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Talking about illness is not easy; however, it helps to raise awareness and emphasizes things that shouldn’t be overlooked when it comes to health. And even though no two stories are the same, some symptoms are specific to certain illnesses, which is why learning about them can prove useful.
Redditor u/TrojanZebra started a conversation on the topic with the members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community. He addressed people who have gone through or were going through cancer and asked them what was the first sign that made them go to the doctor. Fellow redditors provided answers and shared their personal experiences with battling the disease. Scroll down to find the stories in their own words below.
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#1
My cat found my cancer and bugged me about it until I went to the doctor.
My cat has always like to lay on me and “knead” part of my body with her paws. For 7 years it was random, various parts of my body. Then for about 6 months she started to focus on one spot on my chest. At first I chalked it up to her wanting to be closer to my face, but after a couple months I noticed that the spot she was focused on had become very tender. Then I felt a small lump in that spot. Due to my (relatively young age), it took me a couple of months to convince one of my doctors that it was a potential issue, but eventually I got tested and had a pretty giant tumor in that spot (plus other tumors elsewhere).
Yes, kitty got lots of cuddles, wet food, and Greenies as a thank you.
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#2
My 33 year old husband was diagnosed with inoperable glioblastoma (most aggressive brain cancer) in January 2019, when he was 31. What caused him to get a check, was persistent headache that didn’t go away with paracetamols and sleep. We discovered the tumours after taking an MRI.
Needless to say, our lives were changed forever. Now we are at the end of our journey, and it’s been a harrowing experience for me as his wife and caregiver. It’s a lonely journey. I don’t wish it upon anyone and no one has any idea what glioblastoma is like, unless they have gone through it. The median survival time is 14-18 months. We are on our 18th month now.. and given days/ weeks left. Every day is a gift, and I’m glad I get to be holding his hands every day, even if he’s resting and sleeping most of the time. As long as he is not in pain, and that the morphine patches are working, that is fine by me... I can’t handle him going through anymore pain.
Edit: Thank you so much for sharing your stories, giving me strength and support, and I’m so blessed to even be receiving all of your kindness. It’s such a touchy subject and I’m hurt all the time, but you guys being so kind, really makes me cry happy tears. I’m so touched. I don’t know how to describe it but I feel a little bit lifted. And that’s more than I can ask for, from the Internet. My husband, Viktor, would have been so grateful, to know that he is loved and supported by more people than he thought he was. Thank you. ❤️
Edit (2nd Aug): Viktor has passed away yesterday, on 1st August, 7.43pm Swedish time. He was surrounded by his brother and me and smiled a lot to the very end. At his final resting position, his face looked relaxed and a little smile can be seen by us too. I am still in shock, processing what has happened to us. I’ll take the time I need to process this and grieve. I just miss my husband. I miss his laughs. I miss his smile. I feel loved. I know I’m loved. So that’s keeping me together. Thank you so much for your kind support even though we are strangers on the Internet. I am both saddened and moved by the generosity of others to offer support, love and to bare their personal pain related to GBM/cancer/loss in general.
Thank you. May Viktor find peace. I know he’s not in pain now.
#3
My brother was 11 when he started experiencing symptoms. He started losing a lot of weight, and when he was playing soccer it looked like he was running through mud and couldn’t keep up with everyone else. My parents took him to the pediatrician and they couldn’t figure out what was wrong. One day, he woke up and couldn’t stop throwing up. When he tried to run to the bathroom, he kept running into the door frame and couldn’t walk straight. He said the lights were giving him a headache. We took him to the emergency room and they found that he had a brain tumor, and had emergency brain surgery the next day. We were extremely lucky that they decided to do a CAT scan at the ER, apparently they don’t usually do them on kids.
Two brain surgeries and a year and a half of chemo later, and he is in remission now!
#4
I was fooling around in a mall as a kid. So My dad grabbed me by the neck to make me behave. He felt a lump on my neck and immediately began to get nervous. We went to the doctor the next day, caught the cancer before it spread and was able to surgically remove it about a month later. Got super lucky.
#5
My self diagnosed IBS was actually a tumor and it hemoraged. Stage 4 Rectal cancer. I beat that but it is in my liver now too big to operate. I am living my best life while I can!
#6
I was 17, getting ready for spring break back in 2010. Was making plans with my boyfriend on the phone because we were going to take his brothers to the zoo in a different city.
Literally in seconds there's this big translucent blind spot in my eye that is orange. I can see dark shapes behind it but it's super blurry.
I figured I would just go to the eye doctor before I left the next day, but my sister (who actually works for the cancer center in my city) told me that I should go to the hospital because anything weird with your vision can be super serious.
After 36 hours of Emergency waits, driving to specialists, they finally admitted me to the eye ward for a bacterial infection. Then they took my blood for a routine blood test.
Within an hour or so (as I was getting ready to sleep) a doctor and nurse come in. The nurse has a box of tissues. The doctor told me my "blood is leukemic" to which I asked "okay, can I treat that?" He was extremely unclear on what was happening, I was 17, my family had already left, and I had no idea about any cancers.
