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Travel is awesome. It opens your mind, makes you more empathetic, lets you meet new people, gives you an excuse to eat tasty food, and allows you to go on actual adventures. What’s not to love? One of the best things about going abroad is that you get to experience cultures that might be very different from what you’ve known all of your life.
At times, those cultural norms can seem quite bizarre to outsiders. Some of the members of the r/AskReddit community shared the weird and cool things that are completely normal in their home countries but would confuse or amuse tourists. We’ve collected some of their most interesting insights below. Put on your hiking boots, grab your backpack, and scroll down to start your trip.
Highlights
- Certain countries lack public trash cans, leaving tourists puzzled.
- Tourists often find it odd that some countries have no street addresses.
- Free refill policies in restaurants are rare outside the U.S.
- In some countries, tipping is seen as offensive and unnecessary.
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#1
In Sweden, it's a common tradition to watch Donald Duck (known as "Kalle Anka" in Swedish) cartoons on Christmas Eve at 3 PM sharp. This isn't just a casual thing - it's a national event!
Every year, millions of Swedes gather around their TVs to watch a specific 1958 Disney special called "From All of Us to All of You" (or "Kalle Anka och hans vänner önskar God Jul" in Swedish, which means "Donald Duck and his friends wish you a Merry Christmas").
Torben Møller-Nielsen 3 months ago
Same in Denmark. The show is called "Disneys Christmas show" and is on at the same time every year.
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#2
Actually telling people how you’re doing when they ask you how you’re doing. We don’t use a lot of polite phrases just for the sake of being polite, so when people ask “how are you”, it’s interpreted as a genuine question rather than polite smalltalk or a greeting. My grandma once asked a cashier how she was doing and she replied “Not great. I have type 2 diabetes.”
(I’m from Norway)
#3
I'm Irish, and we tend to swear a lot in ordinary conversations. It means nothing most of the time, just a normal part of speech, but some of my non-Irish friends seemed a bit taken aback by it.
The global travel and tourism industry is huge and one of the most competitive in the entire world. It also has a large impact on various places’ economies. Statista reports that travel and tourism contributed a mind-boggling $9.9 trillion to countries’ gross domestic product. That comes out to around 9.1% of the total global GDP.
The industry is projected to grow to over $1.1 trillion by the year 2029. That same year, the hotels market, a large chunk of the travel and tourism industry, is expected to grow to 1.8 billion users.
#4
In India, arranged marriage is still the norm. I went to law school with a guy who already had an engineering degree. He told me he only enrolled in law school because his family expects him to return to India when he's finished schooling and have an arranged marriage. As a result, he keeps enrolling in new higher education programs to postpone his engagement.
Bat cat in a hat 3 months ago
I have no idea if it's the same everywhere in India, but a colleague had an arranged marriage (as in the parents agreed they'd marry once they completed their degrees) but both she and the to-be husband would also had a say and if they didn't want, they wouldn't have to get married, so they dated for a year and then decided that yes, it was a good match - they're still together 30+ years on! Different story with a Pakistani client, he thought he was going to a party and it was his wedding, they didn't have a say at all and although they are still married they can't stand each other, they even work opposite shifts so interaction is absolutely minimal
Auntriarch 3 months ago
Also there's a difference between arranged marriage and forced marriage
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Chintan Shah 3 months ago
It's not quite as "arranged" as it used to be. These days families introduce the couple to each other and give them a few weeks/months to decide if they want to get engaged. Understandably a shorter courting period than with dating and falling in love, but there is definitely a sense of commitment from both so it tends to work out well in most cases.
Greenmantle 3 months ago
There are advantages and disadvantages in either love marriages or arranged marriages. It depends on the person, culture, and health of their parental relationship
Luke Branwen 3 months ago
Tell me one (1) advantage of an arranged marriage.
