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Being in a serious relationship while you're secretly banging other people behind your partner's back isn't polygamy. It's cheating. And when somebody thinks about trying out this 'adventure,' they better get ready for what comes next after cheating in a relationship: getting dumped.
These cheaters, however, couldn't see it coming. And that's part of what made it so nasty. After their significant others found their secret Tinder profiles, they rewrote them without holding anything back. Bored Panda has compiled these revenge edits of online dating profiles into a savage list and hopefully, it'll instill some decency in your dirty minds. Nah, I'm just messing with you. I know you wouldn't do anything like this.
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As many as 90 percent of Americans believe infidelity is unacceptable, yet 30 to 40 percent of people engage in it. When talking about the reasons for such toxic relationships, Kelly Campbell, Ph.D., a Professor of Psychology at California State University, categorizes them into 3 groups. Individual reasons, relationship reasons, and situational reasons.
"The phrase 'once a cheater, always a cheater' refers to individual reasons for cheating—qualities about the person that make him or her more prone to commit infidelity," the professor wrote for Psychology Today. "Researchers have identified a variety of individual risk factors, including gender, personality, [as well as] religiosity and political orientation."
Interestingly, men are more likely than women to commit infidelity, primarily because they have more testosterone, which is responsible for fueling the desire to have sex.
People who have less conscientious and less agreeable personalities are also more likely to cheat.
On the other hand, deeply religious people and those with a conservative political orientation are less likely than others to commit infidelity because they have more rigid values.
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TheReader19 5 years ago
Why bother getting married and having kids? You don't want the lifestyle do you men know how much your behaviour effects your children's life when you do this s**t
"People also cheat because of relationship reasons—characteristics about their relationship itself that are unsatisfying," Campbell said. "For these people, becoming involved in a well-matched partnership diminishes or eliminates their desire to cheat. 'Once a cheater, always a cheater' does not hold true for this group. When they stray, factors about the relationship itself must be examined. Researchers find that partnerships characterized by dissatisfaction, unfulfilling sex, and high conflict are at higher risk for infidelity. Also, the more dissimilar partners are—in terms of personality, education level, and other factors—the more likely they are to experience infidelity."
Others cheat because of the situation they're in. "A person might not have a personality prone to cheating and might be in a perfectly happy relationship, but something about their environment puts them at risk of infidelity. Some situations are more tempting than others. Spending time in settings with many attractive people can make cheating more likely. The nature of a person’s employment is also related to infidelity—individuals whose work involves touching other people, having personal discussions, or a great deal of one-on-one time are more likely to have an affair."
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Chicago Kitty 5 years ago
"Not even worth getting undressed for..." Unfortunately, I've encountered one of those myself. hahahahaha
"When the sex ratio is imbalanced (an overabundance of men or women in the work or campus environment), people are also more likely to experience infidelity. Finally, people who live in urban areas, as opposed to rural, less populated regions, are at greater risk—people in metropolitan locations generally have more liberal attitudes about extramarital sex, and cities simply have more people, creating an environment of higher anonymity and a larger potential group of partners with whom to have sex."
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If you want to protect your relationship from cheating, Campbell advises talking to your partner about the definition of infidelity. "People have different ideas about what constitutes cheating and partners need to develop consensus." It is easier to understand where the boundaries are when everyone's on the same page. While most couples can agree that sex definitely counts as cheating, it might be beneficial to discuss more nuanced behaviors.
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Pittsburgh rare 5 years ago (edited)
Hahahahaha, I imagine him coming across her picture and dying a little. Good move
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Michèle Gyselinck 4 years ago
No thanks. Go f@#k yourself. And I hope she kicks you out and dumps all your belongings on the sidewalk.
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UndyingBisexual 5 years ago
They all deserved what they got, to an extent. The public deserved to be warned.
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R.s. Potter 5 years ago
Not nice. They may not have known about you and might have assumed he was single.
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Naomi Armitage 5 years ago
So, wait--the guy AND the girl cheated? So, who am I supposed to feel sorry for here? So many questions...
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Pokemon sa 5 years ago
Jess sounds alil Cray Cray and obsessed , not condoning any of Garys things but dam Jess , Sorry for your next dude
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earringnut 5 years ago
Cheating is always horrible. Why does it matter what color the men are that she cheats with?
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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi 5 years ago
Yeah, keep away from my cheating husband, he's mine. Surelly deserve each other.
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George Digamma 5 years ago
besides the ethical part, which is the main, how the hell do they have time to cheat. i hardly have time to comment on bored panda.
