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It’s finally time to make it “even Steven” after all these times we've looked at the wholesome couples, best friends, partners in crime, and whatnot messing around together under one roof and wondered what on earth we've done to deserve living alone. We all know how much easier it is to survive the autumn blues, breakups, hard days at work and whatever challenges life throws at you when you have a spare shoulder to cry onto. We know that, okay?
So when someone asked a much-anticipated question “What is a highly underrated advantage of living alone?” on r/AskReddit the loners who don’t share their postcode with anyone saw it as a perfect moment to celebrate just that. The answers started flooding in one by one, showing the joy of simple things like never having to wait for a bathroom and total control over heat and air conditioning.
I mean, you can freely talk to yourself out loud, forget manners and quit politeness, put the responsibilities aside and indulge in the sweetness of doing nothing... Isn't this basically the closest we’ll get to the ultimate freedom in a society where no one feels free anymore?
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#1
Every single item in your house is exactly where you left it the last time you used it.
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#2
Everything is your own mess. I don't want to clean up after someone, and I don't want to nag someone to clean. Those are all my dishes in the sink to do, or to let sit there for a week. Feels good.
Also, ripping a fart you feel super proud of with no shame or holding back.
Bored Panda spoke with Susan Petang, a certified divorce coach and the creator of “The Quiet Zone Coaching,” who teaches women how to stop feeling overwhelmed and start waking up happy in the morning again. Susan was happy to share some insights on the often overlooked perks of living alone and how we can all make the most of it.
“Sometimes it's really nice to be alone! You don't have to think about the needs of anyone else. You can go to bed whenever you want, and get up when you have to, without accommodating someone else's schedule,” Susan said.
She continued: “Don't want to eat healthy tonight? No problem! Want to have dinner at 11PM? No worries, there's no one else to answer to. You can eat what you like without having to worry about someone else's preferences. You can watch as much TV or play as many video games as you want. If you want to work until 3AM, you can—you don't have to worry about disturbing anyone else. Vacations can be wherever YOU want to go, doing what you want to do.”
#4
There are a lot of advantages but my top is not having to deal with people and their damn problems
Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago
This would be my number one. Living with other people is a nightmare. In my experience, almost everyone turns out to be a complete piece of s**t.
#5
I’m an introvert so when I come home, I want to be by myself. Social situations are draining and I can only re-energize by having alone time. I am not antisocial, but I have hidden in my room for hours for my roommate to leave because I don’t want to answer 'How was your day?' for the millionth time
~hUmMuS vIbEs~ 3 years ago
Yeah like sometimes I don't wanna talk about my day I just wanna watch youtube in my room.
In fact, Susan describes living alone as “the ultimate in self-care.” She added that “you can plant whatever you want in the garden, take as many candle-lit baths as you want, and read whenever you want without worrying about the needs of someone else.”On the other hand, living alone has some practical downsides. “There is nobody to share the chores with. You and you alone are responsible for taking out the trash, cleaning the cat's litter pan, and walking the dog. If you get sick, there is nobody to help, no one to make you chicken soup.”
#7
Total control over heat/air conditioning. Highly underrated. You can have control over your costs and/or your comfort.
EP 3 years ago (edited)
This should be way higher! This is the number one perk. Total control over the windows, open or shut, the blinds, open or shut, the bathroom door when using the bathroom can stay open. and I saved the best for last - when you’re cold you simply dial up that thermostat with zero regard. When you’re hot you can freeze yourself out if you feel like. If anyone complains, they can go TO THEIR HOME!!
#8
If I want to eat blueberry Eggos for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, no one judges
#9
When you get home, that food you been thinkin about all day long will be there.
Moreover, you're responsible for paying all the bills, argues Susan. “It's always easier with two incomes, and if you lose your job, it can be pretty scary. When you get home from work, there's nobody to share your day with, laugh with, and play with. Sure, you can take a friend on vacation with you, but it's just not the same.” The life coach added that one of the biggest joys in life is doing things for others. “When you live with someone else, you can experience that joy every single day!”
