Have you ever arrived the airport, ready to travel, until you’re asked to show your passport? We’ve all had those moments— where you feel like you’ve checked everything twice, but that feeling that you’ve forgotten something just keeps tugging at your mind.

For today’s Original Poster (OP) who had a trip planned with his girlfriend, they got to the airport and his girlfriend revealed that she had left her passport at home. He decided to go on with the trip, leaving her upset.

More info: Reddit

This couple planned a trip to Japan, but only one of them would actually get to Japan

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The author reminded his girlfriend to pack her passport for their trip, but when they arrived the airport, she revealed she had left it at home

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He decided he was going to go ahead with the trip since she didn’t plan properly, but came up with another arrangement for her

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During a group call later with a mutual friend, they expressed their disappointment in the author for leaving her behind

The OP had reminded his girlfriend to pack her passport before their trip, and she assured him that she would. Their first flight was a local flight, so all they had to show was their state ID; however, by the time they got to the airport for their international flight, the girlfriend revealed she had left her passport at home.

Interestingly, the girlfriend had actually realized this on their local flight, but knew they couldn’t go back. And so, this wasn’t a problem they could solve quickly. Faced with a dilemma, the boyfriend made a choice— he decided to continue the trip without her.

His reasoning was simple: why should he sacrifice the experience just because she planned poorly? He eventually made an alternative arrangement, suggesting she stay with a mutual friend in the connecting city until he returned.

For the girlfriend, the decision felt more like abandonment, but she agreed even though she was upset. She was particularly upset because she had been looking forward to spending the New Year’s with him.

When the OP FaceTimed his girlfriend later, he got an earful— not just from her but also from their mutual friend who joined in the call. Both of them called him out for what they saw as prioritizing his plans over their relationship.

While he tried to argue that his staying behind wouldn’t fix anything, his friend mentioned that he was disappointed in him. His girlfriend also agreed, leaving the OP wondering if he was indeed wrong for travelling without her.

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People have often said that one of the ways for couples to test their relationship is to see how they travel together, and iTravelnet.com affirms that. They state that travel planning requires teamwork, compromise, and strong communication skills.

The challenges of unexpected situations, like “logistical mishaps or changes in plans”, can test a couple’s patience and problem-solving abilities. Therefore, how partners navigate these obstacles could reflect their compatibility.

Lissy Abrahams, an individual and couple psychotherapist, suggests that when couples are found in stressful situations like that of the OP and his girlfriend, taking accountability is important. On her website, she explained that “this means understanding how your actions affect your partner”.

She went further to state that in moments like that, it is best to avoid the blame-game or bringing up what one partner has done wrong. This is because doing this in that moment could do more emotional harm.

Healthline emphasizes that conflict in relationships is normal, but how it’s managed is what is most vital. According to them, one of the best ways to resolve problems in a relationship is both parties coming to a compromise as this ensures that both partners feel heard and valued.

They state that finding common ground that is focused on a resolution that benefits both partners often minimizes tension.

And this could be why netizens sympathized with the girlfriend, acknowledging that while her mistake was unfortunate, a relationship should involve sacrifices and compromise. Others blamed the girlfriend for forgetting her passport, especially after being reminded. They also suggested that the OP shouldn’t have to sacrifice his trip due to her mistake.

This could be a tricky position as trips imply that some money has been spent. But what would you have done in this situation— would you have gone on the trip or stayed behind with your partner?

Netizens declared that he wasn’t wrong for going ahead with the trip because it wasn’t his fault that his girlfriend let her passport at home

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