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Selena Gomez Fights Back Haters After Revealing She Can’t Have Children

Selena Gomez Fights Back Haters After Revealing She Can’t Have Children

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Selena Gomez made it clear she isn’t going to let her haters badmouth her “vulnerability.”

The singer and actress recently addressed anyone who sees her as a victim due to her medical issues: “F–K OFF! That’s what my life is. That’s who I am.” 

“Screw anyone who tells you you’re a victim,” she continued. “You’re a survivor in my book.”

Highlights
  • Selena Gomez defends her vulnerability against haters, affirming 'F*CK OFF! That’s what my life is. That’s who I am.'
  • Gomez reveals she can't carry a child due to medical issues, stating openly at the Women in Film dinner.
  • She emphasizes the strength in being vulnerable, publicly sharing her bipolar diagnosis and infertility.
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    Selena Gomez clapped back at haters after she revealed she can’t have children

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    While attending a Women in Film dinner with her little sister Gracie, Gomez had a response to anyone who had belittled her struggles. 

    “I truly believe there is power in being vulnerable and telling people you need help and want help,” she said in the viral video that is circulating around X. “That is not shameful. So yeah, I shared that I can’t carry a child. Yeah, I shared I have bipolar.”

    Image credits: selenagomez

    The 32-year-old continued, “I only want to be an advocate. That’s why I share, that’s why I like to be honest, because everyone is going through something.”

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    While on stage, Gomez advised to not “ever let anyone tell you that you’re not a good person” as she affectionately patted her sister.

    Earlier this month, the Wizards of Waverly Place star opened up about her medical struggles

    Image credits: Selena Gomez News

    On September 9, Gomez revealed to Vanity Fair that she was not able to get pregnant due to previous health problems. 

    “I haven’t ever said this, but I unfortunately can’t carry my own children,” she confessed. “I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s in jeopardy. That was something I had to grieve for a while.”

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    Image credits: selenagomez

    She added, “It’s not necessarily the way I envisioned it. I thought it would happen the way it happens to everyone.” 

    While excited for the journey of becoming a mother, Gomez knows her path will look a little different as she plans to look into adoption or surrogacy

    This isn’t the first time Gomez has been transparent about her health

    Image credits: selenagomez

    The singer has been vocal in the past about her struggles with lupus and her mental health.

    In 2020, the Grammy nominee opened up about her bipolar disorder to Elle, saying that it felt like “a huge weight lifted off” when she was diagnosed.

    Her Apple TV+ documentary My Mind & Me, which came out in 2022, discusses these issues in more detail.

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    Ben Aziza
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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would there be haters? What makes a person like that i wonder...

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who criticizes her for that would be positively a nutjob, but I don't see anything in what she's actually said to validate the headline or article. I think BP is presuming she's had haters.... this actually appears to be the first time she went public with the fact.

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    Michael Fernandez
    Community Member
    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for her. I didn’t gain that much self-acceptance until I was in my late 40s.

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    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would there be haters? What makes a person like that i wonder...

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who criticizes her for that would be positively a nutjob, but I don't see anything in what she's actually said to validate the headline or article. I think BP is presuming she's had haters.... this actually appears to be the first time she went public with the fact.

    Load More Replies...
    Michael Fernandez
    Community Member
    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for her. I didn’t gain that much self-acceptance until I was in my late 40s.

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