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Lyone Fein 3 months ago
There can be an upside to this. In the West there is a very high divorce rate because so many people have unrealistic expectations about marriage. But when you start out only vaguely liking your spouse and not knowing much about them, there is less pressure on needing everything to be picture perfect from the beginning.
laura lee 3 months ago
They think the are in love when it is merely infatuation and when that goes away bc infatuation always does, there is nothing there
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BrunoVI 3 months ago
After the previous post about 30-year-old living with their parents, I know better, but I still can't help thinking arranged marriages are the norm because ya know what, the parents aren't OK with you being 30 and still living at home after all. >|^D
Jessica Bertram 3 months ago
But it is also common for the new wife to move into her in-laws' home. So sometimes the new husband hasn't left at all, except to perhaps get a degree
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InoueAmani 3 months ago
An expectation even when settled abroad our neighbours (also arranged marriage)
Rich Black 2 months ago
Evidently honest conversations between parents and adults children are NOT the norm there
Laura Bradshaw 2 months ago
This is sad... women from these backgrounds do this if allowed to continue education too
Riley Quinn 3 months ago
There's an Agony Aunt column in the Washington Post that's directed to immigrants and foreign students here in the US. This arranged marriage concept crops up often.
🇳🇬 Asi Bassey 🇳🇬 3 months ago
That hand in the picture would be a particularly easy large bore intravenous cannulation.
notlikeyou1971 3 months ago
I live in the US. I couldn't imagine being forced to marry someone who you don't care about or love. I would not want to spend my life in misery. As a domestic violence survivor, I sure wouldn't want to marry a stranger and find out he beats women. He'd be sitting behind bars in a jail cell the 1st time he put his hands on me and it would be the quickest divorce you ever heard of
Georgy 1 month ago (edited)
The post is about an arranged marriage not a forced marriage,
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#5
Going to the sauna with the whole family naked. Completely normal where I live but for almost the whole planet it would be very confusing.
Edit: yes, Finland.
#6
People dying because they don't have free universal healthcare. A lot of people will choose to not get medical attention because they don't have health insurance. So they end up dying. It's cheaper to die than have insane medical debt.
The number of global inbound tourist arrivals recovered from 406 million during the height of the Covid-19 pandemic to 1.3 billion back in 2023. To put it another way, around every 6th person from around the world traveled abroad that year.
According to Statista, the most popular destination for international tourism continues to be Europe. Especially Southern and Mediterranean Europe. Around 265 million tourists traveled there in the 2022 period.
#7
We pay companies in case we get sick or injured and they decide if we are sick or injured enough for them to use the money we pay them to help us. And we still have to pay more money once they help us.
#8
In Vietnam, you can buy anything you want (and as much of it as you want) from the local pharmacy without doctor's prescriptions
#9
I've been living in China for two years and I still can't bring myself to shout in a restaurant to get a server's attention. I'm British, so I'm so used to awkwardly raising my hand and saying, 'Excuse me' when the server looks in my direction. But in China, oh boy, you just have to shout and hope you're louder than the next table.
Rigor Moreno 3 months ago
I watched a TV show explaining this part. If you're silent and meek in a restaurant, its either you did not enjoy the food or something's wrong. Well... I still respect their colorful culture. :D
With so many people traveling abroad and domestically, mutual empathy starts to matter. A lot! This means that, as a traveler, you should try to be as respectful of other people’s cultural norms as possible. It’s unlikely that you’ll be prepared for everything before you leave on your trip (many norms are very subtle and take time to notice and truly ‘get’), but what matters is the effort you put in.
Learning a bit of the local language and about the etiquette amd taboos goes a long way. Do some online research. Talk to some friends who’ve been where you’re going. Even consider going to a local cultural center for some useful resources.
On the flip side, it’s a reminder for locals to try to be friendly to outsiders. Sure, some tourists will inevitably be loud, rude, and disruptive. But many and more of them are decent folks who are having completely novel experiences outside their comfort zones. A few helpful words, a smile, some recommendations, and a gentle guiding hand can really make their trip memorable.
