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We all have some things about ourselves that might seem weird to others. Maybe we have peculiar eating habits, and we see or do some things differently. And these things might seem like a norm to us. But what if one day you realize that what you thought to be a regular thing is actually a pretty rare occurrence for others? Reddit user @u/ComfortableMess3145 was curious to know what were some things that people thought to be normal until they realized that they aren't. 

The question that received 1.3K answers got some interesting responses. A lot of people shared that for the longest time, they didn’t know they had a certain condition such as astigmatism, ADHD, or some kind of allergy. Other users revealed that their “not normal thing” usually came from their household. The examples included being expected to always ask for every little thing instead of just taking or doing it, or being used to big family fights. 

Do you have something to add to this list? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Subconsciously adapting my speech patterns to whoever is around me. I'll start picking up their accent, words they use frequently, etc. Turns out, this is a common thing neurodiverse people, and it's more seen in women if I'm not mistaken. It could cause me issues, however. Thing is, I'm much more self conscious about this when I talk to black people, bc I'm white... And I swear I'm not trying to do a "blaccent" on purpose. It just... Kind of happens.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have astigmatism so I see light in streaks. For the longest time I thought that was how everyone saw it.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone struggles to concentrate on a task or have the mental energy to take care of things. Apparently I have ADD. I found out two years ago life didn’t have to be a daily struggle when I started taking a medication for a sleep problem and one of its off label uses is to treat ADD.

    I was actually told repeatedly as a kid I had ADHD but they always told me it was my fault and treated it as if the issue was voluntary. So I grew up believing I was just a lazy day dreamer who gets overly stressed by having too many tasks. I’ve lived my life thinking everyone else was better than me because they can get things done. Nope, I’ve just need meds my entire life. Now I wonder how different my childhood would have been if I had been treated back then.

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    Lisa H
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to get tested for this once and for all. My school failed me hard for this. They said that I'm "too smart to have a learning disability." How messed up is that? Not only are they implying that people with learning disabilities are dumb, but it's also like they wanted me to just tell them that I'm lazy even though I worked my a*s off and told them as much. Twenty years later and it still makes my blood boil.

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    #4

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online having a good relationship with your own parents. wasn’t until i made good friends that i realised how lucky my relationship is with my parents bc so many of my friends did not like family life.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to hide when you’re parents are fighting, I only found out this was not normal when I went to a friends house and their parents had a argument that I expected to turn into a screaming fit just like it does with my parents. I got up expecting to have to hide with my friend before they started full on fighting. I was then informed by his concerned parents that it’s not normal to have to do that.

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    Dumpsterbaby
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived my life like that also. I had a friend who told his parents to stop yelling. I thought, omg heads are going to roll, but they didn't. His parents stopped and apologized to him. I was floored.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Hearing music play even when you aren’t listening to anything. And no I’m not talking about when you have a song stuck in your head and it’s just your thoughts singing the lyrics, I mean actually hearing music when nothing is there.

    I use to think my house was haunted by a ghost that loved to play music. Later on as I got older I thought it just happens to everyone. Until I read about “Musical Hallucinations” online and found out how rare it actually is.

    And no it’s not fun.

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    barn owls ️
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait that isn’t normal? i thought everyone had that. another thing to add to the list of “things i might have to get tested for”

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    #7

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make a roaring noise in my ears by tensing a muscle.

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    BubbaLouie
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this, and I can also do a really high pitched beep. (EDIT: I forgot, I can also click.) (Edit 2: I do the beep by... tensing up my jaw/chin? I don't know how it works.)

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Picturing things in your head. I have a friend with aphantasia and she was flabbergasted when she realized people could visualize things in their brain.

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    olx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same i was like??? so u can just see what u want when u want?? it makes me wonder how phantasic people dont instantly have a great memory

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought when you try to talk to someone about something they do that bugs you or is just something that you feel the need to bring up because it effects you, that its normal for the person to get upset when you bring it up, and for them to disagree with you, resulting in yelling and fighting. I always thought this until I was talking with my friend about something they do that really pisses me off, and they just sat there, and thanked me for bringing it to there attention, and was completely chill about it, no yelling or argumenting. It was a weird feeling because I just kept waiting for the disagreeing and yelling to happen, and when it didn't I felt like something was missing? lol.