I was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia and started chemo that night after being transfered to a different hospital. They did a bone marrow biopsy the next morning and then sent it to a genetic lab in another province. When the test results came back they changed my diagnosis to Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia in the Blast Phase Crisis (final stage) that was caused by the Philadelphia Chromosome - where chromosomes 9 and 22 switch places and causes a mutation in my red blood cells. Told me I was the youngest person in the world with it, as CML usually takes a very long time to progress and the final stage doesn't show until around 65 years of age. That change in diagnosis changed my timeline. They had originally said 6 months to a year untreated, but now it was 1-3 months if I didn't get a stem cell transplant or bone marrow transplant.
All this because I had blood clots happening all over my body because of the abnormalities of my red blood cell shapes - and the one in my eye presented itself in my vision since the vessels are so small.
Edit - I guess I never finished off, I just celebrated 10 years in remission on June 17th this year and I'm healthy. My sister ended up being a 10/10 DNA marker match and I was able to get a stem cell transplant on June 17th, 2010. Still immunocompromised and taking Dasatinib everyday (chemo pill), but able to live my life. Covid has been really worrisome for me, but I'm just trying to be as careful as possible. Thanks for all the comments!
And p.s. I'm a female! The boyfriend was extremely supportive for a teenager and we were together for 7 years before we parted ways mutually.
Jeremy James 1 year ago
If you want to find out if you can be a life-saving bone marrow donor, please join a registry. They will send you a free DNA swab kit.
#7
I had what I thought was a stroke and found out I have a Glioblastoma. I was given 12-15 months and so far I’ve made it to the 15th month!
#8
Unbearable stomach pain in the middle of the night at 32
24 hours later a 15cm cyst was found in my right ovary
6 weeks later I was told it was ovarian cancer
20 days later I had a complete hysterectomy
I'm 34, in menopause, cured and very lucky. Thank you NHS
Rachel Ainsworth 1 year ago
My first symptom of ovarian cancer was lower back pain that didn't get better. I thought it was just a muscle problem so did yoga everyday for a few weeks. Blood tests showed nothing outside of the so called "normal" ranges. After a few months, a fluid filled mass appeared in my abdomen, that I was told was probably "just a cyst". It was recommended that I wait to get publically funded surgery (2-12 months), but private surgery was also mentioned as an option. I chose to pay for surgery asap from my savings, as I had a bad feeling, and it turned out that it was ovarian cancer.
#9
My dad had a nipple pulling in that he knew about for "several months" before mentioning to anyone. He now thinks it may have been a year before he actually mentioned it to my mom, who demanded he see a doctor about it immediately. He was diagnosed with Stage 4 Breast Cancer. After chemo, a double mastectomy, and radiation, he is in remission.
I would be remiss if I didn't include this on his behalf: male breast cancer is not as uncommon as you think it is. Pay attention to any changes in your body and get yourself checked out.
Adrienne Doyle 1 year ago
I found out that in families with the gene for breast cancer, it puts men at risk for male breast cancer, as well as prostate cancer. So, if you're male and your female relatives have that gene, you might want to look into getting that test for yourself.
#10
My head and neck area became very swollen. At first I thought I was just getting fat, so I worked out a lot and ate better. This did not help. I also went to a local clinic and they thought it might be an allergic reaction and gave me steroids, which also didn’t help. The thing that finally made me go to the emergency room and not leave until I had an answer is that I started to develop unexplained bruises on my chest.
Turns out I had a huge tumor in my chest which had grown around my heart and was compressing the superior vena cava so blood couldn’t flow back down from my head. Not great!
The good news is that it turned out to be very treatable and I’ve been cancer free for 11 years now.
#11
Testicular Cancer survivor here. I had a dull pain one day in my right testicle. Didn't think much of it. I then took a shower and my ball felt different, it wasn't smooth. I just felt that something was different. I went to my doctor and asked him to check them to make sure things were normal. He did the check and didn't think things felt off but ordered an ultrasound anyway. I went and did the ultrasound, and I didn't hear what they found. They just asked me to go back for another ultrasound. The next day I got told I had to go to the hospital to see the urologist. Within minutes of meeting the doctor, he told me I had testicular cancer and was having surgery that night. It happened so fast. I caught mine early. Now I tell everyone to feel your balls and know your normal.
#12
Had a friend who pulled her back, did it camping. She just couldn't pinpoint exactly how or when. She dealt with it for a month and finally after Thanksgiving decided to go to the doctor to see if they could help.
Pancreatic cancer, she passed away 45 days later.
Fast forward 10 years, my sisters boyfriend pulled his back. He did pool and pest control work so he figured he just lifted wrong. After a few weeks I reminded my sister of our friend and pancreatic cancer. She finally convinced him to go get it looked at.
He passed away a little less than 3 months later.
Shark Lady 1 year ago
Pancreatic cancer is one of the least survivable because it grows for ages before any symptoms appear.
