More often than not, we notice the not-so-bright people walking around us, blaring their extreme opinions while being completely uninformed on the subject. It’s one of life’s great mysteries—those of lesser intelligence tend to overestimate how clever they are, while smart people do the exact opposite.
So when user blissfulhavoc posted “What is a subtle sign that someone is intelligent/sharp?” on r/AskReddit, fellow members quickly rolled up their sleeves. It seems that clever people might not advertise the fact that they’re smart but others sure do notice it. Hundreds started sharing their opinions about the tell-tale traits that prove someone is bright and sharp.
Find the best answers Bored Panda has collected from this viral thread right below, and share your thoughts with us in the comments. Psst! After you’re done, be sure to check out our previous post on even more signs that might prove you’re smarter than you think.
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When they don't know something they look it up immediatly. They can't stand not knowing because they are curious about it and want to know more.
Things re more fun if they are presented in a fun way, there isn't the pressure of grades and you aren't being forced to do it.
Load More Replies...I don't understand people who don't do this particularly in the internet age
Some humans are willfully stupid. *Side-eye to the flat-earth COVID deniers.* I keep hoping their "God" will stop them from breeding, but so far, no joy. 🤷
Load More Replies...One of my favourite pastimes: looking something up, and then falling down into a Wikipedia rabbit hole for a few hours!
FYI this held true before smartphones! That's why some people had reference works in their home libraries, so that if there was ever something anyone wanted to know, they could find out in a minute.
Oh the encyclopedias? Ginormous dictionary from Oxford? The Physicians Desk Reference? I still have them. My kids think I'm crazy, but I'm concerned for that one nasty solar flare where we lose the grid for months. At least my kids will have something to learn from. Although to be fair, all those books are pretty old and will probably have to be read together so I can verbally correct much of the outdated information by discussing it with them directly. Oh well. I love teaching almost as much as learning. 😊
Load More Replies...Yes! My husband and I are always looking things up, we love to learn new tidbits of information and it bugs us to not know something.
Load More Replies...I do this a lot, but more because I also feel I should fact-check myself :')
I do this- my friend said "Eloel" in text today, and I must say, the online reviews for that way of saying "LOL are HILARIOUS-😂
Hah! I do this! Sometimes people call me a know it all but I keep saying I only will pipe up on a subject ive actually researched and it just happens that I research a ton of stuff. I dont claim to know about stuff like cars or sports but I hate being uninformed! I dont know why more people arent constantly looking things up. Dont they want to know as much as possible about the world they live in!? Plus I HATE when people look at me and assume I'm this little female who knows nothing cuz I didnt finish college and look really young but then I bust out with all my knowledge and statistics and sources. People still never believe me but if I dare them to look it up, I always get redeemed and that feels fabulous. I win a lot of bets this way too. It helps reduce the mansplaining a little as well.
I think there are so many different types of intelligence that it’s hard to narrow down one defining trait. Social intelligence, spatial intelligence, problem solving, etc.
I’m from a very rural area with a high poverty rate. I grew up working on a cattle ranch. One of the guys I worked with had to drop out of school in 4th grade to work full time doing agricultural work for his family. He had to work really hard as an adult to reach even a 6th grade reading level. He doesn’t read for pleasure, and by the standards of an educated, urban person, he’d be considered pretty ignorant. However, he can build anything. Fences, mechanical things, buildings, sprinkler systems, you name it. He’s funny as hell, and as a kid working around him I had no idea he was barely literate until his 30s.
One of my brothers is absolutely brilliant. Well read, follows world politics, works in IT at a high level. He’s the smartest person I know, easily, in terms of processing complicated information and retaining it in a useful way. He could absolutely build a computer, but put him on a horse and ask him to go get cattle off the back forty or repair a fence and… no way. He’s also good company, but not always the most socially adept, in that he has almost no street smarts and doesn’t understand concepts like flattery, or other mostly harmless ways that people manipulate those around them as a social lubricant.
Which one of them is smarter? Depends on what you need them to accomplish.
I agree. I know surgeons whose brains can only function in a highly specific way, but when it comes to common sense they slide way down on the bean pole.
I work for the NHS, I can confirm this. I used to wonder how people so smart can be so stupid. Then I realised they just have very focused talents.
Load More Replies...Agree! I'm also very tired of people equating wealth with intelligence. I think wealthy people might be great at making or keeping money but it doesn't mean they can do anything else nearly as well.
One person comes to mind immediately. He never finished college, but has an enormous amount of power in medicine, education, everything. Philanthropy is dangerous. Gates, Sacklers, Eli Lilly, Rockefeller, etc. Family money.
Load More Replies...My best friend is like this. Taught himself how to read while working at General Motors on his breaks. This was back when they first opened in Flint, MI and were hiring everyone. He always says im Brilliant, but I just read a lot and know a bunch of random stuff. Makes me feel good anyhow. But anyway everyone calls him McGuyver. He cant read well at all still but he can build and fix and make anything. He even built his own airplane. Yes, A real one. I say he is brilliant.
Everybody is smart. Everybody. Including those who may not be immediately perceived as smart. We’re all just smart in different ways. This person’s story is an excellent illustration of that concept.
Something I always tell my children is they're all different kinds of smart.
Snort-laugh! I know lots of people here who need a tube of that
Load More Replies...About 20 years ago, I was working at a Microsoft Gold Partner company. Only the best can be that. Even a few of them had written books. But they had to ask me how to use the copier and the fax machine.
I knew a scientist, someone who was basically considered the founder of his study, and he's beyond intelligent in his field. But he says his reading and writing skills are below average, and his social skills aren't exactly world-class, he's world-class brilliant in some ways but definitely not in all.
If you taught me how, I'd love to go gather cattle from the back forty!
Well being able to build a fence w/o the time to learn how and practice has nothing to do with intelligence...he simply never learned how. Somone highly intelligent wont be able to read if theyre never taught either. Same with street smarts. Ur not just born with it. You learn strèet smarts by growing up in an environment where it is key to survival and you pick up things over the course of ur life or long periods of time living through it. You cant say someone is stupid when it comes to street smarts if they never had a chance to learn any. That's stupid! Now if that same person grew up in the hood and was brilliant at math but STILL sucked at street smarts despite having access to an environment where it could be learned, THEN u could make that claim. Now common sense I agree is something ur born with or not. A good ex is how dr Ben carson is a brilliant surgeon yet believes in psycho stuff like obamacare bein as bad as slavery. I think hes a flat earther too
They ask questions. Smart people don't get smart by acting like they know everything.
A risky venture on BP, I get a lot of sarcastic 'google it' answers here when I ask about something 🤷♀️ (edit: thanks everyone telling me to google it anyway, seriously guys?! If I ask something, I have already looked it up or I have chosen to ask, I am aware of bias, and I know how to google. I'm not asking because I am unaware of googles existence 🤦♀️🤦♀️)
Yeah, I find that so annoying. Sometimes we want personal experiences or we don't want to scour through many google searches to find the answer. If people don't want to answer then they should just scroll past.
Load More Replies...Even if a question is rather, let’s say, ill-informed, then it’s up to the person being asked to turn it into a teaching moment, and to clarify and enlighten the question-asker on the subject. Sometimes that’s all that needs to happen.
The trick is to ask the right question. Say you had a job interview, at the end of it, they might ask if there's anything you want to know. You don't ask about the salary, the holidays and the coffee-breaks, if you want the job.
Load More Replies...Too many people put others down for their own gratification. It's absolutely pathetic. They are insecure. Everyone has so much more potential than they think!
Amen. If you're too stupid to ask questions, then you'll never learn anything. And if you're unwilling to make mistakes, likewise you'll never learn anything more than you already know.
Smart people aren't afraid of looking dumb. Every smart person I have known asks questions, and often a lot of them.
While intelligence comes in many forms, we all probably have a stereotypical image of a clever person in mind. You could picture them sitting in the library, surrounded by books. Perhaps they are wearing glasses and seem a bit socially awkward. Or maybe they always have fascinating facts on hand to keep the conversation going. The truth is, bright people have many different traits, and a high IQ test is not the only way to measure a person’s mental abilities.
