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No human enters this crazy wide world with a formed personality springing forth from their genes. Of course, there’s part of that plays a role in how we go about our lives, but much of the other half is directly linked with the upbringing we had.

And although it’s hard to determine what “good” and “bad” parenting styles are like, some of us indeed lacked attention and affection and didn’t develop a close relationship with our parents.

So when someone asked “What screams 'You weren't loved by your parents as a child' without saying it” on r/AskReddit, it was destined to stir a thread of thoughtful responses. Below we selected some of the most interesting ones, so scroll down and share if you agree with them or not in the comment section.

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36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child I was going to say this. I had to apologize to my stepmom for breathing loud, for standing somewhere she'd just decided she wanted to stand, for not being in a room when she suddenly decided she wanted to tell me something, for needing to eat and sleep and use the bathroom.

People would laugh about how they could yell 'hey, come here!' and the moment I got there I'd apologize first thing. But it was an absolute survival mechanism.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor child. Some people are sadists and should be arrested if they even look at a kid. Imagine the hell this child went through and the struggles she has now.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child One thing that I know I did a lot is have an extremely exaggerated personality because of how bad your social anxiety is. You constantly think everyone is judging you, so you have this carefully calculated sort of facade. You seem funny and spontaneous and extroverted, easy to talk to and friendly, basically you become that quirky weird kid. You try so hard to be funny and likable, be just weird enough but in a sort of funny way, so that people will like you. Then you get home and are absolutely drained because you really have no social battery but force yourself to have one because that's what your carefully crafted personality calls for. You seem spontaneous and funny but really every move is carefully calculated.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In people on the autism spectrum this is adapting to the people/situation around you is also called "masking"

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    To find out just how exactly our upbringing affects us later in life, Bored Panda reached out to Susan Petang, a certified life coach from “The Quiet Zone Coaching,” teaching women how to stop feeling overwhelmed and start waking up happy in the morning again.

    “The relationship we have with our parents is super important,” Susan stated and continued: “When we're children, the adults in our lives are our role models. They show us what it's like to be mothers and fathers, wives and husbands, and how to handle problems, stress, and difficulty.” According to her, we emulate their behavior, whether we realize it or not.
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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child You don’t miss them, like at all.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child I've had two girlfriends who were able to cry completely silently. Not just a few tears, but full ugly, balling your eyes out crying, with absolutely zero noise.

    The first one I knew about her past, but the second I was completely blindsided. She didn't speak about her past, but had said that other than 'occasionally arguing' with her father she's has a good enough childhood. When I saw it, it absolutely sent chills down my spine, and I immediately knew. When I later asked her about it, and mentioned that people only learn that out for quite narrow reasons, the flood gates opened I learned more about her childhood than I was ready to.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I too, learned how to cry silently for fear of an ex who would get more angry and abusive if he caught me actually crying and making noise. Happily, I have been with my husband for 12 years now, and he loves me, crying or laughing. Also happy to say the latter occurs much more often than the former.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Not liking or loving yourself.

    Being able to identify people by their foot steps, the sound of their car outside, how they move around the house, etc.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    holy crap I do this, I can tell who is walking down the halls and how angry they are and so my mind goes to danger levels...s**t.

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    Moreover, Susan warned that lack of attention and affection can cause all kinds of emotional dysfunction later in life. “Lack of self-esteem and the inability to communicate, resolve problems, and manage stress are just some of the problems that can result.”It’s important to understand that what “we observe as children guides our behavior later in life,” Susan said.

    “If our parents didn't get along with others, we probably won't, either; if the adults in our lives were distant, remote, critical, or negative, the chances are high that we'll do the same.”
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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Constantly apologising for basically existing.

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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The physically abused tend to do this. That startled look and an immediate apology. God, the things people do to others, it's depressing.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Not being able to self validate. No one taught you how to be confident and sure of yourself.

    Poor decision making/indecisive.