#10
You can walk around with no pants and go to the bathroom with the door open
Nami Tantrum 3 years ago
joke's on you, i leave the door open all the time.. but that might be because i have cats and a toddler xD
#11
Being able to nap at the drop of a hat and having the peace and quiet to do so
#12
Dieting is like 400x easier. I know it's a bad excuse, but hear me out. When I'm dieting I won't buy a single junk food item, and I won't eat it since I won't have it. Live with someone who buys tons of junk, especially someone who buys food and doesn't expect you to not eat it, like your parents, and it makes it a lot harder.
Yeah I know it's a bad excuse for breaking diet but it's super easy for me to just never buy junk food and never have it around but it's hard for me to avoid it when I'm living with it
EP 3 years ago
Not a bad excuse at all. Living alone gives you total control over your food choices without obstacles. That’s just fact. No one has made a big meal and the food will go to waste if you don’t eat it and you feel pressured. No one has ordered pizza and asks if you want some and you started your diet 4 hours ago. It is way easier to shed pounds alone. It’s a silver lining of being alone.
It's no wonder that living alone may get pretty lonely. Susan said that the best way to avoid loneliness is the MGP Method: Mindful, Grateful, Positive. She explained: “Mindful: Instead of regretting the past, or pinning your happiness on some future event (that may or may not happen!), focus on where you are in life right now. We spend 100% of our lives in 'now'! It's OK to reminisce about the past and make plans for the future, but enjoy those when it's appropriate to do them. Focus on what you're doing, sensing, feeling, and observing in this moment. Experience this moment. Be curious about it. Immerse yourself in it—whether or not the moment is good, bad, or indifferent.”
#13
Being able to do whatever you want without consulting someone else first
Rata Robinson 3 years ago
Making your own mistakes and having nobody looking over your shoulder pointing them out :)
#14
You can talk out loud to yourself (something I do often as I work from home) and nobody is around to think it's weird
#15
When I lived alone I would clean my place and it would stay clean. Now I clean my place and it is messy again in about 10 minutes, it feels like.
“Grateful: If we're staying focused on this moment, right now, then it just makes sense to make it the best it can be, right? So, what's good about it? What can you be grateful for—no matter how small? Find wonder and awe for trees, rain, snow, and sunshine you see from your window; be amazed by the technology that makes our lives easier, like cell phones, TVs, and computers. Be grateful for the tiniest of 'wins' in your life, like when you remember to take out the trash, have enough money to pay the electric bill, or have enough food for dinner. Make your mantra, 'Something good about right now is...'”
“Positive: Instead of thinking, 'This stinks!' or, 'I really hate being alone,' or 'I'll never find someone to share my time with,' change the Negative Nancy talk in your head into something positive. Instead, think, 'I can watch anything I want on TV,' 'I love being able to eat whenever I want,' and 'Maybe I'll have someone in my life someday, but for now I'm going to enjoy my freedom!'”
#16
You never have to watch terrible movies, wait to use the bathroom or take a shower, you can eat what you want, and you can decorate however you like.
#17
You dont have to tiptoe around the house worried you'll wake up roommates/family members.
#18
So i've been living alone for the last couple of years and to be honest i feel like i want it to stay that way for the rest of my life for the following reasons:
I can make any food i like and if i feel lazy i can eat outside i don't have to answer to anyone or cater to anyone's needs
I just clean the house once per week and it stay squeaky clean for the rest of the week.
I can do whatever i want in my free time sometimes i want to go out and do something interesting other times i want to be a couch potato i do not have to cater to anyone's needs.
Budgeting becomes super easy i manage to save a lot of money and at the same time buy whatever i need.
I have a king size super comfy bed all for me if its too hot i can remove the covers, if it's too cold i can put on as much covers as i need no need to ask someone for their permission.
I can invite any of my friends anytime i want and we can do whatever we want anytime we want.
