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It seems like social norms change annually, nowadays. It can be exhausting and confusing trying to keep track of how we’re supposed to behave in various situations, but for young people who haven’t been around to see these societal shifts, what they’ve observed is completely normal. We all have cell phones, we all should have social media accounts, and we should all be available 24/7.

Older generations, however, have a harder time accepting some of the changes that have come along, and recently, Redditors have been sharing some of the things they wish would become normalized again. Below, you’ll find some of their most insightful responses, so enjoy reading through and be sure to upvote all of the thoughts you agree with.

#1

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal The art of conversation. Just because I disagree with you on something doesn’t mean I don’t respect you.

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    #2

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not being accessible all the time. Just because I have a cellphone doesnt mean I want to answer it at the supermarket, or while cooking dinner. Or while driving. Thats cool that my boss checks emails in his tesla driving 20 mins to work but I would rather not. I need a break

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    blixten1982
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before cell phones, if someone didn't answer the phone we'd just say, "Oh, they're not home," and that was normal. Nowadays, I wish it was just as normal to say, "Oh, they're not answering their phone," and just leave it at that.

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    #3

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Classes in high school like wood shop, home economics, culinary, machine shop, etc and just trade school training in general for those who don’t want to go to college.

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    sofacushionfort
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    US: standardized test scores are tied to funding, so no time for skill development (either manual or critical thinking). Kids learn that life is only about obedience to ham-fisted metrics analysis.

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    We reached out to the Reddit user who posed the question, "What things are seen as weird by the younger generation that we need to normalize again?" and lucky for us, u/Kvassalskaren55 was happy to have a chat with Bored Panda.

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    As far as what inspired him to start this conversation, he shared that he was just bored on a Saturday and decided to post something on Reddit. "I thought of a question to post in r/askreddit, but I had no idea that it would get this popular," the OP shared.

    #4

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Can we re-normalize using headphones while listening to music or watching videos in public? Please? I should be able to study on campus without having to listen to someone else's s**t. I can't even go to the campus library without someone blasting their s**t.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously not old enough to remember 'ghetto blasters' (yup, REALLY called that) These were extremely large radio cassettes with big speakers played at full volume everywhere from the 70s onwards until personal stereos became a thing. Before that it was 'portable wireless radios' These go back to the early 60s. Again, people have ALWAYS been a******s..

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    #5

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Being able to fix things yourself-sew hems and small holes, fix a toilet or garbage disposal, etc

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    D20 Games
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We NEED to bring back home economics and wood shop as required classes in high school or middle school for ALL students. This would help so many young adults get their first steps in basic life skills.

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    We were also curious what Kvassalskaren55 would answer to his own question. "I think we should normalize talking to each other more," he shared. "I think today’s generation is missing out on getting to know people face to face. You never know who is behind the screen, it could be anyone."

    On the other hand, the OP is appreciative that homophobia has become much less socially acceptable. "Everyone should be able to love whoever they want without facing backlash," he told Bored Panda.

    #6

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not having everything you do in public recorded.

    Two random people arguing? Gotta record it.

    Bad car wreck? Don't help. record.

    Natural disaster? Don't run, stay and document it until someone has to rescue you, then get the rescue for maximum likes.

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    blixten1982
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with concerts. I don't understand how people can't just watch a concert and enjoy it. Does anyone ever go back and watch their phone footage anyway?

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    #7

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Affordable housing.

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    keyboardtek
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wall Street investors have been buying up housing all over the country just to make money on excessive rents and the tight housing market, which they contributed to making.

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    As far as his thoughts on the responses to his post, Kvassalskaren55 says he agreed with many of them. "There were a few that surprised me," he noted. "Those were the ones where people said that they were tired of people thinking that they are available at all times. That they need a break."

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    #8

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Having the decency and manners to verbally cancel plans or say you’ll be late in a timely fashion that’s respectful of the other person’s time and effort, instead of framing ghosting people as some kind cute personality quirk.

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    sofacushionfort
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being stood up or ditched on a date are as old as dating itself, but the RSVP was a contract that could only be violated at the peril of never receiving any future invitations

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    #10

    Actually owning the things you buy. Having the right to tinker with your devices.

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    Mike Fitzpatrick
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too damned many companies jumping on the product as a service bandwagon and it needs to stop. For instance, you pay (typically dearly) for a option on your new car, but you then need to pay a fee/subscription to use it? Not in this world, that's absurd.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not having social media. Apparently now not being on whatever sites is a red flag.