    Insecure attachments.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ouch I'm feeling called out all over this article. Interesting though

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    #8

    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Being shocked when a “kid” says how much they love their parent and they mean everything to them and the parent is loving and affectionate

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was surprised to see how loving and caring my boyfriend’s parents are, along with how welcoming of a home they had. And the cool thing is that they’ve treated me as their own, I’ve been able to have the parent relationships that I’ve wanted for so long and I’m very grateful for that

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    “It's also possible that we'll become the extreme opposite of our parents. For example, a girl who has an emotionally unavailable mom might decide that she's not going to be like her mother—and might end up being used and taken advantage of emotionally, instead.”

    If you’re wondering, Susan assured us that it doesn't mean that you're doomed to a miserable life if your parents weren't warm and fuzzy. “Even if your childhood role models were poor, it's still possible to learn how to have healthy relationships and positive behavior,” the life coach concluded.
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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child My special talent is breaking into full-on hysterics in total silence *with my bedroom open* and then less than 2 minutes later, walk out of my room and nobody has a clue I just had a total breakdown.

    I cried myself to sleep most my 26 years so you just get used to it and forget it's not normal.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My habit is to hide in the bathroom and have a silent meltdown, then panic over how I’m gonna fix my face before I leave the room. Usually results in cold water and eye drops being on hand.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Constant need of approval by an authority figure. For example, trying to constant please your history teacher that kind reminds of your dad, so everytime he grades you well you feel like you accomplished something, even though he's just your teacher, not your dad, he won't listen to your problems or be present. He's just grading the tests.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You might be surprised about the teacher listening. Many of us try to provide an ear for kids in need.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Having a huge void in your life where no matter how much love you receive, it’s never enough and you never feel like enough.

    … or so I’ve heard.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Having trouble asking for basic needs.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this all the time. I feel like I'm even forcing my husband to be with me, and asking him for things can be too much much of a bother. Especially if it's for me.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child difficulty trusting others

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Spending every moment of your waking life, all 20 hours a day of it, overanalyzing everything and everyone for that exact moment they are going to snap and lash out at you.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child They can't mention any achievement without "balancing" it with a mistake.

    Your whole family sees you as nothing but a punchline.

    The only reason you fear them outliving you is that they'd use your funeral as an excuse to humiliate you even further in front of people who actually cared.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is awful. You deserve so much credit for every achievement and accomplishment.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Seeing your phone ringing with your parents name and having an anxiety attack about answering.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is horrible, the overbearing parent that make's you break out in a sweat.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Flinching up and closing everything out when someone yells or gets mad at me or something I did.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, I do this. Shouting at me causes an instant shutdown. Left overs from an abusive marriage, even though I've been divorced for 20 years.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Constantly feeling like everyone has a problem with you even if you have no reason to believe such thing. I have great roommates and they're some of my best friends, but at times I feel that they hate me. I know they don't, I have no reason to believe such things, but when I wake up I sometimes believe that my friends absolutely hate me. In response to these emotions I tend fo work very hard to try and get them to "like me", I'll buy them food, or surprise them with things I know they'll like. It eats away at me but even more I tend to believe everyone I meet for the first time hates me. Constantly I need people to tell me they're not mad at me, I need to be reassured, it's a dreadful feeling.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child - Not knowing how to take a compliment, because you're waiting for the other shoe to drop like, "you're so smart. So, why aren't you doing better in school?" It's better to deny the compliment.

    - Feeling a constant need to placate, mediate, intervene, and concede to avoid arguments. You don't like to see other people fighting or for them to be angry at you, so you do your best to make other people happy, to reduce your anxiety.

    - Learning to walk silently, avoid interrupting people, talking softly, and just generally avoid sticking out because you fear that confrontation is the first step to abuse.

    - Doing kind things to people, but being unable to say kind things. Love means providing things like food and shelter and clothes, but not gentle words, because you didn't learn them.

    - Surrounding yourself with toxic friends, because that's "normal". Your loved ones are supposed to take advantage of you and be mean, if they follow it up with something equally nice after.

