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People Are Posting Things They Wish They’d Known Sooner (40 Posts)

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We all know that wisdom takes time. Just like when you’re a child and burn yourself with an oven, only to realize some surfaces are hot and you'd better stay away from them, so are the other things that require years of constantly learning through your own experience.

So when someone asked a seemingly simple question “What do people learn too late?” on r/AskReddit it immediately resonated with everyone. With 76.4k upvotes and almost 20k comments, we have some of the most illuminating answers below.

From protecting your ears from loud music if you don’t want tinnitus for the rest of your life, to realizing that salary is not the entirety of an equation when it comes to your job satisfaction, these are the things people wish they hadn’t learned the hard way but known it from the beginning.

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#1

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) You're not obliged to have children of your own. You can be happy and fulfilled without reproducing.

bumtrinket , Tobias Begemann Report

Final score:

517points

ben woskje 3 years ago

societies obsession with "when are you having kids"... and when you have a kid - "when are you having another" is all types of f****d up. Not everyone is cut out for having kids, some people cant have kids, some people just don't want kids.... leave them alone.

157points

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#2

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Don’t worry if you aren’t living an exciting or extravagant life. It’s okay to live simply and quietly. It doesn’t mean that you’re wasting your life.

xxmzie_13 , Michael Pollak Report

Final score:

510points

Otter 3 years ago

Happiness comes in getting what you really want out of life, not in doing what you think will impress others.

101points

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#3

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) The value of walking away from someone toxic in your life, even if it is your parents and family. If you are thinking of it and are scared and have somewhere where you can land in a safe place, then do it. It hurts like hell for a long while, but it gets better and one day you realize how peaceful your life is and you find you only miss the family you wish you had had.

irishmuminacoldland , Romain Guy Report

Final score:

404points

mcborge1 3 years ago

I know this one all to well.

62points

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#4

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Learning when to say no.

Learning how to apologise when it's your fault, and how to not apologise when it's not your fault.

OneSalientOversight , fotografierende Report

Final score:

400points

Giovanna 3 years ago

Yes. And also to value your time and pick your battles. I dont waste my time with people who are not worth it now.

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#5

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Not everyone is going to like you, no matter how hard you try.

-eDgAR- , Didriks Report

Final score:

370points

Isabela Ivan 3 years ago

You are not supposed to like everyone and not everyone has to like you

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#6

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Many college degrees have no job market.

Trade school is a financially solid option out of high school.

Tbone139 Report

Final score:

360points

I I 3 years ago

should bring them back , not all kids are academic some work better with their hands

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#7

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) A cat on his back inviting a chesty rub is a trap.

Poops_McClanahan , Counselling Report

Final score:

339points

JamezyJamez 3 years ago

I'm really happy that all three of mine welcome them. When I have friends over, most are weary of my claims that their hands and arms are safe, but it's true!

49points

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#8

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That it's possible to do everything right and still lose. Just life innit.

KaasmoKraymah , Pat Pilon Report

Final score:

332points

James016 3 years ago

"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life." Captain Jean-Luc Picard

124points

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#9

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Take care of your teeth.

BecomingSavior , National Cancer Institute Report

Final score:

327points

Vasana Phong 3 years ago

Yikes, going through mad tooth pain at the moment

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#10

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That's being wrong and changing your mind is actually nothing to be ashamed of.

SA_DrOpossum , olia danilevich Report

Final score:

324points

J. F. 3 years ago

Being wrong isn't bad, keeping on being wrong to not having to admit being wrong is bad

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#11

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Don’t ever think it’s ok to “talk” to yourself in a manner you wouldn’t let another human being talk to you.

The biggest abuser I ever had in my life, was my constant companion: the thoughts in my head.

We often take care to choose our words when correcting a child or friend... but if anyone had talked to me, the way I talked to me for 30 straight years, I would have murdered them... and probably got away with it too.

Be nice to yourself, you’re the only you, you have.

Debaser626 , Taylor Smith Report

Final score:

315points

Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Easier said than done, that's for sure.

110points

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#12

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That mental & emotional abuse are a real thing.

Red flags.

nahbroski , Alex Green Report

Final score:

306points

Turtle42 3 years ago

And yet they are least noticed. Cause you can't see it physically.