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    #10

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to blur and unblur your eyes on command 🙂

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    Whitney Anderson
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People with worse vision can do this easier and make it more blurry. If you have 20/20 vision you may still be able to do it just you cant make as blurry as people with worse vision. If you have glasses then you can tell when you take them off you can make it more blurry and when you put them on its a little harder and you cant make it quite as blurry. My dad is an eye doctor that is why i know this.

    Luisa Madrigal
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait this isn't normal? Guess i'll have to add it to my "Things I should get tested for" list

    Telmo Belo
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also recently found out most people couldn't do it. We do it by relaxing a muscle in our eyes. I sometimes find myself too tired to flex that muscle and everything is blurry for a while until I rest a bit.

    ADHD raptor
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    fun fact search it up it is not rare at all every one can do it

    Proudtrans
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its something people can do but have to train themselves. You just ever so slightly cross your eyes. I can do it

    olx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    apparently its something to do with the muscles (?) controlling the lenses of your eye. so if you need glasses due to lens regulation issues it might not work for you!

    CakeandNintendo
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's strange because I can do it but definitely need glasses due to eyesight, can't read anything more than 5 ft away from me

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    Axelcat
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought this was normal until one of my teachers gave me a stern talking to for "looking at with those eyes".

    Axelcat
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was a few years later when someone took a picture and I realized I looked drunk.

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    Kate Malcom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My whole family can do that (either that or they were lying to me 🥺)

    Ashley Spurlock
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this and it's fun :D I can also shake my eyes to make it look like they're having a seizure-

    Carla Olavarría
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought everyone could do that, also the rumbling noise by tensing a muscle

    Bo Manson
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I log in and commenting. Ability to blur and unblur eyes on command...wow. I can "unable" to see things in front of me like I lost/didn't bring my glass kinda thing and able to see things in front of me as clear as day. This is the first time I read about it

    Electra Smith
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too, Stardust. Actually I like to do it to get a new perspective (for example, to relate to people with very poor eyesight, or to blend color mentally) And sometimes just for fun.

    Jay Dresser
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't quite do that but I can unconverge my eyes at will which makes it easy to see those SIRDS / stereograms, but that also involves making my eyes focus where they are not converged.

    John Russell
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know if it's related, but I can vibrate my eyeballs at will.

    ViFi
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this- i also have voluntary nystagmus (i can vibrate my eyeballs on command)

    Marcellium
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this but it's because I have a lazy eye. Keeping things focused is sometimes effort for me!

    Surfing Panda
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that just focusing before or beyond what you are looking at? Like what you have to do to see the images in 3D albums?

    Mel The Axolotl
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea I can do this easily, in fact I stim by doing it a lot of the time. My favorite thing to do is to look at something up close and notice background things look double and then switch so the background looks normal and the foreground looks double. Also when I look at something reflective, like my phone screen rn, the words and stuff coming from inside the screen go double, but the stuff reflecting off the screen (I can see the light on the ceiling behind me) doesn't, which I think is cool. I wonder why that happens tho

    AspieGirl88
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do that … but I have to either squint my eyes or take my glasses off to do so! 🤣

    Wren Hard
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this and when I try to explain to my family they just think I'm making it up. Like 'can you tell what this is' then I would blur my eyes, and be like 'yeah even from distance ' and they don't understand because I am standing right there still...

    Paulio
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just whirl your eyes in a circle a few times it works for me

    Evi Grimes
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently I can do this and my husband can't. So I guess it's not something everyone can do, but I swore it was.

    Talon
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend and I can, and we love being able to do it bc we're artists so it helps with drawing value

    Michelle C
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m surprised that isn’t normal!! I have no problem with it if I want to do that- at least I didn’t until fifth grade when I needed glasses!

    Ewa K
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't it just accommodation reflex? You just do it voluntary.

    Potater tot
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always do this. It’s basically like crossing your eyes. My brothers also do it.