I work in a stressful career and nothing beats coming home to a nice quiet house and just relaxing and recovering from a stressful work day without having to answer silly questions like how was my day or having to listen to how another persons day went.
These are just a few reasons i thought of the top of my head i am sure i could have come up with more reasons but suffice to say that no matter how much i think about it when i compare my single days to the days i was in a relationship the single days always end up being much better.
Susan explained that it's not being alone that makes you lonely; it's what you tell yourself about it, how you perceive it, that makes you feel bad. “So, who wants to feel bad? Choose to change the way you view being alone. Focus on the benefits and the good parts. Focus on solving the problems that arise from being solo, instead of complaining about them.
Mindfulness + Gratitude + Positivity = Happiness,” the life coach concluded.
#19
If there’s a mess and no one else sees it, is there even a mess?
#21
You can walk around naked 24/7
#22
You know exactly what state your home is going to be in when you arrive back at it
#23
You can basically do whatever whenever without bothering anyone. When I lived with my parents if I showered after like 9pm, you'd think I'd been running around the house playing a keytar or something with how much they complained about the noise the next morning. Plus I don't wake up to anyone else's noise, either.
Sometimes if I wake up while dreaming and I'm super disoriented I think I'm back home and worry that I'm going to hear people walking around, slamming doors, yelling at each other, etc. at some point, then I remember that I'm in my own house, in my own bed, alone with my dogs so I can rest in peace. (Not dead, though, hopefully.)
I think I value living alone a lot more because I grew up with parents that thought screaming at each other every other night was the best way to work out their conflicts. Silence in my house is absolutely golden.
#24
Learning life skills. Paying your bills, cleaning, time management, etc.. You just end up learning these based on experience.
~hUmMuS vIbEs~ 3 years ago
All the food will be stuff you like bc you can grocery shop for yourself.
#25
For many years I lived in a full size (3br 2ba)family house all by myself. Freaking LOVED it. My brother lives with me now but that's still super cool. Really the best part is simply not having to deal with people.
Anime Panda 3 years ago
I love not dealing with people. Like this person said"the best part is simply not having to deal with people." Aren't all of our brothers/sisters/siblings aliens?
#26
Every second is yours. No waste. No waiting on someone else ever. No cleaning up after anyone else. No doing something someone else wants. It's incredibly efficient, unless you're dying.
#27
Knowing exactly where everything is. There's no compromising. All my belongings are in the perfect place
#28
Being able to come and go as you please. Doing stuff at any hour and not worrying.
I like to cook and clean during my productive hours (2-5am), and I like to shop at midnight when noone is about to bug me.
Now living with my husbands family I have to keep to their schedule of up at 8am and asleep at 11pm. I also listen to them argue all day every day, get yelled at in crossfire and have to take care of a three year old.
I much preferred being alone. I am only still here because I love my husband too much to leave, but this is year 5 now, it is rough...
#29
You don't have to politely tell someone you will be out late
3 years ago
I live alone, but I have to have a talk with my cats if I'm going to be out late. They need to know, otherwise the look of betrayal on their faces is to much.
#30
I live alone and [poop] at work; a six pack of toilet paper is a year's supply.
What do you think ?
Biba Little 3 years ago
Thank you for this, now I feel better about living alone. It sounds more like a privilege than just "being alone".
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
Living alone IS a privilege. I am far happier than many of my friends, because I live alone and have total autonomy. Happiness is a choice, and sometimes it's easier to make that choice when you're solo. I enjoy my own company, I have books, and the music I like, the movies I like, the schedule I like. It is a lucky thing indeed.
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Al Christensen 3 years ago
Except for the year I rented a room, and the five years I was married, I've lived alone my entire adult life. Almost 50 years now? It's great.
Kanuli 3 years ago
I still prefer to do most of these together. If I have the choice not to wait to shower vs shower together, have the bed for yourself vs cuddling with my wife. Watching what I want vs watching what we want together. Food tastes better with her around aswell. I can’t think of anything downside really.
