50 Posts From The “Wait This Is Wholesome” Facebook Group To Restore Your Faith In Humanity
Everyone needs a little wholesome content in their life. (Or maybe a lot, we don't judge!) Whether you know it or not, some adorable photos of cats and stories of the sweetest parents on this planet will do your soul some good. So allow us to introduce you to the “Wait This Is Wholesome” Facebook group. With over 33k members, this group is becoming one of the warmest places on the internet.
Although the group was created less than a year ago, it has quickly grown in popularity due to the uplifting nature of its content. We’ve compiled a list of some of our favorite posts from the group, so you can take a break from your hectic schedule and enjoy a few minutes of positive stories. Then, if you want to continue the celebration of sweetness after reading these posts, you can check out another wholesome Bored Panda list right here.
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My goodness how beautiful. This really was the most heartfelt response
That is an absolutely beautiful and compassionate response.
What a beautiful stranger, making such a thoughtful statement to make OP feel better
Actually just teared up 😢🥰 exactly this op All the mums in the world will back up this comment ! We love you ❤❤❤
Oh, man... I am losing it right now. I would absolutely give my life to save my daughters. I didn't even know that I was capable of such a pure form of love.
Load More Replies...I was born with Neurofibromatosis(specifically type one) which is a genetic disorder.. My grandpa who was not my Biological grandpa died in April 2016 and when I read the program from his funeral I burst into tears.It said in lieu of flowers to please donate to The Children's Tumor Foundation in his memory. My grandpa loved me so deeply and dearly and I knew that but I hadn't seen him in a few years due to me developing such severe fatigue that I no longer attend family functions. When I read that part in the program it felt like him telling me "I love you" one final time. I knew he saw me as who I was and not Neurofibromatosis but yet he still had my back 100% he wanted me to be free of my pain and the chains of Neurofibromatosis. That one little blurb in his funeral program showed me that. I honestly had no idea just how much he loved me and supported me and I will never know but this showed me that his love for me was infinite. He was a wonderful grandfather.
I hope you are alright and can lead a good life. All the best for you
Load More Replies...Awwww... I have a friend whose mom was pregnant with her and got diagnosed with cancer. She chose not having treatment over having her. She passed when she was a newborn, and I told her that as a mom myself, I would've made the same decision. I'm going to send her this... it's so completely accurate. annnnd.....damned onions!!!
No toxicity from the family either, as they hid the real reason from her & thus not blaming the child. That is good too.
Oh god !! I can’t with these today !! No uncontrollable sobbing I have engagements I’ve committed to today .. ok just a couple more
Forgive yourself nothing! It's only an injustice to her if you don't live your best. Boo hoo hoo! Am a mum too
I think that the "mom" was the perfect person to have posted that comment. Her words were PERFECT. So true and beautiful. I hope it helped the OP. ❤
I actually have tears rolling. Mom of a one month old, I know how right she is
This response brought tears to my eyes !!! She's absolutely right!!! She's always been and will be there with you and loving you!!!
For every woman who is pregnant and has cancer this is a very difficult, profound and literally life-changing decision to make. And the reason I always tell my patients to talk to their children about it! This anxiety and guilt in the child could so easily have been avoided, had the remaining family not been lying about it. What did they think would happen once the truth comes to light?? The response this kind stranger has given was, what should have come from the father. I know, to be the surviving parent is hard, but this kind of topic comes years after the mother has died, so the father had had time to prepare for it. This also shows, that every cancer patient AND the family/friends of cancer patiens need psychoonkological support! (sorry for the long post, one can see I am passionate about my profession 😅😇)
YOU DID NOT TAKE HER FROM THIS WORLD... YOU ARE HOW SHE REMAINS IN IT. Wow... those words, powerful.
Imagine feeling so entitled that you end speaking for someone you never knew to his son that she never meet.
While many of us experience wholesome moments in our every day lives, we often don’t think to share them online. Maybe we smile to ourselves in the moment and tell our roommates when we get home, but it’s easy for the joy of an unexpected sweet moment to be fleeting. “Ah, that was nice,” we think. Then two minutes later we're back to being stressed and yelling at other drivers while stuck in traffic. But making an effort to actually share the good things that happen to us can help elongate the joyful feelings and spread them along to others.
Aside from the initial warm feeling we get from reading uplifting stories, consuming positive news can actually be good for our health. According to child psychiatrist Dr. Jonathan Nehrer, the simple act of smiling can lead to more positive thinking and act as a coping mechanism for whatever issues we’re battling at the moment.
