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People Online Are Naming Things Folks Should Stop Glamorizing, And Here Are 36 Spot-On Answers
While it’s OK to fail to see the bigger picture, to not have enough perspective sometimes, cause we’re all human, it’s not OK to let it stay that way.
Needless to say, this can lead people through a dark corridor cause skewed perspectives are always trouble in the long run.
One such path is romanticizing things, which often, if not always, have a very toxic side to them. And this is what people have been discussing this week on Reddit.
Reddit user u/mysteryscallop asked the AskReddit community “what do people need to stop romanticising?” stirring up a comment section of over 18,000 responses and generating 28,100 upvotes with 70 awards in just one day.
We’ve collected some of the best responses from the post and created a curated list of the things people tend to overly glamorize, glorify, romanticize and whatnot below. Check it out, vote, comment, and share your thoughts on what else people tend to romanticize in the comment section!
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#1
“Touching” and “wholesome” situations where people in need have to rely on donations from others to pay for healthcare or other basic needs. Particularly when this happens in a developed country. Go-fund-me’s for hospital bills or teachers paying for kids’ school lunches. And then romanticizing this like it’s something that should be happening. Yuck.
Looking at you, USA. That’s not normal. Sincerely, Scandinavia
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#2
OCD. It’s not quirky or funny when I’m late for work because I had to back upstairs to check that the gas stove is off for the fifteenth time because I can’t stop envisioning the whole building blowing up.
I literally stand frozen to the spot trying to fight the urge to go back when I KNOW I CHECKED but the intrusive thoughts are too upset to deal with.
OCD isn’t cute and quirky and being organised. For me its believing that people will die if I don’t check again.
Terilee Bruyere 3 years ago
I get so tired of hearing people say that "Oh wow he has OCD? His room must be spotless". Um, no. My son's room is chaotic and he can hardly wash his own hair. But each car/rock/toy/can must be JUST SO. He must lock windows and doors and he worries constantly about his sister. It's not fun. As for his sister, it's her skin. Any bump must be picked off. She literally cannot stop herself from picking and will ask for bandages when she catches herself picking. She knows that she shouldn't make herself bleed but simply cannot stop. I wish people would stop thinking that OCD means perfection. It does not.
#3
Poverty. You read articles like "Hero mom works 3 jobs to pay for the treatment for his sick son"... That's not right, that shouldn't happen
NsG 3 years ago
Yes! A moment's rational thought would tell you this is NOT a feel-good headline, it's horrifying. But people DON'T (or don't want to) have a moment's rational thought - they take the superficial happy feeling because it's easy. It's like "thoughts and prayers". The minimum amount of effort to give someone who isn't them any of their attention.
#4
Pretend_Drink5816 said:
Mental illness is a serious condition. Having one does not make you cool, unique, or insightful. It's a disaster.
deja_geek replied:
The people who call ADHD a "superpower" are just flat out wrong. ADHD is super debilitating overall. While there are something we can do better than people who are nerotypical, overall ADHD is extremely hard to manage and often can destroy a person's home life, school and/or career.
Raven DeathShade 3 years ago
I heard of someone who pretended to have depression because it was "cool". I feel like I would've stabbed them. If you want my depression, sure. You can have it. You can also have this fun benefit of wishing you were dead every other week. I'm not going to keep you from the kitchen knives; if you think depression is cool you should be able to handle the side effects. (Apologies, but I needed that out of my system.)
#5
Overworking.
My coworkers tend to make it a competition to see who can make the most sacrifices for their career. Who puts in the most overtime hours? Who does things off the clock for work more? Etc
It's bulls**t. I have a life and a family I want to prioritize.
#6
Special needs and disabilities in kids. My son is special-needs and the way people romanticize it and make it sound like he’s so lucky to have it and “what a Time to be alive” and all that s**t pisses me off so much. He’s a great kid, I make damn sure he’s got a great quality of life, but he’s never going to have a normal life and there’s nothing cute, quirky or romanticize-able about that.
