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Woman Opens Up About Accidentally Showing Her Newly Accepted Job Offer To CEO Before She Gave Her Notice
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Woman Opens Up About Accidentally Showing Her Newly Accepted Job Offer To CEO Before She Gave Her Notice

Woman Opens Up About Accidentally Showing Her Newly Accepted Job Offer To CEO Before She Gave Her NoticeWoman Hopes Her Boss Didn’t Notice Email About Newly Accepted Job Offer After Accidental Blunder, Turns To The Internet To VentEmployee Messes Up By Accidentally Showing Her Manager An Email Confirming Her New Job During A Presentation Before Letting Anyone Know She's Planning To LeaveWoman Accidentally Shares A Screen With Email Confirming Her New Job At A Meeting With CEOWoman Opens Up About An Awkward Incident At Work Where She Accidentally Showed Boss An Email About Being Accepted To Another JobWorker Opens Up Personal Email By Mistake, Showing Her Newly Accepted Job Offer To CEO And Team Lead“I Now Have An Even Better Reason To Feel Bad”: Employee Accidentally Shows CEO Email Confirming A New Job Before Giving Two-Week Notice
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Quitting a job can be cathartic, in the right circumstances, as we might envision a dramatic walk out, flipping off a horrible manager along the way. The reality is that most jobs don’t really warrant that kind of behavior, or, even worse, you might be in a workplace you actually like. It can then be pretty hard to actually tell your boss that you are leaving.

An internet user shared the time she accidentally opened her personal email, potentially revealing to everyone present, including her manager and CEO, that another company had confirmed her new job. Even worse, she hadn’t exactly told anyone she was changing jobs, leaving her in a supremely awkward position.

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    Sending in that two-week notice can be nerve-wracking, from the uncertainty of a new job to feeling like you betrayed the old one

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    An employee detailed the time she had accepted a new job offer but hadn’t told anyone yet

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    Without thinking, she shared her screen, where the new job email was clearly visible

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    Contrary to popular depictions, most instances of quitting are calm and planned out

    While Hollywood does love the dramatic quitting story, like Joanna in Office space, the vast majority of workers, being relatively rational, tend to have a quitting plan. Impulse quitting is considerably rare, even if many research respondents like to frame it like they simply stood up and left a job. People have an impulse to act like they are the masters of their destiny and can just get up and walk away from a bad job. The reality is that bills and responsibilities require a person to think it through before they quit, to at least have another job lined up. This fits with OP’s narrative, where they are waiting on a job contract to be finalized before giving a two-week notice.

    The idea of quitting can also be stressful for other reasons. Even in a relatively good workplace, a person might not be sure how coworkers or a manager will react. If it’s a tight knit-group, this might feel like a betrayal, making it even harder to leave. This can create an unhealthy feedback loop where a person postpones making necessary changes and improvements for fear of ruining what they already have. There can also be a sort of uncertainty, as quitting feels final and in most cases, you still have to wait two weeks to start the new job. Like OP in the story, it’s easy to see how someone might procrastinate on sending a notice until they were absolutely sure.

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    Awkwardness aside, changing jobs does have its benefits

    On the other hand, like ripping off a bandaid, there are a few benefits to finally quitting. Quitting most jobs is correlated with a reduction in depressive symptoms. Even in the case of impulse quitting, the person still had the desire to leave a job. This desire was strong enough to compel them to just get up and leave, perhaps giving a rousing speech before heading out the doors. Leaving a physically demanding job had the obvious and additional benefit of helping with physical health in the short term. Of course, the person still needs to maintain some physical activity, since our body doesn’t quite care where we are moving around, as long as we are moving.

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    OP answered some questions from commenters and everyone basked in the awkwardness of the situation

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    SW Dad
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's misunderstanding what they're suggesting in the comments. She should have more than one Gmail account. I have one for actual personal stuff that I only share with people I know, one for subscriptions, one for logins that I never share with anyone, and one specifically for any professional stuff, like job searches and landlord communications.

    Renegade
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She doesn't actually use her Gmail account for work. This was a one off thing to show a Gmail feature.

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    Renegade
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might be a good thing in the end. The team will have some time to process before the official announcement.

    Solandri
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone hacks your personal email, they can send password reset requests for all your other accounts, and verify as you using your compromised email account. So it's imperative that you add 2 factor authentication to you email account. (Real 2FA which uses a keyfob or 2FA app to generate constantly changing codes, not a SMS to your phone.) 2FA could also save you from a situation like this, since it's an extra step using another device to login, giving you another chance to catch your mistake.

    SW Dad
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she's misunderstanding what they're suggesting in the comments. She should have more than one Gmail account. I have one for actual personal stuff that I only share with people I know, one for subscriptions, one for logins that I never share with anyone, and one specifically for any professional stuff, like job searches and landlord communications.

    Renegade
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She doesn't actually use her Gmail account for work. This was a one off thing to show a Gmail feature.

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    Renegade
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might be a good thing in the end. The team will have some time to process before the official announcement.

    Solandri
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone hacks your personal email, they can send password reset requests for all your other accounts, and verify as you using your compromised email account. So it's imperative that you add 2 factor authentication to you email account. (Real 2FA which uses a keyfob or 2FA app to generate constantly changing codes, not a SMS to your phone.) 2FA could also save you from a situation like this, since it's an extra step using another device to login, giving you another chance to catch your mistake.

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