"People were clowning this man because he had a pizza and flowers for his lady, riding on the subway. Calling him lame because he couldn’t afford something better... Half of you dudes wouldn’t even go this far for your lady, effort is way more valuable than the price of material things. Salute to him, and | bet you he has a very happy woman at home"
While many of us know the negative effects of consuming too much disheartening media and getting stuck in the cycle of “doomscrolling”, we can easily shift our mindsets into more positive places by consuming happier content. In fact, mainstream media outlets are getting on board with the desire for positivity by introducing “good news” sections. These can be found on the Daily Mirror, Today, the Huffington Post, The Washington Post, the BBC and more. Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar, author of Happier, told The Washington Post, “While I don’t recommend burying our heads in the sand and ignoring what is going on around us, we should certainly limit our consumption of bad news and expose ourselves to uplifting content.”
The Washington Post even features an experiment on their website where readers can turn on their computers’ cameras and watch a series of “positive and neutral videos” while the camera tracks their facial expressions. They call it the “joy-o-meter” and its goal is to measure viewers’ happiness through emotional recognition technology. “For the positive videos, the average viewer expressed happiness throughout 39% of the video,” the website states. And in one video featuring a “camera-ready dog, participants smiled throughout 80% of the video”. You can try the joy-o-meter for yourself right here if you’re interested.
In terms of what makes people smile the most, the joy-o-meter found that pet videos yielded the most positive reactions. But light-hearted memes and sweet videos aren’t the only resources online that can be beneficial. Exposure to constructive journalism can also be helpful for inspiring readers, compared to most news which tends to discourage audiences. Jodie Jackson, author of You Are What You Read, told The Washington Post that constructive journalism “makes us feel more empowered because it gives us three key psychological ingredients: optimism, hope and self-advocacy”. “It helps build resilience,” she went on to say.
If you’re looking for a book to read to help convince you of the impacts positive media can have on your life, I recommend checking out The Power of Good News: Feeding Your Mind with What’s Good for Your Heart by Hal Urban. The book likens how we nourish our minds to how we nourish our bodies:
“Urban explains why, due to neuroscience as much as economics, the media—left, right, and center—focuses mostly on negative stories. And he describes the psychological toll this takes on our mental health. But he’s not suggesting we ignore these stories, just that we vary our diets…We can find countless signs of progress and acts of kindness all around the world if we know where to look. And there are positive aspects in our own lives—family, friends, beauty, generosity, and progress—that we take for granted. Offering techniques he road tested as a teacher for thirty-six years, Urban helps readers become a conscious consumer of information, balancing sources like food groups.”
I was told by a dog trainer that some dogs take your socks or shoes because they smell like you. For them this is the most valuable thing in the world, so it must be valuable for you as well. :-)
While the internet is an amazing resource for just about everything, when we’re looking to boost our feel-good hormones in ways that don’t involve screens, Henry Ford Health has got us covered. First, let’s break down the four key "happiness-boosting hormones”: dopamine, serotonin, endorphins and oxytocin. Dopamine is the “happy hormone”, which provides the high feeling we get from falling in love, being praised for a job well done, and countless other pleasurable experiences. Serotonin, aka the “feel-good hormone” is needed to ward off anxiety and depression. Easy ways to boost serotonin are getting a good night’s sleep or enjoying the great outdoors. Endorphins are famous for providing that great feeling we experience after working out, and they act as a natural painkiller. Lastly, oxytocin, or the “love hormone”, is known for creating bonding and attachment and spikes when we experience intimate touches like cuddling or kissing.
There are plenty of easy ways to get a spike in these hormones, including exercising, going for a hike or swimming in nature, and experimenting with aromatherapy. If you’re looking for more relaxing options, try taking a nap, getting a massage, meditating or listening to music you really love. As Dr. Farvah Fatima of Henry Ford Health shares, “There's no right way to boost any of these feel-good hormones. Instead, the key is to tune into your body and notice how different activities make you feel, both in the moment and in the hours afterward.”
During recent years, largely due to the pandemic, many of us have become acutely aware of how constant exposure to bad news can negatively impact our mental health. However, one famous actor realized this issue and decided to use his massive platform to spread some positivity. On March 29th, 2020, John Krasinski, famous for playing the role of Jim on The Office, launched a web series called Some Good News. The premise of the series was “a news show dedicated entirely to good news”, and it featured Krasinski at home during the pandemic, inviting various celebrity guests to join in on the conversations.
