My Daughter Researched That A Sphynx Is The Best Cat For Our Family And Although I Was Hesitant At First, She Was Right
Rosie, Poppy, and Ollie have truly changed my family’s entire life, and we are beyond thankful for them.
Rosie’s story starts about 3 years ago when my oldest daughter (who was 9 at the time) had been asking for a cat to join our family. Our family cat (a tuxedo rescue girl) of 15 years had passed away earlier in the year, and she had been asking pretty frequently since then. My daughter had been diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder when she was younger, and it affects all aspects of her life daily. Around the time she was 7, we rescued an older golden retriever (Lucy), and we thought that would help her with her daily struggles. Lucy is like a ball of sunshine in all of our lives, but she wasn’t able to help my daughter the way I thought she would.
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My daughter had then started visiting and volunteering at our local animal shelter. At first, she struggled immensely with being around animals with her disorder. The sights, sounds, smells all overwhelmed her so much, that she was really hesitant about going back, even though she loves animals. After a few adjustments, she was able to find her niche among the animals, especially the adorable cats. She always befriended the unusual cats who seemed to get the least amount of attention from visitors (the elderly, the “unfriendly”, or the cats who weren’t the “cutest”). I feel like somehow she identified with them, it was ok that they weren’t “perfect”, but they still had goodness in them and she always made sure to spend her time with them. Unfortunately, most of the cats she bonded with had issues where they weren’t suited for homes with other family pets or children.
After a while, she had gotten to the point where wanting a cat was more than just a wish, so I told her to do some research and see if there was a type of cat that would fit well into our family (good with children, other pets, friendly, etc.). I told her that after her research, we would do our best to see if a cat came into a shelter that matched whichever type of cat best fit those requirements. After her research, she came to me with a list of the top 5 breeds that would match those personality traits. Guess what her number one choice was… a Sphynx.
I have to admit, when she said that, I had an almost immediate negative reaction to that. I suppose from the portrayal of Sphynx cats in movies and on TV (Mr. Bigglesworth from “Austin Powers” and Rachel’s cat on “Friends”). I didn’t say anything to her, and let her finish telling me why she thought a Sphynx would be a great fit for our family. Not to mention, she had a compelling presentation (complete with a website about Sphynx cats she made). I asked her if their appearance mattered to her, and she said it wasn’t about the way they looked, but more about their personality. Again, this probably struck a chord with her, as she doesn’t fit the stereotypical mold for how a girl “should” dress, and has been teased throughout her life because of that. After hearing all her research, I said that we should ask her mentor at the shelter if they’ve ever received such hairless cats. Unfortunately, we were told the likelihood of a Sphynx coming into the shelter was almost zero. We reached out to as many shelters in our area as we could, and we were told the same thing. I let her know I would check our local classifieds and would see if anyone posted on there about a Sphynx. It turned out, I was able to find a listing for someone who had taken in her daughter’s Sphynx cat. Unknown to her, the cute cat was pregnant, so she was looking for homes for the kittens.
I had never seen a Sphynx in person, but I promised my daughter (and myself) that I would have an open mind when going to visit. All I can say is… it was love at first sight. This was when Ollie (our Sphynx boy) joined our family. His big bug eyes melted my heart, and his jumbo ears put a smile on my face that I could not get rid of. I knew right away that he would join our family. Since Ollie joining our family, my daughter has literally gotten a new lease on life. Her symptoms seemed to decrease tenfold. She immediately bonded with him and has become his number one fan. She takes care of him beyond what I thought was possible, and for the past (almost) 3 years, has been there for him beyond just an owner and pet, she is literally his mom. She bathes him, feeds him, talks to him, plans all his birthday celebrations, holds him when the weather is bad and tells him daily how amazing he is.
Ollie had turned our whole family (mainly my oldest daughter) into “Sphynx cat advocates” as she says. She proudly wears a backpack with Ollie printed on it to school, and despite hearing negative comments about her unusual bald cat, she always remains calm and explains how they are not how some people portray them as “scary and mean”.
After having Ollie for a while, my daughter again started asking for a kitty companion for Ollie, as she felt like he would love to have another cat to keep him company. This was when Snowy came into our family. My daughter had been volunteering at her shelter and let me know about this little white mangy kitten with two different colored eyes. I let her know we would visit her, and again, we fell in love and immediately adopted her. Unknowingly to us, Snowy had a genetic condition that would sadly end her life quicker than we knew.
