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In a viral Reddit post, one user asked, "What's your experience with ultra-rich people that shocked you?" It quickly amassed over 2,000 replies, with stories about everything from bizarre requests to jaw-dropping extravagance, and they reveal the striking contrasts between "regular" people and those who can afford virtually everything they want. The firsthand accounts offer a rare glimpse into the world of the rich that most can only imagine.
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#1
My wife and I bought a nice house in a middle/slightly upper middle class neighborhood. Not many European cars, parents didn’t send their kids to private schools. Everyone was doing fine, but seemingly not rich.
One day, a neighbors kid (age 6) passed out. Went to the hospital and within a few days was diagnosed with brain cancer of a type that was pretty much a death sentence. He was given 6 months to live.
A week later there was the previously scheduled block party and Frank (single guy, mid 60s, quiet neighbor 6 houses down) shows up and overhears people talking about the neighbor kid with cancer.
He asked me if I had the parents phone number, which I did and gave it to him.
The next day Frank had flown the entire family on his private jet across the country to a research center in California to meet with his best friend / former college roommate who happened to be conducting cutting edge immunotherapy research (basically reprogramming your body’s cells to fight specific strains of cancer).
As it turns out, Frank, the quiet guy living down the street who drove a 7 year old Toyota Camry was worth $750M (he started a company in the 90s that was bought by Oracle in the early 2000s and made him ultra rich).
Fast forward 5 months. Frank had paid for the entire family to move to CA for treatment which cost him just over $2.2M out of pocket. The kid was in remission after some next level, Star Trek crazy medical treatment. For a family he didn’t even know. Amazingly enough that wasn’t the extent of it…
Come to find out, we all learned Frank was sponsoring orphans in the system in our state and paying for college or trade school educations for every single orphan in the system in the state and had been for 20 years. He had sent more than 1,500 orphans to college or a trade school of their choice, spending $230M to do so.
The quiet dude down the street driving an old Toyota. He died 2 years ago. Left all his money to his foundation to continue to send state orphans to college.
The world would a significantly better place if only a fraction of the world’s ultra wealthy followed his example.
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#2
A buddy of mine, who has since passed away from cancer, while going through treatment was working at a bike shop. One of the customers was/still is a Wall Street guy who is a billionaire several times over. My buddy mentioned to the rich guy that he got denied getting into a cancer treatment trial at UNC. The rich guy said “ hmm, somebody should do something about that”
And 2 days later, my buddy got a call and they told that “due to recent events” he is in the trial.
I always thought that was cool.
#3
I was invited to play the North course of the Los Angeles Country Club--an epic track that is very difficult to get on, especially for a lowly winemaker. But I sold the GM some wine and he invited me out, so I got there at 6:45 am for an 8 am tee time--clubhouse is supposed to open at 7.
But as I pulled up, a guy came down in an LACC windbreaker, took my clubs and asked if I wanted a cup of coffee.
After we were all set up and chilling in the locker room, I asked him:
"I'm not sure how it works here, my good man. Are you able to receive cash tips? (Some clubs don't allow.)"
"Oh I don't work here," he laughed. "I'm a member."
Later I saw him leaving in a Lambo--dude could have bought and sold me 1000x over, but still showed amazing hospitality to a visitor to his club.
ABC no seven FCK CENSORING 2 months ago
Kinda refreshing to read about super-rich people being nice and hospitable to "low-lifers" (word used to emphasise the contrast, not my actual opinion) like the OP.
#4
Boss I worked for. Filthy rich, but wears the same old clothes all the time.
His wife wouldn't spend money on a new bikini at the hotel shop in the hotel they own, because she has one.
Plainest, nicest people. Also loaded.
#5
Waiting to check out of a five-star hotel. The guy in front asked the Receptionist to order a car to take him to the airport.
Receptionist: “Of course, what time’s your flight?”
Guy: “Whenever I arrive”.