#13
Had a real bad cold I just couldn’t get rid of. I felt worse and worse each day for around four months. Never went to the Dr because I was 30 and it was a cold and I had a $5000 deductible. I finally go see a Doc, get a p**s-poor examination and a script for antibiotics. I did feel better on them, but the day after the antibiotics course was over, I was back to feeling like hell. The day I finally went to the ER, I was getting ready for work and had to sit and rest just from getting dressed. Then, I walked out to my car and had to stop and lean on the car to rest before even getting in. I got to work and when my boss noticed I couldn’t stand for more than two minutes without having to sit down she insisted that I go to the ER. After they checked my blood, the doc came in and basically told me that he’s not sure how I’m still alive because I have a hemoglobin level of 2 (a level of 8 is considered an emergency requiring immediate blood transfusions) At least now I know why I felt like I was dying! He tells me that I could be because of an ulcer or other internal bleeding, or it could be a cancer like leukemia or lymphoma. As soon as he said that, in my mind I said “yeah, it’s cancer.” I had an endoscopy that night which found no internal bleeding, and throughout the night I needed ten back to back blood transfusions. I woke up feeling like a million bucks because I actually had blood in my body for the first time in months. I’m super fortunate that doctors were able to move quickly with my treatment, I had a successful bone marrow transplant at one of the top hospitals in the US, and I’ll be three years of remission in August!
#14
I was four, I didn’t want to be a bother to anyone so I tried as best as possible to hide the pain in my leg. My pre-k teacher noticed I was limping and told my parents about it. I was diagnosed with osteosarcoma and had my left leg amputated through the knee. This October will be 16 years since I ended treatment!
#15
My sister noticed a small painful lump in her breast shortly after having her second child. Doctor diagnosed a blocked mammary gland. A couple weeks later it still wasn’t gone. Again doc said blocked gland. Months later it’s still not gone and she insists on getting a second opinion. Stage 3 breast cancer. Double mastectomy immediately followed by months of agonizing radiation and chemo only to find out it’s now stage four. She’s been stable for a few years but now it’s spreading again and we don’t know how long we have w her. Trying to be as positive as possible.
#16
My dad was acting strange. He looked disheveled somewhat and was telling the same stories. Well he's 86, that can come with age. But he was also swerving on the road driving and he called me one day to take him to his doctor. Long story short, stage 4 GBM; brain cancer. Had surgery, was ok for a couple of months but was gone a couple months after that. Good part was, had had no pain and didn't suffer.
Edit: Thank you!
#17
I had a persistent pain in the middle of my sternum. Doctors thought it was costochondritis (essentially just inflammation of a joint). I stopped working out and lifting heavy things for 3 months but it didn't go away. Eventually I started having nightsweats and random aches. After I fractured my hip, I got an MRI and biopsy and they diagnosed me with stage IV non Hodgkin's lymphoma. I got chemo and I've been in remission for 5 years.
EDIT: I'm seeing a lot of people describing a similar chest pain and getting scared. Not all chest pain is cancer and not all cancer is chest pain. I felt the pain in my chest because my tumor happened to be growing there. It could just as easily have grown somewhere else, and my story might have started with describing a persistent pain in the middle of my shin.
If you're worried about something, talk to your doctor!
KOTLC_Fan 🇺🇦 1 year ago
My best friend had stage 2 Hodgkins Lymphoma, she just rang the bell today. What a coincidence!
#18
Trigger warning:
Sex and Blood.
Cervix cancer. A couple of times during sex blood would just randomly pour out of me. Nowhere near my time of month and no pain. Turns out that is one of the warning signs.
Three surgeries later I have had my cervix (the mouth og the uterus) removed completely, bit by bit. They tried taking only what they had to, as lack of a cervix makes impregnation and carrying to term harder, but it kept reappearing. I Hope it's done now.
Edit. A lot of women (and other concerned people) have been asking me stuff so here are the most common questions answered.
Keep in mind that English is not my first language and that I am NOT a medically trained person.
- It was during sex. He pulled out and it followed.
- It looked like a quarter of a cup. It was enough to literally pour out of me and it pooled on the sheets.
- Light spotting or a few drops of blood during sex is probably just due to chafing of the fragile tissue in the vagina. No biggie. A lot of blood like this or even just enough to coat your partners member is cause for worry. Do check your schedule, though. He may just have kick started your period.
- It was not my period. It was nowhere near that time of the month and I - in any case - never bleed that much or all at once. THe blood was also fresh with no clots, like a nosebleed.
- If at any point, during or outside of sex, blood starts randomly pouring out of ANY orifice (not just the vagoo) get it looked at. Even if it stops on its own. It is not a normal reaction. (Comments on knife-play not appreciated).
- I was 26 years old when this happened and it was relatively short time after having a scheduled pap smear (maybe 6 months?).
- I had previously been treated for genital warts (thanks a bunch Kenneth!) and have a low resistance to any wart-related vira, including the HPV virus which can trigger cell anomalies in the cervix.
- I have since gotten the HPV vaccine, since even if I have already had this s**t, it will strengthen the immune system. Apart from dizzyness and a slight fever, I had no side effects from the vaccine, and I REALLY REALLY recommend getting it. Mand, woman, all benefits. (You can carry and infect women with HPV as a male). And for the love of Gods: Get your kids vaccinated!!