“A highly intelligent person is one who is flexible in their thinking and can adapt to changes, they think before they speak or act, and they’re able to effectively manage their emotions,” Dr. Catherine Jackson, licensed clinical psychologist and neurotherapist, told Bustle. “In short, they possess several different types of intelligence, including but not limited to intellectual, social, and emotional intelligence.”
They're willing to consider different viewpoints when presented with compelling evidence, and accept when they make a mistake.
It's not hard for me to admit when I'm wrong. I've often been stand corrected and am not ashamed to apologise and admit my mistake.
It's hard for some people. I was always expected to be right and called out when I was wrong, so it's sometimes very difficult for me to admit my mistakes. Not that I don't try.
Load More Replies...As I said on another thread, this is actually a Universal All-Purpose Intelligence Test. The truly intelligent and/or wise person will change their mind when given new evidence or if their position is proven wrong. An idiot will continue to insist they're right, no matter what.
I feel like I'm horrible at #3 asking questions, but I'm really good at this. I don't have an ego involved in being wrong and you can convince me without issue. I don't know why this is so hard for people. I'm able to step back and take myself out of the equation and look at both sides or an argument without judgement. But I do wish I was better at asking questions. I tend to get self-conscious if I feel like everyone else around is having no problem understanding something so I don't to be the one who has to slow down a meeting to have it explained better. 9 times out of 10 they probably feel the same way but still. Happens at work a lot.
Or recognising when there aren't enough facts to make an informed opinion.
That. YES. As a sci geek, this is what grates me SO MUCH about so many people who take very strong positions about things they hardly know anything about. Most TRUE scientists admit they don't know, then go and research all angles of a subject and try to forge an informed opinion. They are also willing to hear any and all FACTS that may either refute their position or require a review of it. And that's where you see ignorance in full bloom. As the saying goes: the more you know, the more you realize how little you know"--which is why grossly ignorant people think they know EVERYTHING. (aka "I HAVE ALL THE BEST FACTS!" 😏)
Load More Replies...This... was my father - who very well stressed me about this while growing up... and I hated it at the time (because, well, yeah... parental admonishings, lectures, etc.) - but I value it now... and I find it simultaneously amazing and infuriating to observe people who **think** they do this... but in reality are simply asking for different viewpoints so they can (despite being given compelling and credible evidence) tell the other person they are wrong.
Oops, I should have posted my comment about the parrots here! Short version: I told a guy he was wrong about identifying a particular breed of parrot and he was fine with accepting that he had gotten it wrong and thanked me for giving him the correct information.
So are we saying that intelligent people are open-minded? If so I agree that stupid people are close-minded with very limited viewpoints and the ability to change their thinking.
I find some very intelligent people who are wedded to their opinion & will defend it to the death. Narcissists are a good example. They can not ever be wrong.
THIS. My ex-husband, in a nutshell. He would gaslight the hell out of me to try to convince me he was ALWAYS right, and so much smarter than me too. Narcissists are pretty effective at ALL of that stuff.
Load More Replies...Sometimes it's easy for me to admit when I'm wrong, but not always. The closer to the heart the harder it is. But i notice when others do and i respect it and always try to do so myself.
I always feel a gnawing sense of injustice for the other person if I am wrong and haven't acknowledged/admitted it to them. Even if I KNOW they'll absolutely use my own admission against me, it still eats away at me if I even go a day without acknowledging my mistake. Having a strongly-rooted conscience is very often NOT AT ALL helpful, I've discovered. 😆
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A willingness to learn
Dumb ppl think they know everything so they don't bother.
I'm always amazed at the number of people who think school is the end of the learning process and don't try to keep learning as adults. I guess its one of the reasons people saying "well I wasn't taught that n school" annoys me. School is supposed to be a very basic foundation
And school is just very basics of many many topics, you dont really learn anything in depth, rather you are given basic tools to figure it out later.
Load More Replies...I was on Facebook once and someone posted a picture of a parrot asking what kind it was. One guy said "king parrot", but another guy said "no, that's wrong, king parrots are red". Thinking I would probably get my head bitten off, I said "actually that IS a king parrot - it's female. The males are red and the females are green". To my amazement the guy said "oh you are right, thankyou for correcting me!". That's when I knew I was talking to someone with a good head on his shoulders. An idiot would have doubled down and called me nasty names.
learning is cool! I even made a goal every day to learn at least 1 new thing. And man, the stories I could tell abt some of them are bizarre :)
Inn 68 years old. To this day, one of my "hobbies" is learning new things. I'm currently exploring quantum physics (really).
The more you learn the more you realize you don’t know. People with limited education and /or knowledge overestimate their own abilities.
I have a willingness to learn but does anyone else get childishly upset if they can't? Sometimes if I'm trying to understand something that's very difficult if I don't get it right away, I immediately feel dumb and there have been times I've literally hidden away in a bathroom and cried out of frustration. I feel like it's such a childish reaction but I can't help myself. I really hate feeling dumb more than any other feeling. Fat, ugly, lonely...I could take all of them over feeling dumb.
I totally feel the same. What a horrible, awful feeling it is when i dont know or understand something. When suddenly all the attention is on me, waiting for me to say or do something dumb so they can laugh and talk about how dumb I am. Its horrble how bad people can make other people feel.
Load More Replies...I liked going to uni so much that I lost track of the ones I attended post degree (certifications, etc.)
Agree. We all KNOW Washington's teeth were made of wood just because everyone told us so. (BTW the question SHOULD be: what was Washington's FALSE teeth made of? Stil, the answer is NOT wood!) Search Mt Vernon, George Washington teeth....
The ability to change their mind when presented with new information. Intelligence is, at its core, a constant reassessment of your own knowledge and the ability to acquire and apply more.
I have changed my thought process on a few things, with the biggest being hunting. I used to be ALL hunting is bad but it's far more complicated than that and is actually needed. And I am not talking about trophy hunting. That is not something I will ever agree on.
Same here. I may not like it, and wish there was proper instruction in how to be more humane about it (quick and clean kills to mitigate suffering—-and outlaw bow hunting, as the idiots doing it are s**t at it), but I see the method to the madness. For instance, deer. If the herd isn’t culled, they will reproduce more than their territory has a food supply for, then slowly and painfully starve to death. Since birth control for wild animals is difficult, then yes, we have to “cull” their herds. However, when it comes to exotic species that are endangered and controlled, or “canned”, hunting, then f**k NO. That cruelty should be punished to the limit of the law, and beyond.
Load More Replies...Absolutely. An open, yet discerning mind, is the key to intellectual growth. Intelligent people live in a place of grey--there is rarely black vs. white, but logic is almost always the basis of any processing of new information. Learning HOW TO LEARN AND DISCERN is the hardest part for many people. Too bad they don't teach those skills to children from the beginning. That's why so many people believe most of what they are told.
Always evolving. All things. Its all connected. & "Never stop learning. Read. Read. Read." -Martinisms
Intelligent ppl can & will change their mind when presented with new evidence that reputedly supports the new knowledge.
I easily adapt to situations and ideas and sometimes I doubt myself and get confused.....So when I'm alone at night I see the pros and cons so the next day i have my answer.....i cant work under pressure to make a decision i have to think it over after the same night....
And this is why scientists change their reports on the pandemic. Science is a process that changes as new information is learned. Some people think this is because they don’t know what they’re doing whereas it is a result of advancements.
I absolutely agree that science is evolving. However, VERY much is being censored and hidden. I worked in pharma for several years and was aware of bias, but only later became aware of how much research is buried or based on fraudulent data. Prominent, internationally respected physicians are having lives threatened and careers ruined for speaking out about successful protocols that don't involve new products. FDA is refusing to release the Pfizer clinical trial data for 75 YEARS. Doctors I know have requested it through FOIA and it was refused. This is extremely wrong and disturbing. If science can't be questioned or replicated, it's not valid.
Load More Replies...Totally agree. The propensity to adapt and change is key to intelligence, as it's a process of continued learning.
The less intelligent will accuse you of flip-flopping instead of recognizing it as processing new information.
Watch Mark Cuban assess something. He's like that. I, myself, do that too.