    Bananananananana
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I can do this, and when I do it hard enough it makes my eyes shake, like when Puss n’ Boots is begging

    idrow1
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone can do this. I think the anomaly would be the people who can't.

    therealrose357
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you mean like, becoming nearsighted on command or just crossing your eyes?

    Phil Green
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very handy for looking at SIRDS. I thought everyone could do this, turns out not to be true!

    Connie Marciniak
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This came in handy as old age began to effect my vision since I was able to “correct” it until I needed glasses.

    Th3_Narrat0r
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have this :D it actually a normal thing that everyone can do, it just takes practice. It's like wiggling your ears. Anyone can do it, you've just got to work the muscle

    Alexis
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what I do when I am in a social setting that becomes too much for me. I just blur everyone out!

    Arianna
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SAME! I can also go crosseyed on command so that might have to do with that.

    Fenchurch
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this, but if I relax my eyes I immediately see double.

    AP
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easier to do when you are young. The older you get, the less you are able to do it

    Nicole Tomme
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blur on. Blur off. Am.... am I the Blur? But seriously, maybe this is more common with people with poor eyesight? Mine is very poor and when your default state is blurry your eyes are constantly trying to adjust so maybe it is a muscle thing?

    Quitethedilemma
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this and didn't think much of it until SO said mentioned his friend with adhd can do it and that isn't normal. I don't have vision issues just able to focus and unfocus when I want as well as being able to wobble my eyes.

    DrGirlfriend
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's over stimulation to the eye muscle it's a strain, like wiggling your ears it's a muscle control some people do not have 😊

    Cat Palmer
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's easy - take out my contact lenses and instant blur! (I can also do it for real, thanks to the 'magic eye' pictures which were a brief fad when I was a kid.)

    AffenpinscherMom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learned that from those books back in the day. The ones where you had go blur your eyes to see the 3D picture. What were they called again? I feel like I was looking at those around the same time as Where's Waldo.

    Lisa B
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this how you see those images within pictures, forget what they are called, can't ever do it!

    Hypoxia Smurf
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Merely changing focus. Quite normal. Look at your fingers on the keyboard, and anything beyond is a visual blur. But consider my step-bro who could make his eyeballs jitter up-and-down, fast. THAT is likely not normal.

    Lantana Howell
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do people "see" the images in the 3D magic eye books.... you change the depth of your focus. I struggle to believe it is not that common since those books were wildly popular and there were multiple books in the series.

    Benita Valdez
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? I can do this too. I have really bad eyesight so I used to always mess with my eyes to see what they actually could do since seeing wasn't working so maybe they could do other things. I can blur and unblur and cross them as well as move each eye independently.

    Booklover<3
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Other people can't do this? I always focus and unfocus my eyes like I'm a camera.

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    #11

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought the after effect for eating fresh cherries was a scratchy throat, with this weird tight feeling. Mild though but it would last about 30 minutes.

    After eating 2 cherries earlier this year I ended up having a severe allergic reaction and discovered that cherries aren't meant to do that and I've just been allergic to them this whole time. 😅

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    Michelle Reynolds
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pineapple, kiwi, cantaloupe, walnuts, pecans, bananas-they all do that to me but cherries are OK luckily,

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I was joking around with my friends in 8th grade History and we were trying to see how many pencils we could stick into my friend's afro (with his consent) and right as I was trying to lift my arm and put the pencil in his hair one of them cracked a joke that sent us into a fit of laughter. My arms went limp and when my friends started coaxing me to put it in I told them I couldn't.

    They were noticably confused, so when I regained my composure I explained that everytime I laugh, my muscles go limp and I am not be able to move them. It ranges from droopy head and weak knees, to full body collapse.
    Because of the term "roll over laughing" and portrayals of people in media falling over in laughter I thought this happened to everyone, and they were just better at controlling it. My friends all agreed that it in fact did not happen to them, and that I should get it checked with a doctor.

    1 year later I was diagnosed Type 1 Narcolepsy: a sleep disorder characterized by excessive daytime sleepiness, and Cataplexy. Cataplexy happens when a trigger, such as strong emotions like laughter or fear, trigger a sudden loss of muscle tone, making it difficult to move, stand, or even breathe.