Daria B 5 years ago
I always say that when somebody jokingly brings up the topic about cheating and/or polygamy: "nah, too much social activity for me".
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My O My 5 years ago
Cheating isn't fair, it hurts and all. But it's one of those things that should, in my opinion, be handled privately
Tahani 5 years ago
It's good to be forewarned, but those guys can sue for defamation of character....
Pretty Pangolin 5 years ago
"The truth is an absolute defense" against defamation.
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Ivana 5 years ago
I am not convinced that people are designed to be together for long periods of time. I kind of think all relationships have a natural expiration date. My husband doesn't believe in monogamy and I don't believe in long term. We are pretty open about how skeptical we are about long term relationships and we have been together for 12 years. We still really love one another and plan to be together until the end, but relationships change and conversations about those changes are incredibly difficult. I don't think people are really prepared for how to be in relationships. Even if you are, they are still really complex and you just never know.
Florence Hastings 5 years ago
Who in their right mind would even want these people? (Not to mention answer their post)! They have some serious mental issues.
Ryo Bakura 5 years ago
All of these people need punching in the face, so I'd like one of you ladies to handle the cheating women.
Anita Miller 2 years ago
Hello everyone,I want to use this medium to appreciate Jody Hacklord for aiding me in hacking my partner's phone in less than 2hours, he does all kind of hacking jobs, I mean I haven't come in contact with any hacker capable of this, so many fake hackers ripped me of my money claiming they can hack my husband's phone. I have always suspected my husband of cheating but don't have any evidence to backup my claims, a friend of mine told me about Jody Hacklord, a certified hacker that can easily solve my problem, at first I was skeptical about it cause I haven't done something like this but I decided to try it and honestly he delivered, he was able to remotely monitor my husband's phone without any physical access, he showed me my husband's emails to his text messages and also his previous calls, I was so amazed, Jody is simply the best, please contact him hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
What is actually the best way to tap your spouse’s mobile phone? This is a common question of people who think that their spouses are cheating on them. Many of us experienced the feeling of being suspicious. But it’s not a problem anymore! To Tap cell phone, Jailbreaking, employee monitoring, spouse tracking, spy Facebook messages, SMS, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Microsoft, social networking sites, google play, recorder, gmail, skype, linked-in and any hacking and tracking tools of all kind and you’ll get the opportunity to dispel all doubts and be sure about your spouse’s honesty. He helped me real good and I have promised to talk about his service Contact hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
I struggled for several months to get myself a certified and genuine hacker, it was so tiring because while I searched for a real hacker, I was losing my money to fake hackers and it was so frustrating. I stumbled on a post online which referred me to Jody Hacklord and since I came in contact with him, my life has never remain the same, he is so good at his job and genuine also. I stopped losing money to fake hackers, contact him guys at hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com for all hacking services such as : Hire A Hacker For Cell phone / Mobile ( iPhone (IOS) / Android ) Computer Hacker / PC Related Find A Hacker For Any Passwords Hackers For Hire To Fix Your Credit Score hacker for hire to Change Score Ethical Hacker For Hire Urgent Professional Hacker for Hire Urgently For Spy Services Clearing of criminal records For Binary Option Recovery For Facebook Account Password For Gmail Account Password Recovery For Cryptocurrency recovery For Twitter Account Password and
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
What is actually the best way to tap your spouse’s mobile phone? This is a common question of people who think that their spouses are cheating on them. Many of us experienced the feeling of being suspicious. But it’s not a problem anymore! To Tap cell phone, Jailbreaking, employee monitoring, spouse tracking, spy Facebook messages, SMS, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Microsoft, social networking sites, google play, recorder, gmail, skype, linked-in and any hacking and tracking tools of all kind and you’ll get the opportunity to dispel all doubts and be sure about your spouse’s honesty. He helped me real good and I have promised to talk about his service Contact hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
irina beatrix 4 years ago
You want to get access to your partner’s phone and want to be safe at the same time? Get in touch with this guy via acephanthom G-MAIL COM
deanna woods 5 years ago
If you have to sleep around while in a relationship, don't be in a relationship. Don't stay with a cheater no matter how many children you have with them.
Lana Jig-maker 5 years ago
There. Would be a database of listed proven cheaters, whose profile can be crossed referenced for tinder/fb profiles. Like "cheaters" IMDB. you suspect this person is a cheat or want to report a cheater, ICDB.
Diana Robinson 5 years ago
When my two-months-ex boyfriend posted on FB how happy he was that he had been with his girlfriend for six months now, I went on and congratulated him, saying “Six months? Wow, that’s amazing! So happy for you!” He deleted his post, and I deleted my Facebook account.
