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Social anxiety is like a tiny gnome in the back of your head; it might be sleeping, it might be as active as never, or… it might be forcing you to go over the way you said “here” that one time during attendance. One thing is clear, though—people without one will never know what it feels like to have it affect every single social situation you’re in.

The r/socialanxiety subreddit is a safe space for those feeling distressed in a social environment. People here share memes that other members might find a been-there-done-that kind of situation.

Bored Panda has created a list of relatable social anxiety-induced moments. Whether it’s thinking of better arguments for that conversation earlier or finding the perfect eye-contact-to-floor ratio, some people might feel more at ease knowing they’re not alone.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm too nervous to go to Subway. If my daughter wants to I just give her the money and let her choose my sandwich. Luckily she knows exactly what I like and so far I haven't had any weird food.

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Also known as social phobia, social anxiety disorder (SAD) is the persistent and excessive fear of being around people or in specific collective situations. It differs from person to person but there are some common traits. They might include worrying about meeting new people and starting conversations, tending to avoid social gatherings and eye contact, overthinking about judgment from others.

It might sound like everyone feels that way every once in a while. However, for those with social anxiety, these negative feelings are constant and way stronger. In some cases, they can lead to high levels of stress or even panic attacks.

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    Astrius
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m ACTIVELY trying to make friends, but the actions that take me extreme effort to do are apparently natural for everyone.

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    Lisa H
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES!!! These people are genuinely some of the best people! We ALL need people like this in our lives!

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    SAD is part of the group of generalized anxiety disorders (GAD), which is actually the most prevalent mental illness in the United States. The National Alliance on Mental Illness states that around 18% of people in the US live with some sort of an anxiety disorder.

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    According to the Recovery Village, 264 million people worldwide suffer from it. Their data shows that younger people are more affected by it than the older generation. Just over 22% of people aged from 18 to 44 suffer from these conditions while for people 45–59 years of age, the number drops to 20.6%. Out of people over 60, only 9% deal with anxiety disorders.

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when you finish a assignment in class and you wait for someone else to turn it in first so that you know it's now okay to go turn it in too

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    Despite rather large numbers of people living with GAD, not a lot of them tend to look for professional help. The Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA) states that less than 37% of people with generalized anxiety disorder receive treatment, even though it is believed to be very effective. ADAA also revealed that 36% of people suffering from social anxiety waited for 10 or more years before seeking help.

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    The Blue Spirit
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Imagining myself in situations that will never exist" seriously like 25% of my life is me reading a book but accidentally going off-track and not realizing

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    Iva Kazalova
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s because social anxiety centres around you personally, and when it crosses over the focus shifts on someone else and it’s not about you anymore, it subsides and you can do the thing, probably how i feel too

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    As with other anxiety disorders, SAD can develop due to numerous reasons. Some of the main factors include inherited traits, brain structure, and the person’s surroundings.

    It is believed that certain mental illnesses or disorders can run in the family, making it one of the possible causes behind developing social anxiety as well. It might also be related to our environment, as family or close people usually have an impact on our surroundings from an early age. Therefore, if a member suffers from certain disorders, their behavior might end up reflecting in ours.

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    rs_adahl1971
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done this. It's hard maintaining relationships when you don't want to be a burden to the other person. I feel you.

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    The founder of Washington Center for Cognitive Therapy, Vincent Greenwood, Ph.D., has expanded on social anxiety in a video online. He stated that there are three subtypes of social anxiety, based on its main triggers. The first—and the most common—one is general fear of social interactions. This might affect the day-to-day acts as simple as engaging in small talk, entering a room filled with strangers, participating in group activities.

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    The second type of social anxiety according to Dr. Greenwood reveals itself when performing. Whether it’s sports activities, art performances, or giving presentations, some people might have difficulties dealing with the additional stress of being the center of attention.

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    Lauren S
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously! Where did they get my picture?? Every dang one of these is so relatable.

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    In his video, Dr. Greenwood names the phenomenon known as observational fears as the third type of social anxiety. It is based on the angst of being judged or feeling embarrassment. People affected by this type might feel anxious while doing things when others are watching, whether it’s signing a document or cooking dinner.

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    "Social Anxiety"

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    Lisa Hopkins
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s my life. Because when I signed up for it I really wanted to do it lol times comes for it and I hate myself for signing up for it.

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    People with social anxiety share some common behavioral disturbances that can appear in both emotional and physical forms. The emotional ones comprise excessive worrying about others judging them, intense and persistent fear of communicating with people, anticipating certain social situations expecting the worst, among others. Some physical ones include but are not limited to heart palpitations, profuse sweating, blushing, trembling.