Terilee Bruyere 3 years ago
THIS!! Sure, my munchkins are gifted in their own way but those gifts come with life long struggles.
#7
Abusive relationships. Like stalking your love interest/partner, drama all the time, bad communication and misunderstandings, trying to invoke jealousy, obsessiveness. It's not romantic, it's creepy.
#8
Romanticizing a women's role in family, especially by husbands (case in point Chris Pratt) . Like she works and takes care of kids and cooks and cleans and still takes care of her figure and looks great while the husband is so clueless and dumb that they will burn the house boiling milk. Stop expecting all that of the woman and share in the responsibilities so that the she doesn't have to do all that alone.
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
I think Millennials have improved this one, since their marriage rate is half what my generation's was. When you live alone, the only one who will do household chores is YOU.
#9
Teenage years. Yes, you are young, but that doesn't mean s**t when you have no control over your life, no life experience, no money, no mental stability and nobody taking you seriously. I wish people would stop telling teenagers that those are the best years of their lives. I was absolutely miserable as a teenager. I'm 23 years old, 24 next month, and only now did I start to enjoy my life.
Mary Rose Kent 3 years ago
My life got better in my 30s, but each succeeding decade was exponentially better than the last.
Daria B 3 years ago
Yeah, my 20s were definitely better than my teens, overall. Now I'm in my 30s, and, in terms of life dynamics, 20s were better, but my mental health is much better now. I do miss the childish spontaneity of the teen years, sometimes, though. Guess you just can't have it all.
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Helen Haley 3 years ago
There's no amount of money to make me relive my teenage years. Even as a teenager I knew this was the suckiest period.
Ben Smith 3 years ago
Hate to break this to you: at 23 you still dont know much either. Enjoy it though
Travis Fox 3 years ago (edited)
This should be at the top. My mid twenties were by far the happiest. Not until I was able to walk away from the misery I lived in before.
Kimu but she’s inactive 3 years ago
AS A TEENAGER MYSELF (16) PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ROMANTICIZING HIGH SCHOOL… ITS SO SHITTY. If you’re gonna romanticize anything, make it college, at least!
Anonymousplease 3 years ago
Yeah, movies make high-school seem so happy and glamorous but don't show the side of the kids who struggle everyday in school.
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Mariaf 3 years ago
I hated every second of my teenage years. Every single little second. In addition to the bullying and the mental abuse received also non-stop from my peers and teachers I got to watch the same behavior beeing glorified by society as if it's a good thing to do and getting told to "toughen up". At first there was not a month that would pass without thinking of killing myself to thinking about it every day of my life. Guess what, life got better when I started having some control over who I get to have in my life (which you never have as a child or a teen) and what I get to do. Toxic Uni goup? Switch. Toxic teacher? Call the asshole out in public. oxic work place? Leave, do something else. Burnout? Learn and get a new career.
Natasha Tilbrook 3 years ago
It's not about any of that though, it's about having a roof over your head and not worrying about bills or where the next meal is coming from. Obviously this doesn't apply to all
buttonpusher 3 years ago
I didn't like being a teenager. I also didn't like other teenagers when I was a teenager. The transition sucks. Too old for some things and too young for others.
moose man 3 years ago
my whole life has been s**t. my dad doesnt really give me anything. but he gives my sisters everything. hes a hypocrite too
Dill 3 years ago
It genuinely does get better for most people. Do all you can to prepare for what YOU want out of life. Do what you need to make now as easy as possible and then get yourself out. I left home as soon as I could and didn't regret it.
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jk nbt 3 years ago
download & watch the tv sitcom with the young Fonzie (Henry Winkler), "Happy Days"... the young Ron Howard is in the show... Yes, for some teenagers, the teen years can be this sort of fun with friends and all those antics... for most of us, it was an awkward stage in life...
William Teach 3 years ago
They also post them like they're the only ones who ever went through. No, teens, you aren't unique.
Lisa Bluford 3 years ago
Some people feel that way. My dad is 80 and says teenagers should realize they are having the best time in their lives, which sounds horrifyingly sad to me. I consider it the worst time of my life, especially middle school.