#6
I used to be a big-time Jeep 4x4 off-road guy. I made friends with one of the guys behind the counter of a local 4x4 store. We'd occasionally go out for beers or dinner and got to be pretty close. I knew he had a degree in mechanical engineering, but he never spoke much about himself or his family. One day, he called me up and asked me if I was interested in going to watch a big GT Daytona 24 Type car race in PHX. I laughed and said I'd love to, but I can't afford that s**t. His response was, "my Dad will swing by Denver and pick us up in his jet, and then we'll fly onto the race. He's fielding a new Daytona Prototype car. I'll cover everything". It was an awesome trip I'll never forget. Turns out his family was/is ridiculously wealthy. The next race we went to was THE 24 hours of Daytona. Both races were in Luxury boxes. Unlimited food and booze. Pit passes.
Full of Giggles 2 months ago
For those who may not know: PHX is an abbreviation for Phoenix, which is the capital of Arizona (US state).
#7
A local family with generational wealth and smart business minds grew their businesses to become multi billionaires. But they'd still stop at the chain of corner stores they owned to get coffee and snacks.
I went there for coffee after they switched from very bad coffee to very good coffee, and there was the patriarch of the family getting his coffee at the coffee bar. I introduced myself, shook his hand, and congratulated him on the massive improvement in his stores' coffee. I asked him what was behind the change after decades of selling the same less-then-average coffee.
"My brother and I were stopped for coffee one day," he said, " and he took a big gulp and he looked at me and he says, 'Tell me again why we sell such s****y coffee.'" LOL!
#8
A friend in college was from Japan. His father owned a plastics company and was crazy rich. One day he asked to borrow $1000 until his allowance came. I said I didn't have $1000. And he was like, "I don't mean cash, you can write me a check." And I said, no, I literally didn't have $1000. He was dumbfounded.
crousleystephens 2 months ago
This whole post is depressing and I really mean that. I'm sitting in my basement surrounded by half empty boxes from packing to move to an as yet unknown location. My husband had a bad accident and broke his neck, couldnt go back to work in time. Our home is in foreclosure, disconnect on power, water, just expired peas and spinach in the pantry, etc. Can't afford wifi for my kid to do his homework and he gets in trouble at school. I don't even have a pair of shoes. I'm wearing an old pair my older son outgrew and left behind. Everyone looks to mom for the answers though but I'm so so tired. And all it would take is for one of these people to just wave their hand and all those problems could be washed away. But not for me
#9
I once broke like $15,000 worth of marble because a piece wasn't installed correctly. I was a pool tech in Florida working on 'millionaire pools' basically people who lived too far away or their pools were too large for regular pool companies. It encompassed everything from driving 3 hours to clean a pool or flip a switch to actual tech stuff and troubleshooting leaks or doing repairs on fun pools built very oddly to say the least.
Anyways I'm just walking along the edge of the pool A which is an Infinity style pool that shared an edge and 20' drop with pool B. I was standing where I was supposed too, the marble feature I was standing on wasn't secured when installed and began to slide under my feet. The pool being very elevated left me in a weird spot, I jumped over the wall and to the side about a 10' drop and I cleared the base of a marble staircase. The 8' curved slab of marble wobbled back over the edge and took out 3 marble steps and some of the sandstone floor.
Guy comes outside yelling and says 'tell me you weren't standing on that' me: 'I was standing on that' and you watched all the anger leave his face. The money and damage meant nothing to him, likely an insured inconvenience. He thought I'd lie to him and he'd have some justification for the anger. Instead he goes inside, comes back out like 5 minutes later while I'm on the phone with my boss with a tablet and tells me I was like Spiderman as he shows me leaping over staircase, and me standing where I should be able to stand and the marble wobbling under me. We investigate the ledge, lo and behold none of the adhesive made contact with the slab. It had just been existing there due to gravity and pressure of other slabs. I handed him my phone with boss, his insurance ended up covering it and he was able to sue the company that installed it... but watching all the anger leave his face left taught me a cool lesson.