Dre Mosley 3 years ago (edited)
Other than a live-in girlfriend and an extended guest some years ago, I've lived alone for about 20 years. I'm so used to it, that I can't imagine living any other way.
Yoga Kitty 3 years ago
I have been living 'alone', that is with my pets, all my adult life and I love it. You never have to compromise on anything - I have peace and quiet and my favourite food and get to do what I like whenever I like without any further ado. The only times I (sometimes) dislike living on my own are when I am sick because it makes me a bit sentimental and whiny. Usually, I am completely content with myself and the kitties. And I absolutely do not envy my workmates, family and friends all the drama they tell me about. Some people confuse being alone with being lonely. That is not the same, guys! And I defenitely do not need pity from people who have never ever felt the benefits of living on their own! "But what are you doing on Christmas?!?" Whatever I like, as always... But the question I have been asked most often is "But aren't you afraid, all on your own?" It sometimes makes me wonder if people consider their SO as some kind of guard dog?
Miss Frankfurter 3 years ago (edited)
I've lived on my own my entire adult life, except for the first 6 months I moved down to Florida when I was 20. Got the heck outa there and never again. If I have heavy stuff to take outside my house bring in my house or move around my house I have friends with SOs or husband's to help me out with that. Love living alone. If I ever found someone "special" I think I would want to purchase a semi-detached house, both sides of it, and put a door in between.
William Teach 3 years ago
Being able to sit down and read a book and no one asks you questions. Phone rings? Vmail. Doorbell? Nope. Or sitting there playing an instrument. Or just sitting there in a fog having pulled out your Nothing Box.
Pezor Zass 3 years ago
Not having to deal with someone's irrational idea about where something is supposed to be put away.
Lorrie Rothstein 3 years ago (edited)
You can be on the phone talking to whoever you want to,you go to bed when you want,you can leave things on the floor,you can leave the lights on if you want
A Head 3 years ago
I just realized that I have never ever lived alone....I guess there was one summer toward the end of high school, when my parents were getting divorced, and they both basically moved out of our house, but I constantly had friends over, spending the night, and partying. I'd come home from work at 10pm, and there would be a half dozen people naked in the pool, with cans of beer floating around. Good times....
Greta Petruškevičiūtė 3 years ago
Some of these pros are mixed with being single, not living alone :) Maybe i'm just this lucky, but I have bf and we live together and I still do not worry about many things, when someone upvoted these as pros for living alone :)
Annette Blanks 3 years ago
I agree with all of this. I'm so much happier being single than I was being married. There is absolutely 0 pressure! Don't have to worry what's for dinner or cleaning up hubby's messes, I know where everything is, I don't have to eat food I don't want, I can put on my pajamas as early as I want and lounge around, the grocery thing is awesome, buying exactly what I want, staying in bed late, binge watching TV, there are very few disadvantages
Rens 3 years ago
I think I've got the best of both worlds because I'm in a relationship and I still live alone; we live in the same building but we have no desire to live together even if we could afford to (we are both chronically ill and disabled and would lose a lot of money if we live together)
Eiram 3 years ago
If you have a good other-half than you both can hole up together and lock the world out. This list applies to me and yet I have been married for 6 years and together for 20... still block out people who do these things though. Never have roommates if I have a choice (but staying with family is still appreciated over hotels)
Key Lime 6 months ago
I LOVE being a mother and raising my children was a joy. They are now 32 and 29 and have moved out, which is what was expected. Their father, my husband on the other hand is still here and has turned into a toddler with his weponized Incompetence. When did he stop knowing how to cook and clean while I taught the boys to take care of themselves?
