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Have you seen Midnight in Paris? The movie is not about the city per se, rather it's about our fascination with it. Woody Allen asks us why the dream of Paris seems more powerful than walking on its streets.

However, it's not just historical European landmarks that infatuate our minds. That cause us to look at the world through an unrealistic lens. No, no, there are many more culprits — we're too easily swayed.

Last week, Redditor u/Buttercuppy44 asked other users, "What's something we need to stop normalizing?" And it turned out to be a discussion we really needed. People straight away came through with plenty of specific and accurate examples.

#1

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Having to respect a damaging point of view because it's part of someone's religion.

No, I don't have to respect your belief that women are inferior or that LGTBQ+ people shouldn't have rights because your religion tells you to believe that. It's a bad point of view.

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Trixypix
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be higher up in the list AND it can be extended to every belief in general about 'we' are better then 'them' because of religion/ money/ education/ the place where you live/ the colour of your socks/ etc.etc.

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    #2

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Canceling people for things they did 10+ years ago. If someone has shown growth in that time then let them grow.

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    Otter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huzzah, huzzah! The only thing more ridiculous than cancelling someone for a trivial offense committed years ago, is someone digging through ten years of someone else's social media in search of something to use against them.

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    #3

    Kids beauty pageants.

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    Otter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not widely considered normal. Considered creepy, disturbing, and exploitative among sane people.

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    #4

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Coming to work sick. People tend to get praised for that, but they are in fact just endangering others to get sick as well — and in the end, it costs the company more than if they would've just stayed home.

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    #5

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Being rude to retail and food workers. We work hard all day, deal with some of the worst customers bar none, and really don't get paid enough to support families but we do it anyway. For way less than it's worth

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Ads on stuff you've paid for.

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Filters that change the shape of your face to fit a beauty standard. Kids are growing up with an even more distorted view of what they should look like than previous generations

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Taking pictures of strangers without their knowledge and posting it on the internet. It is toxic as hell and it wasn't that long ago it was seen as creepy.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be illegal. The last thing I want is for someone to take a photo of me and end up becoming a meme or something.

    Devil's Advocate
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is illegal, at least in many countries, however I think it's the case that you have to know about it and ask for it to be removed, then they ignore you, then you can do something about it... Yes, one of those helpful laws...

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    MiriPanda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you all referring to accidents and people needing help? The text does not imply this at all. BP is full of pictures of people, wearing funny masks, fashion fails, weird things/people you see on public tranport, etc. Pretty sure that most people weren't aware their picture was taken, let alone posted somewhere.

    Hugo Raible
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, Bored Panda is one of the worst offenders. Especially with people who don't fit their agenda or political beliefs.

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    Craig Silberman
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it depends on the situation; when photographing in public places, it's not practical to ask people's permission; as a photographer who shoots a lot of festivals and other public gatherings, I avoid posting embarrassing or unflattering images, but I do post photos of strangers without their knowledge --- and newspapers publish them too

    Peter Kelly
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Photographers have been taking pictures of people 'without permission' almost since the birth of photography. The issue is not the taking of the picture (although there are all sorts of questions regarding good manners), but rather the nature of the internet and our perception of how it impacts on lives. The nonsense is that you will see someone ranting about an invasion of privacy one moment and then turning around to take a selfie before posting it on social media.

    William Teach
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weird that Bored Panda runs this one, considering how many photos they post (just like so many other sites)

    Ryan-James O'Driscoll
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the context, which is where it all becomes murky. Targeting a person is an asshole move, but taking a street photo of strangers is not.

    Loty
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WRONG! Just look at photos by any great street photographer like Cartier-Bresson or Vivian Maier.

    DE Ray
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former journalist: If you don't want your image to be public, don't go out in public. Being paranoid about your picture being taken isn't something you should foist off on other people - your not wanting your image seen isn't their problem. Either seek psychological help, or be a hermit.