April Simnel 5 years ago
There's lots of people who cheat BECAUSE you aren't supposed to do it if you're in a monogamous relationship with someone. The thrill for them is in doing something wrong.
Hollie Newton 5 years ago
The thing is people say all this s**t that they hate about the person who cheated and I'm not defending anyone but you dated them so if they are all the s**t things you say such as self centred then why not leave them over that?
EVERLEIGH 5 years ago
So, I noticed that alot of these , the girls are saying that the guys have std's but that means, most likely you do too or why were you with him then if he has it? If he be didn't cheat on you, the your the a*****e of being with that guy!
R.s. Potter 5 years ago
Maybe the diagnosis at the doctor's office was their first clue that he was cheating? If you have been faithful, then you know your partner hasn't if you get told you have an STD.
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Christina Sersif 5 years ago
Yeah this is kind of pathetic. They cheated, move on. Doing this sh!t makes you appear unhinged and desperate. You can’t teach dogs to be monogamous so no need to try
Ivana 5 years ago
Having a long term relationship end is a very traumatic experience. I have been with my husband for 12 years and you can't just move on from something like that. We would have to sell the house, find new places to live, start completely different routines, learn to cook for only one, go home to silence, decide what to do with the dogs, go to work alone, get new cars since we share the one we have, and suffer through a devastating loss of a best friend and companion. People are going to react emotionally and dramatically to that. It isn't unhinged or desperate, it is pain, suffering, and depression. Every part of my life would be altered if I left my husband. Some of these people have kids so that relationship will never really end and they can never really move on. Acting out on a dating site is just people expressing their very real anger and pain. Not everyone expresses it publicly but to not have any emotional response would be far more concerning than altering a tinder profile.
Load More Replies... R.s. Potter 5 years ago
I do wonder if all of these are genuine cheaters or if some are being hacked by angry frustrated people as revenge for not going out with them.
Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago
Our computers and smartphones are more powerful than the machines that were used to put the first man on the moon, and look how they are used.
Jess-a-men 5 years ago
There is some sweet irony in getting this type on spam on this type of article...
Load More Replies... George Digamma 5 years ago
besides the ethical part, which is the main, how the hell do they have time to cheat. i hardly have time to comment on bored panda.
Daria B 5 years ago
I always say that when somebody jokingly brings up the topic about cheating and/or polygamy: "nah, too much social activity for me".
Load More Replies... My O My 5 years ago
Cheating isn't fair, it hurts and all. But it's one of those things that should, in my opinion, be handled privately
Tahani 5 years ago
It's good to be forewarned, but those guys can sue for defamation of character....
Pretty Pangolin 5 years ago
"The truth is an absolute defense" against defamation.
Load More Replies... Ivana 5 years ago
I am not convinced that people are designed to be together for long periods of time. I kind of think all relationships have a natural expiration date. My husband doesn't believe in monogamy and I don't believe in long term. We are pretty open about how skeptical we are about long term relationships and we have been together for 12 years. We still really love one another and plan to be together until the end, but relationships change and conversations about those changes are incredibly difficult. I don't think people are really prepared for how to be in relationships. Even if you are, they are still really complex and you just never know.
Florence Hastings 5 years ago
Who in their right mind would even want these people? (Not to mention answer their post)! They have some serious mental issues.
Ryo Bakura 5 years ago
All of these people need punching in the face, so I'd like one of you ladies to handle the cheating women.
