“Mom: Unacceptable”: 50 Examples Of The Most Entitled Parents, As Shared By This Community
Few people are arguably more annoying than entitled ones. Expecting others to drop everything at a second’s notice just to help them out or demanding preferential treatment for reasons only known to them can surely lead to some rather frustrating situations.
Some people develop a sense of entitlement after becoming parents; for some reason they believe that having a child works like a privilege pass in certain circumstances. That’s why their entitlement often becomes a source of inspiration for internet memes, providing something to giggle at—or maybe relate to, to those who’ve ever encountered an entitled parent in the wild—when scrolling away. Continue to move down this list to find memes about the latter, as shared by the ‘Entitled Parents Memes’ subreddit.
Bored Panda discussed the topic of parent entitlement with a developmental psychologist, author Dona Matthews, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions. Scroll down to find her insight in the text below.
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There are countless examples of parents’ sense of entitlement—just take this mother demanding that other children share their toys, for example, or this one annoyed at some kids at the playground—which is why people are far from surprised when another similar situation unfolds.
“We’ve all run into that parent, the one who demands to go ahead of us in line at the grocery store or restaurant because their child is getting impatient, or the one who wants to switch seats with us because their child wants to be at the window or on the aisle,” developmental psychologist Dona Matthews told Bored Panda in a recent interview.
“That parent is probably entitled and demanding in other areas of their life, too, but at the very least we can know that in these cases, they’re using their child as a proxy to ask for advantages.”
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“My reaction to that kind of entitlement depends on the parent’s tone,” Matthews continued. “If they’re apologetic, and express appreciation for the fact they’re asking for something I don’t have to give them, I’m usually happy to comply if I can.
“But if the tone is demanding, I find I dig in my heels, and will comply only if I feel like it. I’ll be polite, but might say ‘No,’ maybe with an explanation (e.g., ‘Sorry, I’m in a hurry too.’ Or ‘Sorry, I selected this seat and am all set up here.’)”
It’s arguably safe to assume that most people would react differently to a demanding and appreciative tone, especially when it comes to parents with children. If an apologetic dad asks to cut in line by the nearest bathroom, because his little one really needs to go, that’s a completely different story from an aggravated 'Karen' yelling that their child deserved this plane seat they didn’t book or pay for in advance.
Fucking Karen Am I Right
That’s Just Under 1.3 Billion Today, That’s Literal Effort To Be That Entitled
and that mum paved the way for child pageants and family youtube channels…
My First Meme. Im Sorry For Everything
It’s important to pay attention when a parent is simply being an entitled jerk and when there are actually valid reasons for their seemingly rude or aggravating behavior. Dona Matthews shared with Bored Panda that she doesn’t think entitlement is ever excusable, but there are times when parents can have legitimate requests for help with their children.
“If a child or parent has special needs, and the parent is doing their best to manage a tough situation, then I want to be part of the village that supports the family in coping as well as possible with their challenges,” she said.
Your Kids Are Humans Too Karen
My parents give the excuse that since as babies we used to scream it’s okay for them to yell back at us
This Hits A Little Too Close To Home
*moves To Canada
It’s difficult to answer why some people feel entitled to certain things just because they are a parent. “That varies from one parent to another, and from one situation to another,” the developmental psychologist pointed out. “Sometimes it’s temperament—some people are just more demanding than others, regardless of the situation—and sometimes it’s concern about their child’s ability to cope with less-than-ideal circumstances.”
“Sometimes that concern is legitimate—the parent may be dealing with a particularly challenging child—and sometimes it stems from a parent’s need for more effective parenting techniques,” the expert added.
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This Is Accurate
Of Course It’s A Karen
And even if it did make them "look like a Muslim," would that be such an issue?
Some of the posts shared by ‘Entitled Parents Memes’ clearly show that such parents often affect not only their own lives and well-being but those of their children as well. Their actions can have a strong impact on the offspring and can set an example, which might be far from the best one for a developing mind to follow.
“An entitled parent is acting as a model for their child, and is effectively teaching their child to feel entitled, too. As time goes by, that rarely goes well for either one of them,” Matthews said.
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Teaching children that they are entitled to some sort of preferential treatment might not be the best choice for many reasons; and there clearly are better things to fill their heads with.
“There’s considerable research showing that an attitude of gratitude has many benefits, whereas an attitude of entitlement brings with it negativity and unnecessary problems,” Dona Matthews emphasized in a recent interview with Bored Panda.
In a piece for Psychology Today, she pointed out that an attitude of gratitude leads to more energy, a greater sense of optimism, greater resilience and better capacity to overcome setbacks, a deeper sense of contentment, and deeper empathy, which can be essential for trying to tame a sense of entitlement.