    Kari Panda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What are you talking about? Many pics pf strangers are specifically taken and used to ridicule them online. That’s not paranoia - look at all the stuff you find online - and it IS an offence in many places. This post isn’t about someone being in the background of some newspaper photo.

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    Johnnie Bravo
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking photos at a crowded place like a theme park is ok, especially if the focus isn't even the people. Focusing in on random hottie is bad, yes.

    Debbie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking pictures of strangers is not something I'd like, but for personal "use" ok. I mean, if I see a someone with a gorgeous dress, or a couple dressed up a certain way, or they are performing in the streets. I don't know. I hardly take pictures of strangers but sometimes you get the best shots if it is taken secretly, while they are unaware of the camera. To publish it without their consent on the internet is another thing. (And taking pictures for morally wrong reasons).

    Debbie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I took a picture the other day of a woman taking a picture of a bee, I had been talking to her a bit and she was so engrossed in taking a picture of that insect... unfortunately my picture wasn't that good, but I asked AFTERWARDS if she was ok with it and if she wanted to have it. She didn't mind, and didn't want it. Putting it online without consent is not ok. On the other hand, if I am taking pictures of my kids and strangers are also in the picture, then I do not feel obliged to ask them if it's ok. Also not when posting it online (which I don't do).

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    Mike Crow
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus also look how many photos of celebrities get published without permission.

    Kathy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was walking down the street when some jerk came by hanging out a taxi window with a cell phone taking my photo. The taxi driver must have been looking at me, too, as he failed to see the large brick along the kerb. When he hit it, the phone went flying into a mud puddle.

    BoredHuman
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to me at a Mcdonalds. Standing in line waiting. Minding my own business. I saw something out of the corner of my eye and some man was taking my photo. Still have zero clue why. Wearing jeans and a T-shirt and I am a middle aged boring ass woman. Pre-mask pandemic and super weird.

    Shane S
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes yes yes yes. The photos that really make me angry are gym photos. So what if someone is wearing something dumb or using the equipment Incorrectly. They. Showed. Up. And that’s more than most of us can say. Leave them alone. Also goes for taking photos of people you find attractive. That’s creepy. Don’t be a creeper.

    Stefaan De Clerck
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking photo's in a gym is not the same as taking photo's on a street. A gym isn't really a public place: one have to pay to use the gym. The same goes for trainstations: it's forbidden to take photo's in transtations of people without their permission. Even though one has quick acces to a trainstation, it isn't really a public space in legal terms. Gyms do not count as public spaces.

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    Lara Verne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I saw a lot of FB groups where they shamed strangers for their "bad taste in fashion". Crazy.

    Hugo Raible
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean what Bored Panda does with all the Karens and other people that don't fit their agenda?

    jimmy pop
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a law against that in Germany. You're not allowed to publish pictures of strangers without their explicit approval, exceptions are when the focus isn't on the people, like taking a picture of a place like an old downtown, where just some people happen to walk around, or on special gatherings like a demonstration or the crowd on a festival (but only when the focus isn't on a specific person).

    Mark Johansen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But unfortunately this quickly gets complicated. Can I take a picture of a crowded street without asking permission of every single person who might be visible in that picture? Can a reporter take a picture of a politician without getting the politician's permission? Etc.

    Mike Crow
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a lot of grey area here. It is not illegal (in North America) to take people’s photo in public. You can’t use it for commercial means like an add for a product or something without permission, but I believe you can publish it for other reasons. Many photographers have candid photos of people in public that is published works.

    Robert T
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There wouldn't be any photos or video in the news if it were illegal to take people's photos in public.

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    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically, this is illegal and you can be sued for it. Using someone's image without their knowledge or consent is considered a breach of intellectual property (basically you own your image, much like a copyright). My husband is a photography hobbyist and this was made very clear to him at a photog's workshop.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Public domain. We have to accept the fact that we are being photographed/videotaped constantly. In a time not long ago, people considered Owell's 1984 science fiction.