Too bad Biden didn't have this "ability to change [his] mind when presented with new information" regarding the situation in Afghanistan. It was more important to him to stick to a campaign promise. Political favor over millions of lives, abandoning our innovative costly military tech, and all the prior 20 years of resources and lives just flippantly cast aside. Now millions of children are painfully starving to death. I read in the news our military generals' concerns and accurate predictions BEFORE Biden withdrew all the troops so the Taliban could move back into power. I doubt our president also doesn't get the news, or that I receive news more quickly and accurately than the Commander and Chief of all the US military. This is a tragic lack of intelligence and in its place a fragile ego. The consequence is millions of innocent lives. Note: Put down your pitchfork, I vote Democrat sometimes. Polarized political party allegiance over intelligence is the problem.
One subtle trait that these people share is that they’re observant. “In a world where people talk to prove who they are, highly intelligent people are the opposite,” Jackson mentioned. Well, maybe you’re not exactly Sherlock Holmes, but noticing the little details and taking everything in can still suggest brilliance. Sharp people often refrain from loudly sharing their opinions and accomplishments. Instead, they prefer to remain quiet and observe their surroundings.
Also, understanding you can’t know it all is another low-key sign intelligent people have. “If they can’t do something, they don’t try and act as if they can,” the licensed clinical psychologist explained. “Instead, they know their limits and can admit it. This allows them to be open to learning more from others and/or situations.”
They quite frequently explain things or answer questions with “it depends”. Intelligent people tend to have a hard time explaining something they know a lot about because it’s hard to boil any particular topic or object down to one portion of it or another rather than the way in which the whole interacts. When they do provide a straightforward answer that only singles out one component as the explanation, it will be prefaced with a pretty non-committal phrase like “I could be wrong, but…” or “generally,”. This is less reliable than an “it depends” though.
Thank you. I appreciate this. It is very frustrating when you're asked a question (about something you know something about...) and you pause so you don't stutter, then start with "Well, it depends..." and suddenly the other person cuts you off with some sort of dismissive remark like "Oh, I see that this is a sore spot, never mind." or... "Well, that was a very tense way to start things, it's okay to say you don't know" ... or "Don't answer if you feel uncomfortable" - then you start wondering "Did you really want me to answer or... were you trying to set me up to look inferior...?"
I suggest you just leave off the "it depends on whether...." clause and just start with the specific situation you feel like explaining in the moment: The average airspeed velocity of an unladen European Swallow is roughly 11 meters per second, or 24 miles an hour. Oh, you didn't mean the African swallow, did you?"
Load More Replies...When you’re intelligent, a majority of the time you see gray instead of black and white, because your brain immediately comes up with several ways to get to the same conclusion, or several ways one conclusion can branch out into. It’s also when the intelligent person realizes that the more they know, the less they know. More answers always beget more questions.
I want to precisely answer the question and in a way that the person understands without using a lot of professional lingo or 4-syllable words that might make them feel inadequate or dumb. That causes me to hesitate while l think it through.
Why, Richard Feynman. https://youtu.be/36GT2zI8lVA I go back to listening to this every now and then like I do with Pink Floyd
Almost all situations have a lot of causes and variables, so simple explanations almost always leave things out.
I heard (well, read, actually: Terry Pratchett) this one once as "lies for children". At a young age you get an explanation you can understand only to have it replaced with a more complicated but more accurate one when your level of comprehension rises. In the end you realize the first explanation really was more wrong than right, but you needed it to understand the next level.
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They are aware of their limitations and just how much they still don't know. As a consequence they also tend to underestimate themselves.
The more you learn the more painfully evident it is how little we know. So many PhD students have a heart attack and or imposter syndrome when they realize this.
Don't need to be a PhD student to feel this way.
Load More Replies...I like that comment from Samantha. I remember exactly where I was and the situation which lead me to that realization. I was in the middle of reading an astrophysics book and had this sinking feeling of, "This whole time all this information has been in here... imagine how much more information is out there I still don't know!" Then I went down a rabbit hole on it. All the information in all the other languages on countless other topics!
I am someone that definitely underestimates themselves, or so I am told. I didn't think I would pass an enrolment exam for TAFE (aka college) but I did it, twice. So I proved myself wrong.
I had to google what TAFE is (I'm from Hungary). Congrats! (Also see #8 :D )
Load More Replies...I know a lot about some things and a little about a bunch of things. I am also quite aware of the limits of my knowledge. And there are a lot of limits. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
This! I honestly think my biggest strength is being aware of how much I don't know. It's okay to be wrong/ignorant if you just admit you are. Nobody knows everything, or anything close to it.
The flip side of being aware of limitations is also recognizing strenghts, being confident in what we do know.
In some cases, the knowledge that I don't know most things makes me hesitant to aspire to something big, for fear of being seen as fake or arrogant, especially by people who know much more than I do.
I tend to underestimate myself too, but if I happen to prove myself wrong, I feel the pressure that I have to keep it up with those unexpectedly high results. And that pretty much sums up my university grades... At least, it was fun.
When we prove ourselves wrong, the feeling is amazing
Load More Replies...I once read about som english scientist who tried to find out how peoples evaluation of their intelligence fitted the results of their IQ tests. They found that very high results in IQ tests came from people, who considered their intelligence as average, but middling results came from people who thought their inteligence levels as far above average.
They have a look. Their eyes look AT things/people, not THROUGH things/people. And that doesn’t necessarily mean direct eye contact (because a lot of people with ASD for example struggle with eye contact), but you can tell they are constantly observing, consciously looking at the world, not just witnessing it passively.
Not necessarily an indication of intelligence, because at any given moment, an intelligent person may be thinking of something more interesting than the dull reality around them.
I think the post means that they don’t have ‘dead’, unseeing eyes.
Load More Replies...This is one I disagree with. Much like I can actively listen to music and describe the instruments and repeat the lyrics; While at other times, I tune out the music playing in the grocery store. Frankly, it depends on what matters to me in the moment. Maybe what is in my mind is more urgent than what is before my eyes. Ten seconds later what is before my eyes may be more important. We take in our world through many senses simultaneously. I'd argue, a self awareness and keen perception is a better description of what is happening rather than a "look" haha.
Your brain has a single language processor it uses for everything. If you're using it for thought, you'll miss the music and vice versa.
Load More Replies...Doesn't always apply. Many of us "deep thinkers" are introspective, and only look at external things when they are exceptionally interesting.
Looks can be deceiving. Think of all the idiot actors who think they are smart.
meh. sometimes. I'm not going to look you in the eye for a few reasons. One of those is that I have never been okay with it.
I rarely look people in the eye, but anyone who's seen my real smile has gushed about how brilliant and lively my eyes are.
Load More Replies...Next, they tend to go with the flow and don’t spend a lot of time worrying about things they can’t control. “Rather than being rigid about what must happen, they remain mentally flexible, open-minded and can easily adjust to life, no matter what gets thrown their way,” Jackson noted.
Andi Simon, Ph.D., a corporate anthropologist and an author of Rethink: Smashing the Myths of Women in Business, added that quick-witted people don’t ask questions for the sake of asking. They do so with purpose.
“Someone must have said this often-quoted line: ’Knowledge is having the right answer. Intelligence is asking the right question,’” she said. “We forget that all of life is a conversation. Intelligent people recognize that others have information and insights that through a shared conversation will help both grow, expand their wisdom and enhance their intellect.”
I mean at this point, just believing the earth is a sphere is good enough for me.
Not always. I once expected nothing, and I was still disappointed
Load More Replies...A bit off topic, but I much prefer to state that as "KNOWING the Earth is a spher(oid)". Having observed things like the horizon, having seen locations in nighttime while I'm in bright daylight, having seen numerous images and video that reveals the curvature of the Earth (including pictures from the moon), and all kinds of other evidence, I don't need to believe; I'm comfortably certain that I know.
I was literally about to comment 'You mean people that KNOW the earth is a sphere!', when I saw your comment. Great minds eh?.
Load More Replies...Number 11 on this list ... so far, most of the answers have been very brief, a pleasure to read. This one cracked me up!
I created a new slogan. " don't be blinded by the bling bling" use it spread it. Enlighten the world with it.
Curiosity & intelligence are a couple. Intelligent people are never satisfied with just the one answer. "Well, what comes next? " or "Well, why did that occur? "
They don’t immediately attack you for having an unpopular view that’s different.
Intelligence is being able to entertain an idea while not being convinced by it.