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    Sandy D
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, and then belittling then for not interacting or interacting awkwardly

    Kevin Felton
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe have a conference with just the one child and ALL in the teachers in their grade so everyone can tell that child that they're bad at making friends and they should definitely try harder because it's no one else's fault that everyone hates then. They just need to open up more because if they don't the teachers are going to give you bad marks on your report card under "Works and Plays Well With Others."

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    Azolane
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's how I gave up ballet. I had this horrible teacher who knew I was shy and forced me to do things I was least confortable doing, alone in front of everyone else. I was eight years old, some teachers can be so cruel. I bet she doesn't remember me, but 30 years later that b***h's face is still burned into my memory.

    Kendall Arnold
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a painfully shy kid growing up. Now I'm a teacher. I NEVER force anyone to talk. Usually they get comfortable enough to start sharing and other years they don't. I don't push them. If a colleague tries to force them to talk, I will step in and just tell them the kid doesn't have to because it makes them uncomfortable.

    Ashley Schriber
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's one of those things where there's a grain of truth to it (to overcome fear, we do need to do things we're afraid of), but people have taken it too far and turned it into a BS idea (exposing people to fears ALWAYS leads to a reduction on their fears and we should push people as much as possible). For a kid to build confidence, they need to have, well, confidence-building experiences. If you keep calling on a kid and they keep clamming up and getting embarrassed and possibly getting scorn from the other children, that isn't building their confidence, ffs. Knock it off.

    The Blue Spirit
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you certain I'm not your alter ego or something because every time I see one of your comments I'm like "literally word for word same"

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    kath morgan
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we get a paddle with this engraved on it and go slap the cheeks of some of my childhood teachers?

    Linden
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a "shy child". Turns out I was/am autistic. I got PTSD from teachers like this. Thankfully there were a few who accepted and affirmed me as the person I was. Where I live at least, there is a lot more recognition among most teachers of this sort of thing.

    Anthony Nizza
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    EXACTLY!!! I don't know why people don't understand that it makes it worse. It's very easy to be understanding and not force them.

    Holly Benedict
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pft, one of the required classes i had was a public speaking class in highschool. And the make it even better, it was the one class I had with this guy I had a crush on at the time. Over 10 years later and I still am haunted.

    SCampbell
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. So true. I ignored assignments if I had to speak in front ofclass.

    DelvianBlue
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all teachers are like this. I'm a teacher with social anxiety, which sounds like it should be an oxymoron, but I've made it work. I know what it's like for the shy kids so I make sure they don't get called on, and assign them to work with someone they're comfortable with whenever we do group work. I don't know if it helped them but hopefully they felt more comfortable in my class.

    Pedantic Panda
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too! I give those pupils a piece of paper/white board so they write their answers as and when they feel comfortable, no need to do so in front of the class.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Studies have shown that children forced into uncomfortable situations are 20% more likely to develop telekinetic abilities and use them to write messages from the teachers' deceased relatives on the board.

    Ches Yamada
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, and the dreaded "they must be shy, they really want to" when a child says "no". This happened to me countless times and I hated it.

    Felicia Dale
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any time a kid makes any effort to participate they should be met with kind enthusiasm. No pushing for more!

    Dorothy Parcheartsingh
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my pe teacher sm but one day I was rlly upset and cried and she saw me and kept asking what was wrong and then called my mum and I then had to suck it up and say I just didn't t understand my physics hw :)

    D Peterson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst is PE, when the gym teacher says, 'Take turns choosing who will be on your team.' Why not just kill me now & save me from being the last one picked.

    Vermontah
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother just told people I was shy and that was good enough for other people

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can remember saying I didn't know to just get the teacher to ask someone else, even when I did know. More than teachers though it was my mom who used to push me into social situations like going to dances and parties and stuff when I really really would have liked to stay home by myself. I hated it but it did teach me some things. I think she was scared I would end up with no social skills whatsoever if I was left to do what I wanted which was nothing.

    David
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it bad that I recognized that Roxicet 5 mg/325 tablet? (not addiction, just pain prescriptions over the years)

    strawberry
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah when my 5th grade teacher signed my yearbook she wrote "ill miss you and dont be so shy use your voice more"

    mayaexists
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *inhales* can we stop blaming teachers so much?? The reason they call on kids is to see if they're paying attention/what the teacher is saying makes sense *during the lesson in real-time*. If you're shy and would prefer to not be called on, PLEASE TELL YOUR TEACHER. I get it can be difficult, but teachers wouldn't have chosen that job/gotten hired if they were just gonna be mean. They can't read your mind and it can be hard to tell the difference between shyness/genuine anxiety. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

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    Luckily, there are ways to cure or minimize the impact of SAD. First and foremost, if certain symptoms feel like it could be social anxiety, it is important to seek help from professionals. They can help diagnose it and appoint the appropriate treatment, whether it’s medication or alternative types of medical care. In addition to that, methods of occupational therapy or other practices, such as yoga or meditation, can be helpful as well.