Dill 3 years ago
Nostalgia does give people some wonderful rose-tinted glasses. Or maybe he had a fantastic time when he was a teen... sadly irrelevant. Life changes. Old problems get solved, new problems are created. Not much point comparing really. You can only go by what your own life is like.
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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago (edited)
Children in general need to be held in a lower esteem. Too much is geared towards them as if they run the world. It’s gross. I totally enjoyed my teen years but I was looking forward to being an adult in a world where things were fit for adults. As soon as I became one, it switched to a kids world.
John Baker 3 years ago
I'll be 69 in less than two weeks. I'll take being a teenager over this being old crap any day of the week.
Mateo Buysse 3 years ago
i swear, since i am done with school, life only went up for me. sure i had a brief decent time when i was 12, but even those times can not beat this period in my life.
John Baker 3 years ago (edited)
Perhaps because most of you don't act like adults. Of course, these days most adults don't act like adults, so I don't suppose I can fault you for it.
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marianne eliza 3 years ago
My 40's were the best for me. Divorced, involved, homeowner, small menagerie of pets/livestock, had hit 20 years with same company when I was 39. Everything settled down. Then came the inevitable decline in my parents. I was already retired but sold my home to move back and take care of them. At least I never had children so no boomerang there.
Sandy Kavanaugh 3 years ago
It was hell. You couldn't pay me to relive those awful years. It' was horrible. All I ever wanted to be was an adult.
Ozymandias73 3 years ago
Maybe I was just lucky, but my teens were not perfect, but I had more to look back on positively than negative. I had a great time in high school, plenty of friends, etc. Like I said, I of course had some troubling times as well, but not too many
Aurora Garrison 3 years ago
YES! Please stop shooting down teenagers! It's so hard! Everyone has this idea that all teenagers are bad and like to fake things for no reason, but a lot of it is viable. High school work is really hard for no reason, and not only that but we get loads of homework. We are also expected to act like adults, but we're also being told to "enjoy life" and "enjoy your last years of childhood while you can." So which one are we supposed to do? Our lives are also emotional roller coasters, because this is also the time we start to figure out love and real friendship and jobs and our futures. We are also going through puberty, which is so awkward, and you'll find yourself so mad or crying for no reason at all, or for such simple reasons like you dropped your Cheetos!
Duxall Inarow 3 years ago
Every day I admit suicidal teens to my hospital. Every. Fscking. Day.
UpQuarkDownQuark 3 years ago
My teenage years were a nightmare of bullying, emotional isolation and undiagnosed mental illness. But the handsome old guy who grew up in a stable, well-to-do family and was captain of the football team made sure to tell me that I should treasure high school as the best years of my life. Read the room, a**hole.
bumble bee 3 years ago
Same can be said about High School. Why is that considered the pinnacle of life?
#10
gor8884 said:
Having followers
taleofbenji replied:
There is a very big taboo problem in America today that society isn't ready to deal with.
Which is parents exploiting the s**t out of their kids on social media. And sometimes, the reasons that these kids are getting followers is pretty dark.
Cecily Holland 3 years ago
Especially as that stuff is there forever. Parents you DO NOT OWN YOUR KIDS. They are not possessions. You didn’t ask your child’s permission to post images of them or talk about what should be private in your online groups. Get a life
#11
ajrichardsonnz said:
The military.
moderately_moderate2 replied:
As a guy with 15 years in, I can't agree more.
Joining the military doesn't make you a good person, nor does it make you special.
Its a job that you chose, that you are compensated very well for (at least in the US).
I plan to retire in 5 years, and move as far away from a military base as I can. Im going to tell people I was in prison for the last 20 years or that I as a janitor.
Raven DeathShade 3 years ago
My dad, grandfather, and great grandfather were/are all in the military. I'm determined to ensure that there will never be a fourth generation. There is too much stress involved for everyone, and free trauma due to parental absence for every child.
#12
Attractive people doing harmful things?