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    BoredPamda
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just respect people who don't have it. I wish I could quit it

    Weasel Wise
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can quit when exercising self control and genuinely admitting to yourself how wasteful and harmful "social" media is to your life. People quit using hard drugs...you can quit diddling your phone, I know you have that much will power.

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    LokisLilButterknife
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear you! As someone who has ADHD and anxiety, Facebook was toxic. I was constantly comparing myself to other people who were married, having children, or going on fancy vacation. I felt like it was a constant competition and just got so burned out from it. I tried going off it for a couple of months and that couple of months turned into five years. I did really use to love Instagram as there were some amazing photographers that I followed, but now I feel like it is just a bunch of advertisements. If I'm not posting reels of every moment of my life, nobody seems to give a damn which is pretty sad...

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    Emily Wendling (Emmy)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither me nor my husband has social media. We used to but it caused so much drama we both agreed to quit. Which all I had was Facebook anyways. I never could get into the other's.he had everything under the sun. Once we quit using them though 99% of our problems disappeared as well.

    Hokuloa
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. Dating without a social presence is tough now. If one is a ghost on the internet and cannot be searched, people think you’re a serial killer or something.

    Satanist Goth (She/Her)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find social media stupid. I just stick to Gmail and google chat, then only people who have my gmail can contact me.

    Crash W
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I have social media wise is Facebook, or as like to call it, “FAKEbook” and Pinterest. I don’t consider Pinterest social media though.

    Terri Martin
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess I'm a huge red flag. I ditched ALL forms of "social media" 5 years ago. Then 3 years ago, I ditched my cell phone. I have an email address that I check twice a day and I have ZERO regrets. 🚩

    The Darkest Timeline
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess some Gen Zs and Millennials see it as weird to not be on social media? Whereas lots of us over 40 see it as unnecessary. Definitely a generational difference.

    Gina
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a Millennial I am 41, 1981 is the year Millennial generation began. I don't have any social media accounts. I have 0 interest . I don't think it's a generational difference. My aunts are all over 60 years old and all our on facebook and ask me why I'm not on it. It's just a people difference not generational.

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    PlatinumThe8-BitCat
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been called weird many times when I have asked what certain websites were, I remember asking what Snapchat was and the other kids probably thought I was stupid

    hwatinternation
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, they just thought it was a little odd since so many people know and they didn't think that someone their own age wouldn't know. Not that deep.

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    LuLuBelle
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Purging my phone of all social media is the best thing I ever did for myself.

    Id row
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually find social media a red flag now. It started off with good intentions, but as with anything else, people ruined it. Also, it ruined people.

    𝐆𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐦-𝐏𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree completely. Sometimes I am *very* wary when people describe their level of involvement in various social media platforms.

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    Nice Beast Ludo
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easier to call it a "red flag" than admit there is something wrong with the people who document their entire lives on it. I record all my videod my myself and my family- never for social media. I have thousands, and I have maybe posted 5? But sure, I'm the abnormal one.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have *never* had any social media (unless commenting on places like BP counts) and I don't intend to have any. Younger people (under 40) eye me with suspicion, and I don't care. If my entire life has to be searchable for you to trust me, you can just not be my friend. I value my privacy and I don't need "likes".

    SkyDragonAerial (Aro/Ace, Cassgender)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have Instagram for my school, and none of my (very limited - BP, Instagram, and I guess Discord counts.) social media accounts are linked to my real name anywhere. If you don't know me IRL, you're not gonna be able to find me.

    SkyDragonAerial (Aro/Ace, Cassgender)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, I worded that weirdly. If you don't know me well enough for me to tell you my online names, good luck contacting me on the internet.

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    Thomas Ewing
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try not watching commercial TV for over 30 years! No mind pollution and poisonous ads, bad language and being lied to. I don't own a phone for the same reasons. My brain is free of the evil of insecurity.

    Bina Wei
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Or not being on snapchat or instagram. I have other social media such as Discord. But not having those first two and it's like I flashed my breasts at them, people are that shocked.

    Tessa Dawn
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is really the only social media I am on. I have Facebook, but am rarely on it. Never used Twitter, insta, tiktok, and I'm not interested

    Rostit. .
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont see this at all. BP is as close as I get to social media and zero people care.