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    Another solution that might help some people deal with social anxiety is connecting with people in a similar situation. The negative feelings caused by the disorder might make one feel lonesome, but there are people suffering from anxieties, getting in touch with whom might alleviate the load of it all.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I miss CollegeHumour. The comments section was constantly full of jerks and trolls and jerk trolls but their content was great - especially the comics.

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    Social anxiety is a serious topic, but people in certain online communities manage to find ways to present their lives with the disorder in a rather lighthearted way. Quite a few great examples can be found on this list. Whether it’s an outlet for the emotions caused by SAD or a way to connect with people going through a similar thing, some of these will definitely find a person or two who can relate.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that is not a hyperbole. If I was weird at 60 yrs old I would still be thinking about it for 20 years after I die

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    Either Too Shy Or Annoying

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this so TRUEEEEEEE!?!?!!?! Seriously, as soon as I'm comfortable being around you, I am so freaking annoying.....

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been known to duck into a corner when I hear other people coming…. Not for any particular reason, just because apparently seeing strangers on the street is scary

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know I already said this but all of these are so relatable I am actually crying. People actually get it somewhere out there! (edit) thanks to all of you in the comments!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dispatch from my last job had no caller id. So it always came up as ''unknown'' worst time of my life. I was obligated to answer every call that said ''unknown number'' 🫤

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friends parents think I'm such a good influence but they just know the awkward, socially anxious side of me and not me when I finally open up to you

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    Lisa H
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being depressed and alone is less embarrassing than having a panic attack in public. Please don't ask me how I know.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Real life downvotes. You’ll be steadily talking, then suddenly when you open your mouth no sound comes out, and you realise you’ve received 10 real life downvotes. 😳😂

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then what is "omg I hate everyone and wish I was watching Netflix in my room" because that's def what I have.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are people I want to be friends with. There are people I used to be friends with. There are people I don’t want to annoy so I slowly stop trying.

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    Anyone Else?

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    Maggie Marrelli
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me every day at work; just printed 300 t-shirts perfectly, my very nice boss comes by and says "how's it going?" and I ruin the shirt I am doing.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wind up with everyone knowing that I'm a dumb rambling mess.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once cursed out a teacher in online class in a low voice because she did not accept my correct answer. I was unmuted and embarrassed 😳

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    Lisa H
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a teacher call the entire class's attention, point to me and YELL "Who's in charge of stupid questions?" I cried the rest of class. I was 13 and have been anxious about asking anyone anything ever since. This was 23 years ago. I've only gotten slightly better. F**k you, Mr. Boyd.

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    Social Anxiety - The Beginning

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    We Can’t Be Like This

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this so true? 😭 one time I tried to join in a conversation about Percy jackson in sixth grade at a new school and I’m like, “you guys know who Rick Riordan is??” And they were just like “yeah…?” And went back to talking and ignoring me. ETA; welp, I was trying to respond to the people who commented on my comment and BP said I was commenting “too quickly.” Like that’s ever stopped scammers?

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    Saw This On R/Memes And Felt It Belonged Here

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    #69

    Social_skills.exe Has Stopped Working

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    Amanda Rose
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I just know that I'm going to be stared at when I leave the room. My throat may be drier than the Sahara but I am waiting until the front door closes before getting an ocean sized glass of water.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social battery! I love it too. One outing to the grocery store and I'm out of commission for a couple of weeks at least.

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    I Didn't Make The Rules

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oohhh I was on my way to my wedding and part of me was still convinced my husband was with me for a bet and the "big reveal" would be everyone laughing at me as I got out of the car at the registrary office and I was let in on the secret bet he had made 🙄 x

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    #73

    You Are Not Supposed To Call!

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    The Wonderful Feeling Of An Empty Parking Lot To Eat Your Lunch In Peace. No Coworkers, No Small Talk

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    Sadly True

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    Lil Potato
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I wore jeans today. Someone saw me on them and now I'm re thinking my life choices

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    #77

    I'm Mostly Txt, But

    I'm Mostly Txt, But

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True except for the fact that I then worry that they don't care about me. Thanks autophobia

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    #78

    That Be Me

    That Be Me

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just did that yesterday with the most fascinating can of green beans ever.

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    #79

    I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

    I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

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    #80

    Ah Yes Self Sabotage

    Ah Yes Self Sabotage

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here was my secret formula in college. During the first few classes don’t arrive super early but get there a little before it starts. Look around the room and find a girl (I’m a girl so that was less scary) sitting alone. Sit near her but not next to her. Ask her if she’s heard anything about the professor/class. Hope she’s extroverted and chatty and adopts you for the semester. Try again the next class if it doesn’t work. Life long friendships? No. Study buddy for the semester? Often, which I was grateful for.