    Jane W.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sometimes wonder whose photos I'm in and what they do with those pics. Out of my control.

    backatya
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was seen as creepy if it was taken of children or women dummy.

    Seaweed Vibes
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had some very nasty anti lgbt+ people taking pictures of me when i was trying to eat in a restaurant as well as talking to eachother about what they were gonna do about me and who i was with. It was scary and also im on some assholes feed somewhere being hated on just for who i am and it saddens me

    Stefaan De Clerck
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Completely disagree. Since the dawn of the internet, photos of strangers have appeared without their knowledge and few found that creepy. Photo sharing sites like Flickr were (and still are) full of them. Creepy? So street photography is creepy? I don't see why this is creepy or toxic as hell. When you know that in many public places in the Western world there are masses of security cameras and constantly filmed, then it is strange that taking pictures is seen as scary. As a tourist it is very difficult to take pictures somewhere without people you don't really know. Tourist photos seem quite normal to me, even if you put them on the internet. In addition, there is such a thing as freedom of the press: how else can journalists do their job? They can't constantly ask everyone whether or not they can take a picture?

    Margaret Weaver
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In australia it is actually illegal to take someone's picture without their consent.

    Jackie Porter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend has had people taking pictures of them at the gym because they're male presenting non binary but assigned female at birth. They are covered in tattoos and they get yelled at and stared at but to have had photos taken of them at the gym is just disgusting. They have complained to management about this but the gym staff originally stood by and did nothing whilst it was happening.

    Ash
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember when my friend and I were holding hands and walked into my locker rooms. We got called the f slur and the c word. We were told to go kill ourselves. When my friend fought back, it just got worse. Turns out someone videoed the entire thing and posted it somewhere while posing like a toxic b***h. Love highschool.

    Rale
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Japan you would be behind the bars because of that.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got photos taken of me and used as a 'muslim skipping the queue' 'cheeky foreigner' and it was posted on a Facebook page. It was taken in Ireland where I am from, in a queue which i did not skip by someone not Irish

    Leigh C.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People don't think. That can literally put someone's life at risk if they're trying to hide from someone or in a victim protection program. No one sees the context of anything before the camera starts recording and what happens after.

    SocksNeverMatch
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No expectation of privacy in public…..but ya, look what they did to Brittany Spears

    Amy Fisher
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just on the internet. I once went shopping at Whole Foods and stopped to browse in the vitamin section. Opened the newspaper to the Health section later that week, and discovered that a photographer had taken a photo of me from behind holding some vitamins, to illustrate a story on the popularity of vitamins and supplements. I had no idea someone took a photo of me, and instead of being thrilled at having my picture in the paper, I was a little creeped out.

    Amy Fisher
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By the way, i think it's not illegal to take someone's picture from behind without asking their permission, but it still creeped me out.

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    MaddaPanda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's toxic and illegal. You can't do that without their consent.

    Wise beauty the panda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will take a candid then go up to the person and ask if it’s okay or should I delete it, this might seem a little creepy but if they say no then I automatically permanently delete it in front of them so they know that I’m not sharing it online or anything like that. Also, taking pictures of adults is legal but not taking pictures of children you MUST have their consent and their parents consent before taking a picture of a child.

    Ueda
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of a woman who took picture of my daughter without my knowing and showed it to me saying “ow look at how cute she is”. She was shocked when I told her coldly to delete it. Some people are just insane…

    Shelli Aderman
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call it out when I see it! “Excuse me, do you have their permission to take their photo?” And they usually give me a dirty look and tuck their phone away. I don’t care. I can be a brassy, NYC, loud mouth when need be! 😉

    Rannveig Ess
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Japan it is law that you must have the sound enabled on your phone so that if you take a photo, it clicks or makes an audible shutter noise so people are aware they've been photographed.