People shouldn't get a pass to do toxic and rude things simply because they're attractive. Why do I see serial killers and toxic partners get romanticized simply because they're hot? Why does that make their horrible actions somehow badass and charismatic??
#13
eggofreddo said:
Still trying after being rejected or being told no.
vanillayanyan replied:
And an extension of this would be to leave your exes alone. Stop texting them and trying to make things work when things are over. Respect people’s decisions to walk away. Dated a guy for 3 months and realized we weren’t in the same place in our lives in terms of life experience and I wasn’t willing to wait for him to catch up. Kept asking me to stop “giving up on us” and I got fed up and blocked him after he would not leave me alone.
Cecily Holland 3 years ago
THIS. I caught my ex husband poking around my social media 2 months ago. I divorced him in 2000.
#14
History. I get it, as a historian I want to make people interested so that learning why it is so important is fun, but so many eras of history are romanticized and in reality most of history is filthy and violent. Everyone wants to talk about battlefield glory and the magnificence of empires, no one wants to talk about people s***ting themselves to death in a field camp or all the incest it takes to retain a dynasty.
Josy Bannon 3 years ago (edited)
Yes, but I am pretty sure our age will appear filthy and violent to next generations as well.
#15
Sex, I mean yes sex is amazing but we have put it on such an insanely high pedestal it’s basically a superhuman experience. Almost every show, movie, piece of art somehow relates back to sex and like seriously I do love it, but there is more to life.
#16
Destroying your ex's stuff. I don't understand why so much media portrays destroying game systems, cars, TVs, clothes etc. is an appropriate and healthy reaction to a breakup. Even if the person supposedly "deserves" it, it's still criminal.
#17
Being fat.. it’s not cute, it’s not self love, it’s a legitimate health issue and people don’t need to be shamed.. but people should consider the impact on their health.. I would know… fat guy here
RedstonewolfX 3 years ago
I applaud BP for showing us cat photos to distract us from the bad things here. Even if the cat is overweight as to comply with the item.
#18
The "gangsta" lifestyle and all that it entails.
I grew up in Oakland and have witnessed far too many of the people I grew with get caught up in the game. Roughly half of the guys from my former neighborhood are either serving life sentences or were killed. I grew up in the 80s, but it's even worse now.
#19
Hustle culture. I don’t understand why it’s cool to always be busy and dedicating all your waking hours to making money. When do you get to enjoy your time if you are always stressed out?
Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago
Hustle culture isn’t for workers, it’s for business owners and entrepreneurs.
#20
Mattie725 said:
People dropping all their own goals and interests for someone else. Yes, the plot of standard rom-com.
AllNamesTaken145 replied:
This is so true my sister got her first boyfriend when she was 18 despite being good at school and almost graduating she drop out, and decided to start working to help her boyfriend out with his band, now she's 23 they broke up it's so idiotic.
#21
Parenthood. It’s not all baseball games and bedtime stories. If you put the effort in to practice patience and bond with your children rather than lord over them, the rewards can be limitlessly gratifying.
#22
Bragging about having a harder childhood than your children and constantly shoving it in their face. Ironically these types of parents usually take out their trauma on their children and continuing the cycle anyway.
Gerard Neaux 3 years ago (edited)
Parents doing this is abuse. They have children without getting treated and they traumatize their children because they don't work on getting better.
#23
Small town / rural / country living and lifestyles. So many shows and movies love to portray these less populated communities as havens and perfect places to live and will almost never even acknowledge the very serious problems faced in alot of these communities. This leads to a significant portion of people (mostly middle age white dudes) to almost fetishize this ideal of a rugged yet charming small community unchanged for 150 years full of vibrant personalities where everyone knows each other; and while this is accurate to some extent these places also suffer from huge drug problems, brain drain, racism and homophobia, underfunded social services and are all too often dying in one way or another.
Raven DeathShade 3 years ago (edited)
I grew up in a small town. (By "grew up", I mean I spent ages 10-16 there) I didn't know anyone. And there are a ton of issues in that town. Nothing romantic about it.
