Be kind to Earth its our home

total deal-breaker!

This is a deal breaker for sure. I don't litter at all and I get really angry when other people do.

My math teacher told us a story about how his best friend kept throwing s*** out the window and he had to stop the car, make them walk with him to the trash, make them pick it up, and put it back in the car until they found a trash can. He's a great guy.

In most developed country there is zero need to litter anymore, you're never far away from public bins, so the fact people still do is even more atrocious

My pet hate. Can't stand litterers. Give them the choice of paying a fine or picking up litter as community service - but please, please, do something to stop them. It's not just the environment that suffers, it's also an incredibly selfish act. Someone else doesn't want to see your rubbish, you spoil their neighbourhood (or the countryside) for them.

We live in the country but the grass across the road is full of soda cans, baby nappies and all kinds of rubbish, the council do not seem to notice. I pay my rates for them to clear it

Every time I see it I just feel this rage like they just killed my dog.

people like this should be forced to spend a day as a janitor just to see how it feels

Uh ... I never got that - even cigarettes, self-rolled and filterless and therefore likely to fully burn away, don't belong anywhere but in an ashtray, or, after pressing out the glow, in the dustbin. End of. No discussion. Packaging - even more so!

Unsurprised, alas. Third-generation eco-awareness-nut, and a person who litters? Not. Okay.

Touché

Yes, very.

If they litter I would through my gum on the floor in their house.

We have school trips. One in 4th grade and at least one between 5th and 11th grade. It's always 14 days where they go mostly by train to an island off the coast (yes thats possible) or into the mountains or even to another country. Every kid likes it and is eager to go. But now comes the catch: if a teacher catches you throwing trash out the window of the train, thats a ticket straight home.

This shirt and haircut he's sporting should be a bigger deal breaker

This. An ex-boyfriend of mine did this, and the waiter was still a trainee. Fumbled with the wine bottle, trying to keep his composure while my boyfriend treated him like crap. I just gave the guy many "Please excuse this dumbass" looks, and insisted that my boyfriend tip him properly when paying the bill. Needless to say, we didn't last long.

THIS IS SOOOO TRUE - neither is telling me how many women you've 'had'. The whole macho thing is extremely unattractive.

Agreed

This is just plain selfish.

"I'm sorry BUT I had a really good reason to rob that store!"

As if by preface it gives boorish behavior a pass.

Big one. Take someone to one of your fav' places and if they don't seem to register it on any level - it's a bit of a red flag for me.

Yukkkkk

HUGE - Can not stand this.

OR OR... you can be on your phone as well and text each other instead of talking! But seriously, it's sad how many people actually spend time with their partners / friends this way... Soon we will forget how to communicate in person!

Career ambitious = bringing in the big bucks. Aka someone who will buy me nice things! (This is not me. I want someone with a sensible work ethic - sometimes that means doing some overtime, but that should be the exception, not the rule)

"did you tell them that annoyed you?" 'no, they should just know' Life is way too short to waste time huffing about and sulking, just communicate with each other properly.

I think a lot of people struggle with this, doesn't mean they're "toxic".

News flash... it actually makes you look worse

Toxic positiviity is EXHAUSTING

So true. At times in my life, I've been incredibly poor and it stops you from taking part in so many things that people who aren't in the same position simply don't understand.

I'm glad you don't want to shag every human being you come across, if you did, we'd have a problem. AND if the point you're making is "just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm flirting" I TOTALLY agree. I smile all the time, and I love talking to people, but I'm sick of people thinking I'm flirting just cause I talked to them. it's only happened a few times, but when it does happen it can mess you up for a while and leave you thinking, "wtf?"

It saddens me that some people care more about their curated online presence than their real life.

I would find this annoying too if it was apparent she only says it for compliments. However, some people really just have that bad self esteem. I used to be similar in my self image and have had too many experiences with people saying contrary to what they actually think that I wouldn't believe someone unless their actions matches their words. Some people are just treated badly.

It could be argued that all of you, who are arguing about gender identities are being narcissistic with your beliefs while denying others their beliefs such as the OP's. Priscilla and the rest, stop trying to dictate how others think and where their beliefs fall. You believe in all genders meaning there are more than one and that is groovy but it's not a shared concept by quite a lot of us. And that is perfectly ok because each of us is allowed to think for ourselves. Stop trying to change the narrative of a post you didn't create.

this is a turn off in a friendship, business partnership, interaction, school project, anything at all -- not just a romantic relationship

My dad does this to my mom and tries to do it with me and I'm like "no, I have too much anxiety to find more anxiety funny"

There is just absolutely NO need to to spit in public.

Looking down on anyone because of a personal preference that impacts nothing makes them pretty douchey

Yesssss. This.

Agreed, same with cleaning you room/house. Tells me I won't have to pick up after you

When they look orange, like Trump? That really does look absurd.

If I can smell your stink at a normal conversation-having distance... I don't want to know what other aromas lurk. 🤮

Very true. I don't like it when someone teases you in a really bullying way and then says 'it was just a joke, can't you take a joke?' Making you feel even worse!!

I am accused about this a lot at work. By one guy. Because I don't agree with him. He's always telling me, 'well that's your perspective'. But often it is just his personal opinion which he hasn't bothered to research or back with any credible evidence, findings or reports. So there could be two responses to this, is the person who you're referring to like him, someone who just refuses to think about or acknowledge statistics and facts that have been peer-reviewed in respected publications? Or are they like me and are simply not going to substitute whatever your opinion is for their own, just because you think they should with no viable basis for it?

No means no!

ladies too... it can get ugly quick, especially if they pull the Potiphar's wife stunt bc/ they didn't get what they wanted.

Or being really vague about what you mean to them, so you don't know what sort of relationship you are in. You feel like a nag if you try to clarify it all. I think it's so that they can justify the 'non' status of your relationship when they start dating other people without telling you.

This just makes me sad for them.

The popularity of giant lips has got ridiculous.

Baby talk

Yup. Had this one. Fair weather friendship - here for the fun, not for anything else. Everybody has rough patches and bad days and we should be allowed to be prepared for all sorts of weather in life.