    Two thousand seven
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, if they do they should at least censor their faces because showing a person on the internet without them knowing is very wrong

    Stefaan De Clerck
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The wordt paparazzi is actually Italian in origin. Not sure if it's really illegal there.

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    Douglas Mock
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's completely lawful and moral to take any type of picture you want to in public. Please refer to the USSC ruling. Shove your bizarre fear of photography up your butt.

    Jjiinnee
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if that strangers is committing a terrible crime or doing something terribly bad in general?

    Luka Verheijen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the situation; People photograph weird things they see a lot, and sometimes you just happen to catch someone when you're trying to photograph something elsr

    Jo Johannsen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought the comment was directed toward people filming accidents instead of helping or calling for help, or taking pictures of something on fire instead of helping put it out, etc. I guess I just veered toward the negative.

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    Ara
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My image belongs to me. No one else. Sure it can be inadvertently included in someone else’s photo. But when it becomes a deliberate part of someone else’s photo, that crosses the line. I believe that line is determined entirely by their intent.

    Pusfarm
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not according to US copyright law. Obviously that doesn't apply if you're not in the US, but here the image belongs to the photographer. I think there are exceptions for celebrities, but for the most part it belongs to the photographer.

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    Mel
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am thinking "People of Walmart" Yes they shouldn't go to Walmart looking like that but who says you have to be the fashion police??

    csaclint
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    public spaces, public faces. every person has the right to not be photographed, and there are places called homes that they can exercise that right in. none of us are precious princesses

    Zoe's Mom
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years ago I was in a parking lot of a mall and a man was ready to take a picture of me with a camera. I turned my entire body away from him and walked away ensuring he wasn't followiing me. I didn't want to end up on some serael killers memorial wall Another thing; THIS IS DANGEROUS to the person who's picture is being taken. You don't know if they have left an abusive relationship and starting new. Or just want to be left alone. This is a really bad, bad thing to do and I hate it. Reason I now wear sunglasses out always regardless of weather.

    DrGirlfriend
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lost my breaks in my truck and had to drive it into leaking lot with high curbs or go over bridge I wasn't running over people under no circumstances, I hit the parking lot hard hit tall curbs stopped got out and lady was being so mean recoding me crying and trying to call my husband, laughing and humiliating me cause I didn't want to run over anyone . I just didn't get why doing this meant so much to this asshat

    Lovin' Life
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's very disrespectful! For the most part it's to ridicule someone. So disgusting

    ZAPanda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm presently advocating for a law that gives humans copyright of their own face. Meaning: no deepfakes allowed, no unsolicited photos. Only exception is for satire (of a public figure) or news (of a public figure). Otherwise Nyet. Please do advocate the same law to your nearby politicians so it can get to the UNGA. (I did send it to them but they say it must come through our country rep).

    K. Lange
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The European Union has the General Data Protection Regulation GDPR for this.

    Tapio Magnussen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is illegal. You just have to request they must remove it publicly and, if not, they're done.

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    #9

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop That anything is possible if you try hard enough. Don't get me wrong, a lot is possible, but not everything. There are factors beyond ourselves that determine our success. The best we can do is to give our best, and be happy that we've done so.

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    TheBlackPanda (JustABlackBear)
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hardwork doesn't always lead to success. A lot of people that became successful through "hard work" don't usually include one thing in their success stories: the role of luck. Some of them were lucky to be born in the right place, to the right people, at the right time, happened to go to the right school, happened to make the right friends, etc. For every success story, there are thousands and millions that did the same amount of hardwork and got nowhere. The difference is, those hardworking but unsuccessful people were simply unlucky. No one knows a sure formula for success in life. It's easy to think you do when you've made it.

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    #10

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop People being bastards on the internet, because of anonymity.

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    #11

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Using religion as a weapon.

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    Kesam
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me it's more using religion as an excuse (to discriminate, to question science, to explain away EVERYTHING...)