- The procedure is called a LEEP (Loop Electrosurgical Excision Procedure). These are done when you have localized cancer cells on the cervix and just removes the area with the abnormal cells. When the cancer is a higher stage, a hysterectomy (removal of the uterus), and/or chemotherapy with radiation are the usual courses of treatment.
- Side/after effects of LEEP were very slight. I was sore and not allowed to swim, do heavy lifting or have sex for 4 weeks. That was it.
- You can still get pregnant without a cervix, it is just harder because it isn't there to "funnel" in the sperm. You also have a greater risk of not carrying to term, but there are procedures to help with that.
If you want more info on this type of cancer, go to Jo's trust:
https://www.jostrust.org.uk/
Isabelle Robson 1 year ago
Thank you for posting your amazing explanation of the follow up, brilliant! X
#19
Back in 2017, I had been having back pain for several months. I finally went to urgent care one day when the pain was unbearable. They sent me immediately to the ER. I was admitted to the hospital and was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer. It had spread to my liver and bones. My life completely changed that day. When faced with dying, I realized that I wanted to live. Before this, I had my suicide completely planned out. I feel like things happen for a reason and things work out the way they are supposed to. I'm a new person today. I spend every day fighting for a life that I wanted to throw away.
#20
My brother was 2 when he was diagnosed. It started with zero energy. Instead of playing or wanting to be outside or normal toddler high energy, he wanted to nap on the couch. Then he started throwing up because of smells from my stepmoms cooking. Eggs especially which used to be his fave. Then he was dizzy constantly and had a hard time walking which previously wasn’t a problem. The dizzy made him throw up more.
Stage 4 brain cancer. 2% chance of living.
Massive brain surgery and he’s 23 and still with us! His cognitive ability was severely affected due to tumor location so I’d say cognitively he’s more 13 then 23. He’ll never be able to drive a car or have kids but he’s happy and he’s the hardest working 23 year old I know.
It just sucks for him because he’s smart enough to know he’s different then peers his age but cognitively damaged enough that he can’t make himself fit in.
#21
My mom found out she has cancer a week ago, at first she felt pain in her armpitmand naturally she did some research and found out that the people who have pain in the same spot have cancer. However, i didnt give it much thought as every cancer diagnosis is different. The next day she went to the doctor, turns out its a tumor. The week after she tested the tumor to see if its cancerous and sadly it was. Tomorrow the doctor will tell her the plan for recovery. Please pray for her fast recovery.
Edit: Thank you everyone for the support, I lost my dad to cancer two years ago when I was 12, thanks for all of your prayers I really hope my mom can recover through this
#22
Super heavy periods that would last for 10 or more days. Got an iud to help control bleeding. Actually hemorrhaged so bad the iud came out. Endometrial Cancer, huge tumor in my uterus. Ladies, it's not normal to need a tampon and pad at the same time. It's not normal to need to change them every 10 minutes or even every hour. An average period is 2-3 Tablespoons, just for reference. Sorry if TMI.
Edited to add:
Thank you for the well wishes, I am one year NED (no evidence of disease). I was diagnosed at 40.
I wish I could respond to everyone. The main take away is if something is not right, keep looking for answers and the right physician.
Heavy periods do not usually mean cancer in pre menopausal women, but there is no reason to suffer through them.
Post menopausal women should not experience any bleeding, one drop and you should go to the doctor right away.
Lyone Fein 1 year ago
And make the doctors listen to you. Too many doctors ignore or downplay women's concerns. Don't let yourself be beaten down.
#23
PSA: unintended weight loss or finding blood where you normally wouldn't. Get yourself to a doctor.
A gay cat man 1 year ago
this is weird, cuz i have depression, and sometimes I lose weight for no reason, so ill have to check this out
#24
I feel I must answer this question. I had signs of cancer for about a year before it was discovered. But my signs were not obvious. I had a backache that responded to massive doses of ibuprofen, so it went on for awhile. I had been to the doctor on numerous occasions, and was treated as a sort of neurotic, middle aged lady with aches and pains. I was treated for fibromyalgia (meds made me nutty), told to get massages, given cortisone shots in the knotty muscles on my back, etc. My husband finally accompanied me and demanded they do some blood work because he could tell this wasn’t normal “aches and pains”. Very telling blood work was done, but ignored, probably because the doc saw no emergency. I was finally referred to another doc who did more blood work, then left town. I was begging for results to no avail. I became weaker and could not go to work. I became feverish and was at last crawling back and forth to the bathroom to get in a tub of cold water. Finally, my husband said, “We’re going to the emergency room.”
When I finally got in to see the doctors in the ER, they looked me up and down and asked questions . . I meekly offered that there had been some recent blood work done, if that would help. They looked it up, and immediately I was put into a room and given I’m not sure how many units of blood. I was nearly bloodless!!