#10
20 years ago. A casual friend asked me to be his +1 to a destination wedding. He is gay but was told he needed to bring a female. We were friendly but I didn’t know much about him, other than he was cool people and when we all went out in our friend group, he always looked amazing. I was like, ok how much? “No worries, I got it”. Turns out it was one of those many-day long Indian weddings. In India. He flew us there on his family’s private plane, we stayed in separate suites at a gorgeous hotel. All kinds of wealthy and famous people were there. I think my jaw was on the floor the entire trip. I received a “gift bag” with like $20k worth of jewelry, local luxury goods, and tech devices. He offered me his bag bc he didn’t need a macbook..?! Hell yeah.
I never thought I would enjoy a big a*s wedding like that but I also never thought I’d get to see so many famous people up close either. Hands down incredible. .
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 2 months ago (edited)
Indian weddings are a lot lol, i went to one for three days once. So many people were there
#11
Told a customer (I clean for a living) they were out of paper towels. She then asked me “where would I get more? My personal shopper is on maternity leave and her replacement has not come yet…” as she stared off in the distance, afraid of the horrors of the grocery store.
Comment Deleted 2 months ago
I worked at one of those high end grocery stores where oil with pretty flowers in it cost 80. dollars. One woman told me she did not need the oil she was only buying it for the bottle...to keep her dish soap in. Second incident a customer asked if I shopped there and I said no, that I could not afford the store and told her where I shopped ( major grocery chain ) She looked disgusted and said " ugh, I would not feed that food to my dog " ..
#12
I work at a private high school, and every year each class starts with an overnight class retreat. One year, we couldn't find a location that would take the junior class, so one of the parents just casually BOUGHT A SUMMER CAMP, and the junior class had their retreat there.
BeesEelsAndPups 2 months ago
wow. I went to a private school as a kid. It was for middle-class kids in Rio de Janeiro, and I count myself very fortunate that my mother could afford it. Nobody there was rich though, mostly middle to lower-middle class families. Public schools where I'm from are not very good.
#13
This Saudi girl I met at uni was super chill, really cool and down to earth and grounded, always dressed very low key in oversized hoodies and didn’t really wear any notable jewelry. Anyway, she told me that she didn’t live on campus because her mum had bought a place nearby as both her and her sister were going to the same uni. So like a bit weird but okay! Then she invited me to a party at her place that her mum was throwing and when I got there my jaw dropped to the floor. Turns out her mum had bought an entire estate complete with huge grounds, there were marquees set up in the garden set up as cocktail bars and shisha spaces, incredible mixologists and countless wait staff serving around the most amazing canapés. Ivana Trump was there. I was like WHAT THE F**K?! And she just looked at me like it was all nothing. Crazy. Went to many more parties she threw - the best one being a casino night where they essentially built a casino inside a marquee in their garden with all the games you’d expect and proper dealers and all. Blew my mind how insanely rich they were and you’d never guess from just seeing them out and about, and they were the nicest, sweetest most down to earth family (not that rich people can’t be nice but obviously that’s the stereotype!).
Agfox 2 months ago (edited)
I have a similar story told to me by a work colleague in the 1990's: his daughter was attending University in Seoul, South Korea & became friendly with a young Korean woman student. Her friend asked her to dinner with her parents & arranged to collect her in front of her apartment block one evening. His daughter was waiting when, in her words, 'this huge, black limousine of some sort' pulled up, a uniformed chauffeur exited, opened the rear door & ushered her into the back seat where her friend was waiting. They arrived at an exclusive hotel where several staff were waiting to greet them. One introduced himself as the Hotel's General Manager & escorted them up in a private lift to the restaurant where her parents were sitting at one large table in the centre of the room. The parents were very friendly & the Hotel Manager supervised the entire meal. She discovered later that her friend's father was one of the 10 richest people in South Korea at the time & had reserved the entire restaurant for their dinner
#14
Threw a €800 kids Dior jacket in the kitchen bin because it got wet…in the rain…it’s a rain jacket.
#15
Two things come to mind that I haven’t seen mentioned:
1. The amount of people who absolutely kiss their a*s, even family, hoping to get a cut of their fortune. It’s almost like they have a level of worship or mystique in other people’s mind that is really gross to witness upfront.
