What glue have the YTA posters been sniffing? Especially the last one.

Why would Tia even go to her, like what is she supposed to do? No she doesn't owe her a shoulder to cry on. Serves you well, entitled brat

Not her clown, not her circus. Actions have consequences now lay in that bed you made you nasty little monster. Screw that little brat

Jane sounds awesome

Wait a minute. Tia showed up _with her dad_? At your workplace? Oh, hell, no! You should have told Tai, "FAFO, my dear." And you should have told John if you see him anywhere near you again, you'll file a restraining order. You are well rid of both their crazy.

while the kid needs help, expecting the victim to be the one to cry on is asinine. the kid needs mental help before she breaks more things & ruins more relationships.

Complete nonsense. The girl is 16. almost an adult, and her behaviour is ridiculous. The OP owes her nothing, and OP's sister sounds like a stupid idiot as well.

im gonna b completely honest. even of tia had a good reason for going to the OP like realizing the OP was better then jane or something like that tia is not part of the OP's life anymore. if the OP helped tia her efforts would b hit with "this doesnt concern u" and jane would probably treat tia worse. she also was in her right not to help bc of the hell tia put her thru. i truly believe the OP handled the situation very well too. she couldve easily been mean to tia and told her to go away but no she asked if tia's mom knew and told tia theres nothing to worry about since her mom took care of the situation. if the OP had shown a grudge toward tia id say shes a slight a*****e but she didnt. she says that she feels for tia's situation but didnt feel anything towards the girl herself. thats perfectly reasonable and i wouldve handled the situation the exact same way. if tia said she didnt tell her mom i wouldve told her to tell her mom cuz she could help more then i could. im sure the OP wouldve said the same considering how she handled it.

OP is SO NTA. Tia is learning that you can't sow dandelions and expect to reap strawberries. Her nasty, abusive behavior drove her dad's first girlfriend away. Now she's dealing with someone who don't play that shìt, that is a living example of Newton's 3rd Law of Motion, and is it ever glorious to behold! (Before everyone condemns the new girlfriend to hell, consider this: it's possible that she has dealt with this scenario her entire life, one way or another. Her method seems to work best.) Daddy Dearest needs to stop thinking with his gonads and start behaving like a--GASP!--parent. Tia is liable to do something really off the wall, like borrow her father's car without permission or go out of her way to physically hurt someone. That girl is burning bridges, and her father is providing the gasoline and torches. OP is justified in avoiding Tia like the Plague; it would only be a matter of time before Tia and her father's apathy would destroy OP.

Frankly, I'd be happy if somebody beat the c**p out of the vicious b***h.

NTA, but totally missed a prime opportunity to possibly teach another human a valuable lesson. The people saying she is an entitled brat are totally correct. That child did not choose to be raised that way. There is no fault in the person not caring to explain, but no one else seems to be getting through.

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Your sister, Tia and Tia's dad are TAs

Definitely sounds like OP has PTSD. I'm glad she's already got a therapist and has this on her radar. People don't realize how psychologically damaging chronic emotional abuse can be, even when it's coming from a kid. I hope Tia learns something from her FAFO experience.

Tia is hurting? Ohhhhhh, I'm sooooo soooorry. That's exactly what she deserves. She's not a kid. It's high time she learnt actions have consequences. She's only hurting because she can't manipulate daddy's new girlfriend. She sounds like an entitled brat.

As is usually the case this is just another person seeking attention because there is no real debate about her being an AH. I highly doubt the sister told her she was an AH for not supporting an evil teen she has almost no connection with and absolutely no responsibility for. Secondly, I like Jane and she sounds awesome! It's a completely toxic relationship she is in with the ex-bf, but I love her handling of the fucktard teen.

She is a teenager, she has to take the consequences of her behaviour BUT also she is just a teenager who needs someone to talk to. Even if she don't derserves your time, just listen. You don't have to give any advise or a solution, just let her calm down and it is up to her dad to find a solution.