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This Coffee Shop Employee Found A Genius Way To Deal With Jerk Customers, Asks People If She’s Mean For Doing So
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This Coffee Shop Employee Found A Genius Way To Deal With Jerk Customers, Asks People If She’s Mean For Doing So

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They’re shouting at the top of their voice. Their spit is flying everywhere. Their faces are red like a ripe tomato. And they’re angry beyond belief. Rude customers are the bane of anyone who’s ever worked in the service industry as a waiter, a server, or a cashier. Most of us have our personal favorite ways of dealing with angry people, but sometimes it takes some originality to stop them complaining.

Having decided that she’s had enough of rude customers pushing her around, one high schooler who works weekends at a coffee shop came up with a cunning plan. With her shift manager James’ help, she now pretends to get fired each time a customer loses their temper. The best part is—it works.

However, the high schooler was worried that she may have overstepped some boundaries. So she turned to Reddit’s AITA community to ask them their opinion about the situation.

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    Reactions to the coffee shop employee’s series of pranks were mixed on the AITA subreddit. While some exclaimed that the customers were the jerks for being rude, others said that even though the high schooler’s actions were justified, she and the customers were all jerks.

    There were even some Redditors who said the employee was the biggest jerk of all because she was disturbing all the other coffee shop’s customers with her dramatic prank.

    Barista Training Academy has some friendly suggestions that can help coffee shop employees and baristas deal with those caffeine-lovers who can’t keep a leash on their temper. For example, if a customer shouts at you, you shouldn’t shout back! Stay calm, cool, and professional. Like from that one awesome song in ‘Mulan’ that everyone remembers, be “tranquil as a forest but on fire within.”

    There’s also a chance that rude customers, no matter how impolite they might be, have some criticism for you that’s worth hearing out. After all, you want to be the best barista in the world, so you should take every chance to up your game and improve yourself.

    Whatever happens, don’t take it personally. Maybe the person who ordered the triple-syrup, no-foam, quadruple-espresso, decaf cappuccino and yelled at you for not adding any sugar, has had a very bad day and doesn’t know how to deal with their stress. Sometimes, people don’t know how to deal with their problems and lash out at strangers. It’s all a part of being human and maturing as individuals.

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    Dear Pandas, have any of you worked at a coffee shop or the service industry? How do you deal with rude customers? We can’t wait to hear from you, so drop us a line in the comments!

    Here’s how some Redditors reacted to the story

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    Jonas Grinevičius

    Jonas Grinevičius

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Jonas Grinevičius

    Jonas Grinevičius

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

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    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What baffles me is that there are people saying "Having to deal with rude people is part of the job." I hear it when they are talking about almost any job including first responders and it gets me furious. NO, it's not part of the job to accept rudeness, threats and insults when people are trying to help people. I'm lucky that my boss agreed with me when I refused service to rude people. But a lot of workers have to put up with it just because people think that "it's part of their job."

    K. Blanchette
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! How about you just don't be rude and not feed into the problem? People look for excuses to be a******s. After working in fast food and retail I do my best to stand up for associates that are getting berated.

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    Didon Zenith
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Repeat after me: customer service does not mean that you have to take abuse from clients! The idea that dealing with people taking out their anger and rage on you is false. I'm sorry but we aren't paid therapist for you to unload on. We are people providing a service for you and unless you have an actual complaint like it's the wrong order and still then you need to remember that you are dealing with actual human beings and that respect should be included. People treating customer service employees as garbage are the real a******s here!! Yes, managers are there to mediate issues but again, most things are out of their control. The coffee is not hot enough? The manager can clearly do nothing about it since op said themselves that it comes from a machine. As much as we laugh and hate them, I've been a manager and had some great ones and we all had one thing in common: the notion that the customer isn't always right. I even had a manager with a cane take a super long time to come whenever we had impossible clients because he wanted to p**s them off and he knew that the second they saw his cane none of them would complain about it. And I'm talking about people trying to return worn underwear here!!

    Didon Zenith
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgot to say this since it was early but most coffee chains actually have a limit for the coffee's heat nowadays because of too many people sueing them because they burned themselves so it would make sense if coffee machines also had a safety feature to avoid coffee being so hot that users receive second or third degree burns

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    Phil Boswell
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd love to know how the voting correlates with how the voters act themselves: I'll bet most of those saying the OP is the A-hole are the type who want to be able to shout at wait-staff without consequences to themselves >_<

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    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What baffles me is that there are people saying "Having to deal with rude people is part of the job." I hear it when they are talking about almost any job including first responders and it gets me furious. NO, it's not part of the job to accept rudeness, threats and insults when people are trying to help people. I'm lucky that my boss agreed with me when I refused service to rude people. But a lot of workers have to put up with it just because people think that "it's part of their job."

    K. Blanchette
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! How about you just don't be rude and not feed into the problem? People look for excuses to be a******s. After working in fast food and retail I do my best to stand up for associates that are getting berated.

    Load More Replies...
    Didon Zenith
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Repeat after me: customer service does not mean that you have to take abuse from clients! The idea that dealing with people taking out their anger and rage on you is false. I'm sorry but we aren't paid therapist for you to unload on. We are people providing a service for you and unless you have an actual complaint like it's the wrong order and still then you need to remember that you are dealing with actual human beings and that respect should be included. People treating customer service employees as garbage are the real a******s here!! Yes, managers are there to mediate issues but again, most things are out of their control. The coffee is not hot enough? The manager can clearly do nothing about it since op said themselves that it comes from a machine. As much as we laugh and hate them, I've been a manager and had some great ones and we all had one thing in common: the notion that the customer isn't always right. I even had a manager with a cane take a super long time to come whenever we had impossible clients because he wanted to p**s them off and he knew that the second they saw his cane none of them would complain about it. And I'm talking about people trying to return worn underwear here!!

    Didon Zenith
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgot to say this since it was early but most coffee chains actually have a limit for the coffee's heat nowadays because of too many people sueing them because they burned themselves so it would make sense if coffee machines also had a safety feature to avoid coffee being so hot that users receive second or third degree burns

    Load More Replies...
    Phil Boswell
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd love to know how the voting correlates with how the voters act themselves: I'll bet most of those saying the OP is the A-hole are the type who want to be able to shout at wait-staff without consequences to themselves >_<

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