2. It’s almost easy for them to find new ways to make money. Example: a $20M property development that falls apart and the bank needs someone to step in and complete it. Bank wants $15M for it, they negotiate $10M. Put in $2m to complete it and it’s worth $20M. So it cost them $12M to make $20M so they manage to net $8M just by being someone who can get it done. Negligible to their overall worth but to the average person, they could do that once and never have to work a day again in their life. .
#16
Not sure if he is considered “ultra” rich but it was definitely a different bracket than mine. I used to work in a restaurant and there was an older gentleman who would come in maybe once or twice a month and he ALWAYS knew someone at two or three tables. He’d come up to the host stand and make it known that he’d be paying for all their bills. Every time. It was the one and only time I’ve ever handled a black Amex. Those things are THICK. He was very nice and always left a humongous tip for whoever was serving the tables.
#17
That they're usually pretty nice. Back in the 90s I delivered pizzas in a pretty exclusive area. This was one of the towns that some of the pro athletes lived in. Then various business owners, CEO's, etc.
Anyway, most of the people were really nice. One guy and his wife were concerned that I didn't have an investment plan started. I mean this in a good way. Like they were worried about my future. There were other similar gestures from others that were also well meaning.
Now, their kids could be a******s sometimes. The people who actually earned the money though? More often than not they were solid people.
David Morgan 2 months ago
TRULY rich people, (no pun intended) can afford to be pleasant. It's like genuinely hard people are generally sweethearts. Neither category has anything to prove. It's those with a BIT of money, a BIT of a reputation, who are constantly trying to impress others or put others down to make themselves look better.
#18
The richest person I met, worth billions, refused to pay $5 for a Diet Coke, argued it, and drove a 20 year old regular car.
#19
I was in a drive through for a coffee shop and there was a Ferrari 458 in front of me. Really cool car and not something I get to see often so I was enjoying getting a close look. The driver goes to pull around to the window after ordering and drags the side of the car against the yellow bollard. Crunches the door pretty hard. I audibly yelled. The driver gets out and is understandably freaking out, looking at the car, the bollard, hoping some magic would happen to undue what had been done. Then the passenger gets out and he's laughing. What an a*****e to be laughing at his distraught friend who had just smashed up their expensive car. It soon became clear that the passenger was the owner and the driver was their friend who had just crunched the car. The owner was calming their friend down explaining it was no big deal he'd just get the car fixed and not to worry about it.
David Morgan 2 months ago
Regardless of the value of the item, I think it shows class to concentrate on the friend's state of mind first, then the item. I doubt the owner was happy about the damage, but he recognised his friend was sorry and didn't make the experience worse.
#20
I worked with a guy for 20 years who was worth $400 million when he died in 2008. We did a lot of deals with other multi multi millionaires. What amazed me was with some not all was their absolute love of accumulating wealth. They loved their assets more than they loved their children. I remember one day when I walked into his office and he was crying. I asked what was wrong, what happened??? His answer was”interest rates had risen”.
Panda Pandemic 2 months ago
The love of money is the root of all evil. It's quite a shame that people value things and money over people. Unfortunately, that is something that every class of people is capable of. From the poor right up to the rich. I do believe there's a quote about people valuing their things and loving their things over actual human beings. Can't remember it though. Sad af for real.
#21
They don't spend money on or care about stupid s**t.
A landlord friend of mine owns a yacht that's crewed all year round. His net worth in assets is £60m. He drives a 15 year old range rover and dresses like a tramp.
Another rich person who I know (director of a large building services company) has a house that most people in the UK would call a mansion, yet every TV is old plasmas. Admittedly, he drives an Aston Martin, but it's 10 years old. His phone is some cheap c**p he bought off Amazon after searching for "phone".
I remember having a conversation with him stating that if he got a flagship Samsung, he could install all the latest apps and stay in contact with his friends and family.
His reply "You say that like it's a benefit".
me: "It also has a 2 day battery life"
Him: "Mine lasts a week".