I think it depends on the view. There is a community of trolls that thinks saying blatantly racist or sexist things ( or denying the existence of racism or sexism) is just having another opinion and seem to have developed a persecution complex when called on these behaviors
It's hard for me also. Especially if I feel like they are trying to personally attack me with their bs comments on my life or thinking. I don't attack people but will defend my point of view with facts. I Especially hate seeing someone else being attacked by someone who is clearly not educated enough to know their behavior and comments are not appropriate or needed.
Load More Replies...It's also a game. I can listen to someone talk about their opposing view and while they're talking about it I can see where they are going to conclude and why I don't have to bother arguing against it.
Sorry, but some unpopular views should be attacked for the benefit of others. Antivaxxers, for example, have proven extremely unbeneficial to the conversation. Attack!
Depends on whether you're talking about a view, or facts. For instance, I'm prepared to debate on whether it was worth the money to go to the moon, what the reasons were for going, etc., but not whether it happened. That's a fact.
Unless your "view" is that vaccines make you gay and/or autistic
Many factors contribute to viewpoints and reactions, with intelligence being one.
i.e. Daryl Davis. We need more people like him in the world.
They listen first and then speak or ask questions after understanding.
The bright/intelligent people I know have an unusual ability to digest a situation and then posit a question or frame a position that cuts through the noise and advances everyone’s thought process.
I'm not sure about this one. Some of the smartest people I know will talk your ear off. I don't think smarts is necessarily about being quiet. Some people just have fast brains.
I do know a person like this, she just dislikes silence and will keep the conversation going if no one else will. She has three degrees from the most prestigious universities on the continent, she speaks eight languages, she's had a brilliant career, and she can certainly listen... she just likes to talk and dislikes silence.
Load More Replies...Nailed it with that one! Many times in a working conference meeting (say 15 executives) I'll ask a clarification question on a topic that isn't completely familiar to me, and we'll all discover that there isn't a fully common base understanding amongst these people, thus an attempt to move forward is going to flounder. I used to describe this as some of the group was thinking 'red',, while others are thinking 'pink'. The two are similar and related, but not the same thing. I gained a reputation for being insightful and being able to cut to the base issue, when in fact I was just trying to better understand a new concept.
Hmm. I have two very intelligent adult children. One listens to everything said in a conversation and then sums up everything in a succinct sentence which ends the conversation. The other jumps in with a lot of valid points because their thought processes are very quick.
I love how Jesus answered a lot of questions with questions. He not only heard the question, he understood the motivation for the question and could engage someone to draw conclusions.
Not going to lie, I'm such a bad listener. Or maybe I shouldn't say that... I do listen. It's just that I have a horrible habit of interrupting people. It's not intentional; I feel like I just already know how the sentence is going to end and I want to respond before I forget, lol. But it comes off so rudely and I wish I could train myself to stop. It's the worst with my family.... I cut my mom off constantly. She does it to me, too, so I blame her for passing it on to me, lol.
So there are many ways to look at intelligence, but it’s clear that it goes beyond book smarts. Sharp people strive for lifelong curiosity and a never-ending thirst for knowledge. And if there’s one thing we can be sure of—their brain cells never seem to stop working.
A very smart person once told me “if you walk away from any new challenge and didn’t learn anything, you weren’t paying attention”. Best advice I’ve ever heard.
But if I walk away with the wrong type of new intellect? For example if I get in trouble and walk away with intelligence to get better at causing trouble.
Learn the rules like a pro so you can break them later like an artist.
Load More Replies...Intelligent people learn something from eveything, including their failures.
This is why I've learned never to regret anything. There's always a lesson to learn. Might be costly, not just financially too. I see regret as someone who didn't learn from the experience
Sometimes what you learn is that just because something is new doesn't mean it's worth your time and effort... and to stay away from similar "challenges".
True but that is the best lesson of all. Most people will hurt you at some point, on purpose or not. You need to filter through those people and get to those who are worth the risk. You may find that the mistake you're making is just opening up to people too soon, maybe if you leave it few more months you would be able to spot some red flags and cut that person out of your life. Trusting people is not the mistake, it's who and how soon. Analyse your past relationships, look for a pattern and think how things would have gone if you eliminated/ adjusted that one thing. Good luck.
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Quick wit and humor
Used sparingly or cleverly. No one likes someone who can't read a situation and just cracks funnies for the sake of making a noise. You just become annoying.
Quick witted people I consider truly intelligent, like some comedians can come up with funny comeback to pretty much anything on the spot, and not some rehearsed stuff but truly improvised.
Well it depends on your humor. I find some stand up comics not very funny at all. But I do not think watch a video of someone slips and falls on ice and almost hit their head as funny either.
Load More Replies...I'm drawn to this like a magnet. My late husband was hilarious and bright. I miss us joking around and mentally sparring. If you ever meet someone who it feels like you gracefully dance with in your jovial conversations, savor that treasure. I have some wonderfully quick witted friends, but I really miss laughing every day with my Honey. 💔 We would crack each other up and never got tired of it. 15 months after he passed away I met some new people at a Friendsgiving that made me laugh. When I left I cried though because I'd forgotten what my own laugh sounded like. I need to reconnect with those people.
They listen instead of talk. A former CIA agent was asked this question and his answer was this because he said the quietest person in the room is listening to everything that’s being said which makes them the smartest and most dangerous.
Not necessarily an indication of intelligence. In this case, it could be an indication of a person who doesn't dare talk about himself.
Also it sometimes means that they just don’t really care enough to talk
Load More Replies...I really think it depends. Someone in an interrogation is going to act a lot different than when they're reading a book, or when they're out with friends. He's also only talking about one kind of intelligence, specifically the 'manipulative' kind. Not a great example of what all intelligence can be.
I know many dumb as rock people who barely talk because they can barely form a coherent thought. As well as many dumb people who loudly fill every second with the stupidity that passes for their thoughts, and seemingly form a wall against any information coming from anyone else. Conversely, I know smart people who don't talk much because they find most conversation pointless or trivial, or because they have uncertainty due to their intelligent understanding of the limitations of understanding...and smart people who talk a great deal because they have trouble containing their constant ideas and curiosity. So I think, overall, talkativeness is a very poor indicator of anything related to intelligence.
It is better to be silent and be thought a fool than to speak up and remove all doubt. Being intelligent is taking in information before making a contribution. Are the Chinese blocks being discussed a child's toy or the 2 factions trying to become the next leaders of the Communist party?
As someone with ASD I prefer to keep quiet. I have no filter and my thoughts tend to be unpleasant for many.
Or there's so much mind chatter going on to say much or lost in a day dream...lol
I knew a kid who would listen to a complex, heated conversation for maybe 5-10 minutes, and then say the one thing that needed to be said to put it all in the right context for everyone. That's deep. I call it wisdom, though, distinct from intelligence.
I’m an industrial technician troubleshooter supervisor, And sometimes I have to work with the electrical engineers. The head engineer is highly intelligent, and the way and the order that he asks questions so he can come to an understanding of the Issue forces me to think in a process that hurts my brain. I don’t know how they can handle it Day In and Day out.
This should be higher. A lot of the answers here come off like “I like it when smart people make it clear that they don’t think they’re better than me”, which isn’t the same thing as intelligence.
With guest appearances from: "they can't write legibly", "they ask a lot of questions", "they don't say anything", "they look at things", "they suck at explaining things", and "they're good at explaining things"
Load More Replies...I like this one, this is what a lot of folk DON'T do in the job I'm currently in. In academia, academics (particularly those who've hit the highest ranks / been there the longest) are the biggest assholes to deal with purely because they think that their expertise in a fairly narrow subject is some magic ticket to expertise in everything. It isn't. If a 30 year IT veteran with no degree tells you something is broken, and you argue that it isn't, I'm gonna listen to them not you
Engineers are linnear thinkers, brilliant in their own way, but also (often) deficient in areas such as communication or human interaction. Those who are equally left- and right-brain developed are truly exceptional individuals.
Sometimes we out think or over think ourselves which makes our heads hurt, too.
It's not uncommon for Electrical Engineers to be Hyperfocused. They are very intelligent about the inanimate subject at hand but they often have trouble understanding and emotionally connecting with the people around them.
That's very interesting and informative oostende. Keep posting such things.
And logical people don't know how you can live in a fog, especially in that job.
