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People Drag This Person Who Demanded That Their Neighbor Remove Their Doorbell Camera As It Made Them Feel Uneasy
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Normally your home is your safe place, your peaceful oasis and a space to retreat and recharge. To make it like that, you need to protect it from other people, whether that means installing a security system or putting up a Ring doorbell with a camera on it.
A woman has done just that, mostly for her packages that would be delivered to her home, but her neighbor across from her felt uncomfortable having their door recorded and insisted that the woman remove the camera. The internet was not sympathetic and explained why their request was wrong.
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Person felt uncomfortable when their neighbor put up a video doorbell, but couldn’t do anything about it
Image credits: slgckgc (not the actual photo)
The Original Poster (OP) has been a resident in their apartment complex for two years and has enjoyed living there until a young woman moved in across from their apartment. The OP doesn’t have anything against her as she seemed a nice and polite person that didn’t cause too much noise apart from the moving-in day.
But she has a Ring video doorbell on her door. Ring is a home security and smart home company that sells things like outdoor surveillance cameras, the smart doorbell that is mentioned in this story and other security systems.
The narrator of the story likes living in their apartment complex and has nothing against their new neighbor that moved in across from them
Image credits: u/supersecret235
The OP was worried that the camera could see into their apartment and when they had the opportunity, they asked the neighbor what the video doorbell was for. Turns out, the neighbor’s door didn’t have a peep hole so she put up a camera mainly for packages but also extra security.
It wasn’t to spy on her neighbor and she even showed that she could see the OP’s door, but she isn’t on her phone all the time checking the app and observing her neighbor’s apartment or checking when they leave or enter.
But it does bother them that she has a video doorbell because it not only records her own door, it also captures a bit of the story teller’s apartment as well
Image credits: u/supersecret235
It was a completely valid reason to have a video doorbell, but the OP expressed that they felt uncomfortable with it and if she didn’t take it down, she would be reported. The woman knew that she wasn’t breaking any rules and beat the OP to it and complained to the property manager first, who was on her side.
According to the safety products review site Security, “video doorbells come in handy because they make it seem like you’re home when you’re not, being able to greet guests at your door from anywhere with the internet.” That means you can also create the impression that you’re at home when you’re actually not, which most likely will ward off any burglars.
Video doorbells are also convenient if you live in a house with more than one floor because then you don’t need to rush downstairs to see if it’s something important or not. Another really useful function of the doorbell which OP’s neighbor mentioned is preventing package theft or at least having evidence when it happens.
The woman put it up mostly for packages, but it is also a safety measure as it seems that she lives alone
Image credits: Paula Satijn (not the actual photo)
The woman refused to remove it and the property manager also told the worried neighbor to leave her alone
Image credits: u/supersecret235
However, there are downsides to using a doorbell. As any other electronic device, it can suffer from a number of technical issues, ranging from the wi-fi not working properly to its motion detection malfunctioning.
One of the biggest safety concerns is that the video doorbell can be hacked, so that raises various privacy concerns, especially knowing that they record audio as well and according to Consumer Reports, some of these cameras can make out conversations happening as far as 30 feet away.
Image credits: u/supersecret235
Image credits: Tim Evanson (not the actual photo)
People in the comments sided with the neighbor after all and deemed the OP to be in the wrong here. They explained that the OP being uncomfortable isn’t above the woman’s safety and she isn’t doing anything wrong because the only thing that is recorded is a public space. The OP’s concern actually raises suspicion of what they do that they don’t want to be on record.
What do you think of this situation? Do you think the OP’s privacy is more important than the neighbor’s safety? Do you think they should have tried to find a solution that satisfied them both? Let us know your take on the situation in the comments!
Redditors thought the woman’s safety was above this person’s feeling uncomfortable that a corner of their door can be seen on the doorbell video
What do you think ?
Rens 2 years ago
Funnily enough, I had a similar experience when I put up my Ring doorbell, except my door does not face onto anybody else's door. Because it recorded sound and video, I ended up overhearing one of my neighbours making nasty comments about me which I reported to the housing officer because they were discriminatory in nature. The comments were made in a public area and anybody could have ever heard her; she tried to complain that my Ring doorbell was invading her privacy. Another time, my neighbour, who lives at the end of the corridor, was telling everyone that somebody tried to break into his flat, except the only person recorded interacting with his door, was himself... My abusive ex promised me that one day he would come off to me and I will spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, drinking out of a straw; my Ring doorbell is for my safety, because even though this is supposedly a secure building, it's not that hard for unauthorised people to enter.
LuckyL 2 years ago (edited)
Here in Germany you're not even allowed to have a camera facing anything else than your property. I don't think it's entitled. I don't want anyone else to record who is comming and going at what times in MY home
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LH25 2 years ago
I like the line saying the OP was going to report her. To whom? At most, I might ask if the camera can be adjusted a bit. But even that is a bit over the line.
Nightshade1972 2 years ago
Not saying that OP would be in the right, but possibly "report" her to the landlord. In an apartment complex, usually you have to get permission to install something like a Ring doorbell. My guess is that Tenant isn't as dumb as OP thinks, and she did that already before installing the doorbell. I'd love to be a fly on the wall when OP tries to "report" her to Landlord, and Landlord says, "Yeah, I told her she could install the Ring, so what? Why do you care?"
Load More Replies... Rens 2 years ago
Funnily enough, I had a similar experience when I put up my Ring doorbell, except my door does not face onto anybody else's door. Because it recorded sound and video, I ended up overhearing one of my neighbours making nasty comments about me which I reported to the housing officer because they were discriminatory in nature. The comments were made in a public area and anybody could have ever heard her; she tried to complain that my Ring doorbell was invading her privacy. Another time, my neighbour, who lives at the end of the corridor, was telling everyone that somebody tried to break into his flat, except the only person recorded interacting with his door, was himself... My abusive ex promised me that one day he would come off to me and I will spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, drinking out of a straw; my Ring doorbell is for my safety, because even though this is supposedly a secure building, it's not that hard for unauthorised people to enter.
LuckyL 2 years ago (edited)
Here in Germany you're not even allowed to have a camera facing anything else than your property. I don't think it's entitled. I don't want anyone else to record who is comming and going at what times in MY home
Load More Replies... LH25 2 years ago
I like the line saying the OP was going to report her. To whom? At most, I might ask if the camera can be adjusted a bit. But even that is a bit over the line.
Nightshade1972 2 years ago
Not saying that OP would be in the right, but possibly "report" her to the landlord. In an apartment complex, usually you have to get permission to install something like a Ring doorbell. My guess is that Tenant isn't as dumb as OP thinks, and she did that already before installing the doorbell. I'd love to be a fly on the wall when OP tries to "report" her to Landlord, and Landlord says, "Yeah, I told her she could install the Ring, so what? Why do you care?"
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