be remembered that after the wedding, this boy would live under the same roof with a person who allowed herself – and repeatedly allowed herself – to bully him at school. And at the very least, to take his opinion into account, try to resolve this conflict – any decent parent should attempt to do this.”

“However, if we see that the boy eventually settled with his grandparents, and the mother probably considered this a solution to the problem – then we can perfectly understand her sister, who refuses to attend the wedding. And if she has developed a good relationship with her nephew, then she shouldn’t ruin it. In any case, support from his aunt can become an important guide for this boy in his future life,” Irina concludes.

People in the comments also support the original poster as much as possible, claiming that she’s doing absolutely the right thing by siding with her nephew. “I hope your nephew is doing well with his grandparents and getting the love and attention he needs,” one of the commenters wrote. “I’m glad someone is putting his emotional and mental well-being first. I really don’t understand parents that place a relationship before the well-being of their children.”

And the responders also gave the author a huge shoutout for being a decent aunt here. “Total kudos to you. She lost her own kid over letting him get bullied,” another person in the comments actually expressed the common people’s opinion. So what do you, our dear readers, think about this story? Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.

People in the comments massively sided with the author, giving her a shoutout for being a decent aunt

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