Damn straight - mind your business, cousin!

I'd divorce my sister if she pulled a stunt like this. Wow, how nasty.

So, disinvited?

Tbf, a wedding full of cats does sound kind of amazing. But I wouldn’t force it on someone else 😅

Wauw how can you be so cruel

This is a new one on me. Narcissism on full display here.

What a damn silly thing to do

Probably gonna get downvoted, but I would just throw out the gift, and then sterilize the area. Fingernails can carry disease, imagine 8 years worth.

What's FH?

We had a no phone/no photo rule during the ceremony because we had 2 photographers. Then we shared pictures on a website.

This takes the cake, and I don't mean the wedding cake. I would hate to be proposed to in front of a group of total strangers!

😲 Wow. Just wow.

Don’t hide her identity, give her ALL the attention she wants…

That's pathetic. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

I will never understand why some people think this is appropriate! Oh, and they look pathetic too, don't they? I imagine other guests are shaking their heads...🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, wait! They're attention seekers, but too stupid to realize the attention is negative.

That's awful. I'm sorry OP.

Yeah, that fan would be a pile of straw if it was there after asking her to lower it.

Send her a bill for the food. & decorations

Did your dad peak in high school?

Id cut the "friend" out of the wedding

Pathetic.

Wow, some people have no sense or etiquette

🙄 Nope, just nope.

There’s always one who has to outshine the bride -no matter the country, culture, ethnicity, etc

This is so not cool.

Don't do this unless you asked the bride and groom first (and if they said no, then don't do it either)

Next time plan your 6000 mile travel accordingly…and arrive 20 minutes earlier!

Hillbilly reception... Yee Haaw!!

The image is not 100% conclusive, though. The outfit would be totally appropriate if they married each other.

How presumptuous is that? The bride and groom really want to pay for 20 extra meals for people they don't know.

It was the DJ's fault too, YOU paid for him to play whaterver you like, not that cringe guy. He could've asked you about it at least.

Your mom's an ahole!

I'm sorry, but that's hilarious.

I really hope the next message was "No. No, you won't be attending at all"

Rudeness reigns here.

Or... maybe the bridesmaid is secretly an evil genius :) She just placed an empty envelope in the box, already torn open, and let everyone know what was supposed to be inside. When the envelope is found, it will look like someone stole the gift, which was never there in the first place. Not only does bridesmaid save money, she also gets sympathy from everyone else muahahahaha!

The only way other guests would not notice is if they are also blind. Sheesh!

I had petit fours for guests at my wedding as our wedding cake was a single layer and I explicitly said that the cake is not to be eaten. Came back from the honeymoon to find out that the cake was eaten. The intent was the cake was for us (wasn't big, like a normal, round birthday cake size) and the pieces we didn't cut at the reception was to be packed up and the petit fours were for the guests. It was a very low budget wedding, but I think the solution was good, until we didn't have any wedding cake to eat :( We divorced but it was still a nice wedding ... despite the cake. This post just reminded me of that. Who freaking does that? Taking the top tier?

‘Men and girls’ can absolutely be friends, but ironically ‘girls’ who are getting married are (I sincerely hope) ‘women’, and this is very much the reaction of a ‘boy’, not a ‘man’. Especially she he wasn’t invited in the first place, and I totally understand why.

MLMs are pyramid schemes and they’re cults. Their members are fully brainwashed. To lack such class & decorum along with an inflated self-importance & misplaced value on the crappy product, to the point of sacrificing someone’s big moment, highjacking the program for a sales pitch and forcing the cheap makeup onto the couple is downright crazy. I feel just as bad for delusional & brainwashed aunt, too.

Brothers poor best friend didn’t realize life isn’t a Disney fairy tale or a Lifetime rom-com.

No great loss. Actually, I'd call this a win since you now know just what kind of person they are.

While you can't demand gifts from your wedding guests, it's not only common, but kind of expected in most parts of the western world that you bring a present to a wedding. Not bringing anything is rude and I also wouldn't forget about it.

😳

To be clear, she’s absolutely right about service dogs in training. I live between two states, one (there are 4) which has zero state recognition of service dogs in training (Hawaii) and another that codifies into law service dogs in training to have similar access as trained service dogs (California). For the latter, the training service dog must be visibly marked as being in training as a service dog, whereas in all states the the superseding federal law requires zero markings for trained service dogs. For many of us with legitimate service dogs (as opposed to emotional support animals or personally trained pets) , we welcome identification markings. That way there are no qualms about how (tirelessly & costly) well-trained our service dogs are.

Boot Barn???? Ann Taylor???? No, Boot Barn!!!! How I would have loved to have been perched on a hay bale atop the rafters of the barn with a bucket of popcorn to watch the other “BS” unfold. YEEHAW!

sounds like OP got a nice preview and wisely pulled the plug!

There's that guy who does photoshop requests, but takes them very literally, so be careful what you ask for...

Absolute lack of awareness. Also, Disney musical? I swear The Mouse is responsible for the vast majority of idealized relationships and overall delusion.

Looks more like a deliberate theme style, so maybe there is more to it?