30 People Share What They No Longer Have Patience For

Amen.

But then also being very conservative and saying that individual rights are the most important things... But I guess that's only if you're a corporation-person.

This isn't just limited to religious persons boss.

So I'm neither religion but I want to add that sometimes that thinking doesn't all way line up with the religion in questions core beliefs. Some people manipulate religions to complement their own beliefs and pull in others. Of course most people probably know this so if you do pay no mind.

I hate people like that. Everyone has rights. If it doesn't effect you then don't get involved

Keep your s**t to yourself. I always hated it. Even as a child already. When I was like 12 - 14 years old, I had this fantasy that if I could conjure things like a wizard, I would make the trash they left somewhere magically show up in their own house, and if they would throw it out on the streets again, it would show up again in their house. Just as long until they got rid of it in the proper way.

People who dump rubbish in forests are the worst at that. And I don't mean a stray bottle (that may start a forest fire btw) - people who go to the forest to dump truckloads of rubbish there so that they don't have to pay for its proper disposal.

I live in a beautiful mountain wilderness, but didn't grow up in it. My parents rarely took us camping, so I didn't learn "pack it, pack it out" until my 20s. Just seemed common sense. I couldn't believe how many faraway places in the woods we'd get piles of beer cans and diapers and nonsense. I may not exactly be an environmentalist, but how hard is it not to be a lazy a*****e???

I’ve never had patience for that!

I honk when I see someone throw something out the window, people say I'll cause an accident, but it's the inconsiderate idiot who has it.

not charming or cute, show up when you say you will please.

It's just selfish, rude and disrespectful.

My mom has an obsession with not being late. We arrive at school at 7:30 when school starts at 8:10. We get to after-school activities 30 minutes early. It's pretty fun and I love her for it. But don't mess with her, if you're holding up the family...

It's disrespectful of other people and can be considered manipulative

I do this at medical appointments. I'm not sitting around in a freezing waiting room surrounded by sick people. I'll inform the receptionist that it is past my appointment time and that I have other appointments. Interestingly enough, about 50% of the time, I'm seen almost immediately.

All the money in the world is useless if you have no time to spend it.

They pay me for 7,5 hours / day, they get 7,5 hours /day.

Said every teacher EVERYWHERE

All the hustle in the world won't make up for the fact that you're not related or besties to anyone in management so you will never get ahead.

Agreed.

the wors....hold on my phone just buzzed...worst ever!

Yes!! (With the obvious exceptions, many have already mentioned) I'm so tired of people looking at their phones, typing non stop and saying "keep going, keep going, I'm listening"... Recently, a friend of mine (let's call her TF) was telling us (me & another friend- let's call her FB) something super sad... I was paying attention to TF, obviously, but I could tell our other friend FB was typing away on her phone but "paying attention" to the conversation. Well, at one point -out of nowhere- FB starts laughing out loud, interrupting TF mid-sentence... TF was talking about stage 4 cancer...

Putting your phone on the table when you're somewhere with somebody - their/your house or a restaurant, pour exámple - is also a sign that you prioritize your phone over your guest/host.

People being on their phones while walking. Sometimes I just let them bump into me and say "next time that could be a car"

On a similar note - don’t walk up to someone who’s on their phone to start a conversation.

That's such a tell, how people treat others when they don't *have* to be kind. Kindness is free. But also gets taken as zn invitation. Balancing personal safety with societal requirements. That being said, people who are rude to servers/staff drive me nuts. I'm ex customer service, I always make sure to be pleasant, and gauge if they want friendly chat or not (culturally normal here)

It also works the other way round, though. If you are in a service job, please learn to be service minded. I don't mean you should be servile - there is a vast difference - but do your job with a smile and a readyness to give your customers a good experience. You'll find that your day becomes much more enjoyable and honestly, most people are nice. If you look as if you're held there against your will people won't warm to you.

Mean...rude ... people suck.

My family has a really rough three years since my fiance had strokes back in 2020. He has become increasingly difficult to take anywhere in public because it's always, "f*** that guy" "I hate rich pieces of s*** because they just sit on their money" "stupid kid this" "stupid person that" blah blah nothings ever good enough anymore and everyone's a damn problem. He's a grumpy old jerk.

I have been so mad about some dumb charge or thing and chuffed up having to dial 10 extensions or wait forever on the phone that by the time I get to speak to someone sometimes I preface it with "I'm very sorry I'm advance for my tone, I know you're here to help me and it's not your fault". That alone has gotten my problems saved SO much faster. My sister is in customer service and you definitely get better answers if you're nice and can communicate effectively. Also, they deal with shite people all day so it's nice to say "you have such a nice speaking voice" or "you were so patient with me and I appreciate that" and it goes a long way. I e literally had people thank me for "making their day". Gosh, really?? Can you imagine how many a******s they speak to all day then??? Just one compliment or nicety can go a long way.

fr fr I heard some kids at my college talking about 'if they use a period you know they're mad' girl it's TEXT maybe use words to communicate. 🙄

Straight talk. Word.

Say what you mean.

That sure fuels my overthinking

Exactly! And for those genuinely worried about hurting people's feelings (and for those using that as an excuse), it doesn't have to be brutal or complicated.. it can be done in a kind and respectful manner! Being straightforward and honest you can avoid so many misunderstandings (and potential headaches and heartaches).. and it saves so much time and energy!

Enabling in general, no matter why, also blaming the victim of nasty behaviour for calling out the person who behaved badly and accusing them to have caused a scene or ruining an event. No, the person calling out wasn't ruining anything. The misbehaving person did. Stand behind the victims, don't enable A$$holes!

I don't care WHO you are, manners are universal. Treat other human beings with kindness and respect, and EXPECT them to treat you with the same. Try it. I guarantee you'll be amazed.