They read. A lot. I’m sorry, but I’ve never met a truly intelligent person who wasn’t an avid reader.
Not just read but often read way outside their comfort zones or fields of expertise.
as terry pratchett said 'the best writers do not read in their genre. they read everything else.'
Load More Replies...No. Why do people think reading = intelligence? And what is reading? Every single thing you see on the computer is reading.
Something that makes me sad... I have a dozen floor-to-ceiling bookshelves, all full. Of all the people who have walked into my house, only one has responded to the sight with a look of absolute delight. All the others looked both scared and mildly disgusted. I really wish they knew what they were missing.
Me too. When my sister visits she often asks if she can borrow a book 'from my library' lol
Load More Replies...I love reading! My favorite book is Rebel Ideas by Matthew Syed (sorry if I misspelled that) sadly I'm dyslexic and have adhd and I can't read that well :(
Same bruv and furthermore I got a twin brother who's got the same disorders as me. We still, in our 20s, fight whenever he comes over to my house and vise versa. But you know it's fun, when I don't fight with him in a few months I feel a weird sensation like I'm missing something, maybe it's because I'm a little messed up and sadistic or it's my brothers and my brotherly bond.
Load More Replies...YES! THIS. I now make it a point I don't attempt to date a man unless I know he's an avid reader, made that mistake too many times before.
One of the most common is they stumble over words and/or have bad handwriting. Because their mouth and hand have trouble keeping up.
Yup. There it is! You spelled "f****n'" instead of "f****n'"
Load More Replies...I wish there was a way to instantly convert my thoughts into pictures or concepts that other people can grasp immediately. Speech is oftent not fast enough, and I may get bored with a concept while still describing it. Although I thought it's called ADHD, not intelligence :D
ADHD is a circuit wiring problem in the brain. What's being described is your brain works too fast for the speech or graphic portion of your brain to keep up. Similar, but vastly different in processing and outcomes. .
Load More Replies...This is nonsense. There is no such thing as your hand / mouth not keeping up. Everyone thinks quicker than they write or speak. You stumble because you're not organising your thoughts quickly enough or thinking far enough ahead. Those are things intelligent people do.
Some intelligent people, not all. The described phenomenon is actually somewhat common to highly intelligent people. .
Load More Replies...Not true bc depends on their strengths. I know some ppl whose strengths is more linguistic and others more natural science. The latter has issues, the first group doesn't really. Then handwriting: people who write truly legible usually went through a phase of practice so when they jot sth down (bc thinking fast...)it's still better legible than ppl with bad handwriting. And as we've seen in the other posts, it's not always thinking fast that makes intelligence but also thinking thoroughly.
I often stumble over my words but I think it's more my ADD which can confuse and distract what I was talking about AS I am actually talking about it. So I don't think it's always the case of being smart. My brain goes faster than it sends the message to my mouth. It lags a lot and will go from one subject to a another within seconds and I forget was I am talking about coz my brain is thinking qbout something completely different. This is not something that happens occasionally. This happens constantly, every day, countless times throughout. At least when it comes to typing my brain is going slower because I have to say the words as I type and less likely for my brain to runaway from me. I hope I make sense.
I wouldn't list that as a sign of intelligence, just bad brain/mouth/hand coordination.
I stumble because my MS makes me forget words. I'm a lefty, which makes it difficult to write neatly. I have arthritis in my hands which can make writing difficult. I CAN write legibly if I take time and work at it.
They don't partake in debates with loud ignorant people.
Yep. As you walk away, tell them you’ll be happy to discuss it when they can do so calmly and rationally.
My favorite line is, "You win. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed person."
A M E N. You can't even win with those people, they don't listen! Why even bother. 🤷🏻♀️
Arguing with the following are pointless: angry, arrogant, stupid, drunk, walls.
Never argue with a name caller. They will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.
They can explain difficult matter in an easy way
Some people say "If you can explain the science to a fifth grader, then you're truly master of your subject". I don't know if that's true, but it is an interesting challenge, and I'm sitting here thinking about how to explain blood PH to grade schoolers...
Your body uses your blood to move both good things and bad things through you so the cells can be healthy. One of the ways it does this is by using acid to change things into other things the blood can move around. Your stomach also uses acid to change your food into something you can use. After the cells change the good things from your stomach into energy, they produce the gas CO2 as part of it. The body changes this gas into an acid so it will dissolve into your blood instead of being bubbles. Once it gets to the lungs, it can turn back into bubbles and you breath out the bad gas. The bubbles in your soda is because it has too much CO2 and its turning back into the gas. pH measures how much that acid is in a liquid like blood. If your blood pH is too high it can make you sick because you have too much CO2 running around and your lungs aren't getting rid of it fast enough. Its like shaking the soda. If the blood pH is too low. that can mean your body isn't changing the good things into energy. A scientist can use a blood pH test to see how your body is doing.
Load More Replies...If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough - Albert Einstein
A couple of these actually go hand in hand. Thinking about words very carefully before speaking is a situation intelligent people end up in. It develops from being tired of explaining things over and over to the point that it becomes explaining everything as if it is to a child.
This is an important specialized skill, but it has more to do with empathy than intelligence, IMO
Not necessarily. "Smart" doesn't always = "good at translating complexities or industry jargon into plain language."
Hmm, I don't know. I had a teacher in college that was clearly very intelligent and knew a lot of things and understood very complex concepts, but he was a terrible teacher. You could see the frustration trying to find the proper examples or trying to put into words a lot of abstract concepts, even to explain a formula he would almost sound like he was talking another language. Most of the times we had to end up finding in a book whatever he tried to explain in class in order to pass our exams.
They ask GOOD questions. Questions that indicate that while they don’t know the answer they have a damn good idea how to start finding it. They will ask fewer but better questions, confirm the answer by restating it first morning clarity, and often seek extra information or ask you too before making a decision.
*Intelligent people no matter intro- or extroverted will usually ask follow up questions yes. But the asking questions in general... introverts prefer not to if they see the chance that they can find the solution otherwise. Ofc they will ask if not found...i just wanted to disagree that the quiet ones are not necessarily less intelligent than the others.
I agree. I am fairly introverted, and have a hard time asking questions. I usually only resort to it if I REALLY don't understand something, or the information is not available any other way.
Load More Replies...Would like to add smart people not being so easily misdirected like dumb people. How many conversations have you been part of where some deceptive twit tries to throw the conversation away because they are being deceptive and don't want a discussion of it -- and the smart person keeps pulling the conversation back to the point? Especially when there is a reason why a problem needs to be addressed.
Assuming you know a lot about the way other people think, especially those who you see as totally different than yourself, based on your personal opinions, and the echo chambers you engage with, rather than reality, is arrogant... especially if you avoid them based on these assumptions. Anyone can call themselves an introvert, extrovert, or anything else, that doesn't mean assumptions based on what people call themselves, are fact.
Last line, What is this sentence's meaning? "Confirm the answer by restating it FIRST MORNING CLARITY". Was it supposed to be, first FOR clarity? It is an awkward sentence.
Asking questions doesn't only mean asking other people. You could be asking yourself getting a game plan of how to start finding the info
Mate at work is able to explain things perfectly. He does away with all the complicated jargon and explains things as if you're a simpleton without making you feel like one. Asked him to have a look at my digital calipers a while back and, while he couldn't fix it, he explained in detail what was wrong with it, how to fix it, and how the mechanism in question makes the calipers work. He's an invaluable friend and a much better mentor.
This doesn't always work -- many times dumb people don't want the answer unless it's in three small words or less, and is completely in line with their pre-decided view of what the problem and answer "should" be, and get very angry if you don't give them that as the answer no matter how senseless or destructive that viewpoint is. There are, in fact, very, very few people I know who would stand for any reasonable discussion of how calipers work and how to fix them.
Paul, who hurt you? Really. Let's get this out, boo. 🍵 ☕
Load More Replies...Translation: the guy doesn't use big words specifically to make himself sound smarter than he is.
Waiting a few seconds to ponder a question before answering instead of blurting out the first thing that comes to mind.
I’ve heard that extroverts often think out loud because that’s just how they organise their thoughts. It’s got nothing to do with intelligence.