Perry Lambert 1 year ago
When I open the cutlery drawer i know the spoons are facing the correct way.
elloelloello 3 years ago
You can build blanket forts and watch terrible movies in them without anyone judging you
Patricia Kasprowski 3 years ago
I have the best of both worlds. Am a senior citizen who family did not approve of my living alone in a large house in the country. Set up my house as a two family house. We share only the kitchen. My area is plenty big enough for me -- my own living room, bathroom, bedroom, walk-in closet. We share the kitchen but since I am retired, I can eat when I want, usually while they are at work. We are friendly but not in each other's face daily. Keeps my family off my back and I have my privacy and can live life as I wish. Think this is something more senior citizens should think about if they have a large enough home for it to work. They are gone all day to work/school, I can have my pets in my area and my family feels I am safe so they are no longer on my back!
renee brack 3 years ago
I upvoted every post in this thread. Every one of them is true for me too.
abby smink 3 years ago
Actually being able to sleep at night, actually being able to prioritize myself and my health, I barely have to clean, especially the bathroom, and the only problems I have to worry about are my own .
Briana Kessler 3 years ago
I LOVE living alone so much that I don't even want to get married. It really is that great
v 3 years ago
I really can't bend myself to adapt to the degree needed to live with another person so I've lived most of my adult life by myself. The only negative thought I've ever had about living alone is that I will, most likely, die alone. There is legitimate fear (humans, for the most part, are hardwired for social interaction) in this idea but, so far as yet, this fear hasn't driven me to "find someone" for the sake of not being alone. Some of us, more than is acknowledged, are simply hardwired differently.
Mike Crow 3 years ago
When I was in the navy, I returned from a long sail and my best friend and crew mate was good enough to give me a lift with his family. Seeing his kids and wife give hugs and kisses made me happy, but when they dropped me off at my apartment and I stood there in the silence of that empty place, I felt so alone and so small.
Gerard Neaux 3 years ago
It feels like all these people lived with terrible roommates. I have all these things and I live with my wife.
albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago
Have lived alone for long periods and have been married w/kids for long term. Its a matter of having the right partner, and being willing to compromise sometimes. I am concerned the latest generation that avoids being social will become asocial/isolated. I was fine with being a bachelor, but I am happier being in a healthy relationship.
Chewie Baron 3 years ago
I do enjoy all of these, living by myself, but I do miss talking to people.
Fajar Kurniawan 3 years ago (edited)
Ok thanks for this post. Now I feel better. Sure I want to make a family. But this makes me feel a burden has lift off my chest
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
Living alone can be a very joyful and empowering thing. When I got married, my biggest fear was having to live with someone; be around someone all the time. It wasn't as horrible as I imagined, but when we divorced, I never lived with anyone again. I would stay with my SO on weekends, or he with me, but living together 24/7 was just unthinkable for me.
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Kimi Tomminello 3 years ago
The one thing I miss about living alone is having complete control of the bedroom TV. My hubby has decided his TV needs are more important than mine. I'm so dang sick of law and order and chicago PD reruns 😂
Piet Puk 3 years ago
And nobody mentions how you can masturbate 5 times a day without judgement.
Kanuli 3 years ago
Why couldn’t you with a partner? Mine encourages it, or helps...
Load More Replies... WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago
Seems to me that a lot of people never have been in a real relationship when I see this list of advantages of living alone. My wife and I enjoy all of these advantages because we don't b!tch over trivialities. But sure, if you think that finding your dirty socks at the same place where you left them 4 weeks ago is a major plus in your life, be my guest.
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
I have been in several "real" relationships... although you might not consider any relationship that isn't yours "real". I think it's kind of sad that what you took out of the whole post, despite all the eloquence of the writers is that no one else can be happy because we're bitching about trivialities. Many many self actualized people find great joy in living alone. We have "real" relationships, and real lives, just on our own terms. Your wife must be a real treasure.
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Biba Little 3 years ago
Thank you for this, now I feel better about living alone. It sounds more like a privilege than just "being alone".
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
Living alone IS a privilege. I am far happier than many of my friends, because I live alone and have total autonomy. Happiness is a choice, and sometimes it's easier to make that choice when you're solo. I enjoy my own company, I have books, and the music I like, the movies I like, the schedule I like. It is a lucky thing indeed.