53points

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#13

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That it's never too late to learn.

j4yf3rb , Darkangels Report

Final score:

290points

I I 3 years ago

live and learn , don't stop learning until you stop living

37points

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#14

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That being a parent is not always "the most rewarding thing in the world".

morgisartre , Pat PilonFollow Report

Final score:

271points

Dark Pearl 3 years ago

It's stressful. My mother looks way older than she should, she's always tired and busy... It's horrifying!

41points

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#15

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) The value of a good/unconditional friend.

nowittynameavailable , Free-Photos Report

Final score:

259points

Vasana Phong 3 years ago

I would rather not have any , then have toxic ones, my husband is my best friend

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#16

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) How to manage their finances.

KreamoftheKropp , Emil Kalibradov Report

Final score:

231points

James016 3 years ago

Its something they need to teach in schools if they are not doing so already.

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#17

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Knowing when to NOT be nice.

-partymonster- , Allan Mas Report

Final score:

225points

Dark Pearl 3 years ago

At least somebody gets it. My best friend is all sweet and innocent and overly nice, and I just wish that she would be a F*****G BITCH occasionally. Especially to me. I deserve it.

19points

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#18

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) How soul crushing, unproductive, impotent and wasteful worrying about things is.

mhol7597 , energepic.com Report

Final score:

225points

denzoren 3 years ago

I worry...constantly...about so much. Sometimes I can't help it.

30points

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#19

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) What not to share on the internet.

DetectiveBowtie , Glenn Carstens-Peters Report

Final score:

212points

Martha Meyer 3 years ago

I think in the 90ies teens knew not to do this very well. Today's teens however seem to do the opposite and I find that quite worrying. It's going to bite at least some of them in the backside in a nasty way later in life.

66points

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#20

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That the cliche "you never know when it's the last time you'll see to someone" should absolutely be remembered for every occasion. My best friend just died in a car accident this past Saturday, and the last time I saw him we got in an argument and he left and we didn't speak after that. I'm destroyed by it

Jew-Barrymore , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

210points

lunar eclipse 3 years ago (edited)

Oh gosh. I couldn’t imagine. The last time I spoke to my mother, we had an argument. She went into a coma that night and passed away.

30points

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#21

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That hating people who are different makes you nothing but unhappy.

JazzerBee , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

203points

Isabella 3 years ago

Hating in general, not only different people, makes you unhappy. No reason is good enough for hating. Hate is the poison of the soul.

62points

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#22

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) How dangerous driving a car can be.

Wendigogod27 , Dennis Yang Report

Final score:

192points

Pennywise 3 years ago

I am terrified to learn how to drive a car. TERRIFIED

34points

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#23

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That some things can never be undone.

The actions you take and the words you speak will come back around sooner or later.

sherrymirza , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

186points

Maurettis 3 years ago

Sadly, sometimes the only way you learn this, is by doing those terrible mistakes

41points

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#24

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) How short life is.

snowmanseeker , Matthias Zomer Report

Final score:

179points

Lunar Bicycle 3 years ago

No kidding. I’m fifty, and I swear I was twenty like ten years ago.

124points

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#25

"Everybody you fight is not your enemy and everybody that helps you is not your friend." - Mike Tyson

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Final score:

167points

Pink Floydian Panda 3 years ago (edited)

Did Iron Mike really say that? That is genuinely profound!

26points

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#26

The sun is the worst thing for your skin, it burns you, causes cancer, and gives you wrinkles. SPF is your friend.

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Final score:

159points

Michelle M 3 years ago

100 upvotes for this. But the sun is also needed for Vitamin D..."in little amount"

64points

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#27

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That you might be wrong sometimes. Some never learn.

FairlyUnoriginal , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

157points

Ivo H 3 years ago

These who never learn this are often people who are wrong most often

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#28

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That happiness usually comes from a diverse range of interests, hobbies, and commitments. You are not your job. Your romantic partner cannot be your everything, etc. It's so easy to get sucked into a life where your career is everything or where you wrap your entire identity around your partner. There is nothing wrong with celebrating your loved ones and being close. And there is nothing wrong with caring about your job...you just need more to thrive. I see this so often in relationships. Two people meet and fall in love. They each inspire one another based on their interests and achievements, it's part of what makes them fall in love. But slowly, over time, they let those hobbies go. Stress gets in the way. Bills pile up. And then one day they find themselves wondering why they ever loved this person in the first place. Instead of being sexy and interesting they're just part of a routine.