    ️ rivy ️ (they/he/she)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So relatable. I’m a teenager and when people ask for my snap I go ‘sorry i’m not allowed to have social media’ and i get the most judgemental stares from people. is it a crime to have strict parents????

    Weaponized Beef
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I quit Twitter 8 or 10 months ago. The improvements to my mental health have been remarkable.

    Dogcat vet (retired)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My biggest social media is reading google news and bored panda...dont have a facebook or X or whatever signups. At 64 I don't care about watching someone's escapades

    Socially Awkward Crow
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like social media, it's weird and annoying and too much social stuff

    Nosirrow
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In 2010 I had my teaching practice. I introduced myself to pupils, one said she'll add me to friends on Facebook. I said I don't use social media, she told me I don't exist.

    U.R. Kidding
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More that people you know don't bother to call or email you; just post that they're having a party on whatever social media platform they're on. Then wonder why you don't show up.

    Will Cable
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it highly amusing when certain newspapers online run articles about how a certain social media site are doing X,Y, Z and it is wrong for them to do it only then to have a link on their page asking you to share or join them on the social media site the story is about!

    pep Ito
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be very honored and proud to have one or more red flags for not being on social media.

    Gavin Johnson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My partner (44 F) has zero social media presence, her job used to be with children who were both very vulnerable and very destructive, it was easier to have no social media footprint and have no risk from families / people who may wish to find the children after they been removed from dangerous situations AND it meant those same children couldn’t find her / get information on her / her family. It has had zero negative impact on her life, she is not a fan of tech anyway so it’s no big deal. I on the other hand have multiple sm accounts 😂 opposites attract I guess 😀

    Margaret Zahn
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only social media I have anymore is Instagram and even then, I barely use it.

    Dao Dao
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I WILL NEVER STOP USING BOREDPANDA AND YOU CANT MAKE ME!!!!

    Maggie Hood
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have Facebook and YouTube. I don't have the energy for Instagram or snapchat or whatever else there is. I can only keep up with so much.

    John Smith (he/him/xy/️)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that is a red flag to someone then THEY are the red flag. They want to have a means to spy on you, breach your privacy.

    Pud
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda is a type of social media site. Is it not?

    Amanda
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the best decisions I have ever made was to delete the Facebook, Twitter apps from my phone, only ones I had,. I didn't delete the accounts but I still have not posted or scrolled down feed since. I didn't notice until I stopped the affect it was having on my anxiety and depression.

    Peter Kovak
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not connected to any social media platform and I don't want to. In my free time I can do lots of things, without being stuck in front of the cellphone learning about my friend's dog's farts.

    David Henry
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I comment more in here than I do social media... (I consider this more humor)

    Channo Sagara
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If somebody think it's a red flag, then it's a red flag. I have a twitter that i never touch, and messaging apps where people can get in touch with me. If that's not enough, red flag. What are they going to do? Blow up your relationship problems whenever you guys have one? Or too busy taking pictures everytime you're bout to eat?? Red flag red flag red flag.

    Shiva Ho
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I realized way back in 2010s that so called social media was just a marketing scam to steal personal info & deleted all my accounts accept YouTube so I can still post my concert recordings for Everyone to hear!

    No One
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't associate with people on social media. Don't want to. Being on social media is a huge red flag.

    Brandon Parisien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have it, but it's private and my followers are under ten. It's for my non-local friends.

    Dawn Overall
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blah. People. No one cares about what you are eating or where you are going.

    Allison Slagle (Randomosity)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Born in 91 and I've never had Facebook or Twitter or anything. I honestly don't care what my old classmates are doing and if their dog passed a kidney stone. It's just as fake as reality tv.

    Oskar vanZandt
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I check BP daily but check FB once a week or less. I communicate with friends and family through APPs... no other social media interaction.

    Sara Wilson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Red flag me up! I meet a lot of older people that aren't on social media or gave it up. The younger generations seem to take longer to realize how toxic it is. Although there r plenty of older people that don't realize it too. I know. :)

    Audra Sisler
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and whatever other apps there are.....I don't need the drama. My life is MUCH simpler without it! I'm a bored panda nerd! 😁😁😁🤣♥️

    Kaye Nicole (Nikki)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone doesn’t have Snapchat, I consider that the greenest green flag tbh

    Elizabeth Gansner
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh cool, I'll keep the red flags over the likes of Facebook and twi-i mean "X" any day. I'm not even anti social media, but when they become toxic hellholes, ya gotta be able to leave.

