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This Single Dad Adopted A Baby Girl With Down Syndrome Who Was Rejected By 20 Families
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Orphaned Girl With Down Syndrome Is Rejected By 20 Families Before Being Adopted By A Single Gay Dad

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There’s nothing more heartwarming than reading stories about abandoned children who finally get to go home to loving parents. Just last month, Bored Panda wrote about a gay couple who adopted an HIV-positive baby. Now it’s time for you to meet Luca Trapanese – a man from Italy who is challenging the stereotypes of fatherhood, religion, and family in his home country. Back in 2017, the 41-year-old adopted his daughter Alba, when she was not even a month old. Luca’s story has gone viral for several reasons – one of which is that Luca is gay and single and the social services in Italy don’t usually grant custody to single, homosexual men. Luca later told the media that he was told he would only be able to adopt a child with health or behavioral problems. But that didn’t scare him away.

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    Back in 2017, Luca adopted baby girl Alba

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    Luca Trapanese – a 41-year-old single man from Italy – adopted Alba when she was merely 13 days old. The little girl has Down’s Syndrome and was given up for adoption by her mother because of it. It wasn’t easy to find a new family for baby Alba – 20 families rejected the newborn because of her condition. But fortunately, Luca turned up and Alba’s life changed forever.

    Ever since Luca was 14, he had been working and volunteering for organizations focused on children with special needs. He also always wanted to become a father, however, this posed certain struggles, as he was (and still is) single. Fortunately, in 2017 he was finally given permission to adopt under one condition.

    The girl has down syndrome

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    Due to which she was previously rejected by 20 families

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    But Alba’s condition did not scare Luca away as he was determined to become a father

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    Luca himself had worked in care centers for people with special needs

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    Luca was told that he could only adopt a baby with special needs who had been previously rejected by traditional families. Luca was in 7th heaven – he knew he was finally bound to become a father, just like he always dreamed. “Since I was 14 years old, I have volunteered and worked with the disabled so I felt I had the right knowledge and experience to do it,” Luca told the media.

    In July 2017, he got the call he was waiting for so long – it was the tribunal that informed him of a baby girl. Luca listened to her story and without any hesitation instantly said yes and rushed to the hospital to meet his daughter. “When I first held her in my arms, I was overcome with joy. I felt she was my daughter straight away,” Luca revealed.

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    So he wasn’t afraid of the challenges he could face while raising Alba

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    He knew he had the right knowledge and experience to adopt the baby

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    Since he was 14, Luca had been working and volunteering for organizations focused on children with special needs

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    “When I first held her in my arms, I was overcome with joy. I felt she was my daughter straight away”

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    “It was the first time I held a newborn baby. Before that moment, I had always been scared. But, when I first held Alba, I knew I was ready to be her dad,” said the young father.

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    Today, the man’s life revolves around Alba. He says that his daughter “revolutionized his life and everything revolves around her. She brought me happiness and a sense of fulfillment. I am proud to be her dad. I wanted her to be my daughter.”

    “I am proud to be her dad”

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    Neringa is a proud writer at Bored Panda who used to study English and French linguistics. Although she has many different interests, she's particularly drawn to covering stories about pop culture as well as history. While not at the office, this Panda enjoys creepy movies, poetry, photography and learning how to play the piano.

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    Neringa Utaraitė

    Neringa Utaraitė

    Author, Community member

    Neringa is a proud writer at Bored Panda who used to study English and French linguistics. Although she has many different interests, she's particularly drawn to covering stories about pop culture as well as history. While not at the office, this Panda enjoys creepy movies, poetry, photography and learning how to play the piano.

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    Bobert Robertson
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forget typical ideologies about masculinity. This is what really being a man is. Or woman. Or just human. This dude is awesome, and look how happy she is!

    Nikki Gregerson
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can see the love! She is a very lucky little girl and I'm glad her daddy found her!

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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I guarantee that so many parents when finding out their child has something "wrong" with them think ".....f**k!". This guy went for it voluntarily. You know he'll be the perfect dad for her. What a great story.

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    Anne
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There can be many challenges to raising a child with Down Syndrome. That said.. I think I'm happy they all did. Now Alba has the dad she deserves :)

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    Bobert Robertson
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forget typical ideologies about masculinity. This is what really being a man is. Or woman. Or just human. This dude is awesome, and look how happy she is!

    Nikki Gregerson
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can see the love! She is a very lucky little girl and I'm glad her daddy found her!

    Full Name
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I guarantee that so many parents when finding out their child has something "wrong" with them think ".....f**k!". This guy went for it voluntarily. You know he'll be the perfect dad for her. What a great story.

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    Anne
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There can be many challenges to raising a child with Down Syndrome. That said.. I think I'm happy they all did. Now Alba has the dad she deserves :)

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