TLDR: Diversify your interests and activities to be happy. Don't rely on a single person, hobby, or commitment to give you everything you need.

5dognowfive , Redmond Report

Final score:

156points

Otter 3 years ago

Anyone ever see a person whose kids have made them happier than the interests they gave up when they became parents? Me neither.

32points

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#29

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Sitting on your ass all day is not good for your health at all.

poopellar , DESIGNECOLOGIST Report

Final score:

153points

AJ 3 years ago

Also sometimes sitting on your ass all day (meaning taking a break and not doing a thing entire day) is very important and good for your health and can recharge you like nothing else.

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#30

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) There aren't actually any hot singles in your area.

ABViper , Georgie Pauwels Report

Final score:

143points

Otter 3 years ago

There are so! There are hot singles in every area! And they're all interested in each other, not in us.

84points

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#31

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) How to communicate.

create_and_grow , Garry KnightFollow Report

Final score:

133points

Michelle M 3 years ago

My grandma used to say that 'Communication is the key to any successful relationship'

28points

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#32

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) To appreciate their youth.

[deleted] , Allan Mas Report

Final score:

129points

Isabela Ivan 3 years ago

I used to be very critical of myself as ateen, în my 20s....now at 37 i just think how dumb I was

26points

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#33

How to not give a [damn] about how others see you.

Seems simple enough for me now in my 20s, but back in high school there were many f**ks given about how others saw me. Ironically, those people that didn’t care how others saw them were often the more respected ones.

slothbarns7 Report

Final score:

124points

Lara Verne 3 years ago

The older I get, the less I care.

43points

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#34

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Saying “I love you” or wanting to reach out to your family, friends, and loved ones, but crippling anxiety stops you. You never know when it may be too late to say these things, so be in the moment, and live/love in the present authentically.

whatthedeafearhears , Heather Mount Report

Final score:

121points

denzoren 3 years ago

I've never been able to really express my feelings for anyone. Now I'm in my 30s and so many missed opportunities later, I can only look back and think what might have been.

19points

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#35

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Interest rates, credit cards, credit score, money saving techniques, 401K. In other words anything that keeps you from being trapped by poor money management.

TheLivingBubba , Robert Scoble Report

Final score:

120points

N G 3 years ago

What's that card? I've never seen one with LCDs.

13points

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#36

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) To stop being afraid of asking or pursuing the things you want in life

NCbrownboi , Joe Bielawa Report

Final score:

119points

Green Machine 3 years ago

No one else will help you be yourself. Don't live for others all the time.

16points

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#37

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Social media can consume your life. It’s not all real, and not everyone posting pictures is having a great time, and not every “I LOVE YOU SO MUCH WE SHOULD CATCH UP” is genuine.

Scarlaire , BuzzFarmers Report

Final score:

117points

Jo Johannsen 3 years ago

So much of social media consists of passing on the latest trendy meme, trolling, or arguing about politics. Very little real communication takes place.

20points

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#38

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) Pulling out is not an effective method for birth control.

echohelloworld , Monica Silvestre Report

Final score:

117points

Pink Floydian Panda 3 years ago

Sounds like you learned that one the hard way!

38points

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#39

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) The importance of education. As a kid your always hear generic statements like, "This will help your career" but nothing specific enough to be useful.

christian_daddy1 , Allison Meier Report

Final score:

117points

Martha Meyer 3 years ago

I feel like the emphasize on education sucked the joy out of my teen years especially. So I don't agree with this one. Education is important, but don't align your entire childhood to some "career" in the future.

28points

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#40

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) You are your biggest limitation.

AtilaMann , Pixabay Report

Final score:

108points

WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

That's BS. Your parents, your environment, your education and the people you or your parents know decide your future.

31points

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#41

Silence is golden.

Seriously, the amount of people who spout crap that no one cares about, just to hear themselves talk...

Sonicsaber25 Report

Final score:

32points

JP 3 years ago

Got an ex-friend like this. This is one of the reasons we are no longer friends. They couldn't shut up. Ever. Spouted off about everything, was wrong about most things and a general a*****e. Well, that and he kept trying to convince my husband (m. 41 yrs) to divorce me (for months) because I told him to shut up. (He's childless, telling us we were bad grandparents because we didn't take a belt to our grandkids (18m & 3y at the time). Told us 'the buckle end will train 'em right!')