#24
Getting married young and spending a lot of money on your wedding, and proselytizing your subjective view of love to the world through social media. Lots of couples I know need to go to counseling and make a lot of choices to grow their intimacy and bond in private…
Helen Haley 3 years ago
I live in a state that is largely rural. Marrying your highschool sweetheart straight out of high school is super fetishized. Then most of them end up bitter and divorced at 28. It is just gross. Encouraging people to make decisions like getting married and having kids before 25.
#25
Smoking and drinking so much alcohol that you're having a hangover. Both are so bad for your health, yet there's a lot of people who think smoking is sexy and forgetting what you've done the last night because of alcohol is cool. It's not cool, you might have done something really dangerous to you or/and other people.
Terilee Bruyere 3 years ago
Even when the drinking and smoking times stop (if they do) there are long term issues caused from it. Neuropathy and COPD are just a couple. That sh!t does not go away.
#26
Pregnancy.
Edited to add: I don't know what the ratio is, but I know that while there are people who had great pregnancies, others had a hell of a time.
Just in my circle of friends, I don't know anyone who didn't have a tough time at some point. We've all commented that pregnancy is so romanticised and you don't find out what it can be like until you're in the thick of it.
It's like hearing about this great club and seeing all their romantic baby bump photos, then joining the club and someone pulls you to one side like "Right, here's a bag of symptoms. Stick your hand in and grab a few. Ooh, bad luck, you got hyperemesis gravidarum!"
Holly Carter 3 years ago
Currently 36 weeks pregnant and I’ve hated all 36 weeks. I am so very grateful that I am able to get pregnant, but the strain that pregnancy places on you physically and mentally can be torturous. Why aren’t we educated about the very common symptoms of pregnancy until we experience them?
#27
Living in a van or RV. The people that do it comfortably are often quite wealthy. Also - smells like funk and lots of inconveniences.
Felicia Dale 3 years ago
My husband and I have spent much of the last thirty years on the road in vans for our work. For us it was overwhelmingly positive- but we rarely drove more than 500 miles in a day, camped in mostly pretty places or parked up with good friends. Our work is extremely gratifying (we’re folk musicians), we adore spending time together and get along super well. We used up four Volkswagen vans- a 66 split front window was the first one, then three VW Westphalia vans- 71, 84 and 91. Then a beloved and wealthy patron bought us a basic 2003 Sprinter which we turned into a glorified Westy and it’s still running beautifully. We have had so many good times on the road- and our last tour was a real high mark for us. Now we are likely to never tour again due to Covid and the degradation of safety in general. The last tour had some super scary moments where due to other drivers we were literally inches away from wrecking. Drivers’ skills and ability to focus on driving has radically declined over…
#28
Codependency. People often get it confused with interdependence. Codependency seeks value through the other person and there's a lack of proper boundaries. Interdependence is 2 autonomous individuals in a relationship together
#29
Conflict. It's always romanticized to "fight for what you believe in" or to "never go down without a fight" or stuff like that, to the point where people forget that opposing something or someone isn't the only solution to a problem. And also that just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean they want to fight you or be in conflict with you.
#30
Asking the girl out. It’s not going to be this big movie moment, stop building it up and just ask her
DennyS (denzoren) 3 years ago
Anxiety makes this almost impossible. I've done it maybe twice and even then I was a nervous wreck. Didn't work out either time so I guess back to the drawing board.
#31
Living in a castle. It was cold, damp, full of rats and other pests. No indoor plumbing, people were filthy. I could go on.
#32
France. Don't get me wrong it is a stupidly beautiful place... In parts. But movies and TV have made people believe it is a magical fairy tale place full of roamntic men waiting to sweep women off their feet and overly sexual women just waiting for a man to come along who can satisfy her appetites.
The reality is none of those things. And from a fairly extensive amount of travel that I have done, I'd argue that there are FAR more beautiful countries in the world (broadly) than France.
Again there is ABSOLUTELY beauty in France. But nothing to the tune of its romanticised nature.