#10
In New Zealand being barefoot out of the house is considered normal. Many children walk barefoot to school (they have shoes, just choose not to wear them). You'll also see barefoot people in supermarkets and fast food restaurants
Littlemiss 3 months ago
It's not as common as it was many years ago. As kids we didn't wear shoes unless expected to. Mind you, no snakes or venomous creatures here
#11
Cheering when someone accidentally drops and smashes something in a restaurant/pub.
#12
Rootbeer floats. I tried to introduce this American delicacy to some German friends. They thought I was playing a trick on them. Thought it was so weird and gross they wouldn't even try it.
No matter how different people might seem on the surface, there are always things that unite us. Food, for example, is something that’s shared across every culture across the globe. Sure, the recipes, ingredients, cooking methods, and eating etiquette might differ from country to country.
But broadly speaking, you’ll still see folks get together in a communal space to eat together. It’s difficult to imagine any culture not having some type of traditional soup or dumpling to offer. Eating is a way to connect with the people you love and to show respect to someone from outside the community.
Singing, dancing, music, and art—they’re also universal and core parts of the human experience. Even if you don’t speak the local language (well, yet), you can still find other ways to connect with everyone around you. Travel might seem scary initially, but you’d be surprised by how many people are kind to outsiders.
#13
In Asian culture. Relatives fight with each other. Because each one wants to pay the bill for the whole family, eating out.
'I will pay. I am the most elder person. I have responsibility to the family'
'No I will pay. Even though I am young. I earn well enough. To cover. Let me pay this time'
That sorta argument happens.
When I tell it to westerners. They don't believe it.
#14
Here in Sydney, the police regularly deploy d**g detection dogs at train stations. They bring them into pubs as well. People visiting from overseas seem genuinely shocked by it, but most people here seem to ignore it.
What are some local cultural norms that you think outsiders would find a bit (or even a lot) strange, dear Pandas? On the flip side, what were the biggest culture shocks for you on your last trip? How did you handle them and how quickly did you adapt? You can tell us all about it in the comments.
#16
Having a maple syrup reserve. The most lucrative heist in Canada's history was the Maple Reserve. Many millions of dollars in maple syrup were stolen. I just listened to the 'My Favorite Murder' podcast episode about it
#17
TV ads for pharmaceutical products.
Jessica SpeLangm 3 months ago
USA person here....I used to not care one way or the other. Now I can't stand it. I mute the commercials and go in another room for a few minutes.
#18
In Malaysia, calling older people not related to you uncle or aunty
#19
Adding tax onto the price listed on the tag. That drives non-USA folks nuts.
#20
Living with parents is common in India. People aren't considered 'losers' for living with heir parents. I never understood why being 30 and living with your parents was considered as something 'bad'
Passerby 3 months ago
I think this is common in Asia. It's totally normal to live with your parents even into old ages. It might even be respected because it means you are taking care of your parents. I was surprised to learn that this is considered bad in the West. I was even more surprised when I heard that some family expect their child to move out at 18.
#21
Weights and measures.
I’m 5’10” and weigh 195lbs
My over cooks at 350 degrees
My pool is 72 degrees
But
I drive 80km/h
The temp outside is 21 degrees
I buy meat in either lbs or kg
Milk comes in 1 litre bags
Liquor in 26 fl oz bottles
Lumber in 2”x4” (which are really 1 1/2 by 3 1/2) plywood in 4x8’ sheets.
#22
Flashing headlights to warn incoming traffic of police presence or speed traps. Got a few awkward reactions doing it abroad.
#23
As an American, when i “lived” in England for three months, i realized just how rude and unacceptable Brits view the act of “pointing fingers”.
not that i was ever doing shit like pointing at and/or making fun of people, but just any kind of pointing even remotely in the vicinity of anyone’s direction was just a straight up no-no, regardless of context. my ex-fiancée (who was British) was constantly like “stop doing that” lmao. kinda interesting.