Load More Replies... Al Christensen 3 years ago
Except for the year I rented a room, and the five years I was married, I've lived alone my entire adult life. Almost 50 years now? It's great.
Kanuli 3 years ago
I still prefer to do most of these together. If I have the choice not to wait to shower vs shower together, have the bed for yourself vs cuddling with my wife. Watching what I want vs watching what we want together. Food tastes better with her around aswell. I can’t think of anything downside really.
Dre Mosley 3 years ago (edited)
Other than a live-in girlfriend and an extended guest some years ago, I've lived alone for about 20 years. I'm so used to it, that I can't imagine living any other way.
Yoga Kitty 3 years ago
I have been living 'alone', that is with my pets, all my adult life and I love it. You never have to compromise on anything - I have peace and quiet and my favourite food and get to do what I like whenever I like without any further ado. The only times I (sometimes) dislike living on my own are when I am sick because it makes me a bit sentimental and whiny. Usually, I am completely content with myself and the kitties. And I absolutely do not envy my workmates, family and friends all the drama they tell me about. Some people confuse being alone with being lonely. That is not the same, guys! And I defenitely do not need pity from people who have never ever felt the benefits of living on their own! "But what are you doing on Christmas?!?" Whatever I like, as always... But the question I have been asked most often is "But aren't you afraid, all on your own?" It sometimes makes me wonder if people consider their SO as some kind of guard dog?
Miss Frankfurter 3 years ago (edited)
I've lived on my own my entire adult life, except for the first 6 months I moved down to Florida when I was 20. Got the heck outa there and never again. If I have heavy stuff to take outside my house bring in my house or move around my house I have friends with SOs or husband's to help me out with that. Love living alone. If I ever found someone "special" I think I would want to purchase a semi-detached house, both sides of it, and put a door in between.
William Teach 3 years ago
Being able to sit down and read a book and no one asks you questions. Phone rings? Vmail. Doorbell? Nope. Or sitting there playing an instrument. Or just sitting there in a fog having pulled out your Nothing Box.
Pezor Zass 3 years ago
Not having to deal with someone's irrational idea about where something is supposed to be put away.
Lorrie Rothstein 3 years ago (edited)
You can be on the phone talking to whoever you want to,you go to bed when you want,you can leave things on the floor,you can leave the lights on if you want
A Head 3 years ago
I just realized that I have never ever lived alone....I guess there was one summer toward the end of high school, when my parents were getting divorced, and they both basically moved out of our house, but I constantly had friends over, spending the night, and partying. I'd come home from work at 10pm, and there would be a half dozen people naked in the pool, with cans of beer floating around. Good times....
Greta Petruškevičiūtė 3 years ago
Some of these pros are mixed with being single, not living alone :) Maybe i'm just this lucky, but I have bf and we live together and I still do not worry about many things, when someone upvoted these as pros for living alone :)
Annette Blanks 3 years ago
I agree with all of this. I'm so much happier being single than I was being married. There is absolutely 0 pressure! Don't have to worry what's for dinner or cleaning up hubby's messes, I know where everything is, I don't have to eat food I don't want, I can put on my pajamas as early as I want and lounge around, the grocery thing is awesome, buying exactly what I want, staying in bed late, binge watching TV, there are very few disadvantages
Rens 3 years ago
I think I've got the best of both worlds because I'm in a relationship and I still live alone; we live in the same building but we have no desire to live together even if we could afford to (we are both chronically ill and disabled and would lose a lot of money if we live together)
Eiram 3 years ago
If you have a good other-half than you both can hole up together and lock the world out. This list applies to me and yet I have been married for 6 years and together for 20... still block out people who do these things though. Never have roommates if I have a choice (but staying with family is still appreciated over hotels)
Key Lime 6 months ago
I LOVE being a mother and raising my children was a joy. They are now 32 and 29 and have moved out, which is what was expected. Their father, my husband on the other hand is still here and has turned into a toddler with his weponized Incompetence. When did he stop knowing how to cook and clean while I taught the boys to take care of themselves?