    I was lucky to be diagnosed as early and quick as I was, since the condition is widely unknown outside of the context of Narcolepsy patients and specialists. The symptoms of Narcolepsy are so common, in both puberty where it starts to present more heavily, and other diagnoses such and depression and anxiety. Its estimated that around 1 in 2,000 people have this disorder, and the lucky few that actually get diagnosed usually only do so later in life after 5-10+ years of multiple tests and misdiagnoses.


    The takeaway from this is that if you think that other people "deal with it better" or "suck it up" or "control it better" chances are that's not normal, and you should speak up about it.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to deliberately learn all your social skills. I assumed other people just got more practice, because I didn't have many friends growing up. Years of work did help me a lot, but I only recently realized most people learn these things without thinking much about it.
    I'ts like the difference between glancing at a sentence and immediately getting its meaning, vs. figuring out each word letter by letter.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Apparently most people can't reach their entire back with their hands. I never knew backscratchers had an actual purpose.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can do this too. Apparently I'm a bit more flexible than most other folks. I can turn my feet around almost all the way backwards,put my feet behind my head and contort in a few odd ways. I thought everyone could do this.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not being able to watch Movies/Shows without Close Captions or subtitles. Also never understanding what they are sayin on the radio. Turns out, I have an Auditory Processing Disorder. If I don't see peoples lips moving my brain doesn't recognize they are words more than half the time

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    CelticElff
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sensory Processing Disorder (avoider) here. If two people talk to me at the same time (classical scenario: I'm on the phone but my toddler demands my attention) the voices overlap and become nonsensical noise. Drives. Me. Crazy.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online That most people aren't constantly aware of their heart beating, and dont get numb legs just from walking a few metres uphill, and don't lie in bed at night wondering whether they'll die in their sleep because their heart does funky things when they lay down.

    Turns out I have a heart condition lol. I feel so at peace now that I'm on medication for it

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I thought it was normal for every friend group to have one person that everyone picked on for no reason. I don't mean light roasting, I mean legitimately bullying them and putting them down. My brother's friend group had one, with my brother being a primary instigator. I was the punching bag in my middle school friend group. It took until the end of high school/the beginning of college for me to actually be treated like a person and realize that friends aren't supposed to make you feel like s**t about yourself.

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    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this. I was constantly shunned and yelled at growing up untill recently when I made actual friends who treated me nicely

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I’ve played violin since I was 3 years old. So, I learned the letter names of each string and the finger numbers. And, whenever I heard a song, I always thought of a letter or number with each note. To me, it was plainly obvious what each letter and number was, and my brain even expanded the letter/number system to work with cello and the entire piano range.

    Turns out, not every violinist has this, let alone absolute pitch (frequency in Western countries: 1 in 10 000). When I was 20, I discovered it was synesthesia, a harmless linking of senses/concepts in the brain.

    That seemed to check out since people’s faces often have smells/tastes associated with them. Mine tastes like white sugar out of the packet. My brother’s is hard boiled egg. And whenever someone mentions a particular date on a particular year, I envision a giant number line.

    Also, letters have emotions. E is happy, but lowercase e is even happier. Capital N is happy but lower case n is sad. And the months of the year go in a giant counter-clockwise circle, with my birthday in October being at the bottom. 2 is sad. 3 is happy.

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    Bird Mom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For as long as I can remember, every time i think of a date or month, this giant circular calendar pops into my head

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having a whole complex of rooms in your head and about 16 people in there chilling and having convos with them

    It’s all positive, they’re kinda my way of getting things out and processing thoughts and emotions

    I do all sorts in my subconscious mind palace and it’s very entertaining but everyone else finds it kinda wierd.

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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to reveal this secret but when I am under stress, to relax myself I make up all sorts of cringe stories in my mind but I dont write them down. But ik I will never get the most number of upvotes so my comment will be the last one in order so no one will know my secret hehe 😁

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online When I’m on my period, I can numb my lower half of my body so I can’t feel cramps. After talking to my friend I realized she couldn’t do it and I was just confused as I have been doing it for years.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone hears their own thoughts audibly. I only learned that last year after describing to my husband that when I’m thinking I literally hear my thoughts as if they’re being spoken outside of my body.