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#42

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That nobody will be a better advocate for you than yourself. Especially when it comes to your health. Mental AND physical health. Don't wait for somebody else to do it. You'll have to do it yourself eventually.

whileurup , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

30points

SilentSyst3m 3 years ago

Tell someone with anxiety. Thought I'd die of stomach ache but could not call an ambulance. Let alone walk into a doctor's office ... or even call for an appointment. Sometimes help IS needed.

2points

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#43

Failure happens and its part of a learning process. Never be afraid of failing. In the same line being wrong about something and changing your mind is okay.

insanefish1337 Report

Final score:

29points

Dillon Hughes 3 years ago

Being wrong just means you learned something which is great

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#44

Money is a tool, not a life goal.

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29points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Having tools is a life goal though. Money is a big point of being on earth.

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#45

Mistakes have consequences. Sometimes they are huge consequences, such as a mistake while driving could kill yourself or someone else. Sometimes they’re little consequences. But always learn from your mistakes and that you should always be learning and improving yourself.

Final score:

27points

Victoria 3 years ago

and own up to your mistakes

2points

#46

Setting and respecting boundaries, how to give a genuine apology, and other such communication 101 skills.

[deleted] Report

Final score:

27points

Dillon Hughes 3 years ago

My dad hates that I demand my personal privacy in my home. I'm 40 don't insist to come over uninvited! Half of the time my lady is running around topless!

3points

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#47

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) To protect their ears, you don't want to live with tinnitus for the rest of your life because you were exposed to a loud noise once

NapoleonBlownApart1 , Aaron Report

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24points

I I 3 years ago

sat with it now , too many raves when younger

6points

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#48

That friendships and relationships should never be so difficult to be in that it drains you of joy or throws you into depression.

And if you are that depressed friend that keeps losing connections with meaningful people, it’s never too early to get help. Even if you think you can beat it, it’s temporary, or you don’t deserve it.

Toxicity in any person is inevitable as people grow and change. What separates the toxic people from others is that they refuse to or are unable to recognize their own toxic patterns and cannot change their toxic behaviors when they negatively impact others. Unlearn your own issues. Do self work. You’re always going to be better for it.

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DC 3 years ago

True, of course, but ... I think people tend to be too fast with this. I've lost a few friends when I wasn't in my best state, friends who I thought I could count on - I shouldn't even have called them friends. It's those assholes that leave you when you need them the most, and excuse themselves by some variation of the above. Don't decide fast. Don't ditch a friend because he/she currently can't offer much help - any true friend will return whatever you do for them ... that's what qualifies them as friends in the first place.

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#49

The importance of writing skills for formal contexts.

Writing is an important skill in nearly any field and the more a career advances the more important it becomes. The lack of adequate writing skill often holds back a career.

Yet many people squander their opportunities to learn writing because they think their class assignments are empty busy work and they figure their skills in spoken English and informal text messages will carry over when they need to write for work.

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23points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

I think it is the way we teach writing. It is an awful, painful, slog. I love creative writing but break out in a cold sweat at the words Composition II.

3points

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#50

That being mean to people will get you nowhere.

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JustAnother Soul 3 years ago

It depends which direction you are aiming for.

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#51

That it's more important to appreciate your body for what it can do rather than what it looks like.

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#52

Active listening

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Green Machine 3 years ago

People would be so much more connected if this were more common!

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#53

Impulse buying control. So much [stuff] in my house that I wish I could go back in time and not buy it in the first place

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23points

I I 3 years ago

self control needed

2points

#54

That Covid-19 is real.

Final score:

20points

Macaw 3 years ago

I know two people who were on the ventilator in the ER and died from it. While it's not as deadly as other diseases in the early 20th century, it is still real.

4points

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#55

How to emotionally regulate

Final score:

19points

MrOwlAteMyMetalWorm. 3 years ago

HOW?! GODDAMNIT?! HOW?!

1point

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#56

Not to believe everything on the internet.

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18points

N G 3 years ago

Including this! 😉

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#57

That your parents are in fact people too

you cant help someone if they dont want it.

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#58

How to use their turn signals in a car...

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17points

Glenn Zoontjens 3 years ago (edited)

and how to merge, negotiate roundabouts, be courteous to other drivers....

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#59

Self-Control and Compassion. It goes a long way.

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17points

Nicola Roberts 3 years ago

@Ninn - It might have been a heading?

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#60

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That they are terrible at parenting.