Perry Lambert 1 year ago
When I open the cutlery drawer i know the spoons are facing the correct way.
elloelloello 3 years ago
You can build blanket forts and watch terrible movies in them without anyone judging you
Patricia Kasprowski 3 years ago
I have the best of both worlds. Am a senior citizen who family did not approve of my living alone in a large house in the country. Set up my house as a two family house. We share only the kitchen. My area is plenty big enough for me -- my own living room, bathroom, bedroom, walk-in closet. We share the kitchen but since I am retired, I can eat when I want, usually while they are at work. We are friendly but not in each other's face daily. Keeps my family off my back and I have my privacy and can live life as I wish. Think this is something more senior citizens should think about if they have a large enough home for it to work. They are gone all day to work/school, I can have my pets in my area and my family feels I am safe so they are no longer on my back!
renee brack 3 years ago
I upvoted every post in this thread. Every one of them is true for me too.
abby smink 3 years ago
Actually being able to sleep at night, actually being able to prioritize myself and my health, I barely have to clean, especially the bathroom, and the only problems I have to worry about are my own .
Briana Kessler 3 years ago
I LOVE living alone so much that I don't even want to get married. It really is that great
v 3 years ago
I really can't bend myself to adapt to the degree needed to live with another person so I've lived most of my adult life by myself. The only negative thought I've ever had about living alone is that I will, most likely, die alone. There is legitimate fear (humans, for the most part, are hardwired for social interaction) in this idea but, so far as yet, this fear hasn't driven me to "find someone" for the sake of not being alone. Some of us, more than is acknowledged, are simply hardwired differently.
Mike Crow 3 years ago
When I was in the navy, I returned from a long sail and my best friend and crew mate was good enough to give me a lift with his family. Seeing his kids and wife give hugs and kisses made me happy, but when they dropped me off at my apartment and I stood there in the silence of that empty place, I felt so alone and so small.
Gerard Neaux 3 years ago
It feels like all these people lived with terrible roommates. I have all these things and I live with my wife.
albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago
Have lived alone for long periods and have been married w/kids for long term. Its a matter of having the right partner, and being willing to compromise sometimes. I am concerned the latest generation that avoids being social will become asocial/isolated. I was fine with being a bachelor, but I am happier being in a healthy relationship.
Chewie Baron 3 years ago
I do enjoy all of these, living by myself, but I do miss talking to people.
Fajar Kurniawan 3 years ago (edited)
Ok thanks for this post. Now I feel better. Sure I want to make a family. But this makes me feel a burden has lift off my chest
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
Living alone can be a very joyful and empowering thing. When I got married, my biggest fear was having to live with someone; be around someone all the time. It wasn't as horrible as I imagined, but when we divorced, I never lived with anyone again. I would stay with my SO on weekends, or he with me, but living together 24/7 was just unthinkable for me.
Load More Replies... Kimi Tomminello 3 years ago
The one thing I miss about living alone is having complete control of the bedroom TV. My hubby has decided his TV needs are more important than mine. I'm so dang sick of law and order and chicago PD reruns 😂
Piet Puk 3 years ago
And nobody mentions how you can masturbate 5 times a day without judgement.
Kanuli 3 years ago
Why couldn’t you with a partner? Mine encourages it, or helps...
Load More Replies... WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago
Seems to me that a lot of people never have been in a real relationship when I see this list of advantages of living alone. My wife and I enjoy all of these advantages because we don't b!tch over trivialities. But sure, if you think that finding your dirty socks at the same place where you left them 4 weeks ago is a major plus in your life, be my guest.
GoddessOdd 3 years ago
I have been in several "real" relationships... although you might not consider any relationship that isn't yours "real". I think it's kind of sad that what you took out of the whole post, despite all the eloquence of the writers is that no one else can be happy because we're bitching about trivialities. Many many self actualized people find great joy in living alone. We have "real" relationships, and real lives, just on our own terms. Your wife must be a real treasure.
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