I don't think that thinking before speaking makes you an introvert
Load More Replies...I’m an introvert (like, I’m scared of crowds kind of introvert but not just because I’m an awkward middle schooler with a stutter who is definitely not social, because I don’t know what I’ll be able to say. Thanks older sister younger brother! It’s just middle kids that are usually not very social) but I still do that.
I'm considered intelligent, but I also am impulsive. So I tend to just blurt. Or word poop. When I do let my brain catch up with my mouth, I say the right thing.
I do this Just because I Made myself look dumb And silly i front of everyone for asking
This also makes people think what you have to say is generally more profound or valuable, given the assumption that you are putting greater thought into your answer. I always pause before I respond to people, even if I've been waiting to speak for some time.
I think this is mentioned in How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Load More Replies...I do that while I'm getting my little ducks in a row before speaking. I've been told it can make me look shifty, as if I'm concocting a lie instead of coming straight out with the truth.
Two ways: - When it comes to a subject matter they know they can deconstruct in a way to explain it and use analogies to help it make sense to others. - With subject matter they don’t understand they will ask questions for their own comprehension and ask you for examples/analogies so they can frame the concept in their mind.
I had a guy working for me we called him "Mexican Robert" (Other Roberts included White Robert and me, Boss Robert). Occasionally the new guy would ask me if Mexican Robert spoke English. My answer: Yes! He can use the English language to paint a vivid picture in your mind in a way that no English professor ever could. Also, Mexican Robert didn't know any Spanish, it was just a nick name to differentiate the three of us.
There were three Becky's in our crowd in high school. Little Becky, regular Becky, and me, Big Becky.
Load More Replies...i use a twister mat to explain gender/sexuality identities for a friend who doesnt understand- would that count?
I have found using analogies is an excellent way to explain something.
However, deconstructing problems and explains something’s also is a specialty that some very smart people don’t have. As a technical writer, I couldn’t design an integrated circuit, but I could teach engineers how to use the software they needed to do their job. I understood circuitry and the software, but did not have the ability to create a device.
& then ignorant people say "just because u say a lot doesnt mean youre right" when that was 100% NOT what was happening.
Curiosity.
But satisfaction brought it back. That's the full verse
Load More Replies...If you have a curious little one please don't dismiss them. My daughter constantly asks off the wall questions and we seek the answers. She wants to learn. They all do. Work with them please.
I am 68 years wise-curiosity forever. Ooh! And now I have this totally dope thing=the internet! to play around with! Yay!
when they drop an interesting "factoid" and you respond with "cool, i wonder if _______", they have an answer for it, or at least a couple of different ideas, because they actually looked into it instead of just regurgitating it. the smart people i know are not comfortable having "shallow knowledge" about anything. if they do, then they don't bring it up confidently. if they bring it up at all, it's usually to ask questions from someone who knows more about it.
I do this more than I would like to. I've been doing it all my life. I take a subject, learn more about it than necessary and then for the most part I don't forget it.
I hate when people pretend to know it all in the tech field. I tell my tech assistants if you are ever with anyone that acts as if they know it all RUN! Because as far as I'm concerned they're the dumbest tech around. One of those If you can't dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with b******t. Not me..
I do this, but I'm usually making up the answer as I go along, so maybe it doesn't count.
My youngest son is like this. IQ of 189. If you are talking to him on the phone, he's checking out all the information on the web while we talk. We were discussing something about the Earth's orbit a while back, and how it related to the seasonal changes, and he was checking out all the facts. I have to laugh, he's one of the smartest people I know, but he's also got terrible social skills.
Only, some of us don't dive in that deep. I blame it on being a Gemini, but I tend to know a little bit about a LOT of stuff. If I want more info I can certainly find it and spend time on subjects that fascinate me, but not all the time.
They listen to every word you say and ask a follow-up question that you never even thought of, but ends up completely changing your way of thinking.
But only if you’re open to taking follow up questions. There are far too many people who have a strict “my way or the highway” or “I’m only going to say this once” kind of attitude that doesn’t welcome questions from anybody. They’re difficult as hell to break through and bring to understand that everyone filters information differently, and some may need to ask clarifying questions to be sure they truly understand you.
One of my favorite Shakespearean lines is “brevity is the soul of wit” I think a measure of intelligence is to take in complex information and convey it in simple terms for others to understand. Conversely, I don’t think much of people who do the opposite to make themselves appear smarter than they are.
Social intelligence is only one kind of intelligence. Carl Sagan is a good example. He wasn't the smartest astronomer in the world, but he was the best astronomer who could communicate complex ideas clearly in a way that people could understand. And now everybody's heard of him, but who's ever heard of, say, Marc Aaronson? I also don't think everybody who 'over explains' is trying to sound smart, I think a lot of people are just used to feeling misunderstood or unheard. I have this problem. It comes from childhood trauma. Believe me, I'm not trying to 'look smart', it has more to do with anxiety than anything.
I'm not trying to look smart. I'm trying to describe all the details because I'm autistic and every detail feels equally important and also if I explain things briefly, there's a good chance that I'll offend someone or give the wrong idea because the short answer is only part of the truth. For example: circling "disagree" as the answer to "my friends ask me for help because I'm good at solving problems" on a multiple choice assessment when the real answer is a) "I don't have friends," b) "my friends don't ask me for help because even though I'm good at problem solving, they know someone better for the job," or c) "actually my friends ask me for help because I'm a doormat"
Load More Replies...Certainly economy of words is a powerful and admirable trait. I think people may be taking offense at the last line because it indicates the author judges people who speak at length to be over-articulating out of self-indulgence.
If I'd had more time, this would have been a shorter letter. Mark Twain. Brevity takes work, shill, or both.
Here's an awful lot of repetition here. It's also interesting that a lot of these examples have more to do with the ability to teach than just intelligence. But these are definitely good qualities. Interesting read
No, sometimes things are complicated. It really depends on what needs to be communicated.
Allow me to simplify. This person is saying that smart people can take a complicated thing and explain it in simple terms that any non-expert could understand.
Load More Replies...As a translator who has to turn experts’ Japanese into English that is suitable for the target audience, sometimes they’re just not good at writing/speaking. The person who wrote the ATM manual that made me cry didn’t do it so they could feel smart; they’re just super smart in their area of expertise and not good in mine.
Depends on the living arrangements. It's hard to know from the outside. Intelligence is the ability to learn, retain, recall, apply, and abstract. Knowledge and Wisdom are not good indicators of actual intelligence. Intelligent individuals can be anything. They could be apathetic, or impassioned. They could speak like a thesaurus, or fumble simple sentences. They could seek tertiary education, or lack both a High School Degree, and a GED. Living situations dictate an individuals intellectual display more than personality quirks, so it'll be complicated.
Not sure about living situations being the true indicator of intelligence. MENSA members come from all walks of life, all education levels, and all different SES. So a genius may be living as a powerless pauper while an idiot is born into wealth and power. Luck and connections have a lot to do with it.
This exemplifies a common misunderstanding. "Intelligence is knowing that you don't know anything." This isn't correct. Intelligence is understanding that no matter how much you learn you will never know everything. The key word be understanding. You can know the sky is blue or the grass is green because you were tild that. But, understanding why is the true knowledge. Intelligent people live to understand why.
Yes. This is why Jeopardy contestants often don’t have jobs requiring a high level of intelligence. They retain facts that they have heard , or read and although they are usually very intelligent they don’t have to be to know a lot of facts. The long term winners though have a broad range of knowledge.
This was the worst article I have ever read. Impossible to follow. Has some good points but could you possibly make it more confusing. And I have a PhD. Disaster
In my experience, it's the people that are always open to a constructive argument (or conversation, depending on their knowledge on the topic), regardless of the topic. One big condition: this only counts when they're able to admit they don't know everything on the topic, or ask people who know more about it to inform them.
My dad taught me it's okay not to know something. But always try to find an answer.
Load More Replies...Bullies who shout the other person down seem to think they won the argument, and are therefore the intelligent ones. They didn’t win, and they’re far from being intelligent. The other person, who kept their cool, is the winner. The bully just won the title of loud a*****e.
I've literally blown the minds of simple with my creativity and when they say 'that must have been a long job', I tell them 'no, it didn't take much of an effort'. I don't really finish drawing things until I am outside the page.