We had only had Snowy for several months when suddenly one day she was extremely lethargic and her nose started looking very pale. I rushed her to our vet, where we were told to take her to the emergency vet. On the way, she didn’t make it and passed away in my husband’s arms. We were told it was a genetic condition, and there was nothing we could have done to save her. We were devastated, and beyond heartbroken. My daughter’s mentor at the shelter let us know that, unfortunately, other cats from that same litter they rescued had also passed, and that we gave her the best life we could in her short time.
We weren’t sure if we were going to get another cat after Snowy passed, as our hearts were all really tender and vulnerable. After some time, we decided we would look again, but this time we would once again check our local classifieds to see if we could get another Sphynx. Ollie was having a very tough time after losing Snowy, so we knew we wanted another companion for him. I ended up finding a listing for a similar situation to Ollie, where the owner had gotten a Sphynx cat and didn’t know she was pregnant. From photos on the classified, it was really hard to see the kitten, so I ended up going to visit, and saw that it was a little pink kitten with two different colored eyes! The hair on my arms stood up as soon as I saw her. It was like a little hairless version of Snowy! Needless to say, this little pink girl ended up being… Rosie!
She fit in almost seamlessly as soon as we brought her home, and you could see the happiness returning to Ollie quickly after she came home. After some time, Rosie and Ollie had their first litter of kittens, and as much as we wanted to keep all the babies, we knew that it was our time to let other people feel the love that we felt when we got our babies. Rosie and Poppy bonded early on, so we knew that she would be staying with us.
Rosie and Ollie brought so much happiness to us, that I decided to start an Instagram page for them. The main purpose was to show my daughters that even though their pets may not look like “traditional” pets, people could have positive reactions to them despite their different appearance. Seeing the (mainly) positive reactions to their photos makes my daughters smile knowing their babies can bring happiness to others too. It’s also been an incredible positive outlet for myself, as I am prone to severe depression.
If I had a crystal ball, I don’t think I would’ve ever predicted my life ending up invested in our cats so much. They are a labor of love, and if there was one take away from it all, it would be that I can completely understand how from first glance, it might be hard to see past a Sphynx cat’s untraditional appearance, but if someone took a chance to learn about this breed, and even meet one, I am fairly confident they would have a different opinion on them. I hope that Sphynx cats will be shown in their true nature as loving, silly, smart, and kind, instead of being portrayed in the exact opposite light.
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Share on FacebookI'm pretty sure those kitties are lovely and it's a really nice story. Still Sphynx cats are so vulnerable. I'm glad it's forbidden here in Germany to breed them without whiskers which are most important to a cat. I always feel sorry for such animals.
They can have whiskers or not. You don't know ahead of time.
Load More Replies...For someone who's involved with a rescue shelter, I really hope you get your cats fixed now. You know how many poor babies die every day in shelters waiting for their forever homes. For every person who takes one of your kittens, there's a kitten in a shelter getting put to sleep.
No, that is not the way it works. People who want to buy a thoroughbred kitten are going to wait until they find one, they are not going to get a cat from a shelter - unless it is exactly what they are looking for. Your way of implying that the post author will essentially murder one cat for every kitten born to their beloved cats is not called for, it is passive-aggressive to such a level that it leaves a very, very bad aftertaste.
Load More Replies...An excellent reminder to see beyond first impressions and to be open to differences. Well written with love at the core.
Thank you for sharing your story! I was horrified to see online recently that there are some people (who do not even qualify as human beings) who have their Sphynx cats TATTOOED -- not just one small tattoo, but a large tattoo all over its body! I can't imagine the horrible pain these sensitive little angels would feel going through this. Even if it is anesthetized during the process, the tattoo would cause all kinds of skin problems, since Sphynx cats need special skin care anyway. Any cat owner or tattoo artist caught doing this should be arrested, convicted of cruelty to animals, and sent to prison.
No matter how sweet a personality they might have, I find them ugly as hell.
It's funny how I get downvoted for stating my opinion. Please notice, people, that I did not write "they are ugly as hell" but "I *find* them ugly as hell". It's just my personal opinion, but I guess that matters not in the far and wide lands of the interwebs.
Load More Replies...Poor cats. Why have cats without fur? Just as stupid as breeding dogs that can't breathe, just because people find it cute...