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The greed of the top 1% that fuels the pollution and decay of our planet.

    Looking at you Jeff, Bill, and Mark

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    NsG
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to get downvotes here, but you need to swap out Bill for Richard. Yes, Mr Gates has done some deplorable things while gaining his millions. But he has done philanthropic things that the others haven't even considered. Demonstrably tried to improve things for the rest of humanity. The others? No bathroom breaks and trains that barely run at all never mind on time. Oh, and I'm damn sure it wasn't his age that stopped him taking part in the Prick Space Race, so that's a point in his favour too. Dislike or full on loathe him all you want, but he is no longer in the same league of greed and evil as the others. (Mr Zuckerberg is in a league of his own, although he does look like he wants to be Bezos when he grows up, so...)

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    #13

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The idea that being an as*hole is a sign of intelligence. Jerks are rarely intelligent. Sheldon Cooper, Rick Sanchez, Hannibal Lecter, and Dr. House do not exist.

    In my experience, being rude and condescending turns out to be a sign of stupidity, not intelligence.

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    Anne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sheldon was actually very true to life for a lot of smart autistic people..but he would be what we would be without adapting skills. And most of us have adapted to our environment.. But he feels rather authentic. He isn't rude or condescending - he just doesn't understand most humans. That's why he follows the rules.. hot beverages for upset humans etc.

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    #14

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Throwing cigarette butts on the floor.

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    Adam C
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Throwing cirarette butts WHILE protesting for for climate-change.

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    #15

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Having an opinion on everything.

    It’s okay to look at something on the internet and think to yourself “I don’t have to care about this.”

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    #16

    Kids doing animal abuse. Stop it with, "they are just kids they don't know any better"

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    Luka Verheijen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's too extreme, it's often a sign of a sadistic personality, so more reason to work on that early

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    The idea that a woman can slap a man if she's angry at him, but a man should never hit a woman regardless of the circumstances.

    The former is assault - hitting people who aren't already involved in a physical altercation is never OK, regardless of the circumstances. The latter ties into that; if you are being attacked, the level of force you use in defence should be dependent on the danger you are in, which has almost nothing to do with the sex of your attacker.

    Both of these rely on the tired and sexist trope that women are meek little does who have not the physical strength nor moral turpitude to commit violence against the big, strong, tough men. They normalize assault and abuse and accordingly belong in the dustbin of history.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally someone who adresses this! This double standard bothers me fir a long time. Also, some women who try to be "feminists" still keep this in check. If you want equal rights for men and women, that includes the downsides too

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    #18

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Bullying. It's absurd how society will frame it as a "stage of your life" rather than supporting individuals more so they know how to deal with it. Especially academically, still overlooked majorly.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And massively overlooked or flat out ignored on social media. Ad in the workforce. It not just something kids do on the playground.

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    #19

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Alcoholic moms. No, you don’t NEED to bring wine to your daughters soccer game. It’s not quirky. It’s awful. Wine mom stuff on social media only strengthens it and makes it more popular.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instamom is the stuff if nightmares. Like the recent one where she jams on the brakes to teach her kid to buckle up. Full blown narcissism in action

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    #20

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Using mental illness as an excuse. I suffer from several, and it's very hard on me.. But, i get professional help and deal with it head on. Reading constant posts everyday about people having this disorder and that disorder and that's why it's ok to act a certain way is demotivating. Awareness is important, but dozens of posts everyday about having borderline personality disorder or bipolar disorder and why it's acceptable for you to be an a-hole is not awareness... If you suffer from these so badly, please get help

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    #21

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Married couples disliking one another. Normalizing abusive and toxic elements in marriage is lame, bro.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the jokes about men being “chained” when they decide to marry. Then don’t f*****g marry. If I was the girlfriend In would be furious

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    #22

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Working while on vacation. You go on vacation to relax and enjoy yourself, not to try to fill out spreadsheets and deal with work stuff in your hotel room.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing this is more a US issue from what I have read, most of us just don't work when on leave.