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    Rod McCabe
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I routinely talk to myself. When you're alone for 54 years with not one at all in life talking to yourself is almost inevitable. No family, friends, work associates, no social media contacts... no one. well I've been talking to myself ever since I could talk. And yes, I answer myself as well. Its fun.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to give myself goosebumps on command.

    I only realised last year (I’m in my 30s) when watching Taskmaster and one of the tasks was “Give yourself goosebumps, fastest wins”, and I wondered why they didn’t all just induce them like I do.

    Turns out it’s a rare ability that only 1 in 1500 people have.

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    TheAquarius1978
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's easy, listen to a song from Eluveitie, that works everytime lol ( for those of you not in to folk metal, try " 2SFH " ( 2 steps from hell ) its Impossible to hear their músic and not getting goosebumps )

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online "Man, I am having so much trouble finding out which colors to use for these letters!"

    "Just... use the colors from your head."

    "The what?"

    "That's what I did! The head colors? Y'know?"

    "N..o."

    Anyways I have color-grapheme synesthesia and somehow, no one thought much of me saying that the days and months and letters and numbers all had colors.

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    olx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    synesthesia is so cool to me. i dont have it i think, altho my friend thinks i do cuz i feel music but i think that's probably 50/50 normal cuz one of my other friends has it. i *associate* days, weeks, months with colours but i dont see it when its said or anything you know?

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    #24

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Normal is just the running average of weird.

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    3 Owls In A Coat
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this. We’re all weird, “normal” is just whatever weird thing most of us are doing.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Ringing in the ears. I dont have a conscious memory of not having it. When i was about 5 years old I asked my grandma " what song does your head play?"

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    Sky Render
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had tinnitus my entire life. Most of the time I just wilfully ignore it.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have a few medications I need to take for my mental health, some I need to take at night some in the morning. I've gotten into the habit of rather than reading the label for which ones I need, I will shake the bottle and know which ones to take based off of the sounds the pills make when they rattle.

    Let me say I was shocked when I was informed this is not normal.

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    Rod McCabe
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats definitely what t I do, I can just hear my pharmaceutical savior, xanax, as a beautiful music in the mornings. Panic attacks SUCK for 30 minutes and without a benzodiazapine I get attacks a couple of times a day. They're particularly insidious because you have to stop what you're doing and give your entire life (existence) to the attack. Work or home. You don't have a choice. I call anxiety and panic "cancer of the mind". Panic attacks are horrendous and completely debilitating. Not fun. Hearing that rattle in the morning is like all of the beautiful music or nature thrown into a couple of seconds of shaking.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Visual snow. My whole life, my field of vision has always been covered by shifting multicolored dots of light. Similar to light snow on an old TV transmission, hence the name. I see it all of the time, I never don't see it, though it is worse in the dark, or if staring at the sky. In the dark or when I close my eyes, it is all I see. I thought everyone had this until my early 20s.

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    #28

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online for YEARS i thought everyone got sick at the feeling of certain textures, kinda like seeing big bugs and stuff, like the same feeling that gives you, later learned i have a psychiatrist and therapist trying to figure out if i have adhd, or if im on the autism spectrum

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    Natalie H
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some clothing textures I absolutely can’t stand. They make shudder & my teeth feel funny for some reason 🤷🏻‍♀️

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    #29

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Two OREO limit. That was always the serving size in our house growing up. My first binge in college was a whole sleeve of OREOs.

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    Bouche Clay
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could do that. Although I often say it as a joke, for me, it's pretty much true that whatever is in the wrapper is one serving.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Lice. Growing up I had lice almost every summer, I thought everyone got lice growing up. I thought lice was just a summer bug that we kids got! When I got with my ex and talked to him about my childhood and how we always got lice, he was SHOOK. It was apparently not normal for children to get lice on a regular basis.

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    #31

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Asking for permission.

    I was raised to always ask permission to have water, a snack, turn on the TV, or go to the bathroom any time I am in someone else's home. My best friend's mom thought it was weird that I would ask permission for small things. Like "May I grab a knife and fork for my pizza?" instead of "Where can I find a knife and fork?" was super weird to her.