Anita Miller 2 years ago
Hello everyone,I want to use this medium to appreciate Jody Hacklord for aiding me in hacking my partner's phone in less than 2hours, he does all kind of hacking jobs, I mean I haven't come in contact with any hacker capable of this, so many fake hackers ripped me of my money claiming they can hack my husband's phone. I have always suspected my husband of cheating but don't have any evidence to backup my claims, a friend of mine told me about Jody Hacklord, a certified hacker that can easily solve my problem, at first I was skeptical about it cause I haven't done something like this but I decided to try it and honestly he delivered, he was able to remotely monitor my husband's phone without any physical access, he showed me my husband's emails to his text messages and also his previous calls, I was so amazed, Jody is simply the best, please contact him hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
What is actually the best way to tap your spouse’s mobile phone? This is a common question of people who think that their spouses are cheating on them. Many of us experienced the feeling of being suspicious. But it’s not a problem anymore! To Tap cell phone, Jailbreaking, employee monitoring, spouse tracking, spy Facebook messages, SMS, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Microsoft, social networking sites, google play, recorder, gmail, skype, linked-in and any hacking and tracking tools of all kind and you’ll get the opportunity to dispel all doubts and be sure about your spouse’s honesty. He helped me real good and I have promised to talk about his service Contact hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
I struggled for several months to get myself a certified and genuine hacker, it was so tiring because while I searched for a real hacker, I was losing my money to fake hackers and it was so frustrating. I stumbled on a post online which referred me to Jody Hacklord and since I came in contact with him, my life has never remain the same, he is so good at his job and genuine also. I stopped losing money to fake hackers, contact him guys at hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com for all hacking services such as : Hire A Hacker For Cell phone / Mobile ( iPhone (IOS) / Android ) Computer Hacker / PC Related Find A Hacker For Any Passwords Hackers For Hire To Fix Your Credit Score hacker for hire to Change Score Ethical Hacker For Hire Urgent Professional Hacker for Hire Urgently For Spy Services Clearing of criminal records For Binary Option Recovery For Facebook Account Password For Gmail Account Password Recovery For Cryptocurrency recovery For Twitter Account Password and
Katherine Davis 2 years ago
What is actually the best way to tap your spouse’s mobile phone? This is a common question of people who think that their spouses are cheating on them. Many of us experienced the feeling of being suspicious. But it’s not a problem anymore! To Tap cell phone, Jailbreaking, employee monitoring, spouse tracking, spy Facebook messages, SMS, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Microsoft, social networking sites, google play, recorder, gmail, skype, linked-in and any hacking and tracking tools of all kind and you’ll get the opportunity to dispel all doubts and be sure about your spouse’s honesty. He helped me real good and I have promised to talk about his service Contact hacklordjody (@) gmail dot com
irina beatrix 4 years ago
You want to get access to your partner’s phone and want to be safe at the same time? Get in touch with this guy via acephanthom G-MAIL COM
deanna woods 5 years ago
If you have to sleep around while in a relationship, don't be in a relationship. Don't stay with a cheater no matter how many children you have with them.
Lana Jig-maker 5 years ago
There. Would be a database of listed proven cheaters, whose profile can be crossed referenced for tinder/fb profiles. Like "cheaters" IMDB. you suspect this person is a cheat or want to report a cheater, ICDB.
Diana Robinson 5 years ago
When my two-months-ex boyfriend posted on FB how happy he was that he had been with his girlfriend for six months now, I went on and congratulated him, saying “Six months? Wow, that’s amazing! So happy for you!” He deleted his post, and I deleted my Facebook account.
April Simnel 5 years ago
There's lots of people who cheat BECAUSE you aren't supposed to do it if you're in a monogamous relationship with someone. The thrill for them is in doing something wrong.
Hollie Newton 5 years ago
The thing is people say all this s**t that they hate about the person who cheated and I'm not defending anyone but you dated them so if they are all the s**t things you say such as self centred then why not leave them over that?
EVERLEIGH 5 years ago
So, I noticed that alot of these , the girls are saying that the guys have std's but that means, most likely you do too or why were you with him then if he has it? If he be didn't cheat on you, the your the a*****e of being with that guy!
R.s. Potter 5 years ago
Maybe the diagnosis at the doctor's office was their first clue that he was cheating? If you have been faithful, then you know your partner hasn't if you get told you have an STD.
Load More Replies... Christina Sersif 5 years ago
Yeah this is kind of pathetic. They cheated, move on. Doing this sh!t makes you appear unhinged and desperate. You can’t teach dogs to be monogamous so no need to try
Ivana 5 years ago
Having a long term relationship end is a very traumatic experience. I have been with my husband for 12 years and you can't just move on from something like that. We would have to sell the house, find new places to live, start completely different routines, learn to cook for only one, go home to silence, decide what to do with the dogs, go to work alone, get new cars since we share the one we have, and suffer through a devastating loss of a best friend and companion. People are going to react emotionally and dramatically to that. It isn't unhinged or desperate, it is pain, suffering, and depression. Every part of my life would be altered if I left my husband. Some of these people have kids so that relationship will never really end and they can never really move on. Acting out on a dating site is just people expressing their very real anger and pain. Not everyone expresses it publicly but to not have any emotional response would be far more concerning than altering a tinder profile.
Load More Replies... R.s. Potter 5 years ago
I do wonder if all of these are genuine cheaters or if some are being hacked by angry frustrated people as revenge for not going out with them.
Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago
Our computers and smartphones are more powerful than the machines that were used to put the first man on the moon, and look how they are used.
Jess-a-men 5 years ago
There is some sweet irony in getting this type on spam on this type of article...
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