Most of these are signs of WISDOM, not intelligence. Both valuable, but very, very different.
"I don't know" by itself means you also don't care. "I don't know but I will find out" is the better option
They are always trying to think a few steps ahead, they seem to do this without thinking about it (second nature), they think about how an action or series of actions might impact what they are doing and/ or how those actions can potentially get them towards their next goal.
Critical thinking. Something a load of adults seem to lack these days.
Or, they have to stop and think about every stage of washing the dishes, because they were thinking intently about something else and running on automatic.
Those who can absorb new information and build it into their construct as opposed to denying its existence
Something I read in a scifi story once (paraphrased): "You can always fit something new into an open mind. There's nothing you can add to a closed one."
They can have a civil discussion/debate about sensitive topics. Usually this is displayed when you see talking about politics I can see two people discussing something, completely agree with one and disagree with the other but the calmer more respectful one always comes off as more intelligent and has more respect from me
When I see a bumper sticker that says "F*** Biden", I know the person's political views *and* I know that they can't coherently explain them. Also, they don't care about other people's sensibilities.
They’re usually just parroting what someone who confirms their own biases, like drumpf or what’s his name on Fox News, said. Totally without fully comprehending it, so they couldn’t even word it differently.
Load More Replies...this is more of a social intelligence than I would say "true" intelligence. There are many famous feuds between great minds who traded heated exchanges sometimes for years with no regard for civility.
The student in lecture whose questions always seem to clarify another student's question, allow the teacher to expand on something significant, or propels a floundering lecture back on track. Same thing for staff meetings, all while never sounding patronizing or drawing attention to themselves.
Or challenges the lecturer’s own understanding. Of course, most don’t like that, it there are some good instructors out there who like the challenge and are willing to see your idea through. Because they know it means they’ve inspired you to independent thought, which is how we invent, understand, and advance, and why they decided to teach in the first place.
Don't be afraid of asking questions just to draw out information you think others may need to understand, even if you already know the answer.
get funny instead getting angry
They are often in pursuit of knowledge like, learning a new language, are very inquisitive, learning a new skill or trying out new things.
These things will also help you stay intelligent longer. Cognitive decline as a result of aging can be prevented or delayed if you keep exercising your brain. Obviously that won't prevent conditions like alzheimer's or dementia.
Responding to someone who doesn't agree with them by asking genuine questions , getting their p.o.v. to be shared to gather whatever wisdom they may have inadvertently getting said person to question their own belief/ opinion without the conversation never being anything resembling an argument. Listening doesn't necessarily mean someone is smart but one becomes wise by saying as little as possible in a conversation over a long stretch of time
If you talk, you simply repeat what you already know. It's when you listen where you will learn
It’s been said before but listening to people who they disagree with keenly and not being arrogant or rude in their response
Dr Ashley Bloomfield’s choice to respond to “What do you make of suggestions by [Trump] that people should be injecting themselves with bleach to kill COVID-19?” by turning to Jacinda and saying “I…don’t think I need to comment on that, Prime Minister” doesn’t make him less smart.
When you ask them three questions in a single sentence and they answer them in sequence. You are dealing with one seriously intelligent person right there
I would love to be able to speak with these people. I've been berated for asking more than one question *at all* per 'thing'. Was playing a game, asked someone 3 questions, each one related to the same thing (so it wasn't jumping to non-sequitur weird spots)... and they got REALLY IRRITATED with me and only answered one question. .... then proceeded to peeve off at me later in the game because I took an action that worked against them... and they said "Why didn't you ask?" and I said "I DID ASK." it was one of the questions that was 'too much' for them to answer... didn't matter, I still got verbally smacked for it.
Charles De Gaulle listened to a ten minute rant, and answered all nine points in order
Phonetically (but incorrectly) pronouncing high brow words. It means they learned them from reading and not from being around other smart people
That makes me feel slightly better about how I pronounced "hors d'oeuvres" as "whores deeoovers" (which was weirder if you think maybe "oeuvres" refers to eggs) and then decided maybe it was "horse doovers" before finding out that was how "orderves" was spelled all along.
I've always mispronounced words because I learned to read before I learned how to pronounce the word.
I experienced this. I once said the letters of GIF as I was unsure of exact pronunciation to my colleague. They shared with their friends who joked about having me thrown in prison (in a game). Gave me a good laugh.
Yes, it means theylearned the words from reading, but that isn't necessasily a sign of intelligence.
Being able to explain something to someone in a way that's suited to that person's level of understanding. Effective communication is highly underrated.
I've had problems with this in the past. I'm getting better at communicating. Having a kid and being forced to consider their level of understanding whenever I explained anything helped me a lot. I'm not saying I'm more intelligent than most people - just that I had to learn how to communicate effectively with people.
I'd say kids are a good measure. It's surprising how often people seem to forget that children lack the life experience they have to understand topics they deem simple, and as a result seemingly trivial matters can to a child be overwhelming and frustrating. Learning how to explain those topics in a manner a child could understand is a good development of empathetic and emotional intelligence.
Load More Replies...They wear the required PPE for the job their doing. Too many dumbasses think that earplugs and goggles make you look like a pussy or something
Well dumb people sure seem to have a hard time putting together why they should ever do anything for safety sake, and will argue and fight about it every step of the way. It certainly seems to have a relationship to intelligence in many situations. It's like what Will Rogers used to say: There are those who know just by looking, those who have to see others before they understand, and then there are some who just have to pee on the electric fence to understand why it's a bad idea.
Load More Replies...I had a co-worker at a certain job who declared himself better than me because of the safety vest I was wearing. His words were "They make the new guys wear vests, to identify them."
Humor, it's and indication of out of the box thinking.
No, that's bad form. Telling someone who says "that": Yeah, but not to you, is humour
Load More Replies...In a work situation: someone who says little but when they do speak they do so clearly, concisely, decisively and with so much thoughtful meaning that often others need a few minutes to catch up to what they just said. They're five steps ahead of the conversation in the room and cutting to the chase.
..and thus aren't heard, because people shake it of and will switch to their previous conversation.
Vocabulary. Not just using big words, but using them correctly. The problem with this is that it requires the listener to be smarter than the speaker. Fortunately, as others have said, the person who talks the most tends to be the person who knows the least. I'm a software developer. When I attend a conference, there is a roughly 50% chance that any given speaker will use the word "idempotent" within the first ten minutes of their talk. This is a big word, and it has a very specific meaning amongst the target audience (people with academic training in Computer Science.) If they use it incorrectly, and this has happened far too often, I get up and walk to whatever talk is happening next door, because this speaker is more interested in appearing to be smart than actually being smart.
Idempotent: an operation or method which will produce the same result regardless of the number of times it is called. I had never encountered this word before, glad I learnt something new.
I appreciate the clarification! I was about to look it up.
Load More Replies...To add to this, not being afraid of words you don't know. I have to constantly curb my vocabulary around some of my family because they really despise anyone educated and are ultra conservative (not that those are mutually exclusive, but it does seem to be the case with a lot of people). I feel like some people are really afraid of intelligence and it used to be that we aspired to be smarter; now if you don't understand something it's magic or a conspiracy. I'm not even that smart but I do know a lot of vocabulary just from my schooling and training and it, in a really weird way, offends them. They treat me like I'm being snobby. And I promise I'm not it's just hard to say something in 3 smaller words when 1 word works. I don't even talk to children the way I have to talk to them, sometimes. For instance, they thought I was being snotty because I said the word 'astute' once. This is not a 'snobby' word, imo.
the very definition of the word idempotent needs explaining because as simple as it is it's too specific.
They don't engage in petty arguments, they surround themselves with smarter people, they don't act like know-it-all's
Very few and simple words that say profound things. And often in the form of inquisitive questions. Lots of people who act smart use large or excessive words that either don’t say anything, are used incorrectly, or leave people more confused about something than before they spoke. Stephen Hawking was a perfect example of someone who could take insanely complex theoretical concepts and explain them so a child could understand.
Hawking had regular people read the stuff that he wrote for general audiences and give him feedback. He was smart enough to know that he needed help making complex ideas understandable to regular people.
Creativity. Abstract style thinking. The ability to have a meta-like approach to thinking about the world. Maverick. Bohemian. I love being around these people; it’s like being amongst magicians.