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    #82

    Can We Text Instead

    Can We Text Instead

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    Tess
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your GP hesitantly reminding you over a telehealth phone consult, that you have to have an in person appointment every 12 months. Letting you know that you've got three months until then, so that you can start to prepare for it.

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    #88

    And Then They Never Text Back

    And Then They Never Text Back

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    It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

    It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you have that one social friend who then tells you all the tea and it is always just so interesting to hear how regular people live (or at least for me)

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    #90

    Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

    Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still make awkward eye contact and smile at the girl I've liked for a few months now every time I pass by her in the hallway. I once waved to her and she waved back and I freaked out.

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    #91

    Too Relatable

    Too Relatable

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    #96

    That Shit Hurted 🤧

    That Shit Hurted 🤧

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    #98

    I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

    I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

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    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those were the best years of my life. I got cute masks with animal noses/mouths on them and NO ONE could see me grimacing behind them!

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    #99

    Thanks

    Thanks

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    #100

    Should’ve Just Stayed Home

    Should’ve Just Stayed Home

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    deejak
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then when you can't hold it in any longer and it erupts in an explosive burst that doesn't sound like a cough or a sneeze or any other human noise.

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    #103

    Oof

    Oof

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    me tryna make a funny joke or comment on BP and then deleting it incase I'm not as funny as I think I am and I think I am boring:

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    #107

    I’ve Never Related To Anything More

    I’ve Never Related To Anything More

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone feeling this…. remember there often is *something* you can do. Even if it’s ‘just’ getting online & trying to figure out what might be ‘going on’ &/or what options/resources might be available for you locally/otherwise. Or journaling. Or finding at least one friend/relative you can talk to. Because often those people do *really* love you & just want you to feel better/get help/believe them. Coming from one of those loved ones… I *LOVE* this person, but feel helpless/hurt when they don’t believe I care/assume I’m lying/manipulating them instead of believing someone could really love them that much. :’( In my case, they also often lash out/push away instead of believing it’s even a possibility there’s no judgment from me, only love & hope… </3 I know it’s hard, but if someone keeps telling you this…. Try to believe them & accept the support they want to give. Tell them what you need instead of retreating into yourself. In time, you may see that they really do love & respect you.<3

    #108

    Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

    Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

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    Anyone Can Relate?

    Anyone Can Relate?

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    #112

    Every Time

    Every Time

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    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    * how I feel a nanosecond after sending said message, regardless of whether there are any replies XD

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    #114

    Something

    Something

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    Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

    Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

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    erica joi
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eight years sober after being addicted to magic pills that helped better than anything with social anxiety. Can confirm no natural ways help!

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    #118

    When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

    When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

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    ️Crystal️
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thoughts like these are normal for anyone who endured emotional abuse growing up... you're not flawed, your parents literally messed up your brain wiring so you think that everyone is constantly criticizing your very existence.

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    #119

    I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

    I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

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    Yes

    Yes

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    #122

    Me Today

    Me Today

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They were probably making sure bloody Nicholas Witchell wasn't camped outside again.

    #123

    Hmmmmmmmmm

    Hmmmmmmmmm

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    Tess
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then realising that there is a button in your carriers app to turn off voicemail. If they can't figure out how to text me from a landline, it can't be that important.

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    #125

    I’d Rather Stay Home

    I’d Rather Stay Home

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exclusive complication for the ladies: Why aren't you smiling? YoU'rE sO mUcH pReTtIeR wHeN yOu sMiLe!

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    #127

    Meetings, Am I Right?

    Meetings, Am I Right?

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some reason my camera frequently "breaks" when it's time for a Zoom meeting. Happens all the time and I just can't figure out why. ;)

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    #129

    Why Am I Like This

    Why Am I Like This

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    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I play WoW and I am a feral druid, so I run around in cat form all the time and use that as an excuse to not talk to people. If other players try to strike up a conversation with me, I use the "meow" emote, hop around a few times, and run away.

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    #130

    Thats Me

    Thats Me

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its just too scary! even when they are like "you can approach me, it's strictly confidential" like bro I didn't say it wasn't strictly confidential so why do u feel the need to reiterate it like are you lying?

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    #132

    I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

    I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just to reassure anyone who does this… As long as you’re kind about it, most service staff are *happy* to fix issues. Having worked years in the service industry, the good feels of helping kind people who actually need it helps to balance out all the “help” you have to give the p.o.s. entitled customers who still treat you like garbage even if you bend over backwards for them. I’m one of those people who loves service jobs because I love making people happy. I’d be so sad thinking a customer suffered through their meal/service like this. </3

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    #133

    It This True For Anyone?

    It This True For Anyone?

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