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Many believe regret is a wasted emotion because you can’t turn back time and undo the past. But for some, it’s a sting that never goes away, a scar that forever reminds them of missed opportunities in life.

Recently, someone on Reddit asked a rather existential question: “What do you regret not appreciating more when you were younger?” Responses poured in as people talked about how they should’ve spent more time with close friends or taken their parents’ advice. 

While they carry a somber tone, these stories could be a reminder of how important it is to live life to the fullest. Scroll through and feel free to join in on the discussion in the comments below.

#1

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young My grandparents’ life experiences. I wish I had asked and preserved their stories. One grandmother was born in1899 and lived to 95. Think of all she saw and lived through. Damn it, why didn’t I ask her when I could?

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#2

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young How much potential I really did have. I just lacked the self confidence. I'm trying to instill that in my children right now. One in particular. The fear of failure is real for everyone, but so is actually FAILING. EVERYONE fails. Nothing worthwhile is accomplished easily. It took me almost forty years to learn that.

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StrangeOne
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every time I have aspirational ideas I get shot down. "Oh, that's not a good career. There's so much toxic fumes." "But it's a really hard job and a lot of pressure. I don't think you will be able to do it." Just makes me mad and want to prove people wrong. Then I get stuck because I really want some encouragement and support.

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#3

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young My cat.

We were always together and I spent multiple days just lying in bed holding him, but I still feel like I didn't spend enough time with him.

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#4

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Being able to sleep was something I took utterly for granted. I miss those days so much.

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StrangeOne
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to sleep in a lot. "What a waste of a day." I would hear from my mom's husband at the time.

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#5

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young The simple joys of being carefree—like long summer days and endless playtime!

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sbj
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was younger I never believed the phrase "Schooldays are the best days of your life" now I really understand what it meant, not having to worry about where money comes from and the little worries I had in those times

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#6

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young My spine and knees being pain-free. Just walking the dog hurts these days.

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FrogMan
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just started PT because it turns out that 25 years of sitting like The Blob at a desk isn’t good for your back

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#7

Well, I definitely regret not appreciating the fact that I could eat a whole pizza and not gain a pound. #MetabolismMatters.

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#8

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young My parents youth. Mom’s 70 now, and it’s incredible hard to see her slow down.

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#9

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Where I lived. It's so easy to find a reason to hate wherever you are. But at the end of the day, you still live there. Might as well try to appreciate the good things about it.

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#10

I was always clever, but for some reason, I was ashamed of it. Being academically gifted was somehow uncool. So I dumbed myself down and d**ked around and kind of didn’t fulfill my potential.

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Vay
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand why the intellectual was the loser in every media production. Why was thought discouraged? Some go on to change the world with technology and medicine and more.

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#11

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young My free time. I really didn't think that having a 9-5 and kids would leave me with so little of me time.

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#12

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Time spent with friends who have since drifted away. We thought we’d always be together, but life had other plans.

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keyboardtek
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I purposely stopped associating with friends when they went to the dark side and started following Rush Limbaugh and hate politics and then became Born-again Christians who are now intolerant of anyone who does not believe their point of view.

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#13

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young The elasticity of my body!!

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Robert Trebor
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was really offended when a podiatrist told me the reason my toes felt tight was because my skin was less elastic. I'm 75, with reduced elasticity.

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#14

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young How easy it was to socialize in college. It's frustrating and difficult to make new friends as an adult, and even more so to date.

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Jeanne
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being in high school and college, before the internet, was great. Lots of real interactions and phone calls.

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#16

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young 20/20 eyesight. Damn genes.

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Robert Trebor
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I put my first pair of glasses on in 1954, aged 4. I got vision correcting cataract surgery 65 years later, in 2019, aged 69. Just now (October 2024)) had an eye exam and still everything is fine with no glasses, except $10 cheaters for fine print. Still do the end table grab in morning sometimes, and am constantly trying to push up the glasses that are not on my nose.

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#17

Having energy….

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#18

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young The opportunity to have a good education.

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StrangeOne
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some kids commute hours, through rough terrain and many dangers, every day, just to get an education and improve their future prospects. If you live across the street, down the block, a school bus ride away, count yourself lucky you have that good.