Oh man, this so accurately describes my son. Always a bit different, has a unique perspective on things. And funny in unexpected ways.
They're creative and original, and have vivid imaginations. Original turns of phrase. Original jokes and humor. A distinctive sense of style and aesthetics. Original doodles. A distinctive personal way of speaking and writing that's natural and understated, not pompous or put-on. Those people who get asked by someone amused, "Did you just make that up?" and they modestly nod at their shoes and change the subject.
Sarcasm.
There is a saying - sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. I am damn good at it. LOL
You just know that saying was created by someone who is very bad at sarcasm and likely low on wit too. :D
Load More Replies...I really don’t believe that sarcasm means a person is intelligent. Not at all.
Depends. Mockery isn't cool and it's not humour either but gentle tongue-in-cheek perspective is always welcome.
I love sarcasm and use it on a regular basis. I must be a genius lol.
Considering the effects of their words and actions before they speak/act.
When they don’t argue back, specially when provoked.
Never argue with an idiot. They will try to drag you down to their level, and then beat you with the experience
Load More Replies...Arguing with someone on the internet is like playing chess with a pigeon. The bird will cr*p all over the board and then strut around like it won.
So... so often it's mistaken by the other person as: "Well, obviously I stumped them so hard they couldn't argue back" - no, no it's because you've now said enough for me to be resigned to the fact that... no matter what I say... no matter what evidence I give... you will **insist** on disagreeing, even if it's something you agreed on earlier... just because you NEED to 'win'... arguing back is a waste of time and energy.
The ability to make up and keep a running joke over the course of an evening. Humor.
Silence and always being excited about learning new things.
They are good at calm debates without resorting to insults, shouting or profanity, in addition to this they know how to listen well and are able to accept that the person they are speaking to may know more information on the subject than they do and therefore alow their opinion to be open to change should new information and/or evidence be presented; equally they do not put others down for not knowing something. They also do not interrupt.
Not only that, but they enjoy a respectful debate. It's kind of fun to talk with other people who are passionate about a topic and are as open as you are to discussing it, especially if they are just as knowledgeable about it. Getting down and dirty in the conversation is a great feeling and it makes you love what you do more. Think about any movie you love or fandom or book... talking about it to someone else who loves it as much as you do is addictive! Even if you have different viewpoints it's some of the most thoughtful and fun conversation you ever have. There's nothing worse than someone who just wants to be right all the time.
they usually are open to learning something from you and they rarely get insecure / competitive about who knows what. They also many times make you laugh and are funny (not always)
That's just sensible. If you tell me something I didn't know, you haven't diminished me - you've given me something
Someone who can roast tf out of anyone on the spot. I’m talking like joke after joke in quick succession. It requires quick-wit, creativity, and multiple different types of intelligences like social, verbal, and emotional. If someone is cracking on someone and they can read a crowd, use their environment and incorporate it, then I’m willing to bet that that person has a high chance of being intelligent.
Or maybe they’re just good at being mean and insulting, rather than truly intelligent. Smart people know when to stop before going too far, plus they have the ability to roast without insulting and humiliating.
You don't know their political leanings
Compassion and attentiveness.
Hm... I don't think is one is accurate. Imo, there are many intelligent people who have less compassion and attentiveness. Not because they are not good people, but intelligent people have none or less empathy for those dramatic and unreasonable people who try to milk for compassion because they have more capability to see through those.
Rapid speaking that isn't just blabbling...i.e. saying complex things quickly. Also quickly responding in an in depth way to questions and comments. I've met really smart people who just seem to have a faster "clock speed" than most.
A yellow LED light is actually a red and green flashing alternately. Some people notice that in their peripheral vision, and some don't process fast enough to see it.
Behave like a depressed 19th century Russian writer
Would that be start your own religious commune, schools for peasants and psuedo religious philosophy writer, the participated in an illegal anti-Tsarist organization for which they almost got executed writer, or the not actually Russian but used folk- stories as the basis for fantastic and often terrifying surreal stories writer?
You can see them thinking.
humility, indicates awareness of one's limitations (willingness to learn may be included here)
Depending on when, how and why. For ex. a boss might think an employee should present more humility, because he thinks the later one is "stupid" and should only listen to him/her for being the leader, and the employee doe stand up for him/herself, maybe even showing the boss how something is properly done (by experience), thus not showing humility. I don't think "humilty" is a good description for intelligence. Just sayin'...
They never lose the flow of a conversation, you can tell them a ton at once about something totally new and they won’t miss a beat
If they're a lifelong musician, it's almost a guarantee. It makes the brain sharper than almost any other activity you can do.
I have known musicians who could play anything by ear and who were dumb as dirt. Being able to play an instrument does not mean one is intelligent in any other area.
I read once - smart people make others feel smart. Someone with just an average intelligence will explain things to you in a patronizing way. A really smart person has secretly already figured out why you don't know or understand something.
I'd like to agree with you because it describes what I often.do only to be remamded(?) with: "Please just answer the question that I asked you". Oh well.
Load More Replies...I think the funny thing is all the people here saying "brevity is the soul of wit," then proceeding to talk for 3 paragraphs. It's as if they're right out of Shakespeare's play.
For the record, I'm not saying I agree, I think smart people can have plenty to say.
Load More Replies...To support the man that is donald trump has more to do with having known who he is from the beginning - the 1960s and onward, for instance - and still appreciate him even though he's got the most publicized problems out in the world. To support the political clout of the last 5 + years is to be easily taken by marketing. The man in his simplest form is a very entitled con artist. On average that is very easy to fall prey to.
Load More Replies...this article was completely ridiculous. half of these 'smart people traits' are the traits of those who are easily and completely brainwashed. the rest of them are fairly stupid as the range in behavior of smart people is rather wide. having worked with a number of individuals from m.i.t. for example they would be difficult to pigeonhole and trying to apply the supposed smart people traits in this screed is ridiculous.
Here's one from me. Some of the intelligent folks are slow thinkers. They'll look dumb, uninterested and distant on the spot, but when the evening comes, and they get to bed, and unfold the day within their heads, they'll have all those answers you wanted/needed to hear. But, oh, it's too late now.
I Am More inteligent Then the Smartist person on earth Except JESUS Christ Abraham Isack and Jacob.Including the Jew Louis Brandise Ruth Bader Ginsburg Baby Killer and Mass Murderer Franklin Delano Roosevelt Or You The Veier Try Me I Will Ask the Questions,You Answer,IF YOU CAN Assaide from Simpel Math
I read once - smart people make others feel smart. Someone with just an average intelligence will explain things to you in a patronizing way. A really smart person has secretly already figured out why you don't know or understand something.
I'd like to agree with you because it describes what I often.do only to be remamded(?) with: "Please just answer the question that I asked you". Oh well.
Load More Replies...I think the funny thing is all the people here saying "brevity is the soul of wit," then proceeding to talk for 3 paragraphs. It's as if they're right out of Shakespeare's play.
For the record, I'm not saying I agree, I think smart people can have plenty to say.
Load More Replies...To support the man that is donald trump has more to do with having known who he is from the beginning - the 1960s and onward, for instance - and still appreciate him even though he's got the most publicized problems out in the world. To support the political clout of the last 5 + years is to be easily taken by marketing. The man in his simplest form is a very entitled con artist. On average that is very easy to fall prey to.
Load More Replies...this article was completely ridiculous. half of these 'smart people traits' are the traits of those who are easily and completely brainwashed. the rest of them are fairly stupid as the range in behavior of smart people is rather wide. having worked with a number of individuals from m.i.t. for example they would be difficult to pigeonhole and trying to apply the supposed smart people traits in this screed is ridiculous.
Here's one from me. Some of the intelligent folks are slow thinkers. They'll look dumb, uninterested and distant on the spot, but when the evening comes, and they get to bed, and unfold the day within their heads, they'll have all those answers you wanted/needed to hear. But, oh, it's too late now.
I Am More inteligent Then the Smartist person on earth Except JESUS Christ Abraham Isack and Jacob.Including the Jew Louis Brandise Ruth Bader Ginsburg Baby Killer and Mass Murderer Franklin Delano Roosevelt Or You The Veier Try Me I Will Ask the Questions,You Answer,IF YOU CAN Assaide from Simpel Math
