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Save Your Money: 45 Dreamy Destinations That Look Nothing Like What The Influencers Told You They Would
Social media has become such an integral part of our daily lives that we sometimes forget a simple truth while we’re busy scrolling through our feeds—what we’re looking at is an expertly edited, highly-stylized version of things. Real life is often far more chaotic and messy.
Makeup artist Keilys Gonzalez shared a video that went massively viral on Facebook. In it, we’re shown how influencers present picturesque travel destinations versus what you’re likely to see when you show up in person. The reality is very different, and you realize just how important perspective, editing, and the lack of a crowd can be. Scroll down for the side-by-side comparison.
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Bored Panda wanted to learn a bit more about the effect that obsessively following influencers' posts can have on people's well-being, so we reached out to Sarah M. Coyne, PhD, a professor of human development in the School of Family Life at Brigham Young University. Coyne also has a blog on Psychology Today, 'The Right Media Mindset.'
As influencers' posts on social media can create the illusion that their lives are 'perfect' and full of adventure, we were curious about what can happen if the audience fully buys into the story that they're telling.
"Individuals are likely to compare their lives to others on social media," the professor told us.
"When posts are inauthentic or inaccurate or only focus on the positive, an upward social comparison is likely to occur, increasing the likelihood of mental health problems," she said.
Bored Panda was also concerned about where the line is when someone should start being concerned that influencers' posts are affecting their behavior and decisions a bit too much.
Professor Coyne noted that we should be aware of our daily surfing habits.
"When you are checking daily and letting your world view be shaped by influencers, or feel like you have to 'check in' with their site before making a decision—you probably have gone a little too far!" she said. It's at this point that we should aim to scale back our social media use.
The video that Keilys shared on Facebook was a massive hit with internet users around the globe. At the time of writing, it was watched a whopping 57 million times. Moreover, it got 1.3 million reactions, over 17k comments, and was shared 161k times.
It’s a prime example of viral content, and it’s easy to see why it spread like wildfire. On the one hand, you’ve got clips of absolutely jaw-droppingly gorgeous places. The kinds of locations that you mostly see in movies. On the other hand, you see the harsh contrast from comparing the ‘perfect’ frames with amateur videos. Not only do the locations look less dramatic, but it’s also stunning how regular they can look when there’s a mass of tourists angling for selfies.
Makeup artist Keilys, from Colombia, is very popular on social media. Over 1.2 million people follow her Facebook page and she has another 18.4k fans on Instagram.
There's another photo that shows a long cue of people waiting to take the same damn photo.
The viral video that she shared reminded people not to rely just on initial impressions. Overhyping yourself can be one of the worst things that you do before traveling. You’re setting the bar so high, it’s incredibly likely that you’ll end up disappointed, no matter how great your trip actually is. And odds are, the trip won’t be epic either way.
This phenomenon is called Paris Syndrome. It’s an extreme sense of disappointment that many people get when they visit Paris: they had very different expectations for the city and they realized that it’s not all romance, fashion, and croissants. Broadly speaking, the more popular a place is, the more overhyped it becomes, and the more of a letdown it can be for tourists. Sometimes people forget that big cities are noisy and messy while tourist spots are bound to be crawling with hundreds of visitors from abroad. It’s easy to be seduced by a picture-perfect post on Instagram.
Slightly unrelated, but does anyone else have the desire to be single but have the most humongous bed known to mankind? I don't even roll around in my sleep I just want heaps of comforters and pillows so I can crash at the slightest inconvenience
So before you book your tickets, pack your bags, and test out different selfie angles, it’s a smart first step to take the time to do some background research. If your entire trip hinges on visiting a single location that you’ve seen on Instagram, you’re likely to be sorely disappointed. We feel that it's always best to be realistic and then be pleasantly surprised than start off wildly optimistic, only to be let down.
Look into the place you’re planning on visiting. Check out some photos and videos of the spot from a variety of different perspectives. Read some background material and reviews, not just the official promo material or your fave influencer’s posts. Talk to some of your travel-loving friends and consider contacting a local guide for a quick chat.
I've been there! On this occasion, the social media post is quite accurate.
I'm not even THAT afraid of heights but the dizzying anxiety I get from this picture....I could never
Meanwhile, look for other interesting things to do in the area, instead of focusing on the most popular tourist destinations. Learn about the local customs and memorize at least some useful phrases.
Try to focus on what you, yourself, enjoy rather than what would look great posted on Instagram. There’s a certain sense of calm that washes over you when you travel without a camera or leave your phone behind in your hotel room. Selfies are nice… but what endures are the memories of a real adventure, and they require a willingness to embrace the unexpected.