After a week of extensive testing (bone marrow test, MRI, and continual blood monitoring,) a mass showed up on a CT scan. I had a softball sized tumor growing behind my esophagus, and it was bleeding into my stomach and being digested as a rare steak would be. That’s why I never saw blood in my stool. The doc who never paid attention to my blood work in the first place came in and prescribed me huge bottles of vicodin. Needless to say, I never asked for her services again.
I had a huge surgery, removing my stomach, much of my esophagus, my spleen, an adrenal gland and part of my pancreas. The surgeon wanted to go higher up on my esophagus, but if he did, I would never be able to swallow, and would have to have a feeding tube. But that didn’t matter, because they only gave me a couple of months to live. My husband said no to this, and asked the surgeon, “Why not take our chances with chemo and see if that works?”
Thank God they did, because 8 years later, here I am. I didn’t die. And I can eat almost anything!
There is much more to this story, but I am here to say that the cancer symptoms were not at all obvious. I had never had heartburn or reflux - never smoked - but yet the tumor was in my esophagus. It had wrapped its tentacles around my spine, and that is what was causing the tremendous back pain all those months. Massages and cortisone shots did not quite cut it as cures for a large cancerous tumor. The pain after surgery was immense, but I never had that awful back pain again!
I would say having somewhat regular blood work is probably the best way to find out if there is an unusual imbalance - that is what (FINALLY) exposed my cancer.
I would add, since seeing a somewhat disbelieving comment on my answer, that yes, it is entirely possible to digest food without a stomach. And although I do believe smoking can cause cancer in some cases I in no way intended to bash any smokers but simply mentioned this because esophageal cancer is often linked to smoking.
Thank you for all the comments. I hope this has encouraged someone. I know when I was told I only had a short time to live, hearing stories of survival greatly encouraged me.
#25
Last year (March 2019) I (male, 35) woke up in the morning to go to the toilet. I was urinating pure, thick blood with little lumps in it. So after a severe panic attack it began to hurt like hell. I was throwing up from the pain. After a day in the hospital en some scans en tests later, they told me to call my parents. So you know you're getting some bad news. It turns out it was kidney cancer. They removed my right kidney, fortunately no other treatments were needed, and I'm living the best life right now. If the tumor in my kidney didn't started to bleed I would have found out much much later, probably to late.
AK to LV 1 year ago
My grandmother had hip pain for years. She had seen various Drs, had massages and seen chiropractors. Finally, they found out that her kidney wasn't functioning right. When they pulled I'm the kidney out it was shriveled and black. She did chemo and went into remission for 9 years before getting sick again.
#26
Had a different type of discharge down south. Cervical cancer - early stages. Had a big chunk of my cervix cut out, get annual PAP smears no matter what and am hyper vigilant of any changes down south.
Have your kids get the HPV vaccine, trust me.
#27
My Nana.
She had very loose bowel movements, which had caused her to get dehydrated. Her levels for electrolytes were way out of normal range. She later found out that she had a cancerous mass on her ovaries. They caught it in time and she went through surgery and chemotherapy. Everything is fine now.
#28
Brother started forgetting words even while looking at object, could not say them. Could write them or even describe all parts of object but not name like shoe laces. Soon lost peripheral vision even before he could get to his primary doctor. All that within just 3 weeks.
Diagnosed with glioblastoma in February and died in June.
#29
Dry patch of skin on my forehead wouldn't stop scabbing and then bleeding. Decided that was because I couldn't stop picking it. Ignored it for 5 years because I'm 1) That afraid of doctors and 2) That incredibly stupid.
Decided to leave it alone for ten days and let it heal. It didn't. Finally got sick of worrying about it being basal cell carcinoma and went and got diagnosed. Basal cell carcinoma. It was dealt with pretty easily but don't be like me.
KittyGotClaws 1 year ago (edited)
You're lucky -- basal cell carcinoma is usually slow growing, but still. OP had classical basal cell carcinoma symptoms. It something on your skin isn't healing, get if checked!
#30
I was about 12 and I noticed a gray spot in my left eye so I went to the eye doctor it turned out to be retinoblastoma. And fastfoward about 1 week I had my eye removed and started chemo. And now have a glass eye that has to get redone every 2 years until I was 16
What do you think ?
Leo Domitrix 1 year ago
Pester doctors. (says the medical doctor) We have our off days at work, too. Also, most of the time, that pain/itch/weird thing is really no big deal... Until it is. Hubby had fatigue, turned out to be cancer, but it could've been 100 other things, none dangerous. My aunt was losing weight, but she was on a diet, so the cancer slid under the radar for a while. Etc. If you think your doc or whoever isn't listening? Demand a second opinion, even in the US. It's cheaper than paying for chemo.
Babs McGurk 1 year ago
I had an incredibly itchy spot on my left calf. It had also changed texture. I was at the doctor for my regular yearly check-up, and happened to mention it. He looked at it and thought it was nothing, but had it tested anyway. It turned out to be melanoma, which was successfully excised with no metastasis. I never knew that itching was a sign of cancer. I am truly blessed, and I would suggest that anyone experiencing any unusual symptoms have them checked by a medical professional.