#22
I know a very rich guy who owns multiple well known car dealerships. The finance company they use has a contest for all the finance managers for the one who writes the most finance deals and gets an all expense paid vacation to Hawaii.
My buddy won the contest, called his wife and said where going to Hawaii! The dealership owner comes into his office and said he and his wife are taking the vacation he just won.
Vacation time comes and at the airport on the day of departure the owner’s wife breaks her ankle. Vacation canceled! Karma!
My buddy quits shortly after and the owner pleads for him to stay because he’s a top producer and can’t find anyone else as good as him. Now he’s making more money and winning all the contests at the new dealership that who is also a major competitor of the Dealership he recently quit. Karma again!
Beth Wheeler 2 months ago
Yeah Mr Big Shot screw your employee and steal the trip he won. Well I guess he showed you and now another dealership got your best finance guy. HA HA
#23
In college I worked at a small, municipal airport in the middle of East Texas. Most of the traffic we had was old guys who flew for hobby and just a few private / corporate jets a week.
There was a group of guys that would fly in from Dallas every few weeks on their own jet just to play a round of golf at a nearby course for a day trip. They always had a Cadillac Escalade waiting for them. They would each tip me a $50 bill for putting their golf clubs and yeti coolers on to my golf cart and driving them 50 yards to their Escalade waiting for them. Every time they flew in it was a guaranteed $200 in my pocket, which was awesome for a broke 20 year old college student. Even now, I can’t fathom having that kind of money to hop on a private jet for a quick round of golf and tipping for such small tasks. Hope those guys are doing well, they were always a pleasure to be around regardless of their generous tipping.
#24
Guy built a house on a lake and wanted a big giant boat house/dock. Was told no because of the piles that would need to be drilled into the lake which would disturb the environment. So he did it anyway and paid the $50,000 fine for an un permitted building but it couldn’t be taken down because that would disturb the environment again.
#25
He was bewildered that people work hard to improve their lot in life - that people study, take a second job, move jobs for better pay, try to accrue a pension, that kind of thing.
The idea that people's salary is all the money they had, was alien to him.
Lila Allen 2 months ago
Which is why we shouldn't allow billionaires to donate to political campaigns and control who is elected and what laws pass. They have literally no idea what life looks like for real people
#26
A friend of mine is on the flight crew for a billionaire as a maintenance tech.
His job is to just go wherever, whenever these people want and stay for as long as they require. He’s paid very well, stays in nice accommodation etc, but the owners of the aircraft simply don’t even think about the expenses.
The owners might be staying in a given location for a few months, so the flight crew will travel around the world picking up and dropping off their friends and other billionaires. Today could be China, tomorrow Los Angeles, the next day Sydney. They have to stock the plane with exclusive liquors, foods, etc and some places they have to find narcotics, it’s just a wild scene with not a single consideration of the bill.
Nicoletta Cattalani 2 months ago
But hey folks, remember to use paper straws, to save the environement
#27
Maybe not ultra rich, just regular rich, but my friend works for a private company where the board of directors had to be all original family members so one of the adult executives got legally adopted by one of the members so that they could be on the board.
#28
We had a family friend that was rich. He is not a friend with us anymore but I was young and we were sitting at a table having breakfast with leftovers from his yesterday's breakfast because he is cheap.
He bought a very very expensive downtown condominium for her daughter + bmw + million dollar donation to the university so she take her university study seriously. In the end she didn't. She got married to a loser.
He said what are you going to study? I said computer science. He said I know a few successful people in this field that I could get you connected with. I said no. Then for years I made fun of him because I was arrogant and he was working in construction but he wanted to give an advice to me studying computer science.
I was dumb to not listen to his advice.
David Morgan 2 months ago
Shame you lost out on the opportunity, but at least you have grown as a person.
#29
Met a guy who was a tiler. I enquired how much he’d charge to do my bathroom floor.
He showed me a magazine he had in his pocket and said he just finished tiling this house, owned by James Packer. It had taken him 3 or 4 years to complete the job and he had spent over $10 million dollars just in materials.
He told me he didn’t look for work and he didn’t do quotes, and he was booked out for the next 10 years with jobs.