Mary Rose Kent 3 years ago
I took French in high school and was very excited when I went and I managed well enough, but other than the bread and pastries, it didn’t really send me. I was harassed almost constantly and I also happened to be there during the coldest winter since WWII.
#33
The internet. It's not the freedom everyone hoped fifteen years ago. A s**t ton of advertisement, misinformation and stuff to pay for, makes it a very unfree place.
#34
Internet celebrity. Most people that are famous on the internet probably aren’t making nearly much as people assume and they also are probably working may more hours coming up with things to film, negotiating places to go, and editing to make those short little TikTok or Instagram clips. They are paying the full price for their own benefits and they are paying taxes as an independent contractor. There is a definite shelf life to their earning potential as well and they have to be very careful about where they go and what they do because the internet is a very fickle market to base your livelihood on.
Sakura 3 years ago
There are good internet personalities and bad internet personalities. Good ones occupy a niche, showcasing a particular talent or unique skill. Bad ones try to garner attention by being offensive or shocking. Compare Tommyinnit or Sad-ist with someone like Pewdiepie or Alex Jones.
#35
Luxury or status brand product. People also should stop looking at another person as ideal. Be it be spiritual or political leader they support or just a sports star. No person is a superhuman at the ground level and often make mistakes as a regular person. And people should also stop thinking things as just good or bad. In almost every case a things are usually grey and just not black and white.
#36
Ireland, living here all of 20 years, the luscious green landscape comes with being too expensive, most people in their 30s not even owning their own house, and alcoholism being a public health concern. Don’t get me wrong I love my home but I’m getting out as soon as I can
Oilibhia Muirchú 3 years ago
Fellow Irish person here. Totally agree on the home ownership if you want to live in or near a city. But saying that, think home ownership and alcoholism concerns are worldwide. Don't think ireland is to blame. Want to be a downer on Ireland? The bloody rain that gives use the lovely green scenery
What do you think ?
elloelloello 3 years ago
Having autism. It’s not quirky, or cool, or trendy. I’m autistic and it affects my daily life so much and makes even being outside s**t. No, I’m not your ’autistic bestie’, no you don’t need to treat me like a little kid, no you don’t wish you were autistic. (I don’t speak for every autistic person, this is just my opinion)
Brian Irby 3 years ago
Another thing not to romanticize: Twenty four year olds who have the whole world figured out and wish to lecture us about it.
Laura Lett 3 years ago
Anything todo with that Kartrashain bunch. I feel so bad for their childern.
Evil Little Thing 3 years ago
Surprised nobody said vampires. Vampires are gross, dead things that eat blood. Definitely not sexy.
H Edwards 3 years ago
I mean, they are also fictional so we can make them sexy if we want, no?
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Kishibe Angelo 3 years ago
yeah a lot of people on tiktok are trying to say how they wish they had it and it's normally the "Emily's" that do this s**t thinking that having an illnesss or faking one is the best thing to have and honestly it ain't
Saint Thomas 3 years ago
Except 2 or 3 exception (living in a castle,...), none of those things seem romantic to me... what a strange name for this list...
Gerard Neaux 3 years ago
Such a refreshing dose of realism. These lists are rarely so to the point.
NG 3 years ago
Comparing mental illnesses. “Oh you have ADHD? I have depression. My problem is worse, your so lucky.” It’s a call for attention and not a fun or cool subject to draw attention. And everyone hurts the same ammount no matter the illness, so don’t think your better then someone because “you’ve gone through and experienced more.”
anarkzie 3 years ago
This list was the worst, it's mostly just a bunch of people taking everyday benign things and arguing against their own extreme distorted take of them, I mean who romanticizes: special needs kids, abusive relationships or history?
Logic and Reason 3 years ago
I know people said France and Ireland, but honestly the whole of Europe in general. Any country/continent for that matter, all of them have a metric shitload of problems- it’s not even close to just being the US.