Rachel Ainsworth 1 year ago
Go to the doctor if you have unusual symptoms but realise that doctors work on a "most likely" basis for diagnosis, so they will tell you it's something normal like low iron levels without looking any underlying causes (especially if you are a woman). If you think something is wrong, you need to keep going back or find a better doctor. A high percentage of cancers are diagnosed in the hospital emergency room because doctors don't listen and won't perform simple blood tests or scans until it's too late on the basis that "it's unlikely to be cancer because of your age".
The Veil of Fire 1 year ago
My mothers cancer was assumed by her doctor after a yearly blood test results. It started the doctor parade. From blood test results to surgery was just 21 days. Mom was just 74 years old, had what the surgeon called a modified whipple procedure. She luckily was cancer free for 10 years then had another cancer, surgery, same surgeon. This time a modified Hemicolectomy. At 84 we decided not to follow up with radiation or chemo if she was younger we would have done so. Mom died at 91 from heart troubles. Cancer is bad, but not always terminal. Having yearly exams can give you life. Mom never had symptoms. Just blood tests.
ChocolateCake 1 year ago
My grandfather had begun to become confused with a lot of things and started forgetting words and switching in and out of English and Dutch. We found out that he had a tumor. There was a lot of surgery but he is doing well now and on the road to recovery!
JuniorCJ82 1 year ago
I got (incredibly) lucky. I was told I had some bad stuff in my lady box and removal was recommended. I had been having not so friendly (e.g. violent) irregular episodes for about two years at that point. Turns out, this was partially why. Over the course of the next month, I had multiple tests done which all came back clean as a whistle. This meant that there was no spread or metastasis and it was all contained. The stage and grade were the lowest they could be. It was caught very early. The surgery was done laparoscopically and went very well. My week post-op visit went well too. Everything was dealt with as a result of the removal. Thank God, it truly was a one-and-done.
Rosie 1 year ago
Red eyes. I thought it was just stress or allergies (although they were not itchy). Eventually went to the cardiologist because I was feeling weak & my BP was a bit too high. I was already in treatment, but only mildly & well under control. Diagnosis? Polycytemia Vera, a mild form (if there's such thing) of bone marrow cancer. I'm on oral chemo forever & need constant checking & adjusting of the meds (secondary effects are a pain), but I'm alive & so far no leukemia. Please don't ignore little symptoms that don't go away.
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago
I am now paranoid. Basically, lump=check it, blood=check immediately, and a lot of doctors simply don’t believe you. These people are all very brave
ggus44 1 year ago
Cancer kills really fast... Not a person in my story, but my dog. He died 50 days after the first symptoms. Had lots of exams, lots of different vets and specialists, but couldn't find the problem, everybody thought it was urinary infection. When we found out it was cancer, he died 20 days after 😢
Lord of the laserprinter. 1 year ago
Cancer takes no prisoners and now I have the heebie-jeebies.
Isaac Harvey 1 year ago
From experience, unexplained repeating symptoms can be a significant indicator. My migraines started sometime in 2011, repeated sporadically from then through 2013, and an MRI in August showed my brain tumor for the first but far from last time. My mom is a doctor, and I can't imagine this ever crossed her mind before that moment. Just because something is extremely unlikely doesn't make it impossible.
MongoMarcia 1 year ago
No signs at all. No lumps or bumps. No pain. Nothing looked different. Fortunately my gyno made me get mammograms as soon as I turned 40. At 48 diagnosed with breast cancer. Stage 1 because I got the mammogram every year. Caught early. 11 years cancer free. THERE ARE NOT ALWAYS SYMPTOMS. GET YOUR MAMOS GRAMED!
FABULOUS1 1 year ago
My oldest sister went to the doctors and the ER several times. They went over her history and after she told them she was an ex-drug addict they kept telling her it was all on her head and nothing was wrong. Two months later she went to the emergency room again and died that night. My mother paid for an autopsy and because the cancer was throughout her entire body they said they could not pinpoint where it started. I am honestly scared to go to the doctor, and even when I do I have to twist his arm to run test.
Christos Arvanitis 1 year ago
My friend died just last week less than 60 days after being diagnosed with Stage 4 melanoma. Healthiest, most fit and active person I've ever known. In 2003 my girlfriend and I were cross country skiing and she couldn't flex her leg all the way back. Inoperable chondrosarcoma. Died in 16 months. Cancer sucks...
Colleen Foley 1 year ago
I have two, so I'll start with the more serious one. My father became diabetic and progressed rapidly to insulin. Before, he had tended towards hypoglycemia, so it was unusual. But, he was a bit overweight and over 50 so no one thought anything of it. Fast forward nine months or so and he is suddenly severely jaundiced. Turns out he had pancreatic cancer that had spread to his liver, hence the jaundice. They gave him a few months. He got into a chemo trial that helped greatly and he ended up living 3 years. But, if it had been caught when he became diabetic, he may have lived. Furthermore, his mother, at least one of his maternal aunts, and his sister all had breast cancer at some point. The breast cancer gene is linked to pancreatic cancer. I am playing it safe. I got tested for the gene and I get my mammograms.