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16points

Green Machine 3 years ago (edited)

I would say that terrible parents (almost) never learn they're terrible...

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#61

College isn’t the only option.

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#62

That brussels sprouts are good. And so is asparagus. And every other vegetable if you prepare it properly.

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Final score:

15points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

There is no way you could cook lima beans that would induce me to eat them. Goes for a few vegetables. Everyone has things that are just unacceptable. But, cooked correctly, the list is shorter.

2points

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#63

People Are Posting Things They Wish They'd Known Sooner (40 Posts) That most people will just help you, how and if they can, if you are honest with them

It seems like so many people feel the need to conceal what they actually want from you, and try to get it by presenting a half-truth or what they think you want to hear instead of just being straight forward.

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Final score:

14points

Eslamala 3 years ago

Also, most people can see right through a half truth or a made up story, and are less likely to help you if they feel they're being deceited or they feel your story is incoherent.

1point

#64

How slippery a slope addiction is. How quickly trying something at a party turns into being hooked.

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Final score:

14points

Eslamala 3 years ago

True!

0points

#65

That salary amount is not the entirety of an equation when deciding where to work. You have to take into account the cost of living, commute times, the safety of the nearby area, and the convenience of living in the area.

Studies have shown that taking a 20 minute longer commute is as bad for your job satisfaction as a 19% pay cut.

On top of that, wealth = money in - money out. If a new job pays 20k more, but if rent/property prices are 30k more per year, you are taking a paycut.

On top of that, you have to consider your future. Do you have to move to an undesirable location to work there? Crammed in a little apartment where the nearest services are an hour away? What about air quality? What about noise levels? Is this a place where you want to start a family and raise kids?

All of those play a factor in determining the desirability of a job. I am a firm believer that "my job doesn't exist outside this city" is a bulls**t myth. Even if you're a super specialized rocket scientist with a PhD in orbital dynamics, NASA is not the only organization with a job opening for you.

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13points

Karl Baxter 3 years ago

Good colleagues can make a bad job good and vice versa

3points

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#66

Don’t ignore that box of red flags next to the person you’re dating. I mean seriously - they’re in their house/apartment, their car, hell - their friends even wave them at you sometimes. Ok their parents help hide them if they like you but still.

Stop acting like you don’t see them. Just stop

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Final score:

13points

#67

Never trust a fart.

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13points

mcborge1 3 years ago

Lol.

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#68

Save your god dam money

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Final score:

12points

Ninn Kynok 3 years ago

The capital a diety uses to fund the construction of a barrier to hold back water?

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#69

Try to be sceptical of everything and ask for proof.

So you dont fall for scams like giving money/help/awards to ppl faking illnesses,as alot of reddit learned the hard way this week.

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Final score:

12points

Dark Pearl 3 years ago

What happened?

2points

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#70

You are the master of your own head. The big boss of braintown. The alpha of beta thoughts.

You shouldn't let stray thoughts or feelings control your life. It's perfectly okay to disconnect yourself from them and control your mental state.

You are not your thoughts. You are the awareness of your thoughts.

Too many people these days don't understand that. They let their thoughts control them, unquestionably. The ability to tell your own brain "Hey, f**k off, stop doing that" is so irrevocably powerful that it's frustrating how many people don't understand that you can do that. I think it's a realization that has to come through your own little epiphany.

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Final score:

12points

Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

It's also frustrating how many people don't understand its not as simple as that for people suffering with mental illness.

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#71

That there is no way a country can have a strong economy if there's no support to science and education. Scientists are normal people who work their ass off to have a workplace, funding and their jobs taken seriously

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12points

I I 3 years ago

education is the key to a great country

3points

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#72

There are no rules. There are laws, but there are no rules. You can do anything you wasn’t however you want. Don’t be afraid to let go once in a while and have ice cream for dinner, or stay up all night. You can live your life how you want and there’s no rule that says you can’t.

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11points

N G 3 years ago

Counterargument: There is a Golden Rule that isn't law and there are CONSEQUENCES. You are not entitled to act in anyway detrimental to other people without consequence - even if there is no law specifically forbidding it. Eat ice cream for breakfast? Go for it. Bully and push your way to the front of the queue because you have the patience of a toddler? Be prepared to be refused service.

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#73

The anger and arguments over petty things was a waste of time.

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11points

#74

That they are responsible to unf**k their lives. No one else.