You can be addicted to nearly anything, including social media. As we've covered on Bored Panda before, you can say that you're dealing with internet or social media addiction if it's taken over your life. If you feel that you've lost the power to stop going online and that you have a constant, massive urge to be, say, on Instagram, you may need to either take a step back or seek a therapist's help.
Bioluminescence is real. Neither of these photos is a great example of it. But you can find tons of real photos / videos posted by "not influencers'. Sorry you suck at finding it. I've personally seen green off the wake of my aircraft carrier in the Indian Ocean. I haven't seen the blue in person. check out link for a pretty cool video of surfers and bioluminescence. == https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dz6ApIUNT3w
Social media addicts can have a high level of self-awareness. For instance, they might know that the ungodly amount of time they spend scrolling through Instagram and comparing their lives to those of influencers is having a profoundly negative impact on their physical and psychological well-being. And yet, they still don't change their behavior.
Spending prolonged amounts of time on social media can cause anxiety and depression. Meanwhile, some users can develop further, even unhealthier, addictions.
Bro the grass in the first picture looks like a video game with very bad graphics
What did you think about the differences between influencers' clips and what the popular tourist destinations look like in real life, dear Pandas? Were you as surprised as we were? Have you actually been to these spots? Where do you plan to go on holiday next? Tell us all about it (and more) in the comments!
what the acornmilkshake bishopin heckstick is happening in EITHER photos???
What is censored in the second photo? Are they mooning? Scratching their butt?
What it the issue with this one? Petra is a huge place. You can get pictures like the first one, you just need to climb for some time, there is a bédouin house on top, get some tea, pet the cats, take a photo, move away a bit and you can have a picnic by yourself with a view of the treasury. The crowds are mostly on the main path, once you go away from it, you can walk practically alone.
No, you just came at the wrong time. Plenty of places get even more beautiful than the first photo, with orange and red and yellow, but it’s only like that for a short period before it turns brown.
Right? These photos could be 2 days apart, and that would be enough to change things.
Load More Replies...Call me a pessimistic Seattlite but I do love that second one more. It's so gloomy and ethereal
Nature being nature. Seasons being seasons. People being people. Yeah….this is all some crazy s**t😂
Maybe, but that doesnt change that fact that you support a rapist for president.
Load More Replies...Soooo one was taken in a storm and in much darker conditions... Don't get it
Most of these come down to wrong time of the year, wrong time of the day, bad photography, wrong angle, lack of filter etc.
Yeah. If they'd at least have said where these locations were, it would have been slightly more interesting.
Load More Replies...It all boils down to professional photography vs. amateur pictures. Be willing to wait the perfect time of the year, find the perfect angle, negotiate with authorities or owners to open a venue a bit early to avoid the crowd, spending time editing the picture, etc., vs. "I was there, I took a pic". Newsflash : postcards and travel books editors have been doing exactly that for DECADES already. Social networks and influencers didn't invent anything. But I guess it's trendy to pick on them...
Yeah you hit it right on the head. In essence, what this post does is show the work that goes into making a good photo, regardless of whether it used for social media, or to make photos. It also shows the worst kept secret that photos are manipulated to produce optimal images. It would be better titled as "The difference in photos between someone that has done their homework and understands the post work (aka the pro) vs the amateur photographer.
Load More Replies...Honestly, I don't understand this whole influencer universe. Who are they trying to fool, pretending to be Adam and Eve exploring paradise? Who buys this whole "Oh look, I'm a millionaire supermodel" shtick? It only leads to more silly tourists who overcrowd vulnerable cultural / natural sights that should be protected from people and their stupidity.
I see that most of the problems were to do with too many people everywhere. And I can relate
Is BP actually unaware that "influencer" instas are staged? That seasons, weather, and hours of the day are actual things? That if you get to most tourist destinations at sunrise that yes, it is most likely just going to be you, able to set up the perfect photo?
What I'm seeing is that quite a few of these aren't even the same area, season, weather, time of day, etc. EVERYONE knows that both social media and the travel brochures are doctored up in some way and both make things look better than in RL. It's not a surprise to anyone with any type of common sense.
So...sometimes there are people and sometimes there is weather? If you go on vacation you're not automatically guaranteed ideal photography conditions? Mind blown.
Tourist shocked to discover that tourist destination is filled with other tourists! 😱
Two takeaways: 1) Tourists are at tourist attractions, that is the stark reality 2) seems this insta v reality is the new way for attention seekers to get their attention
I noticed that the "bad" pics usually had people in them. More people = bad experience. Yeah, well, people are jerks....