Colleen Foley 1 year ago
My 2nd is my story. In my early 30s I had high blood.pressure and good insurance so I regularly saw my doctor. She was watching my white blood cell count as it was chronically elevated. Not drastically so, but a bit odd. I missed a November appointment. In January I had to work off-site 1.5 hours away. Was sleepy all day and falling asleep driving home, which is so not me. Turns out my WBC was through the roof. One bone marrow biopsy later, I was diagnosed with chronic myeloid leukemia. I was only just 32. 17 years later, I am undetectable, but I have to take daily medication to stay that way. I get all the side effects, so after all of these years it got to the point where I can't work. But, I'm alive and things don't totally suck.
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MoJo1979 1 year ago
My sister caught me itching a mole on my neck, it wasn't big or raised, just itchy/scabby. She asked me to go get it checked and just to shut her up, I did. Thanks to her, it was skin cancer. NHS waiting list was 18 months, but I'm lucky enough to have private heath care through my employer and had it removed within 6 weeks and no further treatment was needed. The doctor said if I'd waited for the NHS, that it would have spread.
ejfs 1 year ago
... reading these makes me realise just how lucky I was that my symptoms turned out to be an autoimmune disorder. I have parents who don't really believe in going to the dr unless it's "necessary" so I was basically afraid to tell them what was going on. I soon ended up sick enough that they couldn't pretend I was fine any more.
Nikki Sevven 1 year ago
One of my mom's friends complained to her doctor about unrelenting shoulder pain. He did no diagnostics, just made the assumption that she pulled a muscle and sent her to physical therapy. After a couple months of no improvements, she saw a different doctor. Small cell lung cancer. She died 6 months later.
Adam Jeff 1 year ago
I haven't read these, I just came to say DO NOT TRY TO LEARN MEDICINE FROM BP. If you have unexplained symptoms, ask a medical professional or, if you want to check online, go to something reputable like ADA or WebMD.
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago (edited)
I’m genuinely confused, because (at least now) no one is mentioning remedies to anything or medicine
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 1 year ago
Pester doctors. (says the medical doctor) We have our off days at work, too. Also, most of the time, that pain/itch/weird thing is really no big deal... Until it is. Hubby had fatigue, turned out to be cancer, but it could've been 100 other things, none dangerous. My aunt was losing weight, but she was on a diet, so the cancer slid under the radar for a while. Etc. If you think your doc or whoever isn't listening? Demand a second opinion, even in the US. It's cheaper than paying for chemo.
Babs McGurk 1 year ago
I had an incredibly itchy spot on my left calf. It had also changed texture. I was at the doctor for my regular yearly check-up, and happened to mention it. He looked at it and thought it was nothing, but had it tested anyway. It turned out to be melanoma, which was successfully excised with no metastasis. I never knew that itching was a sign of cancer. I am truly blessed, and I would suggest that anyone experiencing any unusual symptoms have them checked by a medical professional.
Rachel Ainsworth 1 year ago
Go to the doctor if you have unusual symptoms but realise that doctors work on a "most likely" basis for diagnosis, so they will tell you it's something normal like low iron levels without looking any underlying causes (especially if you are a woman). If you think something is wrong, you need to keep going back or find a better doctor. A high percentage of cancers are diagnosed in the hospital emergency room because doctors don't listen and won't perform simple blood tests or scans until it's too late on the basis that "it's unlikely to be cancer because of your age".
The Veil of Fire 1 year ago
My mothers cancer was assumed by her doctor after a yearly blood test results. It started the doctor parade. From blood test results to surgery was just 21 days. Mom was just 74 years old, had what the surgeon called a modified whipple procedure. She luckily was cancer free for 10 years then had another cancer, surgery, same surgeon. This time a modified Hemicolectomy. At 84 we decided not to follow up with radiation or chemo if she was younger we would have done so. Mom died at 91 from heart troubles. Cancer is bad, but not always terminal. Having yearly exams can give you life. Mom never had symptoms. Just blood tests.
ChocolateCake 1 year ago
My grandfather had begun to become confused with a lot of things and started forgetting words and switching in and out of English and Dutch. We found out that he had a tumor. There was a lot of surgery but he is doing well now and on the road to recovery!
JuniorCJ82 1 year ago
I got (incredibly) lucky. I was told I had some bad stuff in my lady box and removal was recommended. I had been having not so friendly (e.g. violent) irregular episodes for about two years at that point. Turns out, this was partially why. Over the course of the next month, I had multiple tests done which all came back clean as a whistle. This meant that there was no spread or metastasis and it was all contained. The stage and grade were the lowest they could be. It was caught very early. The surgery was done laparoscopically and went very well. My week post-op visit went well too. Everything was dealt with as a result of the removal. Thank God, it truly was a one-and-done.