    Mediocre Genius
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got off of social media about six years ago and I haven't missed it at all. I find I like people more when I don't know every curated detail of their lives, their beliefs and opinions. I don't want to see the scars from your back surgery. Don't care that you went to the gym. And you aren't the first person to visit a restaurant. Just eat your food. No one is that interesting. I know I'm not. Remember: When you are on social media you are a product. It's designed to learn as much about you so possible then you are sold to advertisers.

    TotallyNOTaFox
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn, I must be such a huge Red Flag that I could easily work for the chinese government

    Jaz
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have any social media and I love it. I had Instagram to follow my kids and then one day I asked my youngest daughter, "I haven't seen you post anything lately." she said "that's because I blocked you two years ago." I'm 43 and free from all that bullsh*t. Social media is an addiction. Ask yourself, "does it really matter knowing what happened in that person's life? Did your lif really change that much now that you know whatever it was you needed to know?" the answer is always no.

    kristina llamas
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have social media anymore, for like 2 years now. I don't miss it at all

    Achilles Heel
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have YouTube and TikTok, (I only got TikTok to follow my mom's account, and it's all I watch there) and if Bored Panda counts, then voila.

    James Arvidson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Logged out years ago. At first it was difficult but then you see how it sucked up all of your time and how 99% of it was pointless. Plus you feel better about life and have time to go live it.

    LadyManx
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tonight my husband and I worked on our little projects. I'm making a tiny bookstore, he's building a globe. (Ok, they're kits,) At no time, did we check our non existant cell phones, our invisible tik tok and instagram accounts and of course, made sure to check out our so secret we can't see them facebook pages. We read the paper, at least the parts the cat wasn't reading, worked in the garden, went to a nursery, and had a lovely day not worrying about what we cannot control. We stay off social media mostly because we have better things to do. And truth be told, we don't really see anyone all that happy ON social media. So we'll keep our lovely Luddite life and go back to counting all the bee's in the hive at Pooh Corner. OH, and we just picked the last of our raspberries!

    Mark
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes you must be trackable at all times (even employers are becoming like this btw)

    Rae Mo
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Red flag sounds good to me. Get a life and get off social media.

    Simba
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social media is the worst invention of the 21st century.

    Alyssa
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The happiest people I know are those without any social media. It’s so very interesting. And a shame for myself that I still can’t delete my own accounts. 😔

    Kayla Schuster
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I deleted mine years ago. It has helped my mental stability tremendously! I didn't even feel stressed during the last election and i won't be on the next either.

    Mbfsc63
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am happy to have that "red flag"........social media is a scourge upon everyone. I really do not care what happened to some self absorbed moron whilst in line at McDonald's......I have no problem with people videoing some forms of injustices as long as it is a complete portrait.

    Stardrop
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    except this, i have no other social media and want nothing to do with it!

    Bonny Saxon
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a facebook that I look at two or three times a year. That's it. I don't even know what else is out there, tbh.

    Io Bella
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work for the goverment so our S.m accounts get monitored ... so.. its been 10 years... and no social media.. and honestly... its been the best for me...

    Keira Pendragon
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New red flag for me - people who think it's an actual red flag for someone not to be on X, Y or Z social media platform.

    epiultra
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is that not normal? Because Im not a sheep? I dont want to date sheep anyway.

    Garth
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there was ever was a network outage the Hospital Emergency Rooms would be flooded with kids having anxiety attacks.

    Griffy
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My phone is used for 4 things- 1. texting/calling my friend and keeping in contact with a pet care client, 2- ebook reading 3-music to listen to and finally, 4- occasional game. I have unlimited data and I rarely use it. Yes I have facebook, but am rarely on.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored panda is the only thing I have that counts as social media, and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

    sherry powers
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The jaw drops I get when I tell people I don't have Facebook, Twitter, tiktok, pintrist, Instagram, and whatever else there is. I'm completely off the grid when it comes to social media. It's amazing 😍

    Chris
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm on there, but don't really post or access it, maybe every now and then

    rizky meireza
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Christopher Nolan don't have social media,cmiiw. And he's still making those great movies.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, I guess I'm a red flag then and I'm okay with that. Social media has become a cancer on society. I had a Facebook account but deleted it years ago when it became clear how bad it was becoming. I do still have a Twitter/X account, but I just use that for sites that require a social media login to access them; it's like a throwaway email account. Though with Elon floating the possibility of making it a paid subscription, I might not even use it for that much longer.