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    #23

    Using the phrase "it's my right" as a get out of jail free card to engage in whatever reckless behaviour that takes your fancy.

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The entire "game" involved in modern dating or even most social interactions. The playing hard to get, the "arriving fashionably late" like people can we please keep it simple?

    Ya go on laugh at me.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been married for just over a decade and would be absolutely terrified of being back in the dating game. I wouldn't know where to start.

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    #25

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Unhealthy weight. I’m not talking about being fit and thin and making people feel bad about their bodies. Im not talking about having a few extra pounds and making people feel bad for that. I have a few extra pounds, I’m not super fit, but I’m relatively healthy. Everyone’s body is different. Healthy means a lot of different things.

    I’m talking about normalizing morbidly obese people as beautiful and something to be celebrated. It’s dangerous especially if children see them as someone to look up to. Then they’ll think it’s ok for your body to carry around so much weight that your heart and lungs are working overtime to keep you alive. It will lead to devastating later years in life as you age and your body slows down. You’ll be at risk for cardiovascular issues, you’ll probably die before your time, and the last few years of your life will be bed ridden while you waste away.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While I agree that there is such a thing as unhealthy weight, you still won't see me attacking the "body positivity movement". Because for people to change for the better, the first step has to be letting go of the self-hatred and shame that plagues the seriously overweight and drives them into a self-destructive spiral of self-harming and self-comforting behavior. If the body positivity movement helps anyone let go of the guilt and self-hatred that's poisoned their lives then more good than harm has been done, and it's not like body negativity ever did anyone any good. You can't shame people into being thinner or healthier, that's not how humans work.

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    #26

    having unsocial and aggressive dogs, and not leashing or otherwise controlling them

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    Degrees for office jobs that take almost no time to learn and usually have nothing to do with the degree anyways . So many people out there who can’t afford college but, are just as capable as anyone else.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ridiculous demands from the same companies that cry over the lack of qualified employees

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    #28

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Diamond and gemstones as gifts. They're shiny rocks with artificially inflated value. They're only expensive because people are willing to pay so much for them. If everyone stopped buying them, the price would fall faster than the Hindenburg. Or faster than the employment rate this year.

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    #29

    Cheating. Sooo many "love stories" on netflix, or just any sort of romance movie released these days have cheating involved in them so much. It's always branded as this romantic thing to do. Oooo like at this dark and brooding handsome guy with no personality. Time to f him and forget about my 2 year relationship, or some s*** like that. It's not romantic, it's just wrong, and it should not be normalised.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's all a little more complicated, some people seem to think cheating is about as bad as it can get. But that being said, romance movies are actually the most messed up when you think about it

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    #30

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Unhealthily obese pets. You took a warrior and domesticated it! They aren't happy if they're fat! They just eat on instinct! Stop inadvertently hurting the beings that love us unconditionally!

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    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Bragging about getting less than 6 hours of sleep.

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    #32

    The grind. Not taking vacation. Working on vacation. Working through your lunch break. Working early and late all the time. Answering emails after hours.

    We are completely dispensable to the companies we work for. Don’t lose your life grinding for a company who only thinks of you as a number.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work at a university, and vacations are sacrosanct here. We have an unwritten rule that you never call someone who is on vacation, no matter how dire the need may be.

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    #33

    Over-consumption. This goes out to social media influencers who flaunt their hauls and influence people to buy things that they don't need. It will just add on to the landfills. Please, no one's benefitting from hoarding.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's too much credit for the influencers. Overconsumption entails much more than that. Sadly enough.

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    #34

    Hatred of someone who lives differently than they do.