Rosie 1 year ago
Red eyes. I thought it was just stress or allergies (although they were not itchy). Eventually went to the cardiologist because I was feeling weak & my BP was a bit too high. I was already in treatment, but only mildly & well under control. Diagnosis? Polycytemia Vera, a mild form (if there's such thing) of bone marrow cancer. I'm on oral chemo forever & need constant checking & adjusting of the meds (secondary effects are a pain), but I'm alive & so far no leukemia. Please don't ignore little symptoms that don't go away.
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago
I am now paranoid. Basically, lump=check it, blood=check immediately, and a lot of doctors simply don’t believe you. These people are all very brave
ggus44 1 year ago
Cancer kills really fast... Not a person in my story, but my dog. He died 50 days after the first symptoms. Had lots of exams, lots of different vets and specialists, but couldn't find the problem, everybody thought it was urinary infection. When we found out it was cancer, he died 20 days after 😢
Lord of the laserprinter. 1 year ago
Cancer takes no prisoners and now I have the heebie-jeebies.
Isaac Harvey 1 year ago
From experience, unexplained repeating symptoms can be a significant indicator. My migraines started sometime in 2011, repeated sporadically from then through 2013, and an MRI in August showed my brain tumor for the first but far from last time. My mom is a doctor, and I can't imagine this ever crossed her mind before that moment. Just because something is extremely unlikely doesn't make it impossible.
MongoMarcia 1 year ago
No signs at all. No lumps or bumps. No pain. Nothing looked different. Fortunately my gyno made me get mammograms as soon as I turned 40. At 48 diagnosed with breast cancer. Stage 1 because I got the mammogram every year. Caught early. 11 years cancer free. THERE ARE NOT ALWAYS SYMPTOMS. GET YOUR MAMOS GRAMED!
FABULOUS1 1 year ago
My oldest sister went to the doctors and the ER several times. They went over her history and after she told them she was an ex-drug addict they kept telling her it was all on her head and nothing was wrong. Two months later she went to the emergency room again and died that night. My mother paid for an autopsy and because the cancer was throughout her entire body they said they could not pinpoint where it started. I am honestly scared to go to the doctor, and even when I do I have to twist his arm to run test.
Christos Arvanitis 1 year ago
My friend died just last week less than 60 days after being diagnosed with Stage 4 melanoma. Healthiest, most fit and active person I've ever known. In 2003 my girlfriend and I were cross country skiing and she couldn't flex her leg all the way back. Inoperable chondrosarcoma. Died in 16 months. Cancer sucks...
Colleen Foley 1 year ago
I have two, so I'll start with the more serious one. My father became diabetic and progressed rapidly to insulin. Before, he had tended towards hypoglycemia, so it was unusual. But, he was a bit overweight and over 50 so no one thought anything of it. Fast forward nine months or so and he is suddenly severely jaundiced. Turns out he had pancreatic cancer that had spread to his liver, hence the jaundice. They gave him a few months. He got into a chemo trial that helped greatly and he ended up living 3 years. But, if it had been caught when he became diabetic, he may have lived. Furthermore, his mother, at least one of his maternal aunts, and his sister all had breast cancer at some point. The breast cancer gene is linked to pancreatic cancer. I am playing it safe. I got tested for the gene and I get my mammograms.
Colleen Foley 1 year ago
My 2nd is my story. In my early 30s I had high blood.pressure and good insurance so I regularly saw my doctor. She was watching my white blood cell count as it was chronically elevated. Not drastically so, but a bit odd. I missed a November appointment. In January I had to work off-site 1.5 hours away. Was sleepy all day and falling asleep driving home, which is so not me. Turns out my WBC was through the roof. One bone marrow biopsy later, I was diagnosed with chronic myeloid leukemia. I was only just 32. 17 years later, I am undetectable, but I have to take daily medication to stay that way. I get all the side effects, so after all of these years it got to the point where I can't work. But, I'm alive and things don't totally suck.
Load More Replies... MoJo1979 1 year ago
My sister caught me itching a mole on my neck, it wasn't big or raised, just itchy/scabby. She asked me to go get it checked and just to shut her up, I did. Thanks to her, it was skin cancer. NHS waiting list was 18 months, but I'm lucky enough to have private heath care through my employer and had it removed within 6 weeks and no further treatment was needed. The doctor said if I'd waited for the NHS, that it would have spread.
ejfs 1 year ago
... reading these makes me realise just how lucky I was that my symptoms turned out to be an autoimmune disorder. I have parents who don't really believe in going to the dr unless it's "necessary" so I was basically afraid to tell them what was going on. I soon ended up sick enough that they couldn't pretend I was fine any more.
Nikki Sevven 1 year ago
One of my mom's friends complained to her doctor about unrelenting shoulder pain. He did no diagnostics, just made the assumption that she pulled a muscle and sent her to physical therapy. After a couple months of no improvements, she saw a different doctor. Small cell lung cancer. She died 6 months later.
Adam Jeff 1 year ago
I haven't read these, I just came to say DO NOT TRY TO LEARN MEDICINE FROM BP. If you have unexplained symptoms, ask a medical professional or, if you want to check online, go to something reputable like ADA or WebMD.
HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago (edited)
I’m genuinely confused, because (at least now) no one is mentioning remedies to anything or medicine
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