#24
In my family's home country, it is normal to "try" things out in food stands, like, just shove your hand in the pile and try one, you like it? You buy by weight from the pile of whatever it is you tried. And it is apparently totally acceptable to just snack on whatever while you shop and browse through the store, as long as you buy something at the end.
I had a massive cultural shock on my first visit 😂.
Green Tree 3 months ago
This would gross me out. Too many nasty people do not wash their hands after using the toilet
#26
Waving at magpies. I've done it in the USA and people look to see who I'm waving at and find a bird. I don't stop waving to the birds f**k off because of the superstition that goes with the number of magpies you see.
>One for sorrow, Two for joy, Three for a girl, Four for a boy, Five for silver, Six for gold, Seven for a secret, Never to be told".
#27
Coming over around diner time unannounced, fully expecting to be welcome and invited to dine with them.
ZuriLovesYou 3 months ago (edited)
Apparently, this is in the Netherlands. I can't even fathom someone walking into my home without telling me first, expecting to eat my food.
#28
1. No small talks. You don't even acknowledge strangers, no random "How are ya" to people you pass on the street. You can say "Good day" to your neighbours or people you know, but not strangers. When you go shopping, you don't engage in polite banter with the cashier, it's just "Good day", they tell you the price of your items, you say "Card. Thank you. Goodbye" and that's it. No small talk with friends. No small talk whatsoever.
2. You can say "How are you" when meeting a friend, and the normal response to it is to complain about your latest problems. After they're done complaining, it's your turn to say "Ah f**k" and offer some advice or help, or tell them about you being in a similar situation. Complain about your problems, then they offer advice or help. And both sides mean to help, it's not just "Ah, call me one day, I could help you with that".
3. Don't talk about mayonnaise unless you want to divide people and start a war. Don't even think about starting mayonnaise conversation when people are drunk. It's very serious. It's something that's discussed at early stages of relationship and can be a dealbreaker for many.
Edit to add some more.
4. We don't tip. There's no tip culture. No one expects tip. You tip for excellent service, and if you leave a tip, people will be happy, but no one will be pissed if you don't tip.
5. We love to pick mushrooms. Every autumn most people go to the woods to pick mushrooms at least once. And I'm not even talking about the psychedelic ones. Every person in the country has at least basic knowledge about mushrooms that are safe to eat and the toxic ones. I was surprised when I moved abroad and found out how many people in my new home were scared of picking mushrooms because what if they're not safe? They just have no idea at all.
6. Carp fish swimming in the bathtub before Christmas Eve.
7. We celebrate Christmas on the 24th of December, not the 25th, and we open our presents in the evening.
8. SHOES OFF AS SOON AS YOU ENTER THE HOUSE.
9. There's a trash can under the sink in the kitchen and one drawer that has a plastic bag filled with other plastic bags. In every house.
10. You know that gesture when you beat your fist to your chest twice, like “I got you bro”, sign of truth and generally bro vibe? Yeah well in my country’s sign language it means “f****t”.
#29
If we're having a casual gathering at a house, we usually don't sit on long tables but put newspapers on the floor as a makeshift "dining table" and sit around it to eat
I've had parties like this my whole life and it was only when my foreigner friends got culture shock from it did I realize it's not a norm in other countries.
TribbleThinking 3 months ago
I'm guessing this is in a warm country, where being closer to the ground can be desirably cool.
#30
Bunny chow 😅 " an Indian South African fast food dish consisting of a hollowed-out loaf of white bread filled with curry and a serving of salad on the side.".
TribbleThinking 3 months ago
This might be just the place to ask! I knew about "bunny" in SA, but does anyone know what Indian word it might be derived from? For instance, I'd imagined a word that maybe looked like "bhani" originally?
#31
Bringing your own alcohol to parties, being naked in saunas, ice bathing, no gendered toilets.
Graham_Illegal 3 months ago
In my experience, men tend to behave terribly in public restrooms, except when they're uncertain about the next person's gender. In those cases, they're more careful and tidy. Non-gendered bathrooms in Finland or Estonia were by far the most civilized experiences I've had, and I see no reason not to standardize them internationally. The model works in most households, and all it takes is a lock and a bin.
