Vasectomy is the only reliable birth control for males (well, there's condoms too, but their efficacy is questionable and they're a little inconvenient). Unfortunately, they are, for the most part, irreversible. But if you like sex, and really don't want children (even if you're in a monogamous relationship) I think it's selfish NOT to have one!

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Joel Strauss

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Nope. Your body your choice.

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Has sold soul for corn chip

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I don't think that's selfish at all. You are taking precautions which is usually seen as the appropriate course of action. If you don't want to have children it is a good thing to do.

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Huddo's sister

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If that is what he wants, then there is no problem. Use it as a screening process with dates.

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bumble bee

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Not selfish in any way. Unfortunately society is obsessed with fertility and children, they teach us that you must have them to have a worthy life. Because of that childfree people like us get bullied very often by friends, family or even doctors. Its the same for women; its almost impossible to even get a doctor to sterilise you if you don't have several children already. I have been told that I am selfish many times, or that I was too young to know what I wanted (I was 32 when i got sterilised and yet I was "too young").

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Pisco

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