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#19

Having disposable income.


I wish I had what I blew back then on dumb s**t.

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StrangeOne
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel this SO MUCH. I keep telling myself I'm going to save hard this time. I still don't have a savings.

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#20

Time with my grandparents. I was just so f****d up and couldn’t see how much they loved me and WANTED me around and protected me. I wish so badly I could tell them both that they changed my life and thank you for everything and how I miss grandpa playing us trumpet in the morning and at night. I miss the way my grandmas hug felt, and her bad cooking and watching are you being served with them after dinners.

I wish I had understood that time isn’t something you can get back, and when they’re gone there’s just an empty space where they used to sit on the couch.

Please don’t waste your time with people who love you, it sounds obvious but it wasn’t to me.

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Traveling Lady Railfan
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you were fortunate enough to have grandparents in your life, especially if they are loving and kind and good people, and close enough that you can visit them, You are very fortunate indeed. Not everybody has that for various reasons. May I suggest, although blood is thicker than water, to get involved with seniors? By that I mean "adopt a grandparent". They're not related, but they can teach you so much about life. I've gained such great experiences from befriending and volunteering with people who are 20 to 60 years older than me. One of my dearest friends turned 100 this year. She's an amazing person and I value every visit

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#21

My body. Think most women can relate to looking back at pictures and thinking “wow, I was hot!” I just wish I would have flaunted my beauty more or taken advantage of it while I could. Like wearing the daring outfit in my closet that I thought was too sultry to be seen in public with. When you no longer have the option to wear it because it doesn’t fit, you realize you should have taken that chance.

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Alexandra
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On the fence about that one. You can regret past decisions, but I think you have to extend yourself some grace: there probably was a good reason why you did what you did back then, only you've forgotten it or the reason plays no longer a role now. You're different now than you were then.

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#22

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Not appreciating my parents' patience and advice. I thought I knew it all back then.

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#23

Doing things with my mom while she had the physical energy. So many “we’ll do it next year” moments. And you just keep putting it off… and then your mom is older and living with stage 4 cancer and you realize all those big dreams you put off may never become reality.

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Alexandra
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand what you say, but at the same time you have to realise that life happens while you're making plans. Things will happen and they can be at cross-purposes and that's no one's fault; it just happens and it happens to you. It's frustrating, it's sad and infuriating, but it's not your fault.

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#24

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Wearing sunscreen.

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#25

That fear is easier to overcome than I imagined in many of my situations. It held me back too much, led to anxiety and playing it safe. I let go of fear in the last five years. Doing so I doubled my income, increased satisfaction in life, care less about what others think, and found more rewarding relationships.

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#26

Summer breaks.

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#27

Being like everyone else. As a late kid/early teen I believed myself so special because I had more intellectual maturity than my peers, and because I wasn’t interested in what people my age were interested in. Now I am lying in the bed I made for myself - alone and lonely.
I’d slap my younger self if I could.

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Helena
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was the odd man out when I was a kid/teen. I do not regret this. Not conforming meant I wasn't stuck in the same little town, with a carbon copy life, that befell most of my class mates.

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#28

My grandmother tried to teach me Polish, but I was not interested. It would have been much easier to learn then…..sigh.

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B Komonytsky
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My kids refused and resist learning Ukrainian from me, my native language. "You refuse, you lose;" but you won’t realize your loss until your parents are gone

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#29

My siblings. We were all surviving and I wish I was able to protect them more and have had the understanding that they were suffering too. We fought over food and lot and I was the stronger one and would take more than I should have. I know that we as children were put into that position by our parents, but I wish I could go back in time and fight harder for them. I was trying to survive myself and I just hate that I wasn’t able to focus on them more than myself.

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Jules
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You shouldn't be so hard on yourself - you were a child trying to survive what sounds like a horrible childhood.

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#30

Older Adults Regret Not taking The Time To Enjoy These 30 Things When They Were Young Having perfectly clear skin.

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Neb
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perfectly clear maybe when kid only. Not everyone gets the luck of clear skin. Mine probably now is one of clearest, apart childhood.

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