    - Having an abusive or neglectful significant other because you've learned to associate love with being hurt or neglected. You don't deserve constant love all the time from your partner. People hurt you sometimes, but you still love them. Being uncared for when you need to be comforted isn't the worst thing, when negative attention means feeling worse than being alone.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child I seek the empathy I didn't have, I try not to overshare but it's hard when you're starving, but I do have good boundaries otherwise.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The verbal diarrhea is real. Inappropriate oversharing. Sometimes for empathy and sometimes trying to explain some reaction you've had or action you've taken. Even though, nobody wants to know.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child People pleasing

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To the point of physical exhaustion. And it’s still never enough.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child They said” I have to love you, but I don’t have to like you” I was 7

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is "I always love you but I don't like you right now" similar or different? (Why?)

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Oversharing. Not being able to set boundaries.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child I work in schools and I find often kids will purposely get themselves into trouble to get attention from the staff because they're starved for attention at home

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Insecure attachment (both avoidant and anxious). Love and/or sex addiction.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sex addiction when I was younger. Hated myself so much that I thought the only things I had going for me were a pretty face and a body I was willing to give away.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Overly defensive about everything. Always trying to defend yourself for things you know are in the right. I.e (My room is already clean why are you even yelling, or stop telling me to do things I already do) I only know this because I’m always put in situations like this and allow other people’s words to have power over me

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Please, for the love of God, laugh at my [lame] jokes and listen to me talk in circles for way too long while I try to kid myself I’m making an interesting point

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child feeling the need to create a false, altered version of events to tell to people, and then realizing that the actual version of events was A) perfectly acceptable and B) makes more sense than the fabricated version of events. so f***ed up

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Telling truth can get you into trouble. You don't do it. Abused people become excellent story-tellers.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Having a parental unit tell you multiple times that they "never wanted kids"

    having them yell at you for not understanding how to do math problems when you're just learning them.

    Having them talk more to the father of your child than they do to you.

    Praising themselves for your accomplishments that have nothing to do with them and any hobby or activity is because "you take after me".

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. The "you take after me" thing...my biological mother does that and it drives me CRAZY.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child When you marry into a family and you completely shut down at family gatherings because you don’t know how to insert yourself into conversations because this family actually loves each other. And all you know is that you were told that no one wants to hear about you and they only want to talk about themselves so you have to be the giving person but then feeling sad that no one took the time to ask you about yourself. Feeling bad for feeling sad or lonely but thinking you also deserve it because you must be selfish if you feel negatively about people just not asking about you even though you put so much effort into talking about them that you know good and well they likely never had the opportunity. Censoring your own art because you had to do that where you grew up, but if someone stumbles upon your art and praises you for it you freeze up because you have no idea what to do about it.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know, my ex sil had (was) borderline ... she couldn't handle being with our loud and goofy family. She would sometimes hide in the loo the poor girl. Once she got to know us we heard some stories that even today still piss me off.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Working extra hard to get your parents attention (getting good grades, making their favorite food, etc) just to get acknowledge that you too are part of the family and you are also important as well.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was doing this till last year. And then at last i accepted that whatever i do they would never appreciate.. then i relieved, yes really :) Because just after that i started to focus on myself, my own beauties and abilities

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child No activities or visits

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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being lonely is horrible. We should be more aware of people around us. The neighbour alone needs a visit and if elderly a visit and a quick check to see if he/she is ok. I live 5 hours drive from my elderly mum and I can't always visit. She is lucky to have friends and good neighbours who pop by for a cuppa or phone for chit chat. They pick her up for shopping. I am so grateful for these kind people.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Compulsively apologizing for minor/non-existent transgressions, just so people don't lash out at you. Perceiving every compliment as back handed. Eating as quickly as possible because you know someone is gonna throw your plate on the floor and force you to finish eating it.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Abuse and neglect as well. People should take a test before being allowed to become a parent.

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    36 People Share What Traits Show A Person Wasn't Loved By Their Parents Enough As A Child Stealing - my sister was always told she was 'too expensive' to take care of now she literally will steal even if she has money in her pocket.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! This is such an eye-opener for me, and explains sooooooo much. Thank you.

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