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Ah S**t. Here We Go Again
Just wait until polio makes a comeback. Wonder what these anti vaxxers will say. Or perhaps diphtheria.
I Don’t Think That I Have To Say Anything
just because they’re your rainbow child doesn’t mean they can be a-holes to everyone else
In her piece, the author also shared ways of incorporating gratitude into your own and your child’s life. She suggested focusing on the beauty in the moment; “Actively celebrate being alive. Notice what’s good or beautiful about the people and the world around you.”
She also emphasized the importance of establishing and maintaining healthy routines, transforming entitlement and negativity into gratitude, and teaching your child to express it, among other things.
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The reason it’s so important to teach gratitude over entitlement is because children will reflect what they see, hear, or are taught. That’s likely why quite a few millennials nowadays are considered entitled; and, according to Inc.com, the parents are partially to blame.
It pointed out that over 70% of American adults think of the aforementioned generation as "selfish," and 65% believe they are "entitled." It continued to emphasize that entitlement is typically a learned behavior, which emerges when parents believe their precious children are entitled to everything.
Its Funny Cause Its True
When You Tell Karen Her Child Isn't An Angel
Imagine ... Uggh
20 year later and the mum is wondering why her kid hasnt talked to her in 5 years
These memes shared by the subreddit might work as a mirror to a) parents who tend to show off their sense of entitlement, b) kids who are affected by it in any way. But if viewing such images didn’t evoke any negative feelings for you yourself, feel free to continue to this list of insane parents who felt more entitled to things than anyone else.
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It’s my dad who searches for problems. He once got so mad that he hung up on a call with us because he saw that the AC was closed wrong
I Think I Need To Go See A Therapist :’)
Oh, mom was NOT happy when I threw this one at her. 2/10 satisfying but I don't recommend it.
The Classic Facebook Marketplace Karen
Anti Vaxx Mom Be Like
I Now Have A Fear Of Leaving The House Even Though I'm Not Hiding Anything
We All Need Therapy Once In A While... Some More Than Others. Thanks Mom For That
Its So Damn Annoying
I Made A Meme About My Parents
I swear my mother could have written a book on How to Make Your 11 Year Old Attempt Suȋcide.
Oh She Will Love To Help You Guys Out
I hate when my mum does this, I have a borderline panic attack every time she makes me talk to someone and yet she still does this consistently
Please Don’t
They Dont. Come On!
I mean, sure, if you pile enough of them on top of yourself, you will no longer suffer from cancer.
I See This Line In Every "Em Tries To Steal Something" Story
Getting Really Sick Of Your Shit Karen
I’m Protecting My Phone Against Em’s
Lol
Oh No Karen
Please Stop Doing This Its Not Punishment...it Feels Like Abuse
My brother has some issue which I think makes him neurodivergent and my father thinks that by beating him and shouting he will “get over it”
Wait, What The Hell Just Occured!
I'll never understand parents like that. I have 2 young kids and I could be on death's door and I would tell my kid that it isn't theirs and they have to respect the owner's answer
Mom..... Lets Just Go
Karen
sometimes i like someone standing up for me when that happens :) my social anxiety would suffer
She Calls Her Lawyer Everytime
Americans don't have universal healthcare but they all have a lawyer. :)
Another Ep Meme Cause I Have Years Of Repressed Emotions Against My Mother And Comedy Is One Of My Few Coping Mechanisms
Omg check! Early intervention is an insurance policy against a lifetime of misery. I have PTSD, MDD and GAD, the latter since about aged four. I was straight onto it when I suspected my seven year old might be anxious. Again, I am extremely privileged to be able to afford to get her help. Not everyone can.
Mommy Knows The Best
How It Be Like
I have dealt with entitled relatives in my family before. They thought I would be a pushover forever. Guess what happened when I turned 18, got a part-time job while studying for college, bought most of the stuff I wanted, and straight-up warned them there would be consequences if they even reached for any of it when I said NO. That's why I'm not on speaking terms with some of my relatives but hey, good riddance to scummy cretins, I'd say.
Question: do all boys have a booger wall or was my stepson special? : D
As an apartment painter, I'd say the booger wall is a lot more common than I suspected before painting over a few of them.
Load More Replies...I have dealt with entitled relatives in my family before. They thought I would be a pushover forever. Guess what happened when I turned 18, got a part-time job while studying for college, bought most of the stuff I wanted, and straight-up warned them there would be consequences if they even reached for any of it when I said NO. That's why I'm not on speaking terms with some of my relatives but hey, good riddance to scummy cretins, I'd say.
Question: do all boys have a booger wall or was my stepson special? : D
As an apartment painter, I'd say the booger wall is a lot more common than I suspected before painting over a few of them.
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