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Man Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His Kid
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Man Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His Kid

Man Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His KidMan Sprays His Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His KidGirl Throws Water Balloons At A Boy While Her Mom Won’t Let Him Defend Himself, Dad IntervenesMom Okayed Girl’s Throwing Water Balloons At Kid With Sensory Issues, Shocked She Got SprayedSister Allows Her Daughter To Throw Balloons At Boy Without Letting Him Do The Same, Dad IntervenesEntitled Brat Keeps Tossing Water Balloons At Kid With Sensory Issues, Screams When She Gets WetMan Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His KidMan Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His KidMan Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His KidMan Sprays His Bratty Niece With A Hose After She Wouldn’t Stop Throwing Water Balloons At His Kid
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Sometimes parents allow their kids to deal with their relationships by themselves and sometimes they should necessarily intervene, to make sure certain lines that are not supposed to be crossed are protected. However, it isn’t a perfect world we are living in, and as it turns out, some parents themselves need guidance, as they intervene for quite a different reason, specifically to impose the uneven treatment of people from a very young age. At least this seems to have been this mom’s idea of “justice” when she allowed her daughter to throw balloons at her brother’s son, while simultaneously preventing him from defending himself and doing the same to the girl.

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    She allowed her daughter to throw water balloons at the man’s son, but stopped the boy from doing the same

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    The kids were playing with water balloons when the man’s son was done playing and came to sit by his father and dry off

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    The girl kept throwing more water balloons at him, but when he tried to do the same, her mother would tell him to “not dare”

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    A man brought it to Reddit, asking whether he was wrong to spray his niece with a hose, despite his sister telling him not to. It all took place during a family event when their kids were playing with water balloons.

    It turned into quite an intense attraction as there were around 12 kids playing with 40 60-pack water balloons. However, at some point, the man’s youngest son decided the water was too much for him to handle, so he said he was done playing and came to sit by his father and dry off.

    The man was happy his 8-year-old was doing great, as the boy has some significant sensory and anger management issues, and has already been diagnosed with ODD. However, the man’s 12-year-old niece kept coming up and throwing more water balloons at the boy despite being asked to stop.

    The boy was getting angry, but every time he tried to defend himself and do the same to his cousin, not only would the girl scream to stop, but her mother would tell him to “not dare” because the girl “was wearing white and it’d be see-through”.

    So the girl’s mother allowed her to throw balloons at the man’s son, but did not allow the boy to defend himself. And even to the man asking his sister to stop her daughter from throwing water balloons at his son, she answered with “he’s already wet”.

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    When the girl did it again, despite the man asking her to not do it, he took a hose and drenched her for 30 seconds

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    The girl started crying, while her mother called the man a creep and claimed her dress was see-through

    The last time the man’s niece approached his son, the man told her to “not think about it” because the boy said no. However, as the girl didn’t listen and threw the water balloon at him anyway, the man grabbed the hose beside him and drenched her for a solid 30 seconds.

    The girl immediately started crying, while her mother started berating the man, calling him a creep and claiming her dress was see-through, even though it was not. Their parents kicked the woman out for this comment, but the woman’s husband texted him that he would never be allowed around his niece again.

    The Redditor’s post gathered 21K upvotes on the AITAH subreddit and the boy’s father was backed by the commenters online. The behavior of the man’s niece, and her mother’s response to it, could be seen as indicating a permissive parenting style, which was discussed in the article devoted to this topic by Verywell Mind.

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    Based on the article, permissive parenting is one of the four main types of parenting among authoritative, authoritarian, and unresponsive parenting styles. Its distinctive features involve high levels of warmth from a parent to a child, but low levels of structure and discipline, which often results in low self-control and low responsibility of a child.

    According to Meghan Downey, such parents present themselves more like “friends” rather than parents, and by not setting the appropriate behavioral boundaries, such parents often fail to teach their kids the adaptive skills they need for proper development and simply leave the “raising” of the child to the children themselves.

    Whitney Casares for Verywell Mind gave an example of permissive parenting, which included a kid hitting another kid or a sibling, while a parent wouldn’t dole out a consequence or maybe not even say a thing to address such behavior. 

    While permissive parents often have their children’s emotional interests at heart by not setting boundaries and rules, they tend to prevent them from forming important developmental skills and habits.

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    Redditors backed the man, claiming that if you don’t want to get sprayed, you don’t get to do it either

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    arthbach
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My response to not being 'allowed' to spend time with my niece would be 'Fantastic! I am so grateful you have chosen to implement this. It means my son will not have to be subjected to her bullying behaviour. What she did, again and again, was utterly atrocious, something no child should be subjected to this behaviour. Once your daughter has learned how to act in company, I will THEN decide when my family and I wish to be around her."

    Tyke
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son is 5 I took him to his school friends 5th birthday party, just a couple of months ago. School friends and family were there - a family member invited her friend Karen and her two kids Kevin and Perry (not real names), who were probably about 7 and 11. Kevin and Perry had the biggest water guns you can buy - the 5 year olds had none. From the minute we arrived Kevin and Perry were using their guns to threaten the 5 year olds. Sure enough, very soon they started spraying the young kids. My son and his friend didn't like this so kept running to the mums for cover. So Kevin and Perry got the Mums. We asked them to take it to another area. They did it again, we asked them not to spray us. They did it a third time we told them to pack it in. At that point Karen pops up berating us for speaking to her kids - and "it's only water". I, as politely as I could suggested she either get off her phone and parent her own kids, or we will, and that we would leave as would all the other

    Tyke
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... 5 year olds and she can explain to the birthday boy why he no longer has a party. She left and took her horrible children with her.

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    Donkey boi
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why informed conditional threats are so important. 'If you wet my son again, I will drench you with this hose'. Then the kid learns about consequences.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. And then you keep the promise. I often see parents threaten and then don't accomplish, which is worse

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My response to not being 'allowed' to spend time with my niece would be 'Fantastic! I am so grateful you have chosen to implement this. It means my son will not have to be subjected to her bullying behaviour. What she did, again and again, was utterly atrocious, something no child should be subjected to this behaviour. Once your daughter has learned how to act in company, I will THEN decide when my family and I wish to be around her."

    Tyke
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son is 5 I took him to his school friends 5th birthday party, just a couple of months ago. School friends and family were there - a family member invited her friend Karen and her two kids Kevin and Perry (not real names), who were probably about 7 and 11. Kevin and Perry had the biggest water guns you can buy - the 5 year olds had none. From the minute we arrived Kevin and Perry were using their guns to threaten the 5 year olds. Sure enough, very soon they started spraying the young kids. My son and his friend didn't like this so kept running to the mums for cover. So Kevin and Perry got the Mums. We asked them to take it to another area. They did it again, we asked them not to spray us. They did it a third time we told them to pack it in. At that point Karen pops up berating us for speaking to her kids - and "it's only water". I, as politely as I could suggested she either get off her phone and parent her own kids, or we will, and that we would leave as would all the other

    Tyke
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... 5 year olds and she can explain to the birthday boy why he no longer has a party. She left and took her horrible children with her.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why informed conditional threats are so important. 'If you wet my son again, I will drench you with this hose'. Then the kid learns about consequences.

    Magazine
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. And then you keep the promise. I often see parents threaten and then don't accomplish, which is worse

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