#30
The traders on Wall Street are, surprisingly, mostly decent people. There are some scumbags, but they're maybe 10-15% at worst. Don't get me wrong; these guys are type-A, competitive capitalists, and so I have ideological disagreements with them, but they're mostly decent human beings, and they often are fairly humble because they know that luck could have turned any other way.
The ones in Silicon Valley are psychopaths, sex pests, and often secret (or not to secret) fascists. They're not programmers or real technologists themselves, for the most part; they moved into the field because they learned there were a lot of highly productive people with autism to take advantage of... so they're, I suppose, what you'd expect.
So yeah, the ones in a rather ugly industry (finance) are mostly normal, decent people who know their work doesn't help the world much, but who do not go out of their way to harm it; the ones out west who are "changing the world" are depraved sickos.
What do you think ?
Katharina Sei. 2 months ago
Sometimes I think to myself that if you took so much money away from the ultra-rich that they are only rich, could you then offer the rest of humanity a secure life? (Housing/medical care without exorbitant costs/ free basic education up to a job).
Katharina Sei. 2 months ago
I did a qick dirty calculation there are 2781 Billionaires in the year 2024. If you would reduce their money (assuming everyone only hase one Billion) to 50 Millions you would have ~2 641 billions. With 700 Million people in extreme poverty you would have about 3774 per person to fund a project. Since extreme poverty is usually kind of clustered I think this would be enough money to fund some live changing projects.
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Tempest 2 months ago
A neighbouring family (family of 3) of mine owns their own business and are super wealthy but equally really lovely people. The dad is probably in his late 70s-early 80s and has a lot of issues with gait and so on but continues to work. They mostly keep to themselves but readily helps out people in need. About every 2 months they give out grocery packs to struggling people, including, but not limited to, our family and another neighbour. The food lasts us about 2-3 weeks. They have around 4 helpers around the house and if any one of them needs money for some surgery or medicine, the family buys it for them. My dad once had to have an emergency scan done but as it was really expensive he kept delaying it without a choice. When this neighbour heard about it they gave my dad the full amount for the scan without a second thought. Extremely grateful to be surrounded by such decent people.
LaserBrain 2 months ago
I kind of think the ultrarich are parasites on the planet and the services they provide aren't nearly worth the resources they use up. Someone please remind me why we allow them to exist?
Happy 2 months ago
Explain Bill Gates and his philanthropy to minimize malaria...
Load More Replies... Katharina Sei. 2 months ago
Sometimes I think to myself that if you took so much money away from the ultra-rich that they are only rich, could you then offer the rest of humanity a secure life? (Housing/medical care without exorbitant costs/ free basic education up to a job).
Katharina Sei. 2 months ago
I did a qick dirty calculation there are 2781 Billionaires in the year 2024. If you would reduce their money (assuming everyone only hase one Billion) to 50 Millions you would have ~2 641 billions. With 700 Million people in extreme poverty you would have about 3774 per person to fund a project. Since extreme poverty is usually kind of clustered I think this would be enough money to fund some live changing projects.
Load More Replies... Tempest 2 months ago
A neighbouring family (family of 3) of mine owns their own business and are super wealthy but equally really lovely people. The dad is probably in his late 70s-early 80s and has a lot of issues with gait and so on but continues to work. They mostly keep to themselves but readily helps out people in need. About every 2 months they give out grocery packs to struggling people, including, but not limited to, our family and another neighbour. The food lasts us about 2-3 weeks. They have around 4 helpers around the house and if any one of them needs money for some surgery or medicine, the family buys it for them. My dad once had to have an emergency scan done but as it was really expensive he kept delaying it without a choice. When this neighbour heard about it they gave my dad the full amount for the scan without a second thought. Extremely grateful to be surrounded by such decent people.
LaserBrain 2 months ago
I kind of think the ultrarich are parasites on the planet and the services they provide aren't nearly worth the resources they use up. Someone please remind me why we allow them to exist?
Happy 2 months ago
Explain Bill Gates and his philanthropy to minimize malaria...
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