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10points

N G 3 years ago

But that it's okay (and even encouraged) to ask for help. It's not possible to do everything alone.

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#75

How to relax and enjoy life without taking yourself too seriously

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Final score:

10points

Al Christensen 3 years ago

Not taking yourself too seriously solves so many other problems.

2points

#76

When they are in the good times. It's only when you look back and reminisce that you realise how good you had it.

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Final score:

9points

I’m A Black Cat 3 years ago

Or vice versa: how bad you had it and how good you have it now. Appreciation comes with comparison and awareness

2points

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#77

That you came to this planet with only one thing - your body; and you should take good care of it. If you take good care of it all other problems become much smaller and tackle able.

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Final score:

9points

Mar Nadal 3 years ago

That you can take good care of your body and yet get sick and die, or have an accident

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#78

To not stick (insert object) into (insert different, dangerous object)

Final score:

8points

Saint Thomas 3 years ago

This begs for a naughty answer, but I'll use all my will power not to do it.

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#79

Their limits when it comes to drinking alcohol.

Final score:

8points

Green Machine 3 years ago

There are*

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#80

Take responsability for your stuff.

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8points

Ninn Kynok 3 years ago

@Potatogammers2: 'you called me out'?

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#81

Don't borrow money

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Final score:

8points

Macaw 3 years ago

This is how a lot of businesses get their seed capital, especially for entrepreneurs who weren't born in a wealthy family. In fact, my best friend has 3 successful restaurants and he got started from the ground up because he borrowed money. Sure, he had to pay back the interest, but now he has a steady stream of cash flow.

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#82

Maturity.

I have many subjects that I'm passionate about, and I seek out places to discuss but even if I meet someone that completely disagrees with me, it's not my job or my desire to change their opinion or even discuss the subject with them when it has nothing to do with that relationship.

And sometimes I'm absolutely terrible at following that rule.

I'd always rather make friends than enemies. It's tempting to make an "other" out of someone, but labeling someone a "libtard/drumpfer" reduces them to one subject matter and makes you lose out in what could be a valuable relationship that builds both of you up.

That being said, there are toxic people everywhere so have caution and prudence, but do your best to never dehumanize.

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Final score:

7points

Eslamala 3 years ago

I don't understand why people need for others to agree with them. Are they so insecure that they need others to reassure their beliefs/opinions? I mean, I don't give a fck if people like the things I like, or agree or disagree with me on anything.

1point

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#83

Figuring out my career.

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Final score:

6points

I I 3 years ago

#not something we should be doing at 16

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#84

Navigate conflicts without escalation and reaching a mutually desired outcome. Very important if you want to have and maintain a long term relationship.

Final score:

6points

#85

not to cheat on their partners

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Final score:

6points

Glenn Zoontjens 3 years ago

Really? I'd have thought this one would have been blatently obvious!!

0points

#86

Discipline.

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Final score:

6points

Caro Caro 3 years ago

Patience.

3points

#87

The deflector shield will be quite operational.

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Final score:

5points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

The deflector shield is like a swiss army knife, it is good for just about everything.

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#88

That it's okay to enjoy yourself in college when you are still young.

Safe fun of course.

Your experience helps you in life and grades aint s**t if you come out graduated with no clue how real life and people work.

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Final score:

5points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

Partying in college will teach you real life? No.

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#89

Two words: Flared base

Final score:

1point

Ninn Kynok 3 years ago

Six words: your post does not make sense.

5points

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#90

You don’t need your ears to listen to yourself.

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Final score:

-1point

R Carson 3 years ago

Reading can take you anywhere, it is balm for the soul.

1point

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GirlFriday 3 years ago

Work to live. Don't live to work.

10points

pusheen buttercup 3 years ago

OH and that you can disagree with someone, even on something important, and that doesn't make them a bad person nor does it make you one

9points

Rosie Buckingham 2 years ago

It does if they don't believe in equality. Yes, the are bad people.

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Gareth Irwin 3 years ago

Didn't we do 'obvious statements are obvious' recently?

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GirlFriday 3 years ago

Work to live. Don't live to work.

10points

pusheen buttercup 3 years ago

OH and that you can disagree with someone, even on something important, and that doesn't make them a bad person nor does it make you one

9points

Rosie Buckingham 2 years ago

It does if they don't believe in equality. Yes, the are bad people.

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Gareth Irwin 3 years ago

Didn't we do 'obvious statements are obvious' recently?

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