While I personally don’t agree with breeding animals for special traits, some people adopt or purchase Sphinx cats from a recognised breeder because they are hypoallergenic. For people who suffer from allergies to pet dander, Sphinx cats may be wonderful options.
Load More Replies...I had never seen odd-eyed Sphinxes before. They are quite striking!!! Great story!!! Best wishes in all your endeavors!!! Much love to y'all!!!
Winner of my heart today on bored panda. Thank you for sharing these wonderful (not so) floofers and there impact on a girl who needs them.
They are beautiful! I have always wanted a cat, but my mom is allergic, and I have never considered Sphynx cats because I thought they would not be a good fit. This has changed my mind, and I think that I will start looking into it! Thank you!
Unfortunately, it is a protein in cat saliva, urine, and dander (skin flakes) that people have allergic reactions to.
Load More Replies...Wholesome story, but I still don't like them. Ugliest cats I have ever seen imo. I just feel sorry for the poor hairless things. I don't like munchkin cats for a similar reason - such graceful animals don't deserve to be purposefully bred with short legs.
i have a difficult time believing she found 2 (2!) unintended hairless pregnancies...gorgeous kitties though...always adopt not shop!
You're being very judgy. There's nothing wrong with a responsible breeder who makes sure the babies go to good homes.
Load More Replies...I have had my baby for two +'years and literally the most playful cat ever. And ive had eight dogs and two cats growing up. I'm like your daughter a sphynx advocate! Just cause theyre hairless everyone calls them ugly.(theyre probably jealous theyre ugly🤣) But they are beautiful. 😍😍 My sphynx does love the sun and I do put sunblock on him if he feels like going outside.
This is a NEGATIVE mutation. Rescuing is one thing, breeding is reprehensible . PERIOD.
I absolutely adore Sphinx cats! Ollie and Rosie and Poppy are super cute. I'm so glad they help your daughter and you with your conditions (I have major depression and autism which includes sensory processing problems and I understand how difficult these things can be). Sending good thoughts to you and yours :)
If Poppy has kittens I would love to take one 🥺 But my parents would disagree with me 100.00000 percent 😢😢
Those pictures are charming! I LOL'ed at the kitten pix because they are so adorable. Little Martian cats!
Those eyes!!!! If you believe in re-incarnation, that it would be easy to think that Rosie was Snowy, reborn. What a lovely story! They are pretty cool looking little things.
Loved your story! Beautiful cats! And the part of Snowy was heartbreaking 💔 But like you were told, you gave the best life for the short time it had. Snowy felt only love 💕
Now I am curious, if you were to take a Sphynx cat outside do you have to put sunblock on them? I know it's bad to let cats be inside/outside cats because they can get hurt and damage the local wildlife, but I also know a few people who take their cats for walks. Those cats seem to be much more sane than cats who are stuck indoors all the time.
Yes, they do need sunscreen and can get skin cancer from sun exposure. I’ve also noticed that strictly indoor cats seem to go crazy. It’s exactly the same as having a dog that NEVER goes outdoors. The solution is to build a safe outdoor enclosure for pet cats.
Load More Replies...So ugly they're cute. It's like multiplying two negatives!!!
Load More Replies...I doubt you’ll read this but I’m taking a chance anyway, do you adopt out your Sphinx babies? I have severe manic depressive disorder, I’m on disability and we lost our 18yo son in May to an overdose. I’m head over heels in love with this breed. But unfortunately I’m unable to afford one or 3 lol. If you ever want to rehome a baby please keep me in mind. I’ll keep checking these comments to see if you read this. My name is Renata Goff I’m on fb if you’d like to look me up
i do encourage you to adopt from a shelter and not encourage more breeding. i can assure you, unless it's for allergy reasons, you'll find a cat that fills your heart. i don't know what i would do without my cats, particularly one. he really is my buddy and knows when i need a cuddle.
Load More Replies...Sphynx cats may look different, but they are so incredibly cute. I think it's the wrinkles and the fact that they are literally naked that makes them so cute.
Who downvoted this? It’s my opinion. If it’s one of you who are going on about “purebreds” being animal abuse yeah you’re pretty much correct well actually you are but I’m saying I love them! I think they’re cute!
Load More Replies...I have seen a sphinx and Cornish Rex irl and I agree wholeheartedly that they are the sweetest cats you will ever meet.
I have seen a sphinx and Cornish Rex irl and I agree wholeheartedly that they are the sweetest cats you can meet despite their looks.
What do you mean.. Their unusual appearance? They are amazingly beautiful... I have a 5 years old beauty from a refuge and I adore her! 😍😍
Hi Rosie I just found your blog on Pinterest and am super curious because I have daughters who have anxiety. I would love to talk to you about your journey. I’m not knowledgeable about boredpanda Im wondering how/ if it is possible to private message you?
It gave me a whole new perspective of this breed of cat, they are lovable as any other cats.
I've never seen a Sphynx with kittens, that photo is amazing! I've had many foster pets, but never a Sphynx -- I haven't actually interacted firsthand with a Sphynx. Now I'm curious!
Loved this story!! Never considered them as a pet for sensory sensitive kids. Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
My daugther's cat died in March. She has had three cats and two were killed in our yard and the other from cat leukaemia. She has another cat the sister of the cat that died. My daughter has been always looking for a Sphynx cat. Do you know of anyone who has one? My daughter to sounds like your daughter. No the type to wear a dress! I loved reading your story. Was sweet and caring.
The babys are perfect. Do you have a way to get in a list of you ever have another litter?
I'm pretty sure those kitties are lovely and it's a really nice story. Still Sphynx cats are so vulnerable. I'm glad it's forbidden here in Germany to breed them without whiskers which are most important to a cat. I always feel sorry for such animals.
They can have whiskers or not. You don't know ahead of time.
Load More Replies...For someone who's involved with a rescue shelter, I really hope you get your cats fixed now. You know how many poor babies die every day in shelters waiting for their forever homes. For every person who takes one of your kittens, there's a kitten in a shelter getting put to sleep.
No, that is not the way it works. People who want to buy a thoroughbred kitten are going to wait until they find one, they are not going to get a cat from a shelter - unless it is exactly what they are looking for. Your way of implying that the post author will essentially murder one cat for every kitten born to their beloved cats is not called for, it is passive-aggressive to such a level that it leaves a very, very bad aftertaste.
Load More Replies...An excellent reminder to see beyond first impressions and to be open to differences. Well written with love at the core.
Thank you for sharing your story! I was horrified to see online recently that there are some people (who do not even qualify as human beings) who have their Sphynx cats TATTOOED -- not just one small tattoo, but a large tattoo all over its body! I can't imagine the horrible pain these sensitive little angels would feel going through this. Even if it is anesthetized during the process, the tattoo would cause all kinds of skin problems, since Sphynx cats need special skin care anyway. Any cat owner or tattoo artist caught doing this should be arrested, convicted of cruelty to animals, and sent to prison.
No matter how sweet a personality they might have, I find them ugly as hell.
It's funny how I get downvoted for stating my opinion. Please notice, people, that I did not write "they are ugly as hell" but "I *find* them ugly as hell". It's just my personal opinion, but I guess that matters not in the far and wide lands of the interwebs.
Load More Replies...Poor cats. Why have cats without fur? Just as stupid as breeding dogs that can't breathe, just because people find it cute...
While I personally don’t agree with breeding animals for special traits, some people adopt or purchase Sphinx cats from a recognised breeder because they are hypoallergenic. For people who suffer from allergies to pet dander, Sphinx cats may be wonderful options.
Load More Replies...I had never seen odd-eyed Sphinxes before. They are quite striking!!! Great story!!! Best wishes in all your endeavors!!! Much love to y'all!!!
Winner of my heart today on bored panda. Thank you for sharing these wonderful (not so) floofers and there impact on a girl who needs them.
They are beautiful! I have always wanted a cat, but my mom is allergic, and I have never considered Sphynx cats because I thought they would not be a good fit. This has changed my mind, and I think that I will start looking into it! Thank you!
Unfortunately, it is a protein in cat saliva, urine, and dander (skin flakes) that people have allergic reactions to.
Load More Replies...Wholesome story, but I still don't like them. Ugliest cats I have ever seen imo. I just feel sorry for the poor hairless things. I don't like munchkin cats for a similar reason - such graceful animals don't deserve to be purposefully bred with short legs.
i have a difficult time believing she found 2 (2!) unintended hairless pregnancies...gorgeous kitties though...always adopt not shop!
You're being very judgy. There's nothing wrong with a responsible breeder who makes sure the babies go to good homes.
Load More Replies...I have had my baby for two +'years and literally the most playful cat ever. And ive had eight dogs and two cats growing up. I'm like your daughter a sphynx advocate! Just cause theyre hairless everyone calls them ugly.(theyre probably jealous theyre ugly🤣) But they are beautiful. 😍😍 My sphynx does love the sun and I do put sunblock on him if he feels like going outside.
This is a NEGATIVE mutation. Rescuing is one thing, breeding is reprehensible . PERIOD.
I absolutely adore Sphinx cats! Ollie and Rosie and Poppy are super cute. I'm so glad they help your daughter and you with your conditions (I have major depression and autism which includes sensory processing problems and I understand how difficult these things can be). Sending good thoughts to you and yours :)
If Poppy has kittens I would love to take one 🥺 But my parents would disagree with me 100.00000 percent 😢😢
Those pictures are charming! I LOL'ed at the kitten pix because they are so adorable. Little Martian cats!
Those eyes!!!! If you believe in re-incarnation, that it would be easy to think that Rosie was Snowy, reborn. What a lovely story! They are pretty cool looking little things.
Loved your story! Beautiful cats! And the part of Snowy was heartbreaking 💔 But like you were told, you gave the best life for the short time it had. Snowy felt only love 💕
Now I am curious, if you were to take a Sphynx cat outside do you have to put sunblock on them? I know it's bad to let cats be inside/outside cats because they can get hurt and damage the local wildlife, but I also know a few people who take their cats for walks. Those cats seem to be much more sane than cats who are stuck indoors all the time.
Yes, they do need sunscreen and can get skin cancer from sun exposure. I’ve also noticed that strictly indoor cats seem to go crazy. It’s exactly the same as having a dog that NEVER goes outdoors. The solution is to build a safe outdoor enclosure for pet cats.
Load More Replies...So ugly they're cute. It's like multiplying two negatives!!!
Load More Replies...I doubt you’ll read this but I’m taking a chance anyway, do you adopt out your Sphinx babies? I have severe manic depressive disorder, I’m on disability and we lost our 18yo son in May to an overdose. I’m head over heels in love with this breed. But unfortunately I’m unable to afford one or 3 lol. If you ever want to rehome a baby please keep me in mind. I’ll keep checking these comments to see if you read this. My name is Renata Goff I’m on fb if you’d like to look me up
i do encourage you to adopt from a shelter and not encourage more breeding. i can assure you, unless it's for allergy reasons, you'll find a cat that fills your heart. i don't know what i would do without my cats, particularly one. he really is my buddy and knows when i need a cuddle.
Load More Replies...Sphynx cats may look different, but they are so incredibly cute. I think it's the wrinkles and the fact that they are literally naked that makes them so cute.
Who downvoted this? It’s my opinion. If it’s one of you who are going on about “purebreds” being animal abuse yeah you’re pretty much correct well actually you are but I’m saying I love them! I think they’re cute!
Load More Replies...I have seen a sphinx and Cornish Rex irl and I agree wholeheartedly that they are the sweetest cats you will ever meet.
I have seen a sphinx and Cornish Rex irl and I agree wholeheartedly that they are the sweetest cats you can meet despite their looks.
What do you mean.. Their unusual appearance? They are amazingly beautiful... I have a 5 years old beauty from a refuge and I adore her! 😍😍
Hi Rosie I just found your blog on Pinterest and am super curious because I have daughters who have anxiety. I would love to talk to you about your journey. I’m not knowledgeable about boredpanda Im wondering how/ if it is possible to private message you?
It gave me a whole new perspective of this breed of cat, they are lovable as any other cats.
I've never seen a Sphynx with kittens, that photo is amazing! I've had many foster pets, but never a Sphynx -- I haven't actually interacted firsthand with a Sphynx. Now I'm curious!
Loved this story!! Never considered them as a pet for sensory sensitive kids. Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
My daugther's cat died in March. She has had three cats and two were killed in our yard and the other from cat leukaemia. She has another cat the sister of the cat that died. My daughter has been always looking for a Sphynx cat. Do you know of anyone who has one? My daughter to sounds like your daughter. No the type to wear a dress! I loved reading your story. Was sweet and caring.
The babys are perfect. Do you have a way to get in a list of you ever have another litter?
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