An interview with Goldberg about it here. https://jacobin.com/2024/07/amos-goldberg-genocide-gaza-israel I offer this on the assumption that you're likely to discredit the many, many accounts coming from Palestinian sources.

Let's look at the conflict from another side. Hamas, a fundamentalist terrorist group that storms into a country, rapes, murders, and mutilates innocent civilians. Then they go kidnap 243 men, women, children, and the elderly. But why would your "freedom fighters" do that? Sure, I do condemn those IDF soldiers that have done wrong in Gaza, but they don't represent the entire IDF. A few bad apples shouldn't spoil the bunch, and sure, the IDF has some bad apples. But there are still so many good apples. So maybe don't just condemn the entire IDF because of a few rotten eggs?

"A few rotten eggs" would explain a few deaths, not 45,000. The undeniably unspeakable atrocities of 7th October don't justify what's happened since. Not did it start there. My mother was a volunteer on a kibbutz *in the 1970s* and came back traumatised by the abuses of Palestinians she witnessed - and she went (obviously, given that she was volunteering on a kibbutz) with a profound commitment to the Israeli mission.