Poultry Geist 3 years ago (edited)
I thought this article sucked! Sorry to be negative! I don’t know who is romanticizing being pregnant or conflict or asking a girl out but damn if they are enjoying something don’t rain on their parade! Some people are just trying to cope
ZAPanda 3 years ago
OK you don't know who romanticises asking a girl out? Allow me to introduce the concept of romcom. Here, 50 examples. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/entertainment/g3243/best-romantic-comedy-movies/
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MyOpinionHasBeenServed 3 years ago (edited)
I want to add co-parenting to this. There is nothing sweet about it. It's 2 people who couldn't make their relationship work out with a child in the mix, who end up taking each other to court because they can't agree to custody and child-support. Throw in new boyfriends/girlfriends who think they have a say in anything and you got a chaotic mess. In an altruistic ideal world, both parents would cooperate and think only what's best for their little ones and the new partners would keep to the sidelines. Rarely is this the case. But it keep family law professionals employed.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
Doesn't co-parenting just mean raising a child whilst not being together (in a romantic sense)?
Load More Replies... elloelloello 3 years ago
Having autism. It’s not quirky, or cool, or trendy. I’m autistic and it affects my daily life so much and makes even being outside s**t. No, I’m not your ’autistic bestie’, no you don’t need to treat me like a little kid, no you don’t wish you were autistic. (I don’t speak for every autistic person, this is just my opinion)
Brian Irby 3 years ago
Another thing not to romanticize: Twenty four year olds who have the whole world figured out and wish to lecture us about it.
Laura Lett 3 years ago
Anything todo with that Kartrashain bunch. I feel so bad for their childern.
Evil Little Thing 3 years ago
Surprised nobody said vampires. Vampires are gross, dead things that eat blood. Definitely not sexy.
H Edwards 3 years ago
I mean, they are also fictional so we can make them sexy if we want, no?
Load More Replies... Kishibe Angelo 3 years ago
yeah a lot of people on tiktok are trying to say how they wish they had it and it's normally the "Emily's" that do this s**t thinking that having an illnesss or faking one is the best thing to have and honestly it ain't
Saint Thomas 3 years ago
Except 2 or 3 exception (living in a castle,...), none of those things seem romantic to me... what a strange name for this list...
Gerard Neaux 3 years ago
Such a refreshing dose of realism. These lists are rarely so to the point.
NG 3 years ago
Comparing mental illnesses. “Oh you have ADHD? I have depression. My problem is worse, your so lucky.” It’s a call for attention and not a fun or cool subject to draw attention. And everyone hurts the same ammount no matter the illness, so don’t think your better then someone because “you’ve gone through and experienced more.”
anarkzie 3 years ago
This list was the worst, it's mostly just a bunch of people taking everyday benign things and arguing against their own extreme distorted take of them, I mean who romanticizes: special needs kids, abusive relationships or history?
Logic and Reason 3 years ago
I know people said France and Ireland, but honestly the whole of Europe in general. Any country/continent for that matter, all of them have a metric shitload of problems- it’s not even close to just being the US.
Poultry Geist 3 years ago (edited)
I thought this article sucked! Sorry to be negative! I don’t know who is romanticizing being pregnant or conflict or asking a girl out but damn if they are enjoying something don’t rain on their parade! Some people are just trying to cope
ZAPanda 3 years ago
OK you don't know who romanticises asking a girl out? Allow me to introduce the concept of romcom. Here, 50 examples. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/entertainment/g3243/best-romantic-comedy-movies/
Load More Replies... MyOpinionHasBeenServed 3 years ago (edited)
I want to add co-parenting to this. There is nothing sweet about it. It's 2 people who couldn't make their relationship work out with a child in the mix, who end up taking each other to court because they can't agree to custody and child-support. Throw in new boyfriends/girlfriends who think they have a say in anything and you got a chaotic mess. In an altruistic ideal world, both parents would cooperate and think only what's best for their little ones and the new partners would keep to the sidelines. Rarely is this the case. But it keep family law professionals employed.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
Doesn't co-parenting just mean raising a child whilst not being together (in a romantic sense)?
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