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    olx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is just politeness isnt it? maybe ive been raised goofy too :/

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    Abdominal pain. Turns out I have a gastrointestinal issue. But when everyone tells you as a kid to "suck it up", "be tough", "it's just a tummy ache", you get the idea that everyone deals with it and you're just being a whiny kid. Now when I get really bad flare ups, I end up in the ER on morphine.

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    #33

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I'm from Pennsylvania. Growing up, when we went to a restaurant and I ordered my favorite eggs, I would say, "2 dippy eggs, please". It wasn't until I got married and moved out to the western part of the country that I realized most people don't call them that.

    I can still see the look on the waitress's face when I asked for dippy eggs. Apparently, most people call them "sunny side up".

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    Deborah Harris2
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the UK Dippy eggs are soft hard boiled eggs that we cut the top off and use to dip soldiers into the yolk. The soldiers being buttered toast.

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having OCD. The thoughts that come with it I thought were normal for YEARSSS

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    barn owls ️
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same. apparently having intense paranoia and having to do specific things to “protect” yourself so the people won’t get you isn’t normal

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    #35

    My parents are African and rice was a huge staple growing up. So when I went grocery shopping with my American college roommates for the first time they were surprised that I went to grab a 20 lb bag of rice.

    They were white and were weirded out when they saw my lotion. They assumed it was for other reason besides moisturizing my skin and not being ashy.

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    Natalie H
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love rice! I even eat white rice for breakfast sometimes, with a bit of sugar and milk. Why were they weirded out over your lotion?? That’s what lotion is for! It sounds like your roommates are the weird ones, not you.

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    #36

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online My dad used to leave us in the car while he went in the bar to "see a man about a dog". We always thought he was in talks about getting us a puppy. I was an adult when it dawned on me he was in there drinking and see a man about dog was just an expression.

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    Rod McCabe
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent a good majority of my young life in bars (because my dad dragged me there) rubbing my eyes from all of the smoke - because in those days, you could pollute someone else's air and somehow that was legal, let alone moral. And I have asthma. I don't need to express how bad all of that intrusive smoke messed me up that way. You know, BEING ABLE TO BREATHE. One day I told my dad where to jump, he was pissed, but I spent the next 5+ hours sitting in the car wondering if I was going to be able to do my homework. I'm so glad my joke of a "father" is dead. Good riddance.

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    That I thought the human race existed only in my country (Denmark) when I was 9

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    allergies that cause anxiety.

    basically a while back i got tested for a bunch of allergies, strawberries came up pretty high but i love strawberries and have never had a rash or anything from them so the doctor person said it probably just gave me extra anxiety
    accepted it as normal and moved on.
    the subject came up with my old biology teacher relatively recently and he was surprised and said that's very rare

    i still eat strawberries. what's a little extra anxiety anyway?

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    K W
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who have seasonal allergies and anxiety will often note an uptick in anxiety during the worst parts of allergy season so this isn't surprising. I'd never heard food allergies causing it but that makes sense too.

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    #39

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Only ever eating frozen food. I thought actually cooking was for professionals only. My first 20 years were only frozen food except for special occasions

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    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make dolphin sort of clicks with my mouth (I don’t know how you’d call it)

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    #41

    I can blow snot off of my eye, when I was younger it just started happening. So whenever I blow my nose, I covered my left eye (one that snot comes out of) so snot wouldn’t shoot out. Found out not everyone does this a few years back!

    Edit: to be more specific, it comes out the little tube in your eye that connects to your nose (to drain tears)

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    Jihana
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I close my mouth and hold my nose closed and sprt of try to exhale the pressure is released by that canal in my left eye (only works with my left eye) It even makes a noise.

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    #42

    30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Brushing my teeth before eating

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    Orange Is Aging
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BEFORE? oh honey, what about the flavors? Did you just not know that things actually tasted good?? I NEED ANSWERS! 😭😭

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    #43

    This reminds me of the person who said the hated getting into the shower straight away because it was cold

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    Natalie H
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stand back & wait for the water to get warm. No cold showers for me! 🚿

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