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    #12

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Repairing and looking after clothes and shoes!

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    Maggie
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And stop the piles of clothes going to landfill. Throwaway culture needs to cease.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Being able to handle the slightest bit of social interaction. I’ve met some Gen Z who damn near have panic attacks when making a call for delivery, let alone speaking to people they don’t know in public. Some seem to think every interaction with a stranger is potentially life threatening. The anxiety levels in that generation are off the charts.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find the introvert memes tendency horrifying and relatable at the same time. Being an introvert myself I understand the struggle, but it seems to me it's getting worse and worse, triggering anxiety if you just let it be your lifestyle.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Knowing how to cook, even if that knowledge exists so you don't starve.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal I feel like u can't just talk to random people anymore. No one seems approachable. My mum talks to anyone wether she knows them or not. I notice alotnof the older generations are much more open to random chit chat

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    hwatinternation
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people just don't want to be bothered when they're trying to go about their day.

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    #16

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal The hustle culture needs to go. We need to normalize working while keeling in touch with family and friends, not working yourself to death. Also, how about lowering house price, eh? It’s a dwelling, not a money making machine.

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    Rose the Cook
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A house used to be a home not an investment for profit. It annoys me when real estate agents talk about selling a home, it is the house not the home being sold.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Pensions. The ability for current and future generations to retire.

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    Geoffrey Scott
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All that has happened is the companies have shifted the risk from them to you. If you can get such good returns, they can too. Of course in most plans you do not contribute. Just more evidence of poor money management on their part, and how criminal underfunding is.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Talking to people in-person, and asking people out, and not being a f*****g weirdo if they say no.

    Apps and social media have caused so much headrot.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anything this was worse years ago. Social media is doing us all a service by letting people know this is not acceptable. Imagine a world where no one told these a******s they were out of order. I grew up in it..

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Holding your phone to your ear when talking.

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    #21

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Just working out in a gym without the need to record yourself

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, it's not an abnormal thing to go and not record. Going to the gym without recording is normalised.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal **Getting to know your neighbours and connecting with the local community.**

    How many of us actually know or have talked to the people next door?? It used to be so common to introduce yourself at least, nowadays it’s just weird and considered off-putting, making it much harder to build a strong sense of community.

    This generation tends to be very isolated generally, and considering how actively hostile modern urban design is, it tends to discourage people from going outside and meeting people. This is also coupled with the rise of social media and a general sense of paranoia about feeling constantly watched, since everyone basically has a miniature recording device in their pocket. It decentivizes people from striking up more friendly conversations, due to fear of being recorded being cringe or whatever and going viral. Honestly the pandemic has f****d social skills beyond belief, but let’s get real here, the loneliness epidemic predates Covid by a long shot, quarantine just put it into hyperdrive.

    I think knowing your neighbours should make a comeback. Along with neighbourhood block parties and potlucks. And for gods sake, can we please make less suburbs and anti-homelessness benches, and more free/affordable public infrastructure while we’re at it??? It’s been said already, but look at the outside we built, no wonder kids don’t want to go outside anymore.

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    censorshipsucks
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again depends on country and background. Low income areas in my country have good social networks and high income areas have neighbours who barely interact and mostly hate each other.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Taking your clothes to a tailor instead of getting new clothes

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    #24

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal That individuals matter, not what groups people can be pegged as belonging to.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is only true of individualist (ie western) culture. In Africa our community is the most important thing.

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Vulnerability. Sincerity. These things seem to get lumped in with "cringe" when they shouldn't be.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet again - NO! This generation are far more accepting of people's struggles with mental health, sexuality, bullying and so on..

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Texting back too quickly is apparently a thing to younger folk? Whereas I see it as the ultimate sign of respect and interest when you're having an engaging conversation. There's so much second guessing about presentation and interest levels that many forget that it's cool, fine, and normal to just be honest with feelings and pursue them as long as they're reciprocal.

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    MichelleDonut
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kills me is "punctuation is aggressive" and "ok means you're mad." WTF kids?!?

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    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Telephone skills, not fearing making phone calls

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    Daniel Atkins
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Emails and texts are too easy to ignore. I feel it takes twice as long to communicate via email.

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    #28

    “Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Go to the park and join a bunch of strangers in playing a game whether it be touch football, throwing the Frisbee, even a game of TAG.

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