Some Good News ran for 9 episodes, featuring a long list of celebrities including Brad Pitt, Oprah Winfrey, George Clooney and Malala Yousafzai. Krasinski also used the show to raise over $2 million for various charities including Direct Relief, Boys & Girls Clubs of America, Trauma Free World, World Central Kitchen, the NAACP Legal Defense and Education Fund, Toys for Tots and the Restaurant Employee Relief Fund. Despite being produced for and uploaded to Youtube, Some Good News received over 72 million views and 2.58 million subscribers during its first eight weeks.
We tend to associate finding sources of positivity with something to do in our personal lives, but why not incorporate it into the workplace as well? Paola Cecchi-Dimeglio, CEO and founder of People.Culture.Drive. Consulting Group, wrote a piece for MITSloan Management Review sharing tips for how employers can boost employee morale through sharing good news. She mentions that employees tend to imitate the behavior of their supervisors, so it’s important to set positive examples and encourage sharing uplifting news. Paola also mentions the value of regular social bonding opportunities to help employees enjoy their work environment. Lastly, she shares that guiding workers towards mental health resources can help reduce anxiety, and helping employees develop start-and-stop rituals at work can make it easier for them to find a healthy balance between work and personal life.
Wholesome content is infinite; it just takes a little effort to find sometimes. Thankfully we have resources like “Wait This Is Wholesome” to help us find positivity online, so be sure to join the Facebook group if you’d like to add a little more joy into your feed. Enjoy the rest of this uplifting list, and don’t forget to upvote all of your favorite posts. Then let us know in the comments what heartwarming encounters you’ve experienced recently; spread that positivity with your fellow pandas!
"I thought you guys would appreciate that when I got married instead of doing the garter belt/bouquet toss we decided to have everyone (regardless of gender identity and marital status,) try to catch a Pusheen to see who would be next to adopt a cat"
Tbh it's been around 10 years that I dream with a unidentified dessert I ate back in a school trip. Relatable.
"I can't believe I sent my dad a picture of me at Santa Monica Pier and his response was his GTA character at the same place.. "
Can I add one more? Three days ago, I had to put one of my cats down. She was 21, had been sick for some time, but it was still hard. I was ugly-crying the whole day afterwards. Today I got a sympathy card from her vet, signed by everyone at the office. And yes, I'm crying again.
I'm sorry to hear that. That must have been heartbreaking. I'm glad that the vets cared so much about your dear old cat.
Load More Replies...Last night, I thought I had lost my wife. I started to prepare how I'd tell our kids she had passed away. But, at 5:30 this morning, she walked through the front door. As soon as I heard the key turn, I ran down the stairs and held her in my arms. I had never been so happy to see her in all my life. She's in bed now, fast asleep, and I'm so relieved that she's home.
A brilliant post. We need more of the same. Gorgeous pictures and messages
My little brother went to visit four kittens we'd dropped off at a local rescue. When he walked in the room, he was ambushed by SIX kittens: them and two friends. The shyest one, a girl, actually jumped on his head and started grooming his hair. Two of them untied his shoelaces and the other three climbed up his legs mewing for kisses and cuddles. It was fluffball chaos!
Several years ago I had ordered a new bed for our aging dog. Before it was delivered she crossed the rainbow bridge. I let the company know what happened in an email and they (Chewy) sent us a flower arrangement and a sympathy card!! Made me cry all over again. Rebecca Odom
Can I add one more? Three days ago, I had to put one of my cats down. She was 21, had been sick for some time, but it was still hard. I was ugly-crying the whole day afterwards. Today I got a sympathy card from her vet, signed by everyone at the office. And yes, I'm crying again.
I'm sorry to hear that. That must have been heartbreaking. I'm glad that the vets cared so much about your dear old cat.
Load More Replies...Last night, I thought I had lost my wife. I started to prepare how I'd tell our kids she had passed away. But, at 5:30 this morning, she walked through the front door. As soon as I heard the key turn, I ran down the stairs and held her in my arms. I had never been so happy to see her in all my life. She's in bed now, fast asleep, and I'm so relieved that she's home.
A brilliant post. We need more of the same. Gorgeous pictures and messages
My little brother went to visit four kittens we'd dropped off at a local rescue. When he walked in the room, he was ambushed by SIX kittens: them and two friends. The shyest one, a girl, actually jumped on his head and started grooming his hair. Two of them untied his shoelaces and the other three climbed up his legs mewing for kisses and cuddles. It was fluffball chaos!
Several years ago I had ordered a new bed for our aging dog. Before it was delivered she crossed the rainbow bridge. I let the company know what happened in an email and they (Chewy) sent us a flower arrangement and a sympathy card!! Made me cry all over again. Rebecca Odom