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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as it doesn't hurt anybody else it's none of my business

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    #35

    Toxic positivity. There’s a huge difference between being optimistic and having raised colored glasses on. We’re all people, and we all experience negative and positive emotions. The only way you can properly get over your emotions is by allowing yourself to feel them. Glossing over your emotions with an aura of “Everything’s fine” isn’t going to solve anything, and it’s just gonna make you feel bad.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a supervisor who was a true believer in toxic positivity. Her attitude was "If we all believe in this stupid idea, it WILL work!", when the sensibly positive attitude is to say "We CAN come up with a solution that will work!".

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    #36

    Failures in political leadership. I feel more and more we are becoming less critical of failed character in our leaders.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We criticise. It's just water off a duck's back. Its not criticism that's lacking, it's accountability and consequence.

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    #37

    Student loans.

    Education is getting more expensive by the day and the added burden on a student in paying back a student loan helps nobody.

    Furthermore people encourage student loans as though the students are obligated to take them if they pursue higher studies. Pure nonsense.

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    #38

    Hating police. I've worked places that police don't go. You all don't know how good you have it.

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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't hate police in general, but I've had my arm and nearly my skull broken during the 2001 Genoa protests (unprovoked attack on peaceful protesters) and I was in the Diaz school raid (but luckily wasn't hurt as I was hiding in a closet). Sooo... there's good apples and bad apples... but the bad apples do a lot of damage as they are put in a position of power.

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    #39

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Students overwhelmed by homework when it isn’t necessary. I’m excluding situations like when the workloads from classes are reasonable and happen to pile on one day or students who aren’t organized, etc. This whole thing is a grey area, but sleep, burnout, mental health exists.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A little coordination between teachers could solve this problem. I can remember the times where we had to do an assignment for English and an hour later our French teacher came up with a similar time consuming assignment. When we explained that that meant we had to choose which one we could do, he postponed the assignment for 2 weeks. But other teachers just said "Deal with it." It's education, teacher, we're not operating a multibillion dollar business with deadlines and targets here.

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    #40

    People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Not caring about education. So many people obviously didn't pay attention in elementary school and don't care about it.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Over here, the government doesn't see education as a "top priority" while I think it's one of THE most important things

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    #41

    How alcohol is so casual in today's world.

    Lots of people misuse alcohol and don't even know it. Anytime you're seriously getting inebriated, you're hurting your body so much.

    I see way too many people coming into the liquor store I work at and buying WAAAY too much. And that's normal.

    Kids should be raised on the realities of alcohol consumption.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alcohol is literally poison to your body, but it’s a social norm and has the added benefit of reducing stress and inhibitions. It’s use and abuse is not going away anytime soon

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    #42

    I think people, specifically parents, should stop normalizing that it's a given that their child will grow up to have a family. Instead, parents should emphasize that it's difficult to find the right partner, and that it's possible that it might not even happen at all, and that it would be okay as well.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not about not finding the right partner. It’s about accepting that people can be happy in a committed relation, single, open relation, with or without children, sharing or not the house…

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    #43

    Obsessing over celebrities/people you do not know irl. So basically stan culture. People will say they 'stan' someone as a point of pride. If it's gotten to that stage then you really really need to take a step back. No hate to those who keep it amongst themselves but yeah not healthy at all imo

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not getting useful Google results. Can someone explain 'stan' please?

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    #44

    The American dream, that your politicians give a damn about you and that there’s any hope for this planet, there’s not, we are just free falling before we hit the pavement right now.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In general the idea that politicians in any country give a damn about us. We Europeans often sin of thinking that we have it much better just because other countries are worse, but it doesn’t mean that our governments care at all.

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    #45

    Overworking yourself.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some countries it's a choice that people make. In other countries it's a necessity to keep a roof above your head and feed your family.

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    #46

    Throwing tantrums in public. Time to openly admit that the person flipping out is usually in the wrong.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not so. Some people have a hard time dealing with emotions, it’s too easy to sit back and judge. Each fight is different and sometimes the loudest most animated person is the one being victimized the most and they have just reached a breaking point. You never know until the people fighting are split up and interviewed

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