#32
Apparently ice in a drink.
Kristy Marion 3 months ago
I work for an airline with a lot of American passengers and they love their ice!
#33
Asking “how are you?” after greeting someone, and no, you are not supposed to answer this question. Goes like “how are you” ping pong. Especially weird when you switch to silence right afterwards (shop/taxi/store).
#34
Congratulating everyone who is present at a birthday party.
#37
Tipping.
It's very strange going to Asia or Europe and walking away from a meal without leaving money on the table or adding an extra $10 to the receipt.
What do you think ?
Savahax 3 months ago
Lots of hate on the US again. Funny and understandable, but most US pandas aren't the reason for it. None actually
Rob D 3 months ago
American here. That's gracious of you to say. But polling suggests 40ish% of us are pretty f*****g vile.
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Panda McPandaface 3 months ago
It's not 'guess the country' - tell us the country and then make your point. Too much North America as usual, the ones from the rest of the world were much more interesting.
Solidhog 3 months ago
In my country the government hate cars. They tax you for having a car. Most of the cost of fuel is tax, and then they tax you on the tax! There are not many places left you can park for free. Even the hospitals charge to park when you turn up! But they keep allowing people to build shops and services outside of towns. But our public transport is so expensive and bad that people are left no other option but to use cars.
Steve Robert 3 months ago
It should be illegal for doctors and hospitals to charge patients and their visitors parking fees, which are higher than a co-payment.
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Seonag Udell 3 months ago
My favourite was learning about Canadian loonies and toonies, and thanks to pandas explaining about it being named after the bird on the tails side.
Paul Gerrard 3 months ago
I would have expected guns to get a mention. The usa seem hell bent on executing each other and seem to consider a right to have arms is entrenched but it wasnt even in the constitution. Its was an amendment. Why not amend it back a bit?. Who needs an AR for protection?
T'Mar of Vulcan 3 months ago
When visiting London I found the people to be very "rude". My brother pointed out that it's because South Africans look each other in the eye when they walk past someone, and Londoners don't. I was always terrified someone was going to bump into me because they never looked up.
Nicola Mawson 3 months ago
So, nice trivia game trying to work out the geographic location of most of these
Savahax 3 months ago
Lots of hate on the US again. Funny and understandable, but most US pandas aren't the reason for it. None actually
Rob D 3 months ago
American here. That's gracious of you to say. But polling suggests 40ish% of us are pretty f*****g vile.
Load More Replies... Panda McPandaface 3 months ago
It's not 'guess the country' - tell us the country and then make your point. Too much North America as usual, the ones from the rest of the world were much more interesting.
Solidhog 3 months ago
In my country the government hate cars. They tax you for having a car. Most of the cost of fuel is tax, and then they tax you on the tax! There are not many places left you can park for free. Even the hospitals charge to park when you turn up! But they keep allowing people to build shops and services outside of towns. But our public transport is so expensive and bad that people are left no other option but to use cars.
Steve Robert 3 months ago
It should be illegal for doctors and hospitals to charge patients and their visitors parking fees, which are higher than a co-payment.
Load More Replies... Seonag Udell 3 months ago
My favourite was learning about Canadian loonies and toonies, and thanks to pandas explaining about it being named after the bird on the tails side.
Paul Gerrard 3 months ago
I would have expected guns to get a mention. The usa seem hell bent on executing each other and seem to consider a right to have arms is entrenched but it wasnt even in the constitution. Its was an amendment. Why not amend it back a bit?. Who needs an AR for protection?
T'Mar of Vulcan 3 months ago
When visiting London I found the people to be very "rude". My brother pointed out that it's because South Africans look each other in the eye when they walk past someone, and Londoners don't. I was always terrified someone was going to bump into me because they never looked up.
Nicola Mawson 3 months ago
So, nice trivia game trying to work out the geographic location of most of these
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