I hate the headline to this article. All they are showing is that sometimes photo colors are overly enhanced, sometimes it's crowded, places look different on clear versus cloudy days, and there are seasons. These are not reasons to skip places. Misleading title. I am glad I got to see both photos.
basically, every second picture is taken in the afternoon when it rains at the wrong angle while the first ones are taken by people that UNDERSTAND HOWTO USE A CAMRAR RIGHT! Im not a Social media person, or ticktoc or thing, but I know how they made these pictures, I know how they made them without people and without photoshop, because they got GOOD CAMERAS AND KNOW HOW TO USE THEM FULLY The other ones look like normal phone took ones that you would show to family "look where I went it looked cool" where else the other one Is "these pictures where of this place, the lighting here could be used to do such and when i angeled the camera this way it looks like I'm doing this" This is seen GREATLY in the first 2 pictures of the couple hanging off the rock, One pic looks like its hanging into the sea {illusion} the GOOD CAMRA taker made it look like they're falling {illusion}, and the Phone taker just took the picture and didn't use the angle and messed the illusion up
Just don't believe anything on FB, Instagram or TikTok. In fact, delete those apps. all of you!
Ugh. How did this seem like a good idea? All I feel is people need to understand what real problems and issues are. Someone's grumpy and needs a nap moment really.
Most of these come down to wrong time of the year, wrong time of the day, bad photography, wrong angle, lack of filter etc.
Yeah. If they'd at least have said where these locations were, it would have been slightly more interesting.
Load More Replies...It all boils down to professional photography vs. amateur pictures. Be willing to wait the perfect time of the year, find the perfect angle, negotiate with authorities or owners to open a venue a bit early to avoid the crowd, spending time editing the picture, etc., vs. "I was there, I took a pic". Newsflash : postcards and travel books editors have been doing exactly that for DECADES already. Social networks and influencers didn't invent anything. But I guess it's trendy to pick on them...
Yeah you hit it right on the head. In essence, what this post does is show the work that goes into making a good photo, regardless of whether it used for social media, or to make photos. It also shows the worst kept secret that photos are manipulated to produce optimal images. It would be better titled as "The difference in photos between someone that has done their homework and understands the post work (aka the pro) vs the amateur photographer.
Load More Replies...Honestly, I don't understand this whole influencer universe. Who are they trying to fool, pretending to be Adam and Eve exploring paradise? Who buys this whole "Oh look, I'm a millionaire supermodel" shtick? It only leads to more silly tourists who overcrowd vulnerable cultural / natural sights that should be protected from people and their stupidity.
I see that most of the problems were to do with too many people everywhere. And I can relate
Is BP actually unaware that "influencer" instas are staged? That seasons, weather, and hours of the day are actual things? That if you get to most tourist destinations at sunrise that yes, it is most likely just going to be you, able to set up the perfect photo?
What I'm seeing is that quite a few of these aren't even the same area, season, weather, time of day, etc. EVERYONE knows that both social media and the travel brochures are doctored up in some way and both make things look better than in RL. It's not a surprise to anyone with any type of common sense.
So...sometimes there are people and sometimes there is weather? If you go on vacation you're not automatically guaranteed ideal photography conditions? Mind blown.
Tourist shocked to discover that tourist destination is filled with other tourists! 😱
Two takeaways: 1) Tourists are at tourist attractions, that is the stark reality 2) seems this insta v reality is the new way for attention seekers to get their attention
I noticed that the "bad" pics usually had people in them. More people = bad experience. Yeah, well, people are jerks....
I hate the headline to this article. All they are showing is that sometimes photo colors are overly enhanced, sometimes it's crowded, places look different on clear versus cloudy days, and there are seasons. These are not reasons to skip places. Misleading title. I am glad I got to see both photos.
basically, every second picture is taken in the afternoon when it rains at the wrong angle while the first ones are taken by people that UNDERSTAND HOWTO USE A CAMRAR RIGHT! Im not a Social media person, or ticktoc or thing, but I know how they made these pictures, I know how they made them without people and without photoshop, because they got GOOD CAMERAS AND KNOW HOW TO USE THEM FULLY The other ones look like normal phone took ones that you would show to family "look where I went it looked cool" where else the other one Is "these pictures where of this place, the lighting here could be used to do such and when i angeled the camera this way it looks like I'm doing this" This is seen GREATLY in the first 2 pictures of the couple hanging off the rock, One pic looks like its hanging into the sea {illusion} the GOOD CAMRA taker made it look like they're falling {illusion}, and the Phone taker just took the picture and didn't use the angle and messed the illusion up
Just don't believe anything on FB, Instagram or TikTok. In fact, delete those apps. all of you!
Ugh. How did this seem like a good idea? All I feel is people need to understand what real problems and